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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP   Man
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Is it her first time here

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I wonder where she gets the time, unless its gong bongos. I have had a number of meets in a day, but only one or two verified ... and lots from a social, but you mean meets. I would imagine it is hardly mind blowing sex though ..... production line more like.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

It depends on the nature of the veris, did she attend a party-are the majority from that? Are they social meets or more? Are they meets in person or web cam? Are they veris from past meets on previous profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really, no.

i got 3 veries a day once and that's only because all my meets that day verified me and they didn't all usually.

they were all fuck meets, so what.

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP   Man
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Is it her first time here"

Yes it is

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP   Man
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"It depends on the nature of the veris, did she attend a party-are the majority from that? Are they social meets or more? Are they meets in person or web cam? Are they veris from past meets on previous profile?"

No she seems completely new to the site and some are meets where they have taken her to a club and had some fun but most of them are meets in person only 1 was from web cam

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Sounds like Jealousy on the OP's part to me.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"It depends on the nature of the veris, did she attend a party-are the majority from that? Are they social meets or more? Are they meets in person or web cam? Are they veris from past meets on previous profile?

No she seems completely new to the site and some are meets where they have taken her to a club and had some fun but most of them are meets in person only 1 was from web cam "

Personally I'd find it a lot but each to their own I guess. I'm a bit fussy with my meets so don't meet many or often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like Jealousy on the OP's part to me. "

Just what i was thinking!

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Quality over quantity

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By *iolet2000Woman
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Your point is?

So what.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Well we attend the newcastle social .. .. some new peeps get a lot of veris in one night (400 there last social) .. .. so you would have to differentiate between social/party meets even cam veris ... and the actually meet to play veris ... ... .. its all good fun ... ...

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

I say fair play to her. It averages out about a meet every 3 or 4 days. Which is nothing really, is it.

If it's her first time on site she might just be having some fun! or to coin a phrase, 'getting into the swing of things!'

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP   Man
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"not really, no.

i got 3 veries a day once and that's only because all my meets that day verified me and they didn't all usually.

they were all fuck meets, so what. "

I heard some people do not meet if you have a lot of verifications as a single guy should the same apply to single women?

I know that men are dogs and if she has lots of good veri's then it would only make her more appealing but wouldn't it throw some off?

She can do what she likes I am not her keeper but I'm just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

I find that a ridiculous question for a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was fussy, just when 100s of guys are chucking themselves at you it's easy enough to find several to fuck in a day.

as an ex sex addict i'm not meeting that much now. would love the same amount of sex just not as riskily.

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP   Man
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Sounds like Jealousy on the OP's part to me.

Just what i was thinking! "

How? Please explain?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person."

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP   Man
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster."

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period? "

No. The verification system is used far too much to judge people on this site. If you have none or few you are considered a risk, if you have too many, you're considered a slut. Then you have the people with enough time to follow the verification trail back so far you can practically see who their parents shagged too!

If they have veris, their profile and pics are decent, and they are in a location I can get to, then they're interesting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not really, no.

i got 3 veries a day once and that's only because all my meets that day verified me and they didn't all usually.

they were all fuck meets, so what.

I heard some people do not meet if you have a lot of verifications as a single guy should the same apply to single women?

I know that men are dogs and if she has lots of good veri's then it would only make her more appealing but wouldn't it throw some off?

She can do what she likes I am not her keeper but I'm just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

"

it will apply to single women also. i'm sure it put loads off me, i wouldn't want to meet them anyway and wanted to meet guys who loved the fact that i fucked lots of guys and that i enjoy a lot of sex.

i attracted guys who no doubt thought i was easy, but i still do now and hardly been verified (or met) in 2016, well 55 guys on my other profile verified me last year...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Quality over quantity "

How do you know that those meets weren't quality?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"not really, no.

i got 3 veries a day once and that's only because all my meets that day verified me and they didn't all usually.

they were all fuck meets, so what.

I heard some people do not meet if you have a lot of verifications as a single guy should the same apply to single women?

I know that men are dogs and if she has lots of good veri's then it would only make her more appealing but wouldn't it throw some off?

She can do what she likes I am not her keeper but I'm just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

"

then you do understand it as you say, its different with each individual.

If you feel that someone has too many verifications, don't contact them. Bear in mind that not all people verify their meets and that its perfectly possible to meet away from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she's been an eager beaver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is ok, she is fucking the whole site lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's pointless purely using the number of meet verifications as 'barometer' because someone could have loads of social ones or not show them all anyway. Don't be fooled by statistics. Think about them in context.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period? "

other people have asked the same question and the answer is usually the same. Some will be more and some less likely.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"not really, no.

i got 3 veries a day once and that's only because all my meets that day verified me and they didn't all usually.

they were all fuck meets, so what.

I heard some people do not meet if you have a lot of verifications as a single guy should the same apply to single women?

I know that men are dogs and if she has lots of good veri's then it would only make her more appealing but wouldn't it throw some off?

She can do what she likes I am not her keeper but I'm just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

"

The verification system is very simple. How other people want to interpret what a certain number of veris within such and such a time means is up to the individual.

If you think it's too much don't message her.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I don't see the issue it's her life she can do with it as she sees fit

We have 10 veris in 6 weeks (mainly me Mrs that plays) all through individual meets, not a party/social/club & have had another couple of meets where the people haven't verified

How many people we meet & play with is no ones buisness other than ours, if people think it's to many they are well within their rights to scroll on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

Maybe she went to a house party or a gang bang?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

personally i think it's none of your business OP what this newbie does how often or who with just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like Jealousy on the OP's part to me. "

How can you say this??

There was a pretty big thread not too long ago with a woman asking the same question. Does everything men do automatically become bad on here???

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By *k15Couple
over a year ago

crawley

By everyday standards yea it's a lot but this isn't a regular everyday site. That could be one club social or 2 bukkake sessions. For that matter it could actually be 100 different guys and only 17 verified. Ultimately I don't think any member of a swinging site can judge another person on the amount of sex they have or don't have without sounding like their jealous or butthurt.

Are you annoyed you're not one of the 17?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's her business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 a week is hardly that many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quality over quantity "

If i eat 5 liters of ben an Jerry's is it some how lowet wuality than one 400ml tub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they confirm sexual meets

Maybe she have a gangbang

Good on her if that's what she wants it's her business

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

As a few have already mentioned above, different people _iew verifications different ways.

What is that ideal 'goldilox' number?

It's always going to be easier for a single lady to arrange and have more meets. (if the lady decides that's what see wants?)

Completely her choice.

Does it bother me? No, not what so ever.

I do tend to read through the verifications (yes, you have to take them with a slight pinch of salt)

But they would give me an indicator to the types of meet (clubs, social, dogging or whatever)

That would give me my opinion of the type of person they are (along with any profile write-up / photos) that they are.

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If this isn't something that intrigues or interests me?

Then I close their profile and move on (so to speak).

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If there is something in the profile and verifications that piques my interest

Then I would consider sending them a message.

But no preset criteria, everyone is different and part of the fun on here is sometimes meeting someone who is into different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

No, it's not too much.

There is no such thing as too much sex, and to suggest otherwise is nothing more than slut shaming.

You could easily get a dozen verifications if you wanted to at a club night if you were being a social butterfly. Or if you went to a greedy girls night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that this is a swinging site it never ceases to amaze me how judgemental some people are about people swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period? "

It doesn't really matter though does it? if you wouldn't then don't...clearly others do.. so what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period?

No. The verification system is used far too much to judge people on this site. If you have none or few you are considered a risk, if you have too many, you're considered a slut. Then you have the people with enough time to follow the verification trail back so far you can practically see who their parents shagged too!

If they have veris, their profile and pics are decent, and they are in a location I can get to, then they're interesting to me."

Thank fucking you !

People treat this place like a dating site or a place to make friends which is ok if they want but it's a sex site so why people get annoyed when that's all you or they are after I do not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

I think it's fine. She can do what she wants.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period?

It doesn't really matter though does it? if you wouldn't then don't...clearly others do.. so what?"

Here here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

Would you think the same of a male ke profile or is this yet another case of male = legend, female = slut?

Just because you think it's her first time here doesn't mean it is and even if it it it doesn't mean she's not known on the scene and been persuaded to join this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a lot? Yes, in the context of a non swinging lifestyle but not otherwise and it's completely up to her.

Would it put me off? Not on its own but maybe as one of several factors eg smoker, size queen etc

Each to their own.

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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

15 veris by meet, over a period of 7 weeks. A bit much for whom? Its not a biit much for me, we are here to have fun. If its a bit much for the Op, then quite honestly, perhaps he shouldnt be on a a SEX site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

You do realise this is a swinging site?

Foe swingers? Multiple partners?A hedonistic lifestyle ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you even care ? It doesn't effect you and frankly it's none of your business what she does.

If she's using the site how she wants and having fun let her crack on. If you see something you don't like , don't be judgemental, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

Would you think the same of a male ke profile or is this yet another case of male = legend, female = slut?

. "

To be fair on this point the differnce here is a question of difficulty.

2 people complete the same game, on on hard one on easy in the same time you don't give equal credit

(How lucky is that hard-easy pun though :p)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean like my account?

I've been on here numerous times before. People I know verified me plus I attend lots of club social nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

How many times are you going to contradict yourself

If it does not bother you and you understand its her body and she can do what she likes with it why this post

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

No, we don't think it's too much, it's just you!! FFS, why is this any of your business in the first place, OP? And of course it bothers you, otherwise you wouldn't even think about it in the first place! "

You do realise it's a swingers site and it's a place for non-judgmental open minded people to meet and have fun to their heart's content.

Stop with the slut-shaming. It is rather unbecoming and frankly tiring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

No

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

What an offensive post. Judgemental AF and even if these are you _iews, maybe keep them to yourself?

What if she reads this? Has been enjoying the shit out of the site and now feels like at least one person thinks she's a whore?

Poor show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

No, we don't think it's too much, it's just you!! FFS, why is this any of your business in the first place, OP? And of course it bothers you, otherwise you wouldn't even think about it in the first place!

You do realise it's a swingers site and it's a place for non-judgmental open minded people to meet and have fun to their heart's content.

Stop with the slut-shaming. It is rather unbecoming and frankly tiring. "

Hahahahaha fabswingers non judgemental

Ahhhh that was funny.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder where she gets the time, unless its gong bongos. I have had a number of meets in a day, but only one or two verified ... and lots from a social, but you mean meets. I would imagine it is hardly mind blowing sex though ..... production line more like."

I have nothing to add except that gong bongos is possibly the greatest autocorrect ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"
not really ... wouldnt bother us if that was in 7 days

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

Would you think the same of a male ke profile or is this yet another case of male = legend, female = slut?

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To be fair on this point the differnce here is a question of difficulty.

2 people complete the same game, on on hard one on easy in the same time you don't give equal credit

(How lucky is that hard-easy pun though :p)"

The point is very valid regardless of how easy it is for one person. Today's society still sees promiscuous men and studs/legends etc and promiscuous women and sluts/whores.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

All of my veris are from meeting in person but most were social meets. Some I met with again and had sex with and some I didn't. Some I met with several times. Not all of my meets , sexual or otherwise, have verified me. So my verifications give no indication of how many people I have had sex with from here. All they do is prove that I am who I say I am and that I do actually turn up. And that's all I need them to do.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

It seems very reasonable to me!

It just means she's having a lovely time, on Fab.

Janet xxxxxx

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I have joined only recently and have had a couple of meets.

I am single. I have a sex drive. And that means I prefer not to have sex only every couple of months. It doesnt mean I am not choosing carefully who I meet. I have met a couple of really lovely blokes on here so far! And I think especially when you first join you do get a lot of offers, and good ones at that

At the end of the day it is a sex/swingers site, isn't it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a thread every few weeks about whether large amounts of veris are a turn-off. It's totally unpredictable which _iew the forum will take. Sometimes these threads are full of people supporting the notion that more than a certain number is a turn-off. Sometimes, especially if the OP is a man, there will be a lot of finger pointing and exclamations about being judgemental. I once started a thread on this very subject, and the general verdict on that occasion, from both men and women, (but not so much couples) was that they didn't like too many verifications because they wanted to feel special! Me personally, it irritates the hell out of me when 'too many verifications' are considered a turn-off, and it makes me wonder what is too promiscuos for the swing scene?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Also, if you look carefully at today's forum posts, you'll find one where I.....actually, I'll just repeat it here....this lady was saying how some people on Fab are also on other sex/swinging/dating/hook-up sites and are heavily 'verified' there, so although you think you're meeting someone with a few fab veris, the chances are they have loads from other sites.

What say you to thems apples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quality over quantity "

Couldn't agree more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder where she gets the time, unless its gong bongos. I have had a number of meets in a day, but only one or two verified ... and lots from a social, but you mean meets. I would imagine it is hardly mind blowing sex though ..... production line more like.

I have nothing to add except that gong bongos is possibly the greatest autocorrect ever "

I have this problem a lot, I intended to type p*ssy – autocorrect changed this to 'kiddy'. Needless to say, I didn't get a reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

Would you think the same of a male ke profile or is this yet another case of male = legend, female = slut?

.

To be fair on this point the differnce here is a question of difficulty.

2 people complete the same game, on on hard one on easy in the same time you don't give equal credit

(How lucky is that hard-easy pun though :p)

The point is very valid regardless of how easy it is for one person. Today's society still sees promiscuous men and studs/legends etc and promiscuous women and sluts/whores. "

Actuslly the point is very invalid as it was only raised by somone making the oposite point.

No one has called her a slut or a man a legend exept for the person claiming society _iews it that way.

So at best its a strawman argument at worst its just ignorance.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Also, if you look carefully at today's forum posts, you'll find one where I.....actually, I'll just repeat it here....this lady was saying how some people on Fab are also on other sex/swinging/dating/hook-up sites and are heavily 'verified' there, so although you think you're meeting someone with a few fab veris, the chances are they have loads from other sites.

What say you to thems apples? "

There are people who meet off Fab??

Mind...blown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people in relationships have sex every day; sometimes twice a day even. Is that excessive?

I'd like to be able to have sex twice a week, and happily with different men. I got fuck all, shit sex as a wife; I'm getting my fill before my body gives up.

Good for her, I say.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period? "

You singled this person out (for some reason) so yeah kinda personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period?

You singled this person out (for some reason) so yeah kinda personal

"

Yeah but on the forums people use anonymous examples all the time of when they want to discuss a question or make sense of something. The OP could be talking about anybody. As long as it's kept anonymous then it's not against forum rules.

Mrs

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

#swingingwebsite

We know women to fuck 15 blokes in a day, it's called a gangbang

Should never judge! We are all here to have fun, as long as all parties are consenting adults and respect one another's boundaries, what's the issue??

Would you be saying the same thing if it was a male?

Remember you only live once so enjoy it!

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"
why should it bother you. She's achieved her goal. Getting meets. That's what we are here for surely!

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

When I was on Fab the last time, I went to a "party" at someone's house. Was there for the evening till the next morning. I think I fucked 3 blokes over the course of the night and morning, flirted with and kissed perhaps a half dozen, talked to over a dozen fellows. The next day I had 20 new verifs waiting. Only 2 of them were shag veris. So yes, you can get a lot in a short time. On the other hand nothing wrong with a girl having sex with 20 men in a few weeks, why is that a problem for OP?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Good luck to her I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*"

Maybe just one to avoid. I certainly would.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

Would you think the same of a male ke profile or is this yet another case of male = legend, female = slut?

.

To be fair on this point the differnce here is a question of difficulty.

2 people complete the same game, on on hard one on easy in the same time you don't give equal credit

(How lucky is that hard-easy pun though :p)

The point is very valid regardless of how easy it is for one person. Today's society still sees promiscuous men and studs/legends etc and promiscuous women and sluts/whores.

Actuslly the point is very invalid as it was only raised by somone making the oposite point.

No one has called her a slut or a man a legend exept for the person claiming society _iews it that way.

So at best its a strawman argument at worst its just ignorance."

LOL....... Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP has been misunderstood. He didn't say it bothered him and he didn't say he disapproved. The way he worded it was that he was curious what others thought about a particular scenario he'd come across. Indeed his initial reaction when he saw this profile, was probably 'wow that's rather a lot, how do I feel about this?' but he wasn't saying anything like 'I wouldn't meet someone who had lots of verifications' which is what many people openly say on these forums with considerably less flack.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Also, if you look carefully at today's forum posts, you'll find one where I.....actually, I'll just repeat it here....this lady was saying how some people on Fab are also on other sex/swinging/dating/hook-up sites and are heavily 'verified' there, so although you think you're meeting someone with a few fab veris, the chances are they have loads from other sites.

What say you to thems apples?

There are people who meet off Fab??

Mind...blown!"

There you go then. Proves that relying on verification numbers is not as good an indication of sexual activity as those who like low verification numbers are expecting.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Do any of you think it is a bit excessive for a woman who is completely new to the site to have 16 verifications 15 by meet in the space of 7 weeks?

I understand that it's her body and she can do what she wants but I just think it's a lot in a short space of time.

*Disclaimer it doesn't bother me what she does I was just thinking is it too much?*

I find that a ridiculous question for a swinging site "

Agreed.

Perhaps if you are so shocked you can suggest what number of meets/verifications for a woman is more acceptable to your sensitivities?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period?

You singled this person out (for some reason) so yeah kinda personal

Yeah but on the forums people use anonymous examples all the time of when they want to discuss a question or make sense of something. The OP could be talking about anybody. As long as it's kept anonymous then it's not against forum rules.

Mrs"

I didn't say he was

I was curious why the OP is so concerned with this person's activities

And as for calling other men dogs, well really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just trying to get a more better understanding on how this whole verification system works as its different with each individual person.

Bingo. There is no set way to use this site, and if I decide to have a 10 man GB every night it would be nothing to do with anyone else. If they disapprove then they have the option to decide not to meet me and move on. Posting about it on a forum is usually down to a few reasons, none of them reflecting well on the poster.

I used a case study was not making this personal. I was just asking everyone's take on it. I understand you do what you want and that's fine by me I cannot stop you but what I should of asked is would you be more or less likely to meet a person who has had that amount of veris in that period?

You singled this person out (for some reason) so yeah kinda personal

Yeah but on the forums people use anonymous examples all the time of when they want to discuss a question or make sense of something. The OP could be talking about anybody. As long as it's kept anonymous then it's not against forum rules.

Mrs

I didn't say he was

I was curious why the OP is so concerned with this person's activities

And as for calling other men dogs, well really "

No he shouldn't have called men dogs. Regarding his original post I guess the OP had an idle curiosity, which I don't think warrants the flack he seems to have received so so many contributors, who seem to have interpreted his comments that he is passing judgement on this lady. I don't he was passing judgement, I think he was exploring his thoughts. I can relate to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some people worry so much about what others do?

Why do they try to apply morality to what others do when they're on a site that many people would consider to be morally wrong?

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