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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " How ever you choose to use it. | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " The main functions are: 1) women should jump into their cars and drive fast to meet any man with a 2 word profile and get f**ked by him 2) women should call a Taxi and tip the driver to drive as fast as he can to meet any man with a 2 word profile and get f**ked by him 3) As (2) but use a bus instead Those are the main functions of this site Other ancillary functions are to start threads asking if this is a dating site because nobody wants to meet someone | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " Is it not for Swingwers to arrange to meet each other - kind of like making a date to meet up. | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now The main functions are: 1) women should jump into their cars and drive fast to meet any man with a 2 word profile and get f**ked by him 2) women should call a Taxi and tip the driver to drive as fast as he can to meet any man with a 2 word profile and get f**ked by him 3) As (2) but use a bus instead Those are the main functions of this site Other ancillary functions are to start threads asking if this is a dating site because nobody wants to meet someone" You're very funny ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now The main functions are: 1) women should jump into their cars and drive fast to meet any man with a 2 word profile and get f**ked by him 2) women should call a Taxi and tip the driver to drive as fast as he can to meet any man with a 2 word profile and get f**ked by him 3) As (2) but use a bus instead Those are the main functions of this site Other ancillary functions are to start threads asking if this is a dating site because nobody wants to meet someone You're very funny ![]() No, I was serious. Some folk are just way too picky and want to have a conversation and look at the person to see if they like them or not and all kinds of 'time-wasting' and 'dating' antics Me: I just jump in a car and ............ ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " With all respect, and not wishing to troll, if you're not finding this site is doing what you expect, perhaps take some time to work on your profile? | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " Yup. Plenty of single women do, worst thing is that they fucking deny it like dolts only to come back a week later asking..."Can you have a relationship with someone from fab??" I would laugh if it wasnt so pathetic. ![]() | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() Thank you. This is NOT a dating site. But people will try and use it as one anyway....and then complain that men "only want them at their beck and call" when their desires are not reciprocated. I honestly dont see why people take issue with men asking people to come straight to meet for sex. Its as if these same people want to be taken on dates before they're shagging...isnt that a date then?? ![]() | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() People take issue because they want to know a bit about the person first, to see if they want to fuck with them, and also for safety reasons too. I find it the other way around, men I fuck think I,m their new fucking partner and want exclusive regular fucks. Not what I,m here for. XXX | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() A date is a meeting to see if you might want to form a romantic relationship. Meeting up to see if you want to have casual sex is not a date. It's sensible and prevents awkward situations where you turn up for sex only to find that one of you doesn't actually fancy the other one, or that one of you has lied about their age or appearance. | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() In swinging parlance it's called a social meet not a date, but it amounts to the same thing. You get to see each other face to face to see if you like that person enough to go to the next level. In the vanilla world it might be the movies or dinner. In the swinging world its a right good rogering ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. " This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() But if a particular butcher is only selling bread and you are desperate for beef, then would you: A) stand there and argue your case until he chucks you out of the shop? B) go to another butcher? | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() I think a lot of blokes forget about the element that all women have to consider, safety. It's generally not something that crosses our minds. Jumping in a car to go shag someone you've chatted to for 2 minutes seems reasonable... Until you look at it from a woman's perspective, and the fact they need to at least take some minimal safety precautions. Even if that is just to "sound" someone out a little bit longer. Crime statistics would probably emphasise why the two sexes have slightly different approaches to the above. | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() Go to Tesco ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() If bread was on offer while you were in the butchers, then even if you're there for meat you'd still pick up a loaf if you were there and needed bread. It might not be the bread specialist but if it's there, why not buy it? I see very few people using this as purely a dating site. But there are lots who are clear they're here for sex but open to more if it came along. | |||
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"...I see very few people using this as purely a dating site. But there are lots who are clear they're here for sex but open to more if it came along. " Unless you are 100% no interested in a "relationship", then the right person can come from anywhere. Generally it does no harm to have interests in common, when it comes to sex I would suggest a similar mindset would be a real boon. So in short every site is a dating site to a degree. Even uktrainspotters.co.uk! | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() ![]() Well done ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() What is your point ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() ![]() ![]() Who are you?? ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Someone who is suggesting that you take your own excellent advice ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " Maybe they want to date a swinger ![]() | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now " from dating to swinging .. a gradual move up the adult world food chain its the perfect site .. glad I found it , | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now How ever you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() Our butchers sell vegetables as well as meat. It's still a good butchers though. Maybe not the best selection for veg. Like Fab, excellent as a swingers site, with a few options for other genres. | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now However you choose to use it. This is true, but you wouldn't go to a butchers to buy bread, ![]() You have a choice here different people want different things hense my comment. I've no idea what your butchers offers mate so couldn't say mine on the other hand offers cakes too so. | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() I don't agree. If I go out for a few drinks with one of my playmates, I regard it as just as much as a date as if I were single and looking for a romantic exclusive attachment. My husband is the same if he sees a lady alone. Just because it's a sexual relationship doesn't mean we want to spend the whole time in bed. It's nice to go out too. Mrs | |||
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" I think a lot of blokes forget about the element that all women have to consider, safety. It's generally not something that crosses our minds. Jumping in a car to go shag someone you've chatted to for 2 minutes seems reasonable... Until you look at it from a woman's perspective, and the fact they need to at least take some minimal safety precautions. Even if that is just to "sound" someone out a little bit longer. Crime statistics would probably emphasise why the two sexes have slightly different approaches to the above." THANK YOU !! For pointing this out. I take a very long time before meeting and many blokes get really cheesed off. I take that time to vet them out before meeting, usually for coffee first then play at mine. If I'm bringing someone to my home I need to be sure. I never meet new blokes at odd hours of the night no matter how much I want (and I've had some really horny moments LOL). Again, for the same reason. | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() Err safety is a big deal for single females on here .you could be inviting anyone to your home,I used to laugh at men who wouldnt invite me to theirs when i had a single profile.They would quite happily try and come to mine after 1 or 2 messages .Its not suprising people are cautios and want to get to kbow someone first.Doesnt mean they are after a relationship . I honestly don't get why people are so concerned with how others use fab. Miss | |||
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" I find it the other way around, men I fuck think I,m their new fucking partner and want exclusive regular fucks. Not what I,m here for. XXX" I never quite know to believe this...or whether people here are just full of it. I, for one, do wonder how a man who is willing to get serious with the first woman he meets on a swinging site can really be someone of any remote appeal. Seems like a lot of you need to be more selective ![]() | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() Sounds like a date to me. And the usual self delusion which goes on here. Or maybe its just me...I, for one, would immediately lock off anyone who even entertained me meeting them for drinks or coffee on here. | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() I really hate this nonensical safety excuse I see popping up a lot. Its like those who claim their "drink was spiked" when they simply are irresponsible and lacking control of their liquor. You are statistically much more likely to be raped by your partner/family member than by some random stranger on Fab who has a record of a chat and whereabouts log on both his computer and his smartphone. These are the same people who will criticize people for not taking too kindly to gangbangs with randoms who now want to jump and pretend safety is a priority for them ![]() | |||
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"So it this site a swingers site, a sex site for one-on-one hookups, or an NSA dating site? The title suggests it's a swingers site. But some people choose to use it as a sex site for one-on-one hookups, and some people choose to use it as NSA dating site. Others use it as a swingers site. But the only times I've ever heard complaints about it being used as a dating site, are from men who use this site as a sex site. That seems a bit hypocritical to complain about people using this site for non-swinging purposes, when they are non really using this site for swinging themselves. The thing is dating, swinging and sexual one-on-one hookups all overlap in this wonderful phenomena that I call sexual liberation. People can choose whatever emphasis they want. Where is the rule that if you meet a friend for sex, that you can't go out to dinner before you shag? Mrs" ![]() | |||
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"Its a site for people that want casual sexual liaison. A swinger or "wife swapper" is a person that wants to be abe to experience sex with other people whilst still being in a relationship with a significant other. This specification has been relaxed some what for Fab to include anyone that is interested in casual sexual encounters. Everone has their own reasons for being here however, I wouldnt recomend it as a place where you will find a commited monogamous relationship. That being said if you were looking for some one with which to share the "swinging lifestyle" It probably beats match.com hands down ![]() ![]() I agree with you. I call that a date. But, as you'll see from my other posts on this thread, we're in favour of including a date as part on an NSA sexual experience, and I'm not ashamed to admit that. And however strange that sounds for a swingers site, the amount of NSA fun we have, nobody could possibly accuse us of not using the site appropriately. | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now Maybe they want to date a swinger ![]() Don't confuse them with logic!!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"People can use the site as they see fit as long as they remember that others may use it differently X" makes sense | |||
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" This is all well and good but a lot of this forum just exist to tell the female fabbers what they want to hear...because how else will one get laid in a 20:1 ratio?? " I don't think anyone has ever accused me of "telling people what they want to hear" (this may be a slight understatement), and yet..... ![]() | |||
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" I find it the other way around, men I fuck think I,m their new fucking partner and want exclusive regular fucks. Not what I,m here for. XXX" I agree with you have had it happen, It's not gender specific | |||
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" This is all well and good but a lot of this forum just exist to tell the female fabbers what they want to hear...because how else will one get laid in a 20:1 ratio?? I don't think anyone has ever accused me of "telling people what they want to hear" (this may be a slight understatement), and yet..... ![]() To my knowledge none of the "telling people what they want to hear" crew have ever got laid by me. It's pretty offputting. | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you." Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why... | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why..." Women don't bend the rules depending on how desired a trait is. They do what they want. So if I choose to fuck someone after a coffee that's my perogative. Likewise if I choose to fuck someone when they come to my hotel. People don't get offended that men don't see this as a place for socials. What I've noticed in the forums is annoyance occurs when men say it's a sex site. And then there is the entitlement that goes with it. That's what annoys people. | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why..." You present yourself basically as a muscly BBC stunt cock. Of course the majority of people who contact your profile are looking for that, and not a social plus one to one meet/regular thing. I don't present myself as a hole for hire, so the majority of serious approaches that I get *are* men who are on board with a social meet first. | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why..." If you are getting all these meets with no socials then you haven't got anything to complain about. You would not be in the slightest bit bothered by women who 'bend the rules' because you are getting so much fun with all these women. Yet not one of them has given you a verification. How did you manage to stop these women writing you a veri? | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why..." The irony is, your manner here serves as an apposite reminder for one to be careful with whom one meets. Thanks for that x | |||
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" You present yourself basically as a muscly BBC stunt cock. Of course the majority of people who contact your profile are looking for that, and not a social plus one to one meet/regular thing. I don't present myself as a hole for hire, so the majority of serious approaches that I get *are* men who are on board with a social meet first. " Yeah...but I also think you're the typical singleton on Fab desperate for a relationship and pretending not to be. It seeps through your posts and your profile. | |||
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" You present yourself basically as a muscly BBC stunt cock. Of course the majority of people who contact your profile are looking for that, and not a social plus one to one meet/regular thing. I don't present myself as a hole for hire, so the majority of serious approaches that I get *are* men who are on board with a social meet first. Yeah...but I also think you're the typical singleton on Fab desperate for a relationship and pretending not to be. It seeps through your posts and your profile. " That's novel - I'm usually being derided as one of the married cheating scum. Excellent profile reading skills, my friend. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why... If you are getting all these meets with no socials then you haven't got anything to complain about. You would not be in the slightest bit bothered by women who 'bend the rules' because you are getting so much fun with all these women. Yet not one of them has given you a verification. How did you manage to stop these women writing you a veri?" Because I dont care. I literally could not give one iota about a verification. Its had little to no effect on my ability to meet people either. Take a look at the "do you meet unverified people" thread and you will find (for the right person rather unironically) plenty are prepared to meet someone who is unverified. I also dont perpetually go UNLOS and return so that kinda ties into me not giving much of a fuck. I have a habit of never talking to people I meet on here after we have had sex. Its not really much of a surprise there is little desire to verify. | |||
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" You present yourself basically as a muscly BBC stunt cock. Of course the majority of people who contact your profile are looking for that, and not a social plus one to one meet/regular thing. I don't present myself as a hole for hire, so the majority of serious approaches that I get *are* men who are on board with a social meet first. Yeah...but I also think you're the typical singleton on Fab desperate for a relationship and pretending not to be. It seeps through your posts and your profile. That's novel - I'm usually being derided as one of the married cheating scum. Excellent profile reading skills, my friend. ![]() ![]() ![]() I can't be arsed with more than one, they'd just annoy me | |||
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" You present yourself basically as a muscly BBC stunt cock. Of course the majority of people who contact your profile are looking for that, and not a social plus one to one meet/regular thing. I don't present myself as a hole for hire, so the majority of serious approaches that I get *are* men who are on board with a social meet first. Yeah...but I also think you're the typical singleton on Fab desperate for a relationship and pretending not to be. It seeps through your posts and your profile. That's novel - I'm usually being derided as one of the married cheating scum. Excellent profile reading skills, my friend. ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm very happy with zero. I must be one of the few single women on here not looking for a boyfriend. | |||
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" Women don't bend the rules depending on how desired a trait is. They do what they want. So if I choose to fuck someone after a coffee that's my perogative. Likewise if I choose to fuck someone when they come to my hotel. EVERYONE bends the rules for people they desire. I know we all must pretend we're this magically enlightened species on here...but, ultimately, you will find that the more desirable men on here work a lot less hard for sexual liaisons. I mean, are we really denying this?? People don't get offended that men don't see this as a place for socials. What I've noticed in the forums is annoyance occurs when men say it's a sex site. And then there is the entitlement that goes with it. That's what annoys people. And that is exactly why I say women should STOP thinking that men will change because they're on fabswingers. Do you honestly think men on here would choose to attend a coffee/drink session before a sexual encounter?? On fabSWINGERS??? How delusional are you people??" My point was that there were no rules in place for those women. Women do what they want. Those who are stereotypically attractive do well. It doesn't mean the Fassbender lookalike trucker offering a bareback fuck in a layby is going to find it easier though. And not delusional in the slightest. I think you fail to grasp that it's a swingers site not a sex site. If you began to understand that perhaps you wouldn't experience the hatred you do towards women desiring socials. | |||
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" And that is exactly why I say women should STOP thinking that men will change because they're on fabswingers. Do you honestly think men on here would choose to attend a coffee/drink session before a sexual encounter?? On fabSWINGERS??? How delusional are you people??" Yes I do think some men choose to attend a social they may even instigate it. Otherwise you're implying all men will fuck everything & anything & I know for a fact some men don't. | |||
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" She's married. On her profile it even states that" LOL. Doesnt negate what I said. At all. Trust me. | |||
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" She's married. On her profile it even states that LOL. Doesnt negate what I said. At all. Trust me. " Except it does. Because I'm patently not "a singleton". And you may wish to apply that GCSE psychology of yours to my relationship and decide I'm still desperate for a relationship, but don't waste your time typing it because your assumptions will be entirely wrong. | |||
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" Otherwise you're implying all men will fuck everything & anything & I know for a fact some men don't." Do you know what I find amusing about here...how statements vary in validity depending on who is saying them. I read a thread yesterday where a bunch of posters were complaining about the very thing you mentioned...now we're going to sit here and pretend men actually want to attend socials. Yes, there is a small subsection of men who like socials. There is very likely a small contingent of men who like being defecated on. But its a SMALL CONTINGENT. You cant start crying when a site doesnt find itself chock full of men who wont act like a minority of them. | |||
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"What is the main function of fabswingers because im getting confused now Yup. Plenty of single women do, worst thing is that they fucking deny it like dolts only to come back a week later asking..."Can you have a relationship with someone from fab??" I would laugh if it wasnt so pathetic. ![]() Charming ![]() | |||
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"You can't speak for all men,you might not keep in touch after meets or like a social ,but plenty do. Many enjoy the social side of swinging" I am sure plenty do. Hence why they have more verifications. I dont speak for anyone in that sense. Just saying, the less hoops a man has to jump, the better. Women here need to remember...most of the most successful dudes on here ARE NOT on the forums. The attitudes which pervade really are not shared by many of the people I meet. Its all a little too sanitized. | |||
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"Because I dont care. For someone who doesn't care a lot you do seem to get het up a lot on the treads you post on speaking for other instead of just yourself And participating in the forum improves my verifications now? OK." ??? what who's talking about verifications ![]() | |||
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"You can't speak for all men,you might not keep in touch after meets or like a social ,but plenty do. Many enjoy the social side of swinging I am sure plenty do. Hence why they have more verifications. I dont speak for anyone in that sense. Just saying, the less hoops a man has to jump, the better. Women here need to remember...most of the most successful dudes on here ARE NOT on the forums. The attitudes which pervade really are not shared by many of the people I meet. Its all a little too sanitized. " Thanks for reminding me. I was beginning to worry I'd just be stuck fucking my way through the forums. As for the most successful - is that by those who have had the most sex? 'Cause you just mocked that. And I've fucked a few successful ones (I'm going with ones who are fucking a lot) who aren't on the forums and guess what? I had a coffee/drink with each of them before we did so. | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why... If you are getting all these meets with no socials then you haven't got anything to complain about. You would not be in the slightest bit bothered by women who 'bend the rules' because you are getting so much fun with all these women. Yet not one of them has given you a verification. How did you manage to stop these women writing you a veri? Because I dont care. I literally could not give one iota about a verification. Its had little to no effect on my ability to meet people either. Take a look at the "do you meet unverified people" thread and you will find (for the right person rather unironically) plenty are prepared to meet someone who is unverified. I also dont perpetually go UNLOS and return so that kinda ties into me not giving much of a fuck. I have a habit of never talking to people I meet on here after we have had sex. Its not really much of a surprise there is little desire to verify. " Lots of people don't care about verications. Lots of people hide their verifications for privacy reasons. But you don't even have a green tick! At least one of those women would have verified you without you asking, because that's what people do on Fab. And it's always the guys without a green tick who complain the loudest. The reason they complain is because they ain't getting meets. But it's very easy to say 'I don't care about veris'. I can assure you, if you have met a number of women via Fab, someone will have verified you whether you wanted it or not, then you would choose whether or not to display it. But you would never be able to get rid of that green tick. | |||
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"Kind of works for those that see a bigger picture beyond message a shag site. Wonder which, statistically, are more successful.... ![]() No it was a simple question, to me success is a positive outcome for all parties, not competing - surely that wasn't a lamppost pissing comment, was it. I'll disengage if it is and let you get on with what I thought was a debate- have fun . | |||
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" Otherwise you're implying all men will fuck everything & anything & I know for a fact some men don't. Do you know what I find amusing about here...how statements vary in validity depending on who is saying them. I read a thread yesterday where a bunch of posters were complaining about the very thing you mentioned...now we're going to sit here and pretend men actually want to attend socials. Yes, there is a small subsection of men who like socials. There is very likely a small contingent of men who like being defecated on. But its a SMALL CONTINGENT. You cant start crying when a site doesnt find itself chock full of men who wont act like a minority of them. " Errrr why would I start crying exactly?! Because for me it's pretty simple to get sex elsewhere with men who do want to meet for a social as well as a fuck. | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why... If you are getting all these meets with no socials then you haven't got anything to complain about. You would not be in the slightest bit bothered by women who 'bend the rules' because you are getting so much fun with all these women. Yet not one of them has given you a verification. How did you manage to stop these women writing you a veri? Because I dont care. I literally could not give one iota about a verification. Its had little to no effect on my ability to meet people either. Take a look at the "do you meet unverified people" thread and you will find (for the right person rather unironically) plenty are prepared to meet someone who is unverified. I also dont perpetually go UNLOS and return so that kinda ties into me not giving much of a fuck. I have a habit of never talking to people I meet on here after we have had sex. Its not really much of a surprise there is little desire to verify. Lots of people don't care about verications. Lots of people hide their verifications for privacy reasons. But you don't even have a green tick! At least one of those women would have verified you without you asking, because that's what people do on Fab. And it's always the guys without a green tick who complain the loudest. The reason they complain is because they ain't getting meets. But it's very easy to say 'I don't care about veris'. I can assure you, if you have met a number of women via Fab, someone will have verified you whether you wanted it or not, then you would choose whether or not to display it. But you would never be able to get rid of that green tick." I knew you would resort to this. Thats right, I dont have a green tick because I never get meets. And i'm just ooooh sooo bitter about it. If it makes u feel better. I swear, some of your desperate to inflate the value of your vaginas. ![]() | |||
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"You can't speak for all men,you might not keep in touch after meets or like a social ,but plenty do. Many enjoy the social side of swinging I am sure plenty do. Hence why they have more verifications. I dont speak for anyone in that sense. Just saying, the less hoops a man has to jump, the better. Women here need to remember...most of the most successful dudes on here ARE NOT on the forums. The attitudes which pervade really are not shared by many of the people I meet. Its all a little too sanitized. " Who are the dudes you're talking about? People you meet at events or people you have never met, but read the profiles? I've met a lot of men from the site. All, barring a couple of them, wanted to see me again; some I met more than twice, some up to 10 times. The very few social meets I had were at the request of the man, not myself. | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why... If you are getting all these meets with no socials then you haven't got anything to complain about. You would not be in the slightest bit bothered by women who 'bend the rules' because you are getting so much fun with all these women. Yet not one of them has given you a verification. How did you manage to stop these women writing you a veri? Because I dont care. I literally could not give one iota about a verification. Its had little to no effect on my ability to meet people either. Take a look at the "do you meet unverified people" thread and you will find (for the right person rather unironically) plenty are prepared to meet someone who is unverified. I also dont perpetually go UNLOS and return so that kinda ties into me not giving much of a fuck. I have a habit of never talking to people I meet on here after we have had sex. Its not really much of a surprise there is little desire to verify. Lots of people don't care about verications. Lots of people hide their verifications for privacy reasons. But you don't even have a green tick! At least one of those women would have verified you without you asking, because that's what people do on Fab. And it's always the guys without a green tick who complain the loudest. The reason they complain is because they ain't getting meets. But it's very easy to say 'I don't care about veris'. I can assure you, if you have met a number of women via Fab, someone will have verified you whether you wanted it or not, then you would choose whether or not to display it. But you would never be able to get rid of that green tick. I knew you would resort to this. Thats right, I dont have a green tick because I never get meets. And i'm just ooooh sooo bitter about it. If it makes u feel better. I swear, some of your desperate to inflate the value of your vaginas. ![]() And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() | |||
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"Superfreak, however ridiculous you find the concept of a social prior to sex, and however ridiculous you find the reasons that women have for wanting a social, it is in fact the norm to do things this way. It is not the norm for meets to take place without some sort of social first. You may disagree, and that is your right, but there is nothing you can do about it. You can dig your heals in and refuse to do a meet that involves a social, or you can compromise and maybe stand a better chance of having some fun via this site. But sex with no social, outside a club situation, really is very very rare, and that's just the way it is. You have to decide for yourself if you want to have some fun through this site, or if the effort required to get that fun isn't worth it for you. Sex without a social is rare? Not for me it isnt. But then women will bend the rules depending upon how desired certain traits are. Remember, there is a big userbase which DOES not participate in the political correctness that you tend to find on the forums. You're right about one thing though, you can use this site however you like. BUT remember what starts conversations like these, people getting offended that men dont see this site as a place for socials and chit chat. If anything, I found (on the forums mind you) that men who complained about not getting attention are asked to attend socials. Hmmm...I wonder why... If you are getting all these meets with no socials then you haven't got anything to complain about. You would not be in the slightest bit bothered by women who 'bend the rules' because you are getting so much fun with all these women. Yet not one of them has given you a verification. How did you manage to stop these women writing you a veri? Because I dont care. I literally could not give one iota about a verification. Its had little to no effect on my ability to meet people either. Take a look at the "do you meet unverified people" thread and you will find (for the right person rather unironically) plenty are prepared to meet someone who is unverified. I also dont perpetually go UNLOS and return so that kinda ties into me not giving much of a fuck. I have a habit of never talking to people I meet on here after we have had sex. Its not really much of a surprise there is little desire to verify. Lots of people don't care about verications. Lots of people hide their verifications for privacy reasons. But you don't even have a green tick! At least one of those women would have verified you without you asking, because that's what people do on Fab. And it's always the guys without a green tick who complain the loudest. The reason they complain is because they ain't getting meets. But it's very easy to say 'I don't care about veris'. I can assure you, if you have met a number of women via Fab, someone will have verified you whether you wanted it or not, then you would choose whether or not to display it. But you would never be able to get rid of that green tick. I knew you would resort to this. Thats right, I dont have a green tick because I never get meets. And i'm just ooooh sooo bitter about it. If it makes u feel better. I swear, some of your desperate to inflate the value of your vaginas. ![]() I am more than a vagina. Although, I'm quite glad I have one, as it got a lovely licking, the last time I had sex ![]() | |||
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" And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() Do you know whats funny: "Since I've been using the forums, I've noticed some men complain about women or couples requiring a social meet prior to sex, on the basis that this is not a dating site. This is not something we have personally come across, as we have specifically sought out men who share our more 'friendship' based approach to swinging. And besides, when meet a man for a social it always develops to sex anyway, and preferably the same night! However, something was said to me on the forums that made me wonder if some men would refuse to meet if a social was required. I wondered why that was. Surely if there is a choice between an hour or so in the pub followed by a high chance of sex, or staying at home with zero chance of sex, it would be more productive to turn the charm on a put a bit of effort towards having some fun. Are there any women or couples who have been rejected because a social was requested first? What do the guys think?" Interestingly enough, this topic cropped up before. By you. So, I think you know what I am talking about. Sadly, the men in there were a lot less vacuous and sycophantic than the ones here today. And do you know what many suggested? They felt social meets seemed to be nothing more than an additional filter and excuse to get a free coffee/meal. There are ALOT of timewasters here. A lot. The experience makes me stedfast in meeting anyone proposing some kind of "flirtation test" before we have sex. Its all hoop jumping, due to the power afforded to people here due to the lopsided ratios. I think a lot of women here are sad and feed off the attention that prettier non-swinging women get...hence much of the sex becomes obfuscated by those desperate for said attention. If any single man on here is truly honest, he has experienced a time waster/no show/UNLOS/fab fantasist. There seem to certain calling cards that many of those types have in common. | |||
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" If it makes u feel better. I swear, some of your desperate to inflate the value of your vaginas. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I dont consider you remotely attractive. So why would I be trying to charm you? Is that what you want though? For me to say nice things that I dont actually believe?? | |||
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" And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() A free coffee......really?! I personally don't have the time or the inclination to meet someone just to get a free coffee. ![]() | |||
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"I think a lot of women here are sad and feed off the attention that prettier non-swinging women get...hence much of the sex becomes obfuscated by those desperate for said attention" Here's a question. And it's a real question with no other motive. And I'm not insulting you so please try to afford the same in your response...If you believe the words above, and I think that you, why are you here on this site? Why get sex from less attractive swingers when there are prettier non-swinging women out there? | |||
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" If it makes u feel better. I swear, some of your desperate to inflate the value of your vaginas. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh gosh. You don't find me remotely attractive. Fuck, my life is over. What I want I can't actually post. And nor do I want you to charm me, please don't flatter yourself to think I have a smidgeon of desire for that to occur. | |||
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"My vagina is super valuable ta $ Mine's cheap as owt. That's probably why I'm a desperate singleton, looking for love in all the wrong places. " You are super gorgeous ![]() | |||
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" And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() ![]() It's easier to reject a guy on a social. If they want to think we wanted free coffee then let them. ![]() | |||
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" And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() ![]() And thats great. But a lot of men know what I am talking about. Its amazing how many people may be super up for a meet in the morning and then feel ugly later in the evening and want to cancel at the last minute. That happens a lot. Its not about safety, its about insecurity...everyone wants to pretend that swinging doesnt have any emotional pitfalls, but it does. And it reflects in the amount of flux and no-showing exhibited by many on here. I've had many female friends tell me they have cancelled dates for all kinds of random reasons. I can appreciate someone cancelling before I have set off. What I have no time for is doing Starbucks date only for someone to tell me that they "dont think it will work". Never have. Never will. Some may complain, but I actually like the stuntcock look...hence why I meet with mostly couples within an hour or two of us arranging the meet. | |||
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"I am not interested in social meets I am not interested in dating I don't have any concern what others do I do think the people who are looking to date might be disappointed, but hey... enjoy looking ![]() Neither am not, but some men insist on them, so I have to oblige and waste my time and money on drink, just to get a fuck ![]() | |||
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"I am not interested in social meets I am not interested in dating I don't have any concern what others do I do think the people who are looking to date might be disappointed, but hey... enjoy looking ![]() ![]() Oh I see. I get it, you're just as horny as men, just as kinky, just as funny...lemme guess you can guzzle more pints than your male friends and not get d*unk to amirite?? You really are one of the lads!! ![]() | |||
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"I think a lot of women here are sad and feed off the attention that prettier non-swinging women get...hence much of the sex becomes obfuscated by those desperate for said attention Here's a question. And it's a real question with no other motive. And I'm not insulting you so please try to afford the same in your response...If you believe the words above, and I think that you, why are you here on this site? Why get sex from less attractive swingers when there are prettier non-swinging women out there?" For the couples. You know, the MAJORITY of people who swing?? And, interestingly enough, I have found Tinder a lot more straight forward for casual sex than here. I dont think people have any idea how much the lopsided ratio can damage the dynamics for meets. You know this as good as I do, you can pretend as if you dont because I put the point across assholishly, but there are A LOT of attention seekers here. On a site like Tinder, you're competing with VERY attractive young women...offering the prospect of easy sex is not enough. Here though, you can dangle carrots pretty well due to the sheer amount of men here for a perceived quick and easy shag. The good ole okie doke. | |||
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"I think a lot of women here are sad and feed off the attention that prettier non-swinging women get...hence much of the sex becomes obfuscated by those desperate for said attention Here's a question. And it's a real question with no other motive. And I'm not insulting you so please try to afford the same in your response...If you believe the words above, and I think that you, why are you here on this site? Why get sex from less attractive swingers when there are prettier non-swinging women out there? For the couples. You know, the MAJORITY of people who swing?? And, interestingly enough, I have found Tinder a lot more straight forward for casual sex than here. I dont think people have any idea how much the lopsided ratio can damage the dynamics for meets. You know this as good as I do, you can pretend as if you dont because I put the point across assholishly, but there are A LOT of attention seekers here. On a site like Tinder, you're competing with VERY attractive young women...offering the prospect of easy sex is not enough. Here though, you can dangle carrots pretty well due to the sheer amount of men here for a perceived quick and easy shag. The good ole okie doke. " Cool story bro! | |||
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" I would care, but this would require me finding you attractive soooo.... ![]() My heart well and truly bleeds. I was hoping to lure you in to one of those pesky socials, have you pay for coffee and a meal and you make sweet passionate love to me and then we will start dating but I guess today is not my luck day. | |||
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" And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() Yep those were my words! Anyway, my husband and I aren't timewasters - no that's something we definately can't be accused of. | |||
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"I think a lot of women here are sad and feed off the attention that prettier non-swinging women get...hence much of the sex becomes obfuscated by those desperate for said attention Here's a question. And it's a real question with no other motive. And I'm not insulting you so please try to afford the same in your response...If you believe the words above, and I think that you, why are you here on this site? Why get sex from less attractive swingers when there are prettier non-swinging women out there? For the couples. You know, the MAJORITY of people who swing?? And, interestingly enough, I have found Tinder a lot more straight forward for casual sex than here. I dont think people have any idea how much the lopsided ratio can damage the dynamics for meets. You know this as good as I do, you can pretend as if you dont because I put the point across assholishly, but there are A LOT of attention seekers here. On a site like Tinder, you're competing with VERY attractive young women...offering the prospect of easy sex is not enough. Here though, you can dangle carrots pretty well due to the sheer amount of men here for a perceived quick and easy shag. The good ole okie doke. " Don't speak the truth on here too much or the clique will get you ![]() | |||
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"I am not looking to date, a relationship wouldn't fit in with my lifestyle right now. However if my circumstances change and i do decide i want to date then i will look on here. The reason for this? Its because i love the swinging lifestyle and would want to find a partner who also enjoyed it and was happy to share it with me. The chances of finding this out in the real world are slim. Most men would run a mile if i told them what i wanted." I respect your honesty. But I genuinely dont think there is a massive difference between vanilla men and many who are on here. It does happen, but from the couples I have seen...very, very few started as swingers and ended up still together. Very few. | |||
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"Don't speak the truth on here too much or the clique will get you ![]() Sad isnt it. A clique of saddos so desperately running from the truth. What really irritates me is the sycophantic "men" who offer support to the foolishness. Amusingly enough they always have tons of "social meet" veris. Its painfully transparent. | |||
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"I think a lot of women here are sad and feed off the attention that prettier non-swinging women get...hence much of the sex becomes obfuscated by those desperate for said attention Here's a question. And it's a real question with no other motive. And I'm not insulting you so please try to afford the same in your response...If you believe the words above, and I think that you, why are you here on this site? Why get sex from less attractive swingers when there are prettier non-swinging women out there? For the couples. You know, the MAJORITY of people who swing?? And, interestingly enough, I have found Tinder a lot more straight forward for casual sex than here. I dont think people have any idea how much the lopsided ratio can damage the dynamics for meets. You know this as good as I do, you can pretend as if you dont because I put the point across assholishly, but there are A LOT of attention seekers here. On a site like Tinder, you're competing with VERY attractive young women...offering the prospect of easy sex is not enough. Here though, you can dangle carrots pretty well due to the sheer amount of men here for a perceived quick and easy shag. The good ole okie doke. " I haven't pretended anything. I have already had a discussion today about my feelings on this subject on another thread and it's a bit of a boring argument, in my opinion. I was just curious why a man who obviously thinks highly of himself would remain on a site where he has a disregard, bordering on contempt, for the women who are on that site. So you stay for the couples but still find the attitudes of unattractive single women, mostly in the forums, annoying enough to have debate after debate about and with them. Crystal clear. Thanks for the explanation. | |||
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"I am not looking to date, a relationship wouldn't fit in with my lifestyle right now. However if my circumstances change and i do decide i want to date then i will look on here. The reason for this? Its because i love the swinging lifestyle and would want to find a partner who also enjoyed it and was happy to share it with me. The chances of finding this out in the real world are slim. Most men would run a mile if i told them what i wanted." Similar, but not even looking for a partner to share it with me. I am happy single, am more successful single, and therefore plan to remain single. However I would never comment on other people's desire to find a swinging partner on here. I'm also not sure why the usual suspects have come out to have a pop at the women on here. If I had a shag for every time I see a bloke saying 'If I ever get into a relationship I'll never share her' etc I wouldn't be able to walk. So men are obviously looking for a woman for relationships, they're just not looking on here. At least women are being honest about it. | |||
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" And that's why I suggested that you compromise in order to get a meet. Get to a swing club, or have a drink with a lady or a couple, finish off with a good shag, Bob's your uncle. ![]() Again, funnily enough, I've had nobody waste my time, ever. I've had the occasional postponement, suitably far in advance. I'm a guy who likes a social, though - I honestly have no idea if I want to fuck someone based on a photo, all I know from a photo is that they have the sort of physical features that I like. I've had maybe only two or three meets in my time here that didn't have a social first, all of which went well, but then, I'd been texting them for a while. I'm also pretty picky and decidedly not a sycophant, and I certainly don't see fabs as a "how many women can I fuck" contest. But then, I also don't see myself as a stunt cock. That is quite a boring notion to me. | |||
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