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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire Dales

Why use the site then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "
why use the site then? Just go the pub every night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a few reasons....

Answer these questions and it might help determine the source of the issue:

When you think about it, what is the ratio of men to women when you go out to the pub? Now do a quick search and see what your local ratio is on here.

Is there a difference in how you approach women at the pub as opposed to women here? Do you take the vagaries of the internet into account for your conversations here?

If you keep trying here and failing, yet doing so well at the pub...why hang around here? Are you looking for something different here? Does that difference play into your approach?

Just something for you to consider on this Tuesday morning.

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By *ove2comeCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Says the crap who's been on here for three weeks! Love the profile by the way ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is this pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is this pub? "
ah you will fuck the ratio in his pub then

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By *ove2comeCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Crap.....chap! Why is my phone on auto swear?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is this pub? ah you will fuck the ratio in his pub then "

I'm ok with sloppy seconds

Enjoyed your posts in the other thread btw, wasting your breathe though!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

No information in your profile and it's too short also imho. And underwear with the day of the week on is odd at your age. Need more photos too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't total agree but can kind of see where your coming from.it works different on here and woman that 9 times out of 10 you would be able to take home after meeting at a night club on here decide to play harder to get in some cases. can't really blame them because if I had 100 of messages a day geting sent to me by females I would start getting a big eago and becoming too picky amd detaching from reality lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

No information in your profile and it's too short also imho. And underwear with the day of the week on is odd at your age. Need more photos too "

Lol I didn't notice the underwear, I want some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it just me or is this topics' replies too unintentionally funny?

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh...."

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????"

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work.... "

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens "

p's I am not researching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober."

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens "

In some cases....You actually said 9 times out of 10....that's generalising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????"

So a newbie gets overwhelmed sadly you soon learn that most of it is bollox.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

In a pub or bar they get to see what they're physically getting straight away

One here your just another forgettable picture less profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a pub or bar they get to see what they're physically getting straight away

One here your just another forgettable picture less profile

"

Think we missed the day of the week pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens

In some cases....You actually said 9 times out of 10....that's generalising "

oo did I? ?oops well no that's not generalising surely 10 out of 10 would be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a pub or bar they get to see what they're physically getting straight away

One here your just another forgettable picture less profile

"

that is the sad truth

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens

In some cases....You actually said 9 times out of 10....that's generalising

oo did I? ?oops well no that's not generalising surely 10 out of 10 would be? "

Haha. 10 out of 10 would be an absolute rather than a general statement. Almost though ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens

In some cases....You actually said 9 times out of 10....that's generalising

oo did I? ?oops well no that's not generalising surely 10 out of 10 would be?

Haha. 10 out of 10 would be an absolute rather than a general statement. Almost though ...."

you would make a excellent teacher has anyone told you that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens

In some cases....You actually said 9 times out of 10....that's generalising

oo did I? ?oops well no that's not generalising surely 10 out of 10 would be?

Haha. 10 out of 10 would be an absolute rather than a general statement. Almost though ....

you would make a excellent teacher has anyone told you that "

Thanks! I do have to give tutorials whilst I finish my PHD so that's sort of teaching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk "

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


"In a pub or bar they get to see what they're physically getting straight away

One here your just another forgettable picture less profile

"

So very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So that qualifies you to generalise on all women? Your research needs some work....

no of course you can never generalise but iam just pointing out in some cases this happens

In some cases....You actually said 9 times out of 10....that's generalising

oo did I? ?oops well no that's not generalising surely 10 out of 10 would be?

Haha. 10 out of 10 would be an absolute rather than a general statement. Almost though ....

you would make a excellent teacher has anyone told you that

Thanks! I do have to give tutorials whilst I finish my PHD so that's sort of teaching "

interesting where do i sign up Ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab "

Is not exactly what I meant ... alot of faceless men not getting meets...I, and alot of other single women, won't even have a conversation without seeing a face first...was meant as 2 statements not a linked one lol...but pub pick ups are often with people that have been drinking...can lead to bad decisions too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab

Is not exactly what I meant ... alot of faceless men not getting meets...I, and alot of other single women, won't even have a conversation without seeing a face first...was meant as 2 statements not a linked one lol...but pub pick ups are often with people that have been drinking...can lead to bad decisions too "

I've made worse decisions so bar lol so what pub you drinking at this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab

Is not exactly what I meant ... alot of faceless men not getting meets...I, and alot of other single women, won't even have a conversation without seeing a face first...was meant as 2 statements not a linked one lol...but pub pick ups are often with people that have been drinking...can lead to bad decisions too

I've made worse decisions so bar lol so what pub you drinking at this weekend "

Lol... None...I will probably be at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab

Is not exactly what I meant ... alot of faceless men not getting meets...I, and alot of other single women, won't even have a conversation without seeing a face first...was meant as 2 statements not a linked one lol...but pub pick ups are often with people that have been drinking...can lead to bad decisions too

I've made worse decisions so bar lol so what pub you drinking at this weekend

Lol... None...I will probably be at work "

no bad decisions being made by you this weekend then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab

Is not exactly what I meant ... alot of faceless men not getting meets...I, and alot of other single women, won't even have a conversation without seeing a face first...was meant as 2 statements not a linked one lol...but pub pick ups are often with people that have been drinking...can lead to bad decisions too

I've made worse decisions so bar lol so what pub you drinking at this weekend

Lol... None...I will probably be at work

no bad decisions being made by you this weekend then lol"

Lol nope! Not d*unken ones anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

The women are playing hard to get plus they are very picky who they have fun with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady why use the site then? Just go the pub every night "

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones in the pub get to see your face and we are not d*unk

Not true sometimes the profile or pictures don't do the person enough justice where as up close and personal people get to see the real deal.

Iam a handsome young chap if I do say so myself lol and even I struggle to get a response out of woman I would have no trouble getting away from fab

Is not exactly what I meant ... alot of faceless men not getting meets...I, and alot of other single women, won't even have a conversation without seeing a face first...was meant as 2 statements not a linked one lol...but pub pick ups are often with people that have been drinking...can lead to bad decisions too

I've made worse decisions so bar lol so what pub you drinking at this weekend

Lol... None...I will probably be at work

no bad decisions being made by you this weekend then lol

Lol nope! Not d*unken ones anyway "

story of my life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine you don't approach the good ladies of your local pub with a hooded cape on to obscure face and body and you probably don't walk up and say simply what your gender is and you'd like to to screw.

But what do I know, Pompey's a funny old city at times.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

Spend more time in a pub then as that is where you are in demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP might have just had trouble sleeping as he started 4 different threads within an hour

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I think the OP might have just had trouble sleeping as he started 4 different threads within an hour "

No, he was in a pub with his hands full,,,,, of unwashed beer glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????"

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

In the pub the women Have had their standards lowered by the consumption of alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP might have just had trouble sleeping as he started 4 different threads within an hour

No, he was in a pub with his hands full,,,,, of unwashed beer glasses "

I lied . There's 8 . Pub must have shut early last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh...."

''I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle.'' As a single women, you would say this though. Online brings the worst out in both genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go the pub then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

I can well believe one of those statements.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

If we got 100s of messages a day. We wouldn't read them. Far too busy to spend time sifting that lot.

That's not playing hard to get, its called having a lift outside of fab.

Those we didn't reply to would probably assume what ever they wanted about us for not replying, but the truth is they are just drowned in a sea of messages.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Go the pub then"
yo yea the rover return full every mon weds and fri and you can make your own story line up .and treat one of your girls to a hotpot .O P you livin the dream .

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

I can well believe one of those statements. "

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

op just noticed your user name anis when spoke with midlands actsent comes out anus [yep like bum hole ]mybe change that]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

I wonder why.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

I can well believe one of those statements. "

OP, in a pub the woman wouldn't be blindfolded and unable to find out anything about you. Yes, there are some knobs of either gender here but if you make a bit of an effort, you'll see some sort of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's wants to give me a chance in Poole area I want to get started on here x

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

''I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle.'' As a single women, you would say this though. Online brings the worst out in both genders."

I say this as a person......but what I said is the same as you....there are inflated egos within both sexes. I disagreed with the posters generalisation of only women.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People will generally look at a profile op ,I can't give advice as you havent asked.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on. "

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science "

there's always one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women on here aren't d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crap.....chap! Why is my phone on auto swear?! "

It was right the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here aren't d*unk. "

Speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not "

Is playing hard to get not meeting everyone who wants to put his cock in me?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"The women on here aren't d*unk. "

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here aren't d*unk.

Speak for yourself "

"Most" women on here aren't d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here aren't d*unk.

Are you sure? "

I have amended my statement -see above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here aren't d*unk.

Speak for yourself

"Most" women on here aren't d*unk. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"The women on here aren't d*unk.

"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one "

Make that two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet this pub doesn't sell real ale.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

Mate, your profile does not do you any favours in here. Have a look around at other guys' profiles, who ARE successful in here, and then take a look at yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make me laugh when men say women play hard to get and are big headed, because we have lots of men messaging us. Are we supposed to fuck men we don't find attractive, to make them feel better about themselves? If I didn't ever find anyone who messaged me attractive I would leave, not fuck someone as a compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not

Is playing hard to get not meeting everyone who wants to put his cock in me? "

listen this came straight from a woman so don't know why your questioning me about it.

I've seen some people on here lucky to get cock in them false stop let alone being picky about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two"

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make me laugh when men say women play hard to get and are big headed, because we have lots of men messaging us. Are we supposed to fuck men we don't find attractive, to make them feel better about themselves? If I didn't ever find anyone who messaged me attractive I would leave, not fuck someone as a compromise. "

big headed in a way where you know you would never probably get a chance to fuck a man like this in the real world but due to all the messages from horny men not thinking straight slightly makes you loose touch of reality

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've seen some people on here lucky to get cock in them false stop let alone being picky about it."

There really should be a fab bingo for daily posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen some people on here lucky to get cock in them false stop let alone being picky about it.

There really should be a fab bingo for daily posts."

oops

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky."

"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady'"

Soooo, where did you think the women on this site come from? Fantasy land? And what did you think they would do here which they would not do when picked up for sex from the 'pub'?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"It does make me laugh when men say women play hard to get and are big headed, because we have lots of men messaging us. Are we supposed to fuck men we don't find attractive, to make them feel better about themselves? If I didn't ever find anyone who messaged me attractive I would leave, not fuck someone as a compromise.

big headed in a way where you know you would never probably get a chance to fuck a man like this in the real world but due to all the messages from horny men not thinking straight slightly makes you loose touch of reality "

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"Where is this pub? ah you will fuck the ratio in his pub then "

Hahah don't fck the ratio mate ! That's taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky."

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the pub....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not "

Bore off? What are you, 14? Just because one woman has said something to you isn't "proof" of anything. That's not how proof works.

But yeah, keep blaming women for your lack of success on here, I'm sure that tactic will work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady'"

Soooo, where did you think the women on this site come from? Fantasy land? And what did you think they would do here which they would not do when picked up for sex from the 'pub'?"

come on now i don't have to tell you that alot of people on here do not indulge in the stuff they do on here in normal day to day life. They use this as a escape and to not be judged etc.

iam not saying it's impossible but geting Jenny to come back from the pub with you and your 2 mates is going to be alot harder then finding a Jenny on here that loves entertaining 3 cocks and can accommodate lol.

Jenny can't be judged on here but can be judged down her pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle more in real life tbh... as I am QUITE shy I struggle with making contact first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though."

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady'"

Soooo, where did you think the women on this site come from? Fantasy land? And what did you think they would do here which they would not do when picked up for sex from the 'pub'?

come on now i don't have to tell you that alot of people on here do not indulge in the stuff they do on here in normal day to day life. They use this as a escape and to not be judged etc.

iam not saying it's impossible but geting Jenny to come back from the pub with you and your 2 mates is going to be alot harder then finding a Jenny on here that loves entertaining 3 cocks and can accommodate lol.

Jenny can't be judged on here but can be judged down her pub "

Let us know when you find 'Jenny' who would want you and your 2 'mates'

Or if that doesn't happen anytime soon, do let us know when you find James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not

Bore off? What are you, 14? Just because one woman has said something to you isn't "proof" of anything. That's not how proof works.

But yeah, keep blaming women for your lack of success on here, I'm sure that tactic will work. "

If one mam told the judge he shot a man and he actualy shot the man is that not proof?? shes told me something and told me how thats made ger act so that my frie d is PROOF that it happens,exactly what I thought..and I am definately not blaming no woman for my lack of success on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other."

But your now basing your reasoning on your own desires and extrapolation from those assumed desires. Where does the OP mention anything about the things YOU'RE looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady'"

Soooo, where did you think the women on this site come from? Fantasy land? And what did you think they would do here which they would not do when picked up for sex from the 'pub'?

come on now i don't have to tell you that alot of people on here do not indulge in the stuff they do on here in normal day to day life. They use this as a escape and to not be judged etc.

iam not saying it's impossible but geting Jenny to come back from the pub with you and your 2 mates is going to be alot harder then finding a Jenny on here that loves entertaining 3 cocks and can accommodate lol.

Jenny can't be judged on here but can be judged down her pub

Let us know when you find 'Jenny' who would want you and your 2 'mates'

Or if that doesn't happen anytime soon, do let us know when you find James "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not

Bore off? What are you, 14? Just because one woman has said something to you isn't "proof" of anything. That's not how proof works.

But yeah, keep blaming women for your lack of success on here, I'm sure that tactic will work.

If one mam told the judge he shot a man and he actualy shot the man is that not proof?? shes told me something and told me how thats made ger act so that my frie d is PROOF that it happens,exactly what I thought..and I am definately not blaming no woman for my lack of success on here "

If one man told the judge he shot a man and then the judge said that was proof that all men were murderers then your little example would make sense. As it is, it doesn't work at all, sorry. Kinda sounds like you're blaming the women to me; but perhaps it's just you using words differently to their actual meaning again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other.

But your now basing your reasoning on your own desires and extrapolation from those assumed desires. Where does the OP mention anything about the things YOU'RE looking for?"

listen all I am saying is to be telling him that if he finds it easier getting sex down the pub get off here and go to the pub is not helpful and doesn't make sense because he MAY not be getting the sex he wants Down the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here are generally sober.

I disagree that women 'play hard to get' and have inflated egos and therefore some men struggle. Some do....as do some men. People tend to have a type or look for a little more than an offer of a fuck to get them into bed.....but this has been said already 800 million times....sigh....

I have a message from a woman saying amd I quote 'I been here for a hour and i got 200 plus messages do man not understand that if they bombard a female she will automatically get bigheaded and play hard to get'

soooo?????

So she's an idiot for not using her filters better. That's all that tells you. I got 1000 in a day once and have since filtered up, in fact everyone is currently blocked. If you think that makes me bigheaded and playing hard to get then crack on.

ooo bore off the proofs in the pudding words straight from the lions mouth. like it oe not THIS happens Wether you behave like that or not

Bore off? What are you, 14? Just because one woman has said something to you isn't "proof" of anything. That's not how proof works.

But yeah, keep blaming women for your lack of success on here, I'm sure that tactic will work.

If one mam told the judge he shot a man and he actualy shot the man is that not proof?? shes told me something and told me how thats made ger act so that my frie d is PROOF that it happens,exactly what I thought..and I am definately not blaming no woman for my lack of success on here

If one man told the judge he shot a man and then the judge said that was proof that all men were murderers then your little example would make sense. As it is, it doesn't work at all, sorry. Kinda sounds like you're blaming the women to me; but perhaps it's just you using words differently to their actual meaning again. "

or maybe you would like to show me where I said EVERY WOMAN acts in this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?"

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere."

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other.

But your now basing your reasoning on your own desires and extrapolation from those assumed desires. Where does the OP mention anything about the things YOU'RE looking for?

listen all I am saying is to be telling him that if he finds it easier getting sex down the pub get off here and go to the pub is not helpful and doesn't make sense because he MAY not be getting the sex he wants Down the pub."

See, here's the thing. Plenty of guys on here are just looking for sex. Not Jenny with her friend willing to eat three cocks. Lots of men just want regular sex with a woman. When a guy comes onto the forums and says he can easily get sex at the pub but struggles here, people are naturally going to tell him to go to the pub - because that is the logical answer. If he wanted help he could ask for profile advice (he hasn't done and so site rules preclude such advice). If he wanted help he could mention what he is looking for and he would get suggestions to aid in his endeavours.

People in the forums can be harsh, pedantic, unfair even. But it's usually the approach and wording in a post that leads to these results. The OP chose to word his post as he did, and I'm sorry if it's pedantic, by I'm not going to read unsaid desires and aspirations into that post to offer advice that may not even relate to what the OP is looking for.

And your suggestions about women getting big headed and pulling men on here they couldn't pull in "real life" only add to the baseless guessing and sparing on this thread.

If the man does well at the pub, it would be remiss of us to suggest he do anything other than go to the pub. If he's looking for something other than that, he should say so and ask for advice. I'm not going to guess his motives and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other.

But your now basing your reasoning on your own desires and extrapolation from those assumed desires. Where does the OP mention anything about the things YOU'RE looking for?

listen all I am saying is to be telling him that if he finds it easier getting sex down the pub get off here and go to the pub is not helpful and doesn't make sense because he MAY not be getting the sex he wants Down the pub.

See, here's the thing. Plenty of guys on here are just looking for sex. Not Jenny with her friend willing to eat three cocks. Lots of men just want regular sex with a woman. When a guy comes onto the forums and says he can easily get sex at the pub but struggles here, people are naturally going to tell him to go to the pub - because that is the logical answer. If he wanted help he could ask for profile advice (he hasn't done and so site rules preclude such advice). If he wanted help he could mention what he is looking for and he would get suggestions to aid in his endeavours.

People in the forums can be harsh, pedantic, unfair even. But it's usually the approach and wording in a post that leads to these results. The OP chose to word his post as he did, and I'm sorry if it's pedantic, by I'm not going to read unsaid desires and aspirations into that post to offer advice that may not even relate to what the OP is looking for.

And your suggestions about women getting big headed and pulling men on here they couldn't pull in "real life" only add to the baseless guessing and sparing on this thread.

If the man does well at the pub, it would be remiss of us to suggest he do anything other than go to the pub. If he's looking for something other than that, he should say so and ask for advice. I'm not going to guess his motives and desires."

ok ok you got me I totally agree. but I still stick by my comment o woman pulling men they just wouldn't do away from here lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other.

But your now basing your reasoning on your own desires and extrapolation from those assumed desires. Where does the OP mention anything about the things YOU'RE looking for?

listen all I am saying is to be telling him that if he finds it easier getting sex down the pub get off here and go to the pub is not helpful and doesn't make sense because he MAY not be getting the sex he wants Down the pub.

See, here's the thing. Plenty of guys on here are just looking for sex. Not Jenny with her friend willing to eat three cocks. Lots of men just want regular sex with a woman. When a guy comes onto the forums and says he can easily get sex at the pub but struggles here, people are naturally going to tell him to go to the pub - because that is the logical answer. If he wanted help he could ask for profile advice (he hasn't done and so site rules preclude such advice). If he wanted help he could mention what he is looking for and he would get suggestions to aid in his endeavours.

People in the forums can be harsh, pedantic, unfair even. But it's usually the approach and wording in a post that leads to these results. The OP chose to word his post as he did, and I'm sorry if it's pedantic, by I'm not going to read unsaid desires and aspirations into that post to offer advice that may not even relate to what the OP is looking for.

And your suggestions about women getting big headed and pulling men on here they couldn't pull in "real life" only add to the baseless guessing and sparing on this thread.

If the man does well at the pub, it would be remiss of us to suggest he do anything other than go to the pub. If he's looking for something other than that, he should say so and ask for advice. I'm not going to guess his motives and desires.

ok ok you got me I totally agree. but I still stick by my comment o woman pulling men they just wouldn't do away from here lol "

You keep holding on to that thought with both hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two

obviously he would not get to fulfill some of the things he wants to do down his local pub so has come o here to do so.

so to be telling him to get off here and back Into the real world is no help at all and just cheeky.

I don't think it's cheeky at all to tell someone who is looking for sex to get that sex from where he claims to have successfully gotten sex in the past.

I've said it before...if I were a single guy then I wouldn't be on this site at all. I'd just go to the pub. It's not "obvious" at all that what he is looking for can't be gotten at the local pub. Nothing he has said has indicated as much.

I do think that it's pretty cheeky to tell women that they wouldn't be able to get the standard of men "in realy life" that they get on here and that it makes then big headed but then to act as if "real life" is something that can't be discussed when it comes to the male OP, though.

yes I admit it was cheeky but then again iam a cheeky guy soo??

and iam a single guy that let me tell you has no problem getting g Jenny from the pub to have sex with me but iam not on here for just your average sex that Jenny from the pub offer lol so maybe his looking for something the pub can't other.

But your now basing your reasoning on your own desires and extrapolation from those assumed desires. Where does the OP mention anything about the things YOU'RE looking for?

listen all I am saying is to be telling him that if he finds it easier getting sex down the pub get off here and go to the pub is not helpful and doesn't make sense because he MAY not be getting the sex he wants Down the pub.

See, here's the thing. Plenty of guys on here are just looking for sex. Not Jenny with her friend willing to eat three cocks. Lots of men just want regular sex with a woman. When a guy comes onto the forums and says he can easily get sex at the pub but struggles here, people are naturally going to tell him to go to the pub - because that is the logical answer. If he wanted help he could ask for profile advice (he hasn't done and so site rules preclude such advice). If he wanted help he could mention what he is looking for and he would get suggestions to aid in his endeavours.

People in the forums can be harsh, pedantic, unfair even. But it's usually the approach and wording in a post that leads to these results. The OP chose to word his post as he did, and I'm sorry if it's pedantic, by I'm not going to read unsaid desires and aspirations into that post to offer advice that may not even relate to what the OP is looking for.

And your suggestions about women getting big headed and pulling men on here they couldn't pull in "real life" only add to the baseless guessing and sparing on this thread.

If the man does well at the pub, it would be remiss of us to suggest he do anything other than go to the pub. If he's looking for something other than that, he should say so and ask for advice. I'm not going to guess his motives and desires.

ok ok you got me I totally agree. but I still stick by my comment o woman pulling men they just wouldn't do away from here lol

You keep holding on to that thought with both hands "

will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them. "

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok ok you got me I totally agree. but I still stick by my comment o woman pulling men they just wouldn't do away from here lol "

I actually don't disagree with this point, generally. I never got chatted up when I was single. We get messages from guys who never showed an interest in me when I was single. Based on physical looks alone, I'm sure I get offers here I didn't in the pub.

But three points: (1) Men seem to consistently make the mistake in believing these are the guys us women want to fuck, (2) Men only have themselves to blame for this. I won't blame women for choosing their best option when it's being offered to them by men. And (3) if you truly believe it, then you should be the first person to suggest the OP go to the pub for sex because his chances would be better, based on your metric.

To me it's all quite simple - address the audience in front of you, not the audience you wish were in front of you. Or, put in the terms of the thread, instead of men complaining about what is wrong with the way things are (for example, women getting men you think are "above them") instead figure out how to work the system the way it is. You said people weren't being helpful when they told the OP to go to the pub, but I would say your input has been some of the least helpful on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all. "

It's a hard life for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all. "

Really? Are you unapproachable? If not, then they will just be intimidated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok ok you got me I totally agree. but I still stick by my comment o woman pulling men they just wouldn't do away from here lol

I actually don't disagree with this point, generally. I never got chatted up when I was single. We get messages from guys who never showed an interest in me when I was single. Based on physical looks alone, I'm sure I get offers here I didn't in the pub.

But three points: (1) Men seem to consistently make the mistake in believing these are the guys us women want to fuck, (2) Men only have themselves to blame for this. I won't blame women for choosing their best option when it's being offered to them by men. And (3) if you truly believe it, then you should be the first person to suggest the OP go to the pub for sex because his chances would be better, based on your metric.

To me it's all quite simple - address the audience in front of you, not the audience you wish were in front of you. Or, put in the terms of the thread, instead of men complaining about what is wrong with the way things are (for example, women getting men you think are "above them") instead figure out how to work the system the way it is. You said people weren't being helpful when they told the OP to go to the pub, but I would say your input has been some of the least helpful on here."

true lol ok here it goes OP try maybe uploading a couple face pics for the people viewing your profile to see and add a little bit about what your looking for on here and try relating to the person profile when sending your opening message. stick around and it just might work out for you.. BETTER?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady

well get off here and back into the real world..

its hardly rocket science

there's always one

Make that two"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why even compare the pub with Fab. People go out to a pub or a nightclub and go 'on the pull'. That's an entirely different experience than what it typically on offer from a website specialising in swinging. It's a bit like when guys say they get more meets from Tinder. But the websites, although there is overlap, specialise in different things. For who just want one-on-one NSA sex, many are likely to find it much easier through other avenues.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all.

Really? Are you unapproachable? If not, then they will just be intimidated."

I have resting bitch face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women on here aren't d*unk.

Speak for yourself

"Most" women on here aren't d*unk.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all.

Really? Are you unapproachable? If not, then they will just be intimidated.

I have resting bitch face "

The places I frequent aren't full of pussy hungry studs, out to get an easy fuck.

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all. "

Hahha u do talk shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get why so many people are telling him to go to the pub then. I get more success in person at pubs and similar events but l don't like bustling places and drink involved. Maybe other men are the same?

He implies that he does go to the pub though. He's the one who introduced the idea of him at the pub, it's not like the suggestions came out of nowhere.

Oh. Maybe he prefers to sit with his mates and watch the game? Those wretched girls are obviously harrassing the poor fellow. Tip to women scared of sexually harrassing men at the pub, if your eyes meet over the KP nuts and there is tension, he probably just wants to eat them.

I wouldn't know, I never get chatted up at the pub. I'm one of those women who doesn't pull in real life and should be grateful to get any dick at all.

Really? Are you unapproachable? If not, then they will just be intimidated.

I have resting bitch face

The places I frequent aren't full of pussy hungry studs, out to get an easy fuck. "

That too...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations."

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes "

where in penge is this lol??

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes

where in penge is this lol?? "

Ask Shag; he spent a whole year behind the bushes having the time of his life

Women were hitting the emergency brakes with the ABS switched off as they rushed from their cars and formed an orderly queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes "
That is right they are, it is the bush on the right side in penge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes That is right they are, it is the bush on the right side in penge "

ill keep a look out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

I'm doing ok !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes That is right they are, it is the bush on the right side in penge

ill keep a look out lol"
lol yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes

where in penge is this lol??

Ask Shag; he spent a whole year behind the bushes having the time of his life

Women were hitting the emergency brakes with the ABS switched off as they rushed from their cars and formed an orderly queue "
That is right, there need to be traffic lights to form the queue

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

So in conclusion.

Go to the pub, more beer, more opportunities and fab is mobile.

So a winning combination all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes "

Those bushes are growing babies, there's so much semen on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes

Those bushes are growing babies, there's so much semen on them."

I thought he had to move away there was so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because online many have unrealistic expectations.

But in the big wide world, they are all rushing to Penge to 'milk' c*cks behind the bushes

Those bushes are growing babies, there's so much semen on them.

I thought he had to move away there was so much "
lol yes, lots of semen on them too. I have moved, but it is in the same area. I am now in bromley, just 4 miles from penge, so not far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

What pubs do you go to? I've never gone home with a lady after a trip to the pub.

Maybe that's saying more about me than anything!

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

You have nothing on your profile. I'd stick to pubs if I were you!

And like others have asked...where's this pub??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when I go to pub I can get a lady for sex . But from this site I'm never get any lady "

In Portsmouth, just too easy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some strange desease !! women in fab want QUALITY sexual encounters not quantity we also know what we want!! True swingers as this is not a "sex" for just having "sex" sight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beer googles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he's put pics up, like as advised to.

when people can't speak our language have you ever thought it might be hard for him to converse with us and that's why he's not replying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've obviously never been till my local ????

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the moral of this thread is, drink more.

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