FabSwingers.com forum: UNLOS just before a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is not an "Oh poor me!" rant. I am well used to keyboard wankers wasting my time.

No, the questions is this:-

A guy was invited to our hotel meet tomorrow and he has just gone UNLOS. Sadly we told him the venue and time before he went.

Has anyone else had that happen? Did you get any unwelcome attention from hotel staff, press, etc. as a result? Is there anything we need to be concerned about in your experience????

For the avoidance of doubt for those wishing to state the Bloody Obvious!!

Yes they have the right to leave the site.

Yes it may have been a mistake.

Yes people have the right to not turn up.

Yes this happens - suck it up!

No, they don't have to give a reason for pulling out without a word 12 hours be the meet.

Yes people have a life outside Fab.

Etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to be concerned about, fantasy vs reality for the UNLOS'd person is likely the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about staff or press...he probably got cold feet when it became too real...post a meet and get a stunt cock in and enjoy your night. It's not like he knows your names and room number is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't worry about staff or press...he probably got cold feet when it became too real...post a meet and get a stunt cock in and enjoy your night. It's not like he knows your names and room number is it?"

True. Room number yes but we have his picture, convo and mobile number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the avoidance of doubt for those wishing to state the Bloody Obvious!!

Yes they have the right to leave the site.

Yes it may have been a mistake.

Yes people have the right to not turn up.

Yes this happens - suck it up!

No, they don't have to give a reason for pulling out without a word 12 hours be the meet.

Yes people have a life outside Fab.

Etc.

Love this part of your post. Doubtless the usual know-it-alls will set you right !

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

UNLESS? ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"UNLESS? ???"

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

UNLOS ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"UNLESS? ???"

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"we have his picture, convo and mobile number.

Ring him and ask if he's still attending? Meeting him wasn't contingent on him staying on the site, was it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"UNLESS? ???"

No. ONLOS

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

Thanks, yes a fair percentage of new ads, maybe 10-20% become UNLOS within a few days (always curious to know their stories)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we have his picture, convo and mobile number.

Ring him and ask if he's still attending? Meeting him wasn't contingent on him staying on the site, was it?"

Interesting thought???

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"we have his picture, convo and mobile number.

Ring him and ask if he's still attending? Meeting him wasn't contingent on him staying on the site, was it?

Interesting thought???"

This! He might be still up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry he won't show up unannounced.........but I would suggest you start working on a few back up guys now....

Getting a decent meet the same day can be a daunting task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah get in touch with him and mention you notice he left the site so are wondering if he's still interested in meeting, also mention that it's fine if he is not so that he can let you down there and then and not make excuses or mess you about.

"Don't worry he won't show up unannounced.........but I would suggest you start working on a few back up guys now....

Getting a decent meet the same day can be a daunting task.

not for single women, it's dead easy to get a meet when you want one. can take about an hour to find who you want if you're fussy, if not fussy 10 mins max.

i also think he won't show up unnanounced.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yeah get in touch with him and mention you notice he left the site so are wondering if he's still interested in meeting, also mention that it's fine if he is not so that he can let you down there and then and not make excuses or mess you about.

Don't worry he won't show up unannounced.........but I would suggest you start working on a few back up guys now....

Getting a decent meet the same day can be a daunting task.

not for single women, it's dead easy to get a meet when you want one. can take about an hour to find who you want if you're fussy, if not fussy 10 mins max.

i also think he won't show up unnanounced."

Thanks. His place was filled in 15 mins. I always have reserves.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"This is not an "Oh poor me!" rant. I am well used to keyboard wankers wasting my time.

No, the questions is this:-

A guy was invited to our hotel meet tomorrow and he has just gone UNLOS. Sadly we told him the venue and time before he went.

Has anyone else had that happen? Did you get any unwelcome attention from hotel staff, press, etc. as a result? Is there anything we need to be concerned about in your experience????

For the avoidance of doubt for those wishing to state the Bloody Obvious!!

Yes they have the right to leave the site.

Yes it may have been a mistake.

Yes people have the right to not turn up.

Yes this happens - suck it up!

No, they don't have to give a reason for pulling out without a word 12 hours be the meet.

Yes people have a life outside Fab.

Etc.

Looks like you was wank fodder

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

There are lots of people that talk the talk but can't go thro with a meet

It happened to us before was actually at the hotel and he said he was just in his car and would be 30 mins then never showed ! Went unlos and never seen or heard of again ... we had a reserve too but can be annoying especially if hotels are booked and paid for ...

Don't worry too much and I'm sure with your reserve you will have a better night anyway x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Don't worry he won't show up unannounced.........but I would suggest you start working on a few back up guys now....

Getting a decent meet the same day can be a daunting task.

5 mins max for two arms/and or two legs

A whole half an hour if I get picky and ranty

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Cold feet by the sounds of it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My thoughts: he changed his mind. He hadn't promised me a kidney so, plan b.

Wouldn't waste a nanosecond on him after that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My thoughts: he changed his mind. He hadn't promised me a kidney so, plan b.

Wouldn't waste a nanosecond on him after that. "

I didn't but had a fleeting thought _ "Sun on Sunday"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry he won't show up unannounced.........but I would suggest you start working on a few back up guys now....

Getting a decent meet the same day can be a daunting task.

not for single women, it's dead easy to get a meet when you want one. can take about an hour to find who you want if you're fussy, if not fussy 10 mins max.

i also think he won't show up unnanounced.

Thanks. His place was filled in 15 mins. I always have reserves.

good.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"My thoughts: he changed his mind. He hadn't promised me a kidney so, plan b.

Wouldn't waste a nanosecond on him after that.

I didn't but had a fleeting thought _ "Sun on Sunday"

As long as he doesn't have your face photograph in the nude or real name, then it won't matter

"Woman wants sex in hotel room" won't make much of a story

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

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"UNLESS? ???

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Thanks I was trying to work it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My thoughts: he changed his mind. He hadn't promised me a kidney so, plan b.

Wouldn't waste a nanosecond on him after that.

I didn't but had a fleeting thought _ "Sun on Sunday"

As long as he doesn't have your face photograph in the nude or real name, then it won't matter

"Woman wants sex in hotel room" won't make much of a story"

You are right!!

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

If a guy doesnt show up when invited i very much doubt he will show up uninvited so wouldnt worry,its guys like that who give us genuine guys a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy doesnt show up when invited i very much doubt he will show up uninvited so wouldnt worry,its guys like that who give us genuine guys a bad name."

Every single one says they are genuine. They all Won't let us down. They agree how bad it is to just not turn up.

Then they do exactly the same thing they just condemned. They are not just timewasters. They as liars too.

But never mind. There are a lot of men on Fab...

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Had two of these in the last week. Neither was a new profile either. I checked but my armpits don't smell so not sure why it is....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My first thoughts are he was a fantasist who didn't have the balls to meet you. Plenty who will I expect.

I've never had any problems from hotel staff apart from them trying to get into the room to clean it!!!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I tend to take pity on those who get cold feet after all that's what is happening 99 percent of the time in the situation you describe op .

imagine wishing to live a more exciting life but lacking the courage to pursue that dream .

must be a terrible place to be in and for those reasons people who bottle it have my sympathy after all its them who are suffering in the long run mot those they don't meet .

well that how i see it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to take pity on those who get cold feet after all that's what is happening 99 percent of the time in the situation you describe op .

imagine wishing to live a more exciting life but lacking the courage to pursue that dream .

must be a terrible place to be in and for those reasons people who bottle it have my sympathy after all its them who are suffering in the long run mot those they don't meet .

well that how i see it . "

"Sorry but I cannot come."

5 fucking seconds!!!

That is all it takes!! Why not send a message?

It's because those ones are not only spineless they also don't give a shit about the person who invited them.

Let's not make any excuses for them. I have had guys turn up and get problems with their erections - no worries I sympathise. I have had them pull out at the last minute with a message - Annoying. To just not turn up? Words fail me - inconsiderant shits.

Ah! That is better.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I tend to take pity on those who get cold feet after all that's what is happening 99 percent of the time in the situation you describe op .

imagine wishing to live a more exciting life but lacking the courage to pursue that dream .

must be a terrible place to be in and for those reasons people who bottle it have my sympathy after all its them who are suffering in the long run mot those they don't meet .

well that how i see it .

"Sorry but I cannot come."

5 fucking seconds!!!

That is all it takes!! Why not send a message?

It's because those ones are not only spineless they also don't give a shit about the person who invited them.

Ah! That is better.

everything you wrote is logical and true but has giving voice to your annoyance changed anything no .

embarrassment plays apart in people not messaging avoidance of the problem is another reason all signs of a weak individual .

I actively choose not to get annoyed by the actions of weak individuals I pity their weakness because its holding them back not me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to take pity on those who get cold feet after all that's what is happening 99 percent of the time in the situation you describe op .

imagine wishing to live a more exciting life but lacking the courage to pursue that dream .

must be a terrible place to be in and for those reasons people who bottle it have my sympathy after all its them who are suffering in the long run mot those they don't meet .

well that how i see it .

"Sorry but I cannot come."

5 fucking seconds!!!

That is all it takes!! Why not send a message?

It's because those ones are not only spineless they also don't give a shit about the person who invited them.

Ah! That is better.

everything you wrote is logical and true but has giving voice to your annoyance changed anything no .

embarrassment plays apart in people not messaging avoidance of the problem is another reason all signs of a weak individual .

I actively choose not to get annoyed by the actions of weak individuals I pity their weakness because its holding them back not me . "

That is a way of looking at it.

I am fine really. Its just once I was really ill and had to cancel the meet. I messaged everyone and apologised but still felt like shit for letting them down. I could not disrespect anyone by just ignoring them.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I tend to take pity on those who get cold feet after all that's what is happening 99 percent of the time in the situation you describe op .

imagine wishing to live a more exciting life but lacking the courage to pursue that dream .

must be a terrible place to be in and for those reasons people who bottle it have my sympathy after all its them who are suffering in the long run mot those they don't meet .

well that how i see it .

"Sorry but I cannot come."

5 fucking seconds!!!

That is all it takes!! Why not send a message?

It's because those ones are not only spineless they also don't give a shit about the person who invited them.

Ah! That is better.

everything you wrote is logical and true but has giving voice to your annoyance changed anything no .

embarrassment plays apart in people not messaging avoidance of the problem is another reason all signs of a weak individual .

I actively choose not to get annoyed by the actions of weak individuals I pity their weakness because its holding them back not me .

That is a way of looking at it.

I would feel exactly the same but I have learnt over the years to not expect to much from my fellow human beings that way I'm never annoyed by any actions that go against how I choose to interact with people on here,.

that way I never get annoyed by the actions of others which means i have a happier life that way than i would if i allowed the action of relative strangers to effect me .

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UNLOS just before a meet - thoughts?