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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you fly right past if this is the case? Just wondering if when I get going things move faster ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have been on for a very long time with no veries I am suspicious that they don't really want to meet. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of you fly right past if this is the case? Just wondering if when I get going things move faster ??? "

Lack of verifications does not worry us. We are more interest in the quality of the profile. A bare one with little information would be more likely to put us off.

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By *r.GenuineMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Typically I wouldnt meet a lady unless she was verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met plenty of non-verified men, it's not one of the things that bothers me.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Well, that escalated quickly....

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire

Never worried me I've met plenty if unverified people over the years.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"How many of you fly right past if this is the case? Just wondering if when I get going things move faster ??? "

I wouldn't meet a woman or a couple who do not have a few verifications after 3 months of being on this site

They may really be a woman or a couple (as in, not just some silly sad bloke w*nk*ing behind a keyboard), but I wouldn't take the chance when there is plenty more to choose from

With men, it is different. I have yet to meet a woman who was posing as a man on a profile here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, that escalated quickly...."

did it? where?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally what a total stranger thinks about another total stranger is of zero interest to me when deciding who to meet

I've managed to meet, marry and have relationships without the validation of others.

Lack of photos/profile text is the decider.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We wouldn't plan a private play meet with an unverified member.

If they were unverified and everything else seemed fine then a club meet would be our main way forward, or potentially a social at pub if they were local.

The thing is, it's so easy to get a meet veri for someone who genuinly wants to meet, it's better for everyone if they just get one from popping in to a club or organised social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, that escalated quickly...."

Hardly but just goes to show you shouldn't air your dirty laundry in the forums as you never know who is either looking or lurking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet non verified people ..

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"It wasn't your lack of veri that meant I didn't meet you, it was what you said about feeling guilty re your wife. I don't want to be anyone's regret....."

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We don't actually read the verifications most of the time but we do like them to have at least one because then we know they actually meet and that they match their pictures etc we are still happy to talk if they don't tho although if they have been on the site say a year and have no verification the mr can be abit like hmm they should have met somebody by now where as I'm like but you don't know what their circumstances are they may have been unable to for whatever reason. For example we joined and before we had chance to meet anybody I found out I was pregnant so we put it on hold until after the baby was here but we kept our profile active so people would look and be like they have been here a year and no meets...we found that when we started attending clubs and people started verifying us it opened up meet opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they have been on for a very long time with no veries I am suspicious that they don't really want to meet. X"

What makes you think this is the only site we get meets on Fab is like a meat market! I get meets on RL and other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me if they have been on over a yr and no veri would put me off as unfortunately i have come across several time wasters like that, so now i would ignore them, however if less than a yr as long as they are photo verified i may take a chance, i find it easier to bring up the lack of veris when chatting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be real. Someone who isnt verified has a greater chance of being a timewaster. Its a bit like the ebay feedback rating. I run into people who are uncomfortable with the fact I dont have veri's and parlay any anxiety with a phone/skype call.

I tend to find that there are ALOT of timewasters on this site so I cant complain at people for being cautious.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No veri = No meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of verifications doesn't bother us as we don't read them anyway and to be honest we dont have many as we don't always verify or recieve them from meets as they really don't serve a purpose one to prove your genuine is all that's really needed. Also have you ever read a bad verification ? But if they have no verifications and are not photo verified then we are cautious as to whether they are genuine or not especially when it's a couple or single fem. if we get contact from unverified and non photo verified people we insist on them getting photo verified before we chat , it's amazing how often your gut feeling is right and they never get photo verified.

Maybe try getting to a club or social event and meet a few people even socially to get some veri's just to show you are active and willing to meet.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only time i was stood up on my old single profile,was by a well verified man.I met people with out veries and never had a problem,we all have to start somewhere.

Miss

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