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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it " The OP is takling about F-to-M TVs. Rare, but they do exist  | |||
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"I had a few freak out and reconsider their gender preferences when I dressed for my avatar once. If that counts?" It kinda counts... | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it " It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it? | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Me neither! I think its the 'fuck as a man' part thats throwing me? " Never heard of pegging professor? | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it The OP is takling about F-to-M TVs. Rare, but they do exist "Ooooh - I see it now. Last time a thread like this ran, I recall, it turned south because it appeared to 'fetishize' FtM TS/TV/TG;s. | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it?" I am going out this evening with a straight girlfriend with me dressed in a Tuxedo  | |||
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" It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it?" Thinking of Annie Lennox in a suit and tie in many of the Eurythmics videos. Hell yes. | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it? I am going out this evening with a straight girlfriend with me dressed in a Tuxedo "See, now that's sexy right there!  | |||
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" It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it?Thinking of Annie Lennox in a suit and tie in many of the Eurythmics videos. Hell yes." | |||
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"I am going out this evening with a straight girlfriend with me dressed in a Tuxedo "Oh my... | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it? I am going out this evening with a straight girlfriend with me dressed in a Tuxedo "
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it It can't just be men that enjoy dressing as members of the opposite sex can it? I am going out this evening with a straight girlfriend with me dressed in a Tuxedo
Can we have a pic? "I will definitely be posing for a few and will upload the bestest, bestest one on my profile; I don't get these kind of opportunities, often  | |||
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" Come on you beauties! If you're a woman that likes to dress and fuck as a man show yourselves! Have any of you gone to town and 'passed'? "Says the guy whos only pic is his left eye lol | |||
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" Come on you beauties! If you're a woman that likes to dress and fuck as a man show yourselves! Have any of you gone to town and 'passed'?
Says the guy whos only pic is his left eye lol"How is that a problem for you? | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it " I believe they're looking for F M transvestites | |||
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" Come on you beauties! If you're a woman that likes to dress and fuck as a man show yourselves! Have any of you gone to town and 'passed'?
Says the guy whos only pic is his left eye lol
How is that a problem for you?"You asking ppl to show themselves when you don't bit obvious really isn't it | |||
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" Come on you beauties! If you're a woman that likes to dress and fuck as a man show yourselves! Have any of you gone to town and 'passed'?
Says the guy whos only pic is his left eye lol
How is that a problem for you?
You asking ppl to show themselves when you don't bit obvious really isn't it"As in say "Hi" here....  | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it " Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority " I am not cross at all; I kinda enjoy it | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority " Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? " In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. However because of porn, there is a large fetishism and popularisation of mtf transpeople, which means that clubs make a big thing out of it and blokes make a big thing out of it. You'll find the ftm transpeople just kind of... getting on with it in every day life and not having their gender fetishised. I suspect if you think about it harder, people born with female bodies have always been more objectified and oppressed than people born with male bodies. So most of the ftm people that I know avoid any outward display that they are ftm, because they don't want to be further fetishised and oppressed than they already were before they started undergoing treatment. People who were born with male bodies don't have that kind of experience going into their treatment. | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? " Dont know if it is a fetish in the main OP for some its their true life,being transgendered,some crossdress for sexual kicks (is that what classes as a fetish? Myself i dress because the girl i become is far better looking than my male self,plus its nice to glam up from my male life/work | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? Dont know if it is a fetish in the main OP for some its their true life,being transgendered,some crossdress for sexual kicks (is that what classes as a fetish? Myself i dress because the girl i become is far better looking than my male self,plus its nice to glam up from my male life/work " Very interesting I'm sure, but I'm not talking about TS's otherwise i would have mentioned them in my OP. | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. " I don't think that translates to Fab. There is certainly not a mix of 50/50 women dressing as men who class themeselves as TV/CD. And again this thread is NOT about Transsexuals. Someone once described TV's to me as "jaded wankers". A man wanks, he gets bored. He watches porn and wanks, Then gets bored of that to. He watches porn and wonders what it would be like to be the woman and wanks, then gets bored. So he does it again this time he wears his wife's knickers... so and so forth until lo and behold he can only cum when he's dressed up like a transvestite. Essentially endorphin chasing. Sometimes I'm inclined to agree. | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. I don't think that translates to Fab. There is certainly not a mix of 50/50 women dressing as men who class themeselves as TV/CD. And again this thread is NOT about Transsexuals. Someone once described TV's to me as "jaded wankers". A man wanks, he gets bored. He watches porn and wanks, Then gets bored of that to. He watches porn and wonders what it would be like to be the woman and wanks, then gets bored. So he does it again this time he wears his wife's knickers... so and so forth until lo and behold he can only cum when he's dressed up like a transvestite. Essentially endorphin chasing. Sometimes I'm inclined to agree. " and what about the guys who wank over TV pics.there's many of those out there.I am not a cock in a frock .I find that offensive.I'm not chasing any endorphins either.I'm not too keen on them | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. I don't think that translates to Fab. There is certainly not a mix of 50/50 women dressing as men who class themeselves as TV/CD. And again this thread is NOT about Transsexuals. Someone once described TV's to me as "jaded wankers". A man wanks, he gets bored. He watches porn and wanks, Then gets bored of that to. He watches porn and wonders what it would be like to be the woman and wanks, then gets bored. So he does it again this time he wears his wife's knickers... so and so forth until lo and behold he can only cum when he's dressed up like a transvestite. Essentially endorphin chasing. Sometimes I'm inclined to agree. " 'Transexual' is an old fashioned term that some people used to mean transgender and some people use to mean crossdresser. Are you referring to transmen or women who crossdress as men? | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. I don't think that translates to Fab. There is certainly not a mix of 50/50 women dressing as men who class themeselves as TV/CD. And again this thread is NOT about Transsexuals. Someone once described TV's to me as "jaded wankers". A man wanks, he gets bored. He watches porn and wanks, Then gets bored of that to. He watches porn and wonders what it would be like to be the woman and wanks, then gets bored. So he does it again this time he wears his wife's knickers... so and so forth until lo and behold he can only cum when he's dressed up like a transvestite. Essentially endorphin chasing. Sometimes I'm inclined to agree. 'Transexual' is an old fashioned term that some people used to mean transgender and some people use to mean crossdresser. Are you referring to transmen or women who crossdress as men?" I'm not referring to people who believe that their birth gender is incorrect. | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. I don't think that translates to Fab. There is certainly not a mix of 50/50 women dressing as men who class themeselves as TV/CD. And again this thread is NOT about Transsexuals. Someone once described TV's to me as "jaded wankers". A man wanks, he gets bored. He watches porn and wanks, Then gets bored of that to. He watches porn and wonders what it would be like to be the woman and wanks, then gets bored. So he does it again this time he wears his wife's knickers... so and so forth until lo and behold he can only cum when he's dressed up like a transvestite. Essentially endorphin chasing. Sometimes I'm inclined to agree. 'Transexual' is an old fashioned term that some people used to mean transgender and some people use to mean crossdresser. Are you referring to transmen or women who crossdress as men? I'm not referring to people who believe that their birth gender is incorrect." So what's the difference between a ftm crossdresser, and a woman who wears trousers? (I'm pretty sure *I* know when it comes to my friends, but what's your thoughts?) | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. I don't think that translates to Fab. There is certainly not a mix of 50/50 women dressing as men who class themeselves as TV/CD. And again this thread is NOT about Transsexuals. Someone once described TV's to me as "jaded wankers". A man wanks, he gets bored. He watches porn and wanks, Then gets bored of that to. He watches porn and wonders what it would be like to be the woman and wanks, then gets bored. So he does it again this time he wears his wife's knickers... so and so forth until lo and behold he can only cum when he's dressed up like a transvestite. Essentially endorphin chasing. Sometimes I'm inclined to agree. 'Transexual' is an old fashioned term that some people used to mean transgender and some people use to mean crossdresser. Are you referring to transmen or women who crossdress as men? I'm not referring to people who believe that their birth gender is incorrect. So what's the difference between a ftm crossdresser, and a woman who wears trousers? (I'm pretty sure *I* know when it comes to my friends, but what's your thoughts?)" Well would a woman wearing trousers be wearing a pair styled for women or for men? Are they sized in dress size or waist/ inside leg? | |||
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"Are you d*unk? I don't get it Not all crossdressers are male to female...but female to male in a very some minority Why do you think its a male fetish in the main? It obviously is, but why? In my experience, it's generally not such variance of numbers. At the gender clinics with the NHS in my experience it's always been about 50/50 in the waiting rooms. However because of porn, there is a large fetishism and popularisation of mtf transpeople, which means that clubs make a big thing out of it and blokes make a big thing out of it. You'll find the ftm transpeople just kind of... getting on with it in every day life and not having their gender fetishised. I suspect if you think about it harder, people born with female bodies have always been more objectified and oppressed than people born with male bodies. So most of the ftm people that I know avoid any outward display that they are ftm, because they don't want to be further fetishised and oppressed than they already were before they started undergoing treatment. People who were born with male bodies don't have that kind of experience going into their treatment." Wise words | |||
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" Well would a woman wearing trousers be wearing a pair styled for women or for men? Are they sized in dress size or waist/ inside leg? " I have trousers bought from womens clothes shops, made for women, with waist and inner leg measurements. (I also have and wear men's cut trousers, mind you.) | |||
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" Well would a woman wearing trousers be wearing a pair styled for women or for men? Are they sized in dress size or waist/ inside leg? I have trousers bought from womens clothes shops, made for women, with waist and inner leg measurements. (I also have and wear men's cut trousers, mind you.)" That's great! | |||
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"In my experience male to female *crossdressing* is far more common because the vast majority of the men who engage in this sort of practice do it as a form of humiliation. It's *humiliating* to wear clothes that are typically defined as 'female' and so it feeds into a humiliation kink. There are some guys who do it because they like the fabrics and cuts of the clothes too, but they are much rarer (and they are the only type of crossdressers I'll meet personally). Women have always been able to wear mens clothes. Someone on the thread above said they're going out wearing a tux - so what? Women have been wearing trousers as part of their daily dress since the 1920s. There's nothing taboo about a woman wearing a trouser suit anymore. But blokes don't have the same freedom to wear skirts." All fair points. I actually find the opposite with my crossdressing, it makes me feel powerful, not humiliating but then I suppose on some level in my head I'm becoming something I find very sexy, someone wearing sexy undies. On the fabrics side, I did have some therapy when I was struggling to come to terms with my kink and this came up and i think there is definitely some of that too. the fabrics, the lace, both tactile and visual, the range of styles. Your final point is also true. If a woman wears jeans and shirt, no one bats an eyelid but if a guy wears a skirt or the wrong undies, OMG! Get thee behind me Satan! | |||
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"Sometimes people you just need to recognise that the guy is a dick and move on to another thread. If anyone is doing to much wanking I think we can all figure out who it is.....a one eyed wonder." Such a bitchy comment lolz | |||
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"Sometimes people you just need to recognise that the guy is a dick and move on to another thread. If anyone is doing to much wanking I think we can all figure out who it is.....a one eyed wonder. Such a bitchy comment lolz "But the nail was properly hit square on head though  | |||
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"Sometimes people you just need to recognise that the guy is a dick and move on to another thread. If anyone is doing to much wanking I think we can all figure out who it is.....a one eyed wonder. Such a bitchy comment lolz "But true | |||
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"Sometimes people you just need to recognise that the guy is a dick and move on to another thread. If anyone is doing to much wanking I think we can all figure out who it is.....a one eyed wonder. Such a bitchy comment lolz
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"I guess I am not as daring as some here but I got my kicks and that was good enough for me [ signed: shrinking wallflower ] "As long as you enjoyed yourself, that's what counts. | |||
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"I'm queer and often dress and pass as a man. I'm not a 'transvestite' though. That's a pretty old fashioned and offensive word. I'm trangender, if you must label." How is transvestite an offensive word? it is the proper name as someone who doesn't identify as the gender they dress as, but enjoys dressing as that gender none the less, completely different to transgender or non binary genders. Not offensive. | |||
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"I'm queer and often dress and pass as a man. I'm not a 'transvestite' though. That's a pretty old fashioned and offensive word. I'm trangender, if you must label. How is transvestite an offensive word? it is the proper name as someone who doesn't identify as the gender they dress as, but enjoys dressing as that gender none the less, completely different to transgender or non binary genders. Not offensive." She takes offensive professionally. | |||
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" She takes offensive professionally." then they should know better, being a professional and all :P | |||
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"Sometimes people you just need to recognise that the guy is a dick and move on to another thread. If anyone is doing to much wanking I think we can all figure out who it is.....a one eyed wonder." Your right every day we think people can't get any Stupider, and then he proves us wrong!! | |||
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"Sometimes people you just need to recognise that the guy is a dick and move on to another thread. If anyone is doing to much wanking I think we can all figure out who it is.....a one eyed wonder." He appears to be fluent in the language bollocks which is a rich and vibrant language that enables the speaker to sound knowledgeable despite being what most of us would call ‘a knob’. | |||
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