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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston

Hi, I just wondered if any of you lovely people have gotten close or intimate with someone from the forums?

It could be friendship not just a meet or even true romance, of sorts

Please share, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a relationship or romance, but i've ended up meeting someone and he's turned out to be my most enjoyable meet off here overall.

if he'd just messaged me i wouldn't have entertained the idea as he's really far away. so yeah it happened through/because of the forums.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Met a few people we have had good banter with, but not a relationship as such. We met and our relationship developed from a 'nice tits' message

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, it's not something I seek.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, I think so. Time will tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, three meets so far and none of them came to anything much.

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston


"not a relationship or romance, but i've ended up meeting someone and he's turned out to be my most enjoyable meet off here overall.

if he'd just messaged me i wouldn't have entertained the idea as he's really far away. so yeah it happened through/because of the forums. "

That's positive, your most enjoyable meet

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston

People I have spoken to in the real world have said that the forums often give a wider _iew of someone rather than a pm. I guess they have more of a chance to share _iews generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No body talks to me. Most just delete me. I am open and honest. Well educated and polite. For some reason people don't seem to like that on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have spoken to in the real world have said that the forums often give a wider _iew of someone rather than a pm. I guess they have more of a chance to share _iews generally "

kind of.

i didn't used to use the forums much when i was first on here (too busy meeting) but when i started using them more i noticed some of the guys i had already met were better than they represented themselves in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not necessarily something I seek but I've met a few from the forums and it's never been a disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met any on forum as most in england but chat a lot with couple of folk from it.they're really lovely

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"No body talks to me. Most just delete me. I am open and honest. Well educated and polite. For some reason people don't seem to like that on here... "

It's because you are a faceless wonder

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"People I have spoken to in the real world have said that the forums often give a wider _iew of someone rather than a pm. I guess they have more of a chance to share _iews generally "

I can see why that would make sense

Its also a great filter in knowing who to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've made several good friends through the forums. I'm off on holiday with one in a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No....

Far too pedantic & self opinionated in here, in real life we are pussycats xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I havent met anyone from the forum yet. I might do it one day.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I think I've chatted to most of my meets through the forums

At least you can tell if your sense of humours click

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Yes, several amazing people. A couple have left and one is less active but we talk daily about anything and everything.

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By *nthonysssCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

It must be your brilliant very artistic pictures

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"No body talks to me. Most just delete me. I am open and honest. Well educated and polite. For some reason people don't seem to like that on here... "

Women honestly love that mate. I'm no legend on here, but the women I have made some level of connection with have made have all said how much they value politeness etc.

Maybe have a look a little closer to home - I mean that in a supportive way. There's always things we can do to improve how we present ourselves

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I've made some valued online friendships through the forums.

There's some good people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I found my partner here.

And several close friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No body talks to me. Most just delete me. I am open and honest. Well educated and polite. For some reason people don't seem to like that on here...

It's because you are a faceless wonder "

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london


"It's not necessarily something I seek but I've met a few from the forums and it's never been a disaster "

Why hello

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It happened for us on here. Swapped face pics on face pic friday. Been a couple for 14 months now.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I've got a couple I talk to daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy we chat to every now and again and would love to hook up with, messaged us from a post in the forums.

H x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"No. I havent met anyone from the forum yet. I might do it one day."

We'll meet you in IKEA one day, Shag .... and eat their meatballs ....

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"No....

Far too pedantic & self opinionated in here, in real life we are pussycats xx"

That is me too. Mr doesn't come on the forums and I am far more opinionated here than in real life. Truth is, I don't care what anyone else does, but it is fascinating what lengths others will go to to get their point across ...

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By *un biguyMan
over a year ago

belfast


"One guy we chat to every now and again and would love to hook up with, messaged us from a post in the forums.

H x"

But you blocked me !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm not very sociable.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"not a relationship or romance, but i've ended up meeting someone and he's turned out to be my most enjoyable meet off here overall.

if he'd just messaged me i wouldn't have entertained the idea as he's really far away. so yeah it happened through/because of the forums. "

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I'll let you know in a couple of weeks.......

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I met my best guy friend of over 4 years on Fab.

I have some other people I consider to be real friends too

I did have a bit of a relationship with someone for 18 months but that was a waste of time in the end

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I met my best guy friend of over 4 years on Fab.

I have some other people I consider to be real friends too

I did have a bit of a relationship with someone for 18 months but that was a waste of time in the end "

I answered that wrong, yes I have met and made actual friends via the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to some people from the forums and a few I hang out with on occasion. It's nice to have people dotted around the country who are up for a drink and a meal when we happen to be in the same place. There are some genuinely nice people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of people from the forums.

2 of them have become very good friends who I chat to daily and see regulary for coffee and occasionally fun.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

Early days yet, but I am slowly getting more messages from fellow forumites than I'm sending out to 'locals'.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Have made some really good freinds thanks to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes became great friends with an American guy everyone hated. He was so sweet lol xx

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

Yeah from all the curvy people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one lady I chat to pretty much daily about anything and everything. We haven't managed to meet yet but it will definitely happen at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah from all the curvy people on here "

why try and spoil a nice thread? we get it already, you don't like fat or obese people and that's pretty much all anyone is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ive met a few - some i chat to quite a lot - one is going to be house guest this week - another im going to meet for lunch with - some ive played with - some i just chat with - love the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few from the forums who I chat to off site, some more frequently than others, its a different kind of friendship to those I've met in more coventional settings..

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's not necessarily something I seek but I've met a few from the forums and it's never been a disaster "

Same as this for me. Plus a few I haven't met but like chatting to. Some of the friends I chat to daily are fab related but rarely or only occasionally use the forums.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes....i have. Spoken with lovely people via the forums.

Pity some are too far away to meet and play...

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've made some great friends during my time on the forums. Some I've met and some I've yet to. Really good people. I don't think I'd have stuck it out as long as I have if it wasn't for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met any yet, but I've had some lovely chats with some and there's potential for friendship there. I hope so at least as I like them.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

met loads off of the forums, although not everyone id like to meet.

some socially and some i've played with, keep in contact with and, meet and play with again..and again..big hugs to all those who know, who they are, and hopefully, see you soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met loads off of the forums, although not everyone id like to meet.

some socially and some i've played with, keep in contact with and, meet and play with again..and again..big hugs to all those who know, who they are, and hopefully, see you soon xx "

and some are simply special all round xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and it was a great night

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Hi, I just wondered if any of you lovely people have gotten close or intimate with someone from the forums?

It could be friendship not just a meet or even true romance, of sorts

Please share, thanks "

NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah from all the curvy people on here "

Curvy people attract curvy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have in the past - Met a couple of ex forumites on a near weekly basis a year or 2 ago

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

When I was on here before, i got most of my meets if not all through the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've got a lot of good friends on fab they are my fab family. This is often the first place I come to if I need help advice or even just a cheer up. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone from the forums. There's a few people I'd really like to but it's the same old story.....far too many miles apart. Maybe one day though.......

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston


"I'll let you know in a couple of weeks....... "

Sounds intriguing

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston


"I think I've chatted to most of my meets through the forums

At least you can tell if your sense of humours click"

This is very true

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yeah from all the curvy people on here

Curvy people attract curvy people "

I disagree, I like slim men and I get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the people I talk to are a result of some forum acti - NEIL GAIMAN -vity. Usually it's a conversation about a common interest. That's why on many occ - 30 ROCK - asions I like to randomly say things I like in the middle of a forum reply.

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london


"Yeah from all the curvy people on here

Curvy people attract curvy people "

Love a curvy women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some lovely people and going to meet more in the future. Helps if you don't take the forums too seriously. Unfortunately there is the odd few but that's life. Stop hating and gain a sense of humour. Things may actually improve around here. Please don't make this another year of being offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with a few men off the back face pic Friday. I didn't talk to them on the forums previous to that or afterwards.

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By *Sin or Not 2SinCouple
over a year ago

A hop skip n a jump

Have met some really good friends thanks to the forums and we have had some fantastic meets too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No body talks to me. Most just delete me. I am open and honest. Well educated and polite. For some reason people don't seem to like that on here...

It's because you are a faceless wonder "

And you come from Accrington, I heard that people rarely meet or talk to ppm from there mate, try to change your location

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro

Have spoken to and met the one or two through forum chats and the banter therein. It's a little less come shag be know I'm the hotel next door and more about getting to know someone's giggleability and I hope there's a few more out there, there's even one or two on this thread that pique my gander lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them.

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston


"I had sex with a few men off the back face pic Friday. I didn't talk to them on the forums previous to that or afterwards."

Fair enough, no messing around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met at a Forum Social and chat to a couple of peeps. They are on my Friends List and I hope to see them again soon.

I have daily banter on kik with quite a few but they are not Forumites.. Past/Present lovers.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It can go either way, having a similar sense of humour or getting along chatting on a Internet forum doesn't guarantee compatibility in the bedroom

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Yes I have, just returned from a weekend at theirs...

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston


"It can go either way, having a similar sense of humour or getting along chatting on a Internet forum doesn't guarantee compatibility in the bedroom "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah - I'm chatting very nicely to a female I met on the forums and talk frequently to couples who I meet on here.

I think they're great way of introducing yourself and breaking the ice.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. "
you know i love ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. you know i love ya "

Oh Suzy, it's been a while.

I used to chat with Suzy on the forums, she teased and teased me. It never went any further but I think we had a good friendship!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. you know i love ya

Oh Suzy, it's been a while.

I used to chat with Suzy on the forums, she teased and teased me. It never went any further but I think we had a good friendship! "
i dont do teasing, thats not really my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. you know i love ya

Oh Suzy, it's been a while.

I used to chat with Suzy on the forums, she teased and teased me. It never went any further but I think we had a good friendship! i dont do teasing, thats not really my style"

Well, that has made me look a bit stupid, hasn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No body talks to me. Most just delete me. I am open and honest. Well educated and polite. For some reason people don't seem to like that on here...

It's because you are a faceless wonder

And you come from Accrington, I heard that people rarely meet or talk to ppm from there mate, try to change your location "

my sister is from accrington and shes had a lot of meets...and she expects the guys to take her out first.

it's funny coz the same guys message us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my fuck buddy after chatting a watersports thread. Still meeting over a year and a half later.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. you know i love ya

Oh Suzy, it's been a while.

I used to chat with Suzy on the forums, she teased and teased me. It never went any further but I think we had a good friendship! i dont do teasing, thats not really my style

Well, that has made me look a bit stupid, hasn't it! "
lying about my character at any time, will make you out to be stupid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. you know i love ya

Oh Suzy, it's been a while.

I used to chat with Suzy on the forums, she teased and teased me. It never went any further but I think we had a good friendship! i dont do teasing, thats not really my style

Well, that has made me look a bit stupid, hasn't it! lying about my character at any time, will make you out to be stupid.."

In answe to your question OP it seems like no, I have never built up a good friendship from the forums! Hah!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one or two

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston

Well I have yet to form any kind of relationship from the forums. The people I communicate with on here are all people I have met at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes I have.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Hi, I just wondered if any of you lovely people have gotten close or intimate with someone from the forums?

It could be friendship not just a meet or even true romance, of sorts

Please share, thanks "

My hands friendship with your arse was formed on the forum

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By *anillaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Kingston


"Hi, I just wondered if any of you lovely people have gotten close or intimate with someone from the forums?

It could be friendship not just a meet or even true romance, of sorts

Please share, thanks

My hands friendship with your arse was formed on the forum "

This is very true

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Came on here as a single fem many years ago and loved the fun on the forums. In one of the loved/hated "Would you fuck the one above" posts, replied to a guy, from miles away from me. Started chatting, he came to meet me a couple of weeks later, met again for a few times. The following August we created a couples profile and we still have the profile over 4 years later. So yes it can happen and work over long distances. Hence our profile name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had the pleasure of meeting some formite people and socials and met 2. I would like to think that we have become real friends, I feel we have but I can't speak for them. you know i love ya "

One forumite that a friendship developed from. Very nice person on and off fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not a relationship or romance, but i've ended up meeting someone and he's turned out to be my most enjoyable meet off here overall.

if he'd just messaged me i wouldn't have entertained the idea as he's really far away. so yeah it happened through/because of the forums. "

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