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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger but a fussy 1 I won't have sex with anybody there has to be an attraction. I have been to clubs in the past because there can be a good chance of nsa sex compared to dating, 1 night stands etc. I might not have the same views as swingers either. Is this considered morally wrong in the swinging world? Or is it OK to be a sex addict who goes to clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would having NSA sex in a club be wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would having NSA sex in a club be wrong ? "
Because my views don't necessarily align with swingers.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I would consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger but a fussy 1 I won't have sex with anybody there has to be an attraction. I have been to clubs in the past because there can be a good chance of nsa sex compared to dating, 1 night stands etc. I might not have the same views as swingers either. Is this considered morally wrong in the swinging world? Or is it OK to be a sex addict who goes to clubs?"

There are plenty on this site who aren't swingers in the traditional sense - you use the site as suits you....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You don't have a sex addiction. Sex addiction is when you will quite literally throw yourself at anyone, whoever they are. It's a real illness.

Having sex in a swingers club, which quite frankly is what a swingers club is for, is not sex addiction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have a sex addiction. Sex addiction is when you will quite literally throw yourself at anyone, whoever they are. It's a real illness.

Having sex in a swingers club, which quite frankly is what a swingers club is for, is not sex addiction."
Maybe I don't have it as extreme as others but i think i do in some form. It has affected relationships of mine in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger but a fussy 1 I won't have sex with anybody there has to be an attraction. I have been to clubs in the past because there can be a good chance of nsa sex compared to dating, 1 night stands etc. I might not have the same views as swingers either. Is this considered morally wrong in the swinging world? Or is it OK to be a sex addict who goes to clubs?"

you aren't a sex addict, as if you were you would be throwing yourself at anyone and everyone..

sex addiction is an illness..

you are just a man that enjoys sex..a lot

not everyone on here are swingers either and we each use the site differently...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger but a fussy 1 I won't have sex with anybody there has to be an attraction. I have been to clubs in the past because there can be a good chance of nsa sex compared to dating, 1 night stands etc. I might not have the same views as swingers either. Is this considered morally wrong in the swinging world? Or is it OK to be a sex addict who goes to clubs?"

A sex addict that won't have sex with just anyone? You're not a sex addict.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"You don't have a sex addiction. Sex addiction is when you will quite literally throw yourself at anyone, whoever they are. It's a real illness.

Having sex in a swingers club, which quite frankly is what a swingers club is for, is not sex addiction. Maybe I don't have it as extreme as others but i think i do in some form. It has affected relationships of mine in the past."

That's simple cheating, nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would having NSA sex in a club be wrong ? Because my views don't necessarily align with swingers."

From what you have written, we think you're more likely a swinger than an addict, just a swinger with a high sex drive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't have a sex addiction. Sex addiction is when you will quite literally throw yourself at anyone, whoever they are. It's a real illness.

Having sex in a swingers club, which quite frankly is what a swingers club is for, is not sex addiction. Maybe I don't have it as extreme as others but i think i do in some form. It has affected relationships of mine in the past.

That's simple cheating, nothing else. "
maybe it is as black and white as that I'm not sure. But I don't look for relationships because of it I'm not interested in the intimacy because im no good at it or monogamy so I I just use dating apps like tinder which isn't really considered a serious dating app. Then that is awkward because women want to go on proper dates very few looking for NSA. Then it lead me to clubs.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

None of them verified you. Did it happen a lot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None of them verified you. Did it happen a lot?"
I had a profile before been off the scene for a bit. Yeah several times.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't look for relationships because of it I'm not interested in the intimacy because im no good at it or monogamy so I I just use dating apps like tinder"

I don't look for relationships and am not interested in intimacy because I'm no good at it or monogamy so I just use Fab. I also visit clubs for NSA sex. I'm not a sex addict.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I would consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger but a fussy 1 I won't have sex with anybody there has to be an attraction. I have been to clubs in the past because there can be a good chance of nsa sex compared to dating, 1 night stands etc. I might not have the same views as swingers either. Is this considered morally wrong in the swinging world? Or is it OK to be a sex addict who goes to clubs?"

You can consider yourself to be whatever you want. It does not mean that you are that thing.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Sex addiction is a perfectly acceptable form of addiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but you're not a sex addict... you are just a regular man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't look for relationships because of it I'm not interested in the intimacy because im no good at it or monogamy so I I just use dating apps like tinder

I don't look for relationships and am not interested in intimacy because I'm no good at it or monogamy so I just use Fab. I also visit clubs for NSA sex. I'm not a sex addict."
I'm not sure then maybe I am just a regular guy like bbcnyc says haha but it doesn't seem that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful and do what makes you happy.... who cares what other people think??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is sex addiction even a thing? I thought the correct definition was "hypersexuality" which often tends to manifest itself in various "paraphilias" which essentially involve various forms of fetishism and deviant sexual behavior.

Are all swingers hypersexual? Possibly not, but there is almost certainly an overlap. Is hypersexuality healthy? No, especially if its not under control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would consider myself more of a sex addict than a swinger but a fussy 1 I won't have sex with anybody there has to be an attraction. I have been to clubs in the past because there can be a good chance of nsa sex compared to dating, 1 night stands etc. I might not have the same views as swingers either. Is this considered morally wrong in the swinging world? Or is it OK to be a sex addict who goes to clubs?

A sex addict that won't have sex with just anyone? You're not a sex addict. "

That's not really the case. A sex addiction is when sex interferes considerably with your every day life. So you could be only having sex with one person, for instance, but if you're watching pornography for eight hours a day, putting off seeing friends because you're watching cams online, or scouring sites *looking* for nsa sex instead of living a healthy life, then that could be a sex addiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you wouldn't necessarily be throwing yourself at everyone. i don't. although i have sometimes gone for guys i wouldnt be interested in i do not fuck anything in site.

i've even been faithful in relationships too.

although lack of control is a part of sex addiction it doesn't have to be. will explain better when i get back in a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you wouldn't necessarily be throwing yourself at everyone. i don't. although i have sometimes gone for guys i wouldnt be interested in i do not fuck anything in site.

i've even been faithful in relationships too.

although lack of control is a part of sex addiction it doesn't have to be. will explain better when i get back in a few hours."
interesting yeah I can control it to a degree but still have the desire to search for it etc when I guess I could be doing more normal things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you wouldn't necessarily be throwing yourself at everyone. i don't. although i have sometimes gone for guys i wouldnt be interested in i do not fuck anything in site.

i've even been faithful in relationships too.

although lack of control is a part of sex addiction it doesn't have to be. will explain better when i get back in a few hours.

interesting yeah I can control it to a degree but still have the desire to search for it etc when I guess I could be doing more normal things. "

so long as you don't become a pest or nuisance to others then sex addiction is kind of fine. it will only cause problems for you.

i guess there are some sex addicts who aren't fussy. like in the same way some drug addicts only like , some will take anything, and some drinkers only like fine wines yet others will drink mouthwash, and so will some sex addicts maybe not be fussy. but you can be in control of it, you don't have to be a sex pest/desperate to be a sex addict.

i've been in relationships where i was sexually satisfied and never looked to anyone else. also been in them where i wasn't and these were the relationships i ended easiest or cheated, so yes it can cause problems but it doesn't have to.

i don't think people mind that sex addicts go to clubs, like i said so long as you're not a pest with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you wouldn't necessarily be throwing yourself at everyone. i don't. although i have sometimes gone for guys i wouldnt be interested in i do not fuck anything in site.

i've even been faithful in relationships too.

although lack of control is a part of sex addiction it doesn't have to be. will explain better when i get back in a few hours.

interesting yeah I can control it to a degree but still have the desire to search for it etc when I guess I could be doing more normal things.

so long as you don't become a pest or nuisance to others then sex addiction is kind of fine. it will only cause problems for you.

i guess there are some sex addicts who aren't fussy. like in the same way some drug addicts only like , some will take anything, and some drinkers only like fine wines yet others will drink mouthwash, and so will some sex addicts maybe not be fussy. but you can be in control of it, you don't have to be a sex pest/desperate to be a sex addict.

i've been in relationships where i was sexually satisfied and never looked to anyone else. also been in them where i wasn't and these were the relationships i ended easiest or cheated, so yes it can cause problems but it doesn't have to.

i don't think people mind that sex addicts go to clubs, like i said so long as you're not a pest with that."
quite insightful

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