FabSwingers.com forum: None varified members

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it ok to trust people who are not verified

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

In short no ... but everyone has to be trusted once to get verified

Conundrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who can you trust?? Verified memebers can let you down too.. go with your gut instinct

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

yes, we have given quite a few people their first verification. You do need to take sensible precautions though. If you feel an unverified profile is too good to be true, it probably is.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

Meet for a social first...

Use your common sense, and intuition. If they give you the heebie-jeebies just leave.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As everyone else has said the verifications can be an indicator of genuineness but not proof.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

In what way? If you think with your big head and vet accordingly then yes, if your thinking with your little head then you deserve what you get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not verified.

We still have lots of sex.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is it ok to trust people who are not verified"

It's fine to trust anyone you want to.

Exchange pictures, maybe talk on the phone, don't travel too far if you're unsure... but if you don't give it a go, you'll never know.

Don't be too upset if they don't turn up... Just keep your expectations realistic.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As everyone else has said the verifications can be an indicator of genuineness but not proof."

If someone is verified by a mutual contact we are usually more trusting that they are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is genuine until the moment they turn up, look like their photos and are the stated age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that it's harder to get rid of the tag than I first thought

I chat to plenty of nice woman and exchange pics n stuff but a lot are too far away

I've got a couple of really nice potential meets that I get along well with but for some reason or another it ain't happened as yet

Hopefully very soon mrs s

Also, There's quite a lot of men on here so girls can be choosy and that's fair enough but it can be frustrating when they are ignorant and just delete after you make an effort to talk

Some want pics attached to every message or you'll get ignored

That's when I lose trust in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it ok to trust people who are not verified"

Some people believe verifications are important when making a decision on who to meet and others think verifications are pretty useless when assessing the suitability of someone they are contemplating meeting.

Again its down to the individual on whether they think verifications are important when deciding who to meet or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those that aren't daring enough ask for verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all joined here with no verifications,everyone has to start at the beginning.

I've met men who haven't been verified before. The profiles I'm wary about are the couples who have been on for over a year but no verifications, and they message you late at night.

Yes, pretty obvious they are only here for cheap thrills and messaging when they are playing together. I won't entertain people like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used this site on and off for a while.. never met anyone though and now, because I have no veri's, have been accused of being fake sadly.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

I went to a social and had about half a dozen the next day or day after.

It didnt mean I'm not a serial killer, just I am actually a person, who talked to other people that night.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You have to decide who to trust for yourself.

A verification is neither here nor there, really.

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By *ssex_VixenWoman
over a year ago

Maldon

For me a photo vari is a good first step, doesn't take 5 minutes and is free. If someone can't be bothered to do that then I'm immediately not interested.

Some people may make an effort to send a message, but I will not reply when it's obvious that they haven't read my profile.

I've found a lot of time wasters and fantasists recently on here. Very frustrating for a girl to find what she's looking for ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the profiles without verifications should be thrown off the site after a 1 month...

If you haven't been to a social, club , tea party , or had a meet after a month you're not trying hard enough

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we've had no-shows off both verified and non-verified. Good initial message and willingness to meet for a social is a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the profiles without verifications should be thrown off the site after a 1 month...

If you haven't been to a social, club , tea party , or had a meet after a month you're not trying hard enough

I suppose you want that to apply to the men only ?

Then there's less competition for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I've been here a while and spoke to Many, not webcam med or anything, but I would if someone would varify me, people tend to say things like your not varified come back when you are, how can I if no one is prepared to varify me ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED DROP ME A PM THANKS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should at least be photo verified by fab, it only takes a minute & goes a long way when we are looking at accounts

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We don't, especially if it's a couple or single female.

We rumbled a guy the other day and he blocked us when he knew the game was up. He's now changed his profile pic to a completely different female from before.

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

"Everyone should at least be photo verified by fab, it only takes a minute & goes a long way when we are looking at accounts

We've been Fab members for years, have never felt the need to be photo verified and have absolutely no problem in getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone should at least be photo verified by fab, it only takes a minute & goes a long way when we are looking at accounts

We've been Fab members for years, have never felt the need to be photo verified and have absolutely no problem in getting meets."

Good for you.

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