FabSwingers.com forum: Excuse me, have I seen you on fabswingers?

By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

Good luck.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

Nope, I'm too discreet and have a highly developed level of social skills. It is inappropriate to ask, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

I'll bet my entire next year's wages you've got "discreet" on your profile somewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

I'll bet my entire next year's wages you've got "discreet" on your profile somewhere...

You win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd respond with something like.....oh and very loudly so all the ladies could hear.

'Please, if you've got a burning sensation down there you need to visit the clap clinic'

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"I think I'd respond with something like.....oh and very loudly so all the ladies could hear.

'Please, if you've got a burning sensation down there you need to visit the clap clinic'

" no, you were in the cell next to mine at Broadmoor"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

If this is the male half then no, it's inappropriate and more than a little creepy. If this is the female then no it's inappropriate and more than a little creepy but no doubt hordes of single men will tell you how hot it would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

Nope, I'm too discreet and have a highly developed level of social skills. It is inappropriate to ask, I think. "

I'm terribly socially clumsy and even I wouldn't ask that! I'd probably be turned on if somebody did ask me though.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

We have in clubs but to be honest I don't like it

It feels a bit stalkerish and whenever they tell me their username it's never one I recognise having interacted with or am I able to find them on here meaning I've probably blocked them previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

They're both male Monkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never approach anyone in public and ask them if they were on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

They're both male Monkey"

Oh yeah, I just saw couple

Tine for coffee

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

Nope, I'm too discreet and have a highly developed level of social skills. It is inappropriate to ask, I think. "

Agree with this. Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

Haha only on an online dating site.... and I was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A colleague said words to that affect at a recent christmas party. She admitted her husband and her were swingers on here too and that another guy in the office knew I was on this site.

Its a popular site, what more can I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rosie had it recently on a girl's night out.. lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen people we've met and played with and wouldn't even approach them then, and would expect the same level of consideration if I was with friends or family...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never ask someone, I'm shy though.

I have had people ask me in clubs and even say-

'oh! You're GothamsFinest'

and I'm like...

'I am so sorry but I have no idea who you are!'.

I've had folk message us on fab whilst we are out in public to tell us they can see us and what we are wearing. Very strange ha ha.

Eve. X

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had it, but then I'm hard to miss glammed up. If I were in drab mode then it would be a bit disconcerting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

Don't give in to the temptation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked at my old job by someone, recognised a tattoo, never found them on here tho :\

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

That is the reason why I was tempted to block you, which I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you're in a swingers club then it sounds like a terrible idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think it's a good line to use?

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By *thicalslutx69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

Think it would be totally inappropriate, inconsiderate and wrong for anyone to do this in any sort of vanilla environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've been asked.

after telling the first guy who asked that i was, and seeing his attitude towards me change from being fun and flirty to becoming a sure thing and disrespectful, i now tell people no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drive for a living. Just before Christmas choose to make some extra money so decided to join a local taxi firm here on the wirral.

A couple of days into the job I got a fare. I picked up a girl. Asked where she wanted ago. She replied the old Manor. Isn't that the townhouse I said. (The townhouse is in the old Manor public house here in Birkenhead).

Yes she said that's the one.

So off we went. She was a friendly girl chatting away, laughing and joking.

Me not thinking said am into the lifestyle also and I've been wanting to visit the club for a while. She laughed and said I should. Anyway am driving along chatting about Christmas and things and approaching the club when I said you on fabs as well. She laughed an asked what I meant. Swinging and lifestyle site. At that moment we pulled up outside the TH.

No she said this isn't the old Manor. You said the Townhouse I said. I did didn't I and laughed.

Well I've never been so embarrassed in all my life. I nearly told her all my secrets.

After getting her to the old Manor which was a old nunnery in rockferry and apologising. She said it's ok and said she couldn't wait to tell her friends she nearly ended up in a swinging club with the taxi driver.

She gave me tip which made my embarrassment a little easier. Talk about putting your foot in it..

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

This is why our face pic is set to private.

In a club would be fine, but if some randomer came up to me in public and said they recognised me off here I would be pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me, it's super awkward haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The height of indiscretion.

I suspect that having said that you are considering actually trying this OP, you may have found yourself on many a Block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lady in the next street his on here I have seen her using fab on the bus but I didn't wanna be a stalker and say anything.

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

I ask this constantly, sometimes when Ive recognised someone and sometimes when I just wanna call someone's bluff.

To my surprise I've had great reactions and have been right 99% of the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bliney, turn my back for a couple of hours and there's a deluge if responses! So sorry all for being a shit OP - I should have made it clear that I'd NEVER do this, it's would be totally against the etiquette of play and discretion, as would greeting someone in the street who you've played with when they're with their friends. I thought the situation would make for a good moment in a comedy, but it's not for real life.

One good thing out of the misunderstanding - the reaction shows how seriously everyone takes discretion and privacy. This community's great like that. "

I don't take discretion or secrecy seriously and think people need to chill out about being on this site. It's only sex. Easy to their own of course, but I tell everyone and anyone I'm on here.

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

Had some one on Fab once say oh you both play darts at ### and as we were both playing at that pub was kinda worrying as the guy didn't have any profile

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

That is the reason why I was tempted to block you, which I have"

Oh dear - wrong end of stick. And likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour!!!

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

Oh dear - I turn my back for a couple of hours and there's a deluge of replies.

I should have made clear I would NEVER do this - it's against all the rules of discretion and respect that keep playing fun and safe. We always respect privacy. The same applies to going up to greet a fabber you run into in the street or the tube in front of their friends. You just don't do it.

I thought it could be a good plotline for a comedy - but it's not for doing in real life.

Sorry for being a shit OP - I should have clarified this after the first reply, but 30 of you had replied before I noticed!

One good thing- the replies show how seriously most of us take privacy and discretion. It's one of the good things about this community.

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

"i've been asked.

after telling the first guy who asked that i was, and seeing his attitude towards me change from being fun and flirty to becoming a sure thing and disrespectful, i now tell people no.

Horrible. Sorry to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no, never know if people want to stay discreet, if you wanted to mention it i'd message them on here next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've been asked.

after telling the first guy who asked that i was, and seeing his attitude towards me change from being fun and flirty to becoming a sure thing and disrespectful, i now tell people no.

Horrible. Sorry to hear that. "

me too. he was sexy.

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

"My neighbour!!!

Behave!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

I'd love to be there when you do....

With my camera primed ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not necessarily an adult response, but if asked that in public (particularly to the Wife) I would be unable to hold back a punch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male here. Not done it from fab but stood next to a woman in the pub I recognised from pof, told her I had seen her on there, wasnt a problem and we had a friendly chat

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"i've been asked. After telling the first guy who asked that i was, and seeing his attitude towards me change from being fun and flirty to becoming a sure thing and disrespectful, i now tell people no."

I remember your story of a van driver asking if you were on fab, which made me think of phoenix nites comedy show, and the right answer being

'Is that a new drug? Nahh mate, I don't do none of that stuff!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My neighbour!!!

Behave!

Nope. Two doors down. Is on here. Asked me outright!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember your story of a van driver asking if you were on fab, which made me think of phoenix nites comedy show, and the right answer being

'Is that a new drug? Nahh mate, I don't do none of that stuff!'"

i ran off up the road after he asked as well.

can't remember pheonix nites, think my kids were little then and my sleep was almost zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried and it works

"If you could anyone home with us tonight, who would you choose....."

It worked so well one night, the girl pointed to another girl, and said we should try it, the other girl said yes. I got massively cocked blocked by her mates. Telling her not to do it, etc, so I left them arguing in the pub.... True story.

Another time I didn't realise the girls boyfriend was in the pub. She confessed she wanted to do it for ages, but her fella couldn't handle it.....

Third time at a wedding I had crashed as a plus 1 on a pof date a bridesmaid also agreed, I was asked to leave by the best man.

Honestly it's all out there in vanillaland.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

That is the reason why I was tempted to block you, which I have

Oh dear - wrong end of stick. And likewise

Thank you; I really appreciate this just in case I accidentally unblock you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

That could make you seriously unpopular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

No cos I'm not indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this happen to me endless times I just smirk now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a couple in local petrol station who swing but refrained from saying I know you from fab you look better in person as thought it inappropriate

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't take discretion or secrecy seriously and think people need to chill out about being on this site. It's only sex. Easy to their own of course, but I tell everyone and anyone I'm on here."

For us, and many others on here, discretion is very important. We have jobs we could lose if our employers found out.

I also have no desire to share details of my personal life with all and sundry.

Nita

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

That would be a terrible and unnecessary invasion of someone's privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take discretion or secrecy seriously and think people need to chill out about being on this site. It's only sex. Easy to their own of course, but I tell everyone and anyone I'm on here.

For us, and many others on here, discretion is very important. We have jobs we could lose if our employers found out.

I also have no desire to share details of my personal life with all and sundry.

Nita"

To be honest, I've only met single guys randomly and they never seem to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be amazed if someones walking around who looks like my profile pic

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

Some men really make me go

and why single men wonder why they have such a problem on here!

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By *ce cream and custardCouple
over a year ago

Droitwich

We were at an army reunion when a good friend turned round and said so are you ice cream or custard. Lol just stood there with mouth wide open.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Oh dear - I turn my back for a couple of hours and there's a deluge of replies.

I thought it could be a good plotline for a comedy - but it's not for doing in real life.

Sorry for being a shit OP - I should have clarified this after the first reply, but 30 of you had replied before I noticed!

One good thing- the replies show how seriously most of us take privacy and discretion. It's one of the good things about this community.

Well I'm convinced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes years ago someone practically stalked round the supermarket, I could tell something was up at least they waited for my mother to walk away before leaving his family and said it's you I know it's you

I hid my face for years after that.

At least most people just message to say they saw you at this place or another.

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

That is the reason why I was tempted to block you, which I have

Oh dear - wrong end of stick. And likewise

Thank you; I really appreciate this just in case I accidentally unblock you"

Best to be sure

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By *eteinlondon OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Central London

And of course all the 35 ppl who've responded since my follow up message are reading the original and responding to it without seeing the clarification. So - - yes of course you shld never do this (we certainly wouldn't under any circumstances); and I'm surprised by how literally ppl have taken this.

Never mind. Lost cause. Abandon thread...

Night night.

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

I have had a couple of people message me on fab saying they had seen me in vanilla land. One I blocked as he kept on messaging me. The other had stopped their car to let me cross the road earlier in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me at the gym from another website.... We were changing and a guy said I he liked some of my videos and walked away

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By *nnieBelleBelleWoman
over a year ago

plymouth

My eldest daughter started being very odd with me one day , I asked her why . She said " nice photos mum ! I see you you made it to mist fabb'd well what a can of worms that opened up that day

. Her partner had seen me after his imaginary friend had tipped them off that I was on the site . Utter bullshit obviously , just covering up why they were on here . She said she was mortified I was on here but I said hey it's just great sex and I enjoy it . Apparently at my age I shouldn't be doing it any more

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By *heeky202Man
over a year ago

manchester

Talking for ages with a gal on here.

Then finished on a Sat morn, both saying we were going shopping.

30 minutes later bumped 'slap' bang into her in John Lewis department store.

Just stood looking agog at each other, I just said to break and end silence.

'Oo i nearly bumped into you' then grinned and walked off.

No need to put anyone in a preficament or break their required discretional needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was outside my work building yesterday, there were a few guys smoking. A few got in the lift and I noticed one kept looking at me oddly. He got out on my floor and went into the company opposite. Two seconds later I got a message on here asking if I worked in 'X building', as he thought he'd just spotted Mrs Robinson in his workplace. I had to give him full marks for observation skills! Bless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was outside my work building yesterday, there were a few guys smoking. A few got in the lift and I noticed one kept looking at me oddly. He got out on my floor and went into the company opposite. Two seconds later I got a message on here asking if I worked in 'X building', as he thought he'd just spotted Mrs Robinson in his workplace. I had to give him full marks for observation skills! Bless."

The question we all want to know..... will he get a shag out of his detective work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question we all want to know..... will he get a shag out of his detective work?"

He's only 21 but it would make it more fun going into work I guess...

So, possibly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question we all want to know..... will he get a shag out of his detective work?

He's only 21 but it would make it more fun going into work I guess...

So, possibly! "

Please do , it would make lunch and break time more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question we all want to know..... will he get a shag out of his detective work?

He's only 21 but it would make it more fun going into work I guess...

So, possibly!

Please do , it would make lunch and break time more fun

I probably will to be honest, though I need another look as I wasn't paying attention. I'll let you know when it happens!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I would come out with the Beverley hills cop line of, thanks God I finally found you, 'you need to gobtain see a Dr, ask him for herbisimplex 10. If you are you lucky you might get it early enough.'

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

OP please don't do it, cant help thinking it would end badly for you........then again that's why you should it

Nah seriously don't.

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

Now i don't mind people coming up to me and saying have i seen you on fab as ive been on it for at least 9 years now .

However what i do mind is people coming up to me when im with family and friends .Its not big and definitely not clever!!!

Not the thing to do if you want your privacy to remain just that ..

Note to the guy in wetherspoons who came up to me the other week when i was with family .. READ AND REMEMBER !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i don't mind people coming up to me and saying have i seen you on fab as ive been on it for at least 9 years now .

However what i do mind is people coming up to me when im with family and friends .Its not big and definitely not clever!!!

Not the thing to do if you want your privacy to remain just that ..

Note to the guy in wetherspoons who came up to me the other week when i was with family .. READ AND REMEMBER !!! "

Wow brainless.

You just have to use common sense don't you. I mean ffs,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line..."

We would never ask. Far too indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hairdresser is on Fab....I like her breasts around my face when she cuts my hair, but I am not going to mention the FAB membership as I value my ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went in a house a few weeks ago on a maintenece job, as it turned out it was a girl I had been talking to on here for ages. Small world huh

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I don't take discretion or secrecy seriously and think people need to chill out about being on this site. It's only sex. Easy to their own of course, but I tell everyone and anyone I'm on here."

It depends on your work / profession. I work for the NHS so have to maintain some discretion and don't put face pics out on public. I'm not afraid of anyone or anything but my employers are hypocritically very wary of anyone publicly associated with sex (swinging site, escorting etc.) though have no issue with (fairly common) sexual liaisons that go on between people who work there. I suspect the NHS is still in a lag phase and hasn't caught up with the internet LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i don't mind people coming up to me and saying have i seen you on fab as ive been on it for at least 9 years now .

However what i do mind is people coming up to me when im with family and friends .Its not big and definitely not clever!!!

Not the thing to do if you want your privacy to remain just that ..

Note to the guy in wetherspoons who came up to me the other week when i was with family .. READ AND REMEMBER !!! "
That is the risk you take though having face photos exposed to everyone. You would like to think people are discreet etc but some people are just stupid and you open yourself to there stupidity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be downright arsy if somebody approached me in public. For me thats the exact opposite of what I expect from fab.

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

"Has anyone ever asked this or heard of it happening? I'm so tempted to ask some times! Might try it as a new pub chat-up line...

That is the reason why I was tempted to block you, which I have"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take discretion or secrecy seriously and think people need to chill out about being on this site. It's only sex. Easy to their own of course, but I tell everyone and anyone I'm on here.

LOL. Double standards! Figures.

I think I'm past caring what anyone thinks and I've decided I'd rather leave a job nowadays if I can't be honest with people.

Got recognised for the second time in two working days today...wouldn't mind, but don't even have face pics public. I just say 'yeah, and?' Haha x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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I see such a question as being inappropriate and wouldn't contemplate it. I'd generally be annoyed by anyone who did this as I share personal information with people that I care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got seen by work colleagues on here and I work with 300 people! So news travelled like hell fire!! one guy emailed my profile to loads of people! So pics of my cock flew around the office!! Made me extremely paranoid at first then I just thought fuck it!! Let them be have like arses I've got nothing to hide!! Discretion is important on a site like this, No one wants to offend family and firends and really it should stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A colleague said words to that affect at a recent christmas party. She admitted her husband and her were swingers on here too and that another guy in the office knew I was on this site.

Its a popular site, what more can I say

I had the same. I was chatting with this lady for a week and we were organising to meet up. After swapping a few face photos we both looked familiar to each other and eventually we figured out we work in the same office. That said we decided to call off the meet and now there is just the small smile to acknowledge each other when we see one and other. It's a small small world.

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