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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr

At home or in hotel I stay at there are often neighbours getting changed with curtains open. Thoughts on ....

Ok to view? Ok to play? Do you let them see you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch telly instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run round there with a Rose between your teeth and your winkle in your hand. It's a clear come hither technique.

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"Run round there with a Rose between your teeth and your winkle in your hand. It's a clear come hither technique. "

Even in a hotel?

I'm not sure if my neighbour at home is fully aware I can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have time to play whilst someone is getting dressed, then knock yourself out. I don't have curtains in my room, but there's no houses onlooking, unless they use binoculars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divesting yourself with sexual gratification by watching innocent parties oblivious to your attention sounds a bit fook'in creepy to me,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit creepy, unsuspecting people getting spied on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't let them see you wanking, they just might have left the curtains open not realising. you could end up on the sex offenders list.

if they notice you watching and do anything to suggest they enjoy that then maybe it's ok. up to you to judge on whether they're ok with that or not.

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"don't let them see you wanking, they just might have left the curtains open not realising. you could end up on the sex offenders list.

if they notice you watching and do anything to suggest they enjoy that then maybe it's ok. up to you to judge on whether they're ok with that or not."

Fair comment. I didn't say I was doing that. That's why I'm asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At home or in hotel I stay at there are often neighbours getting changed with curtains open. Thoughts on ....

Ok to view? Ok to play? Do you let them see you? "

Or simply allow them to go about their own business without attaching any sexual connotation to the nature of their behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't let them see you wanking, they just might have left the curtains open not realising. you could end up on the sex offenders list.

if they notice you watching and do anything to suggest they enjoy that then maybe it's ok. up to you to judge on whether they're ok with that or not.

Fair comment. I didn't say I was doing that. That's why I'm asking "

just reminding anyone with these thoughts of the potential consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I happened to be getting undressed and saw your playing with yourself, I wouldn't be impressed.

I would most likely send the hubby round or give you a telling off myself.

Curtains being open isn't an invitation just as a woman wearing a short skirt isn't an invitation.

Get a grip man and put some porn on.

Eve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I caught someone having a wank whilst I was getting changed I'd force feed their balls to them. So unless you're in to that sort of thing.. Probably best not to

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"If I happened to be getting undressed and saw your playing with yourself, I wouldn't be impressed.

I would most likely send the hubby round or give you a telling off myself.

Curtains being open isn't an invitation just as a woman wearing a short skirt isn't an invitation.

Get a grip man and put some porn on.

Eve. "

I'm only asking a question. don't think i need to get a grip thanks anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where I used to work there used to be some houses that overlooked one of our buildings,one day I was working on my own and at a glance I saw a woman standing at the window with just a white dressing gown on obviously just got out the shower,then she moved away from window to lay on her bed, I quickly ran to the window for a better look,she undone her robe and started to play with her nipples, by this time I'm rock hard, she then starts to play with her pussy obviously getting herself wet and reaches to her bedside table to grab her dildo, by this time I'm throbbing watching her franticly fuck herself for about 10mins watching her cum made me spunk everywhere, true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3-2-1 you're back in the room .....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

If I was undressing and noticed someone watching me I would draw the curtains and make sure I didn't leave them open again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3-2-1 you're back in the room .....

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Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run round there with a Rose between your teeth and your winkle in your hand. It's a clear come hither technique.

Even in a hotel?

I'm not sure if my neighbour at home is fully aware I can see. "

ahh...bang on the window and wave! that should clear up any doubt

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"Run round there with a Rose between your teeth and your winkle in your hand. It's a clear come hither technique.

Even in a hotel?

I'm not sure if my neighbour at home is fully aware I can see.

ahh...bang on the window and wave! that should clear up any doubt "

??

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"don't let them see you wanking, they just might have left the curtains open not realising. you could end up on the sex offenders list.

if they notice you watching and do anything to suggest they enjoy that then maybe it's ok. up to you to judge on whether they're ok with that or not."

Defo on the sex offenders list! my nan would call that a peeping tom !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he's asking on behalf of a 'friend'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx"

Fml who I can't have neighbours like u haha

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

Fml who I can't have neighbours like u haha"

Why

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx"

I tend to agree with this. I think if someone goes to great lenghts you be a voyeur.. Secret Cameras trespassing etc.. Then wrong. If you leave you curtains too open then I think you have to take a bit of responsibility... If you don't like it. If you are outside looking in, you don't have to look in, if you don't like it. Free will

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"Maybe he's asking on behalf of a 'friend'? "

No. on my behalf. I like to leave curtains open too. Just wondered what others thought

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx"

I tend to agree with this. I think if someone goes to great lenghts you be a voyeur.. Secret Cameras trespassing etc.. Then wrong. If you leave you curtains too open then I think you have to take a bit of responsibility... If you don't like it. If you are outside looking in, you don't have to look in, if you don't like it. Free will

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

Fml who I can't have neighbours like u haha

Why"

You might well do. Although most folks on thread think it's bad to look...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At home or in hotel I stay at there are often neighbours getting changed with curtains open. Thoughts on ....

Ok to view? Ok to play? Do you let them see you? "

the thing is OP, if you can see the curtains of people in hotels that must mean that you are outside in the car park..

likewise for neighbours...are you on the street looking in?

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"At home or in hotel I stay at there are often neighbours getting changed with curtains open. Thoughts on ....

Ok to view? Ok to play? Do you let them see you?

the thing is OP, if you can see the curtains of people in hotels that must mean that you are outside in the car park..

No not at all. Hotel I stay in has a courtyard in middle rooms facing it so about 40 rooms opposite x

likewise for neighbours...are you on the street looking in?

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"At home or in hotel I stay at there are often neighbours getting changed with curtains open. Thoughts on ....

Ok to view? Ok to play? Do you let them see you?

the thing is OP, if you can see the curtains of people in hotels that must mean that you are outside in the car park..

No not at all. Hotel I stay in has a courtyard in middle rooms facing it so about 40 rooms opposite x

likewise for neighbours...are you on the street looking in?

"

Again no. From my house I can see other houses. As I guess most people can?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At home or in hotel I stay at there are often neighbours getting changed with curtains open. Thoughts on ....

Ok to view? Ok to play? Do you let them see you?

the thing is OP, if you can see the curtains of people in hotels that must mean that you are outside in the car park..

No not at all. Hotel I stay in has a courtyard in middle rooms facing it so about 40 rooms opposite x

likewise for neighbours...are you on the street looking in?

Again no. From my house I can see other houses. As I guess most people can? "

well I cant but I live in a courtyard

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Maybe he's asking on behalf of a 'friend'?

No. on my behalf. I like to leave curtains open too. Just wondered what others thought "

you have a vivid imagination perhaps if its happening as frequently as you say?

we did have this with one of our neighbours and i asked my other half to mention it to her as they knew each other..

the lady was mortified that she could be seen..

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

I tend to agree with this. I think if someone goes to great lenghts you be a voyeur.. Secret Cameras trespassing etc.. Then wrong. If you leave you curtains too open then I think you have to take a bit of responsibility... If you don't like it. If you are outside looking in, you don't have to look in, if you don't like it. Free will"

Cool cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

I tend to agree with this. I think if someone goes to great lenghts you be a voyeur.. Secret Cameras trespassing etc.. Then wrong. If you leave you curtains too open then I think you have to take a bit of responsibility... If you don't like it. If you are outside looking in, you don't have to look in, if you don't like it. Free will"

I'm quite lucky in that unless I'm stood rite at the window then I can't be seen clearly. Having said that it doesn't stop me using the natral light to take my pics for fab. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx"

i am sure it still counts as flashing/indecency or similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

i am sure it still counts as flashing/indecency or similar "

Only if someone complains and Its proven that I'm causing a nusanse. As I'm not in public I'm pretty sure no officer of the law would be that bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have a neighbour like this years ago. She often used to leave the curtains open and have the lights on at night, wandering around naked or semi dressed, occasionally she'd have sex in the living room. The way the flats were set out you were very much overlooked but no idea if she was doing it on purpose or not. It was kind of tempting to watch but just felt wrong so stopped at anything more than a cursory glance, may have been tempted for a longer look if my eyesight was better

Ginger

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

But can they see you in the bush with your telescope?

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"But can they see you in the bush with your telescope? "

No bushes or telescopes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

i am sure it still counts as flashing/indecency or similar

Only if someone complains and Its proven that I'm causing a nusanse. As I'm not in public I'm pretty sure no officer of the law would be that bothered. "

Quite right.

A naturist friend of ours told us he used to do nude yoga in his lounge every morning.

Fast forward to ten years later and after moving away from the area he bumped into a woman who apparently knew him.

Yes, she remarked, we lived behind you, you used to practice yoga nude every morning.

Oh,says he,sorry, I didn't know you could see.

Oh yes, says she, if we stood on a stool in the kitchen.

If this information wasn't bad enough she next remarked we called the police but they said there was no offence being committed, and with a cheerful wave off she went leaving him gobsmacked.

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"I don't close my curtains n I'm often naked even with the lite on. If someone sees it's thier fault for looking. xxx

i am sure it still counts as flashing/indecency or similar

Only if someone complains and Its proven that I'm causing a nusanse. As I'm not in public I'm pretty sure no officer of the law would be that bothered.

Quite right.

A naturist friend of ours told us he used to do nude yoga in his lounge every morning.

Fast forward to ten years later and after moving away from the area he bumped into a woman who apparently knew him.

Yes, she remarked, we lived behind you, you used to practice yoga nude every morning.

Oh,says he,sorry, I didn't know you could see.

Oh yes, says she, if we stood on a stool in the kitchen.

If this information wasn't bad enough she next remarked we called the police but they said there was no offence being committed, and with a cheerful wave off she went leaving him gobsmacked.

"

???? stood on a stool to see, sounds like they made more of an effort than your friend

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr

Hotel. Room directly accross wide open with lights on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was staying in a University dorm once when on a field trip and late one night a smoking hot girl across the courtyard left her curtains open and light on. The gentlemanly part of me stopped me looking as she got changed, When I eventually looked back she made it pretty clear she wanted to be watched. She proceeded to give me a show I will never forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting this one.. Would

Say relax not everyone thinking the same so calm it there chilling at home

Or on holiday

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr


"I was staying in a University dorm once when on a field trip and late one night a smoking hot girl across the courtyard left her curtains open and light on. The gentlemanly part of me stopped me looking as she got changed, When I eventually looked back she made it pretty clear she wanted to be watched. She proceeded to give me a show I will never forget "

Do tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour often did this saw her in various stages of undress

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

If someone was getting off on me getting dressed, I would send them round to specsavers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never happened to me! Most likely reason is I'm not a peeping tom. It sounds kind of creepy watching people through a window in there own homes getting undressed!!

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"It's never happened to me! Most likely reason is I'm not a peeping tom. It sounds kind of creepy watching people through a window in there own homes getting undressed!! "

Hah exactly what I said fella! If someone was doing that through my window ! They would no about it ! Trust me

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By *ikeayr OP   Man
over a year ago

ayr

In the hotel again ??

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