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Can't cum from a BJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Struggle to cum from a BJ, as in I never have. I feel I maybe missing out

Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that if you try to cum, you won't. Just let yourself go with the flow and let her keep sucking you. May just not be doing it long enough for you to cum

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley & London

I didn't cum from a BJ for years....then I began swinging and...

A lot is down to technique just like some men are shit at stuff so are some women.

And hey, it's about a lot more than BJs!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'll join you in this club, still not cum from a BJ- had more than enough try now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggle to cum from a BJ, as in I never have. I feel I maybe missing out

Any tips?

"

Pay for a professional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv only ever cum once from a BJ and that was when I was about 18. I enjoy them it's just no where near as fulfilling as penetrative sex. A good build up always helps though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allow her to blindfold you the loss of one sense heightens others allowing more pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always fun from getting sucked off here I don't understand the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

post about it in a forum in the hope that someone will offer to help you with it?

if that fails, idk. like someone else said, pay for a professional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X"

Must admit I have to hold back or I pop way too soon

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Have a couple of surgically ribs removed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Struggle to cum from a BJ, as in I never have. I feel I maybe missing out

Any tips?

"

Ooooh! I can't either! Can I have a queue of ladies to see if they can help me please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ads had never cum from a wank apart from himself before or a bj ever, I think it's all in the mind and letting it go.

Even when he wanks me, I get to that point where I feel like I'm gonna piss myself when I've just had the initial blow out and I push him away because I don't know what comes next...it's all in the mind and meeting the right person might help with this, took us about four months for him to cum with a wank x

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

Yeah have to admit , I also struggle to cum via a bj

And I've had a few decent ones

No idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i am struggling to cum from a BJ, i let her lay across me, facing away and suck my cock..then i reach and finger her bumhole...dunno why but the dirtyness of it sorts me right out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Sometimes it's quick, sometimes it's slow. Relax and enjoy it and be glad someone is willing to give your cock some special attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X"

Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

These threads come up every so often but do they ever work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggle to cum from a BJ, as in I never have. I feel I maybe missing out

Any tips?

"

There's right person isn't doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Sometimes it's quick, sometimes it's slow. Relax and enjoy it and be glad someone is willing to give your cock some special attention "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed this was a rather transparent attempt at getting a BJ. I am more likely to cum too quickly from such a lovely experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have trouble with this too. However, there have been a couple of occasions where I've been very horny and had to stop her sucking because she's only been doing it for a minute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X

Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager"

I find they struggle to concentrate during a 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people find this unusual? I'm pretty sure not every woman will orgasm from oral sex so it stands to reason that not every man will either. Just because one person cums without fail from something doesn't mean another will like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If memory serves me right I think I do..

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By *B904280Man
over a year ago

Accrington

I had this problem for years then had a hookup with an ex porn actress who saw it as a challenge. She kept at it for ages and managed to do the deed.

Since that day its been more of a problem trying not to explode too soon but if I'm ever struggling closing my eyes and thinking dirty thoughts tends to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cum from oral but I've never had a fella not cum when giving him a bj. You all just need to meet someone with a better technique. The blindfold idea iso a good one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X

Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager

I find they struggle to concentrate during a 69 "

I personally enjoy the distraction means I'm doing a good job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't cum through oral....

Does not bother me in the slightest

Fb

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

Ian not a fan of blow jobs, my knob is too sensitive to enjoy it. Much prefer hand job.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X

Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager"

My FWB has never come from a blow job. I don't treat it as a chore and have made plenty of other men cum through a BJ.

So I don't agree with your statement that the key is passion and not treating it as lan obligation. I do it to my FWB with plenty of passion. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never once cummed from a bj

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"post about it in a forum in the hope that someone will offer to help you with it?

"

Standard Operating Procedure #25

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

neither can hubby, unless he fucks my throat!. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock gets hard at the thought of a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always astounded when anyone says they haven't shot their load from a blowjob.

Surely that's crazy talk?

My tip would be to find a woman who is semi decent to amazing at sucking dick and let her get down on it whilst she sits on a vibrator. That way she is horny as hell and will be sucking dick like a possessed woman.

I have never failed to make Adam Cum with a blow job and I do it regularly. I have only sucked one other dick and he told me off for making him want to Cum too quickly.

The key is to have a passion for the sucking, not an obligation.

Eve. X

Exactly. Getting a blowjob off someone who enjoys giving them is way better than someone who sees it as a chore. Same with giving oral to a woman. If I get sucked off, I prefer it in 69, as I love eating a woman out, and it makes her more eager

My FWB has never come from a blow job. I don't treat it as a chore and have made plenty of other men cum through a BJ.

So I don't agree with your statement that the key is passion and not treating it as lan obligation. I do it to my FWB with plenty of passion. X"

I see it as foreplay. I was just stating that its more enjoyable if the person performing it on you is enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same (well very rarely) but the thought of a glory hole is amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang the BJ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggle to cum from a BJ, as in I never have. I feel I maybe missing out

Any tips?

"

I used to think this.. After long term relationship.. Then I met someone who made me look in her eyes till I relaxed, another who made it clear she wanted nothing more in the world than to make me cum, another who let me cum on her face, another in her mouth, another swallowed me whole, beginning to end.. Or was it all one woman?

Relax, relax in yourself, shut your eyes, let her do it, let her take control, take time, then open your eyes and look at that porn star on the end of your cock! Girlfriend, wife, mistress, fuck buddy,or one off, look at her, touch her, tell her how it feels, tell her what you'd like, shut your eyes. Forget about cumming.. It'll happen.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've only met one woman who could consistently have me trying to hold back and not shoot, from her oral technique. I don't know what she did that was different to the other women who have sucked me, but she was amazing (and always swallowed every drop ) Apart from her, a bj is a pleasant experience for me, if not always satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The technique is all in the female tongue and lots of sucking , teasing kissing the tip of your cock I have Bo cumming in no time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about relaxing and being comfortable with your partner. It also helps if she's got incredible technique! I've only been with one girl who could make me shoot in her mouth every time, her deepthroating was a rare treat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang the BJ."

I was looking for a job, then I found a job. And heaven knows I'm miserable now.

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By *xylou83Couple
over a year ago

merseyside

Well no one has ever not cum from one of mine, in fact they don't usually last too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've NEVER cum from a blow job in my life, and I've had some pretty amazing blow jobs since we started swinging, but no one has ever been able to get me over that edge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't cum from a bj........That sucks! (Ba dum)

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ive never cum from a BJ either came close once when the woman was slowly licking my balls but we got interupted by her 2 year old son coming into the room.

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