FabSwingers.com forum: Christ hiv status

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just read a status from a woman saying she has hiv so get tested . Hope she is not taking the piss feel sorry for whoever has played with her but not a thing to joke about !?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Just read a status from a woman saying she has hiv so get tested . Hope she is not taking the piss feel sorry for whoever has played with her but not a thing to joke about !?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen it to.....

Let's hope it's a very sick joke....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

She deserves some kind thoughts too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf??????

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sending her good thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its wrong that, joke or not, all her friends will be making doctor appointments very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read a status from a woman saying she has hiv so get tested . Hope she is not taking the piss feel sorry for whoever has played with her but not a thing to joke about !?"

Yikes, hopefully it is a joke..albeit a terrible one in bad taste.

If not, what a terrible way to announce it to previous lovers.

Eve. X

Ps- love your profile and pictures, I wish you were closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible hope her partners get the all clear and she gets the help and support she needs (Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres thousands of folk with hiv and other sti on fab , well done to the person who was happy to share that with us all. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better that folk know about it and are able to action it.

Provided it's not some sick wind up of course.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

HIV positive and AIDS diagnoses are no longer the death sentences they were. ( They are also more common in straight females than other groups, or so I've heard. )

However announcing it this way is crass to say the least. If it's meant as a joke, it's in very poor taste.

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By *xylou83Couple
over a year ago

merseyside

Maybe it's a good way to announce it to be honest. People on here sleep about and if hiv is spreading in that area of the country it's a good way to warn people that there is people out there who could have it. In certain circles.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

maybe her account has been hacked.... instead of starting threads about it, why not report to admin or even mail the poor woman in case she has been hacked??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its wrong that, joke or not, all her friends will be making doctor appointments very quickly

And their friends'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"maybe her account has been hacked.... instead of starting threads about it, why not report to admin or even mail the poor woman in case she has been hacked??"

Was going to write to her to make sure as I don't think if it is not a joke the right way to publicise it . If true she should privately write to them all.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"However announcing it this way is crass to say the least. If it's meant as a joke, it's in very poor taste. "

Unless you can remember the names and addresses of every meet, this is probably the best way to do it. Maybe a couple of notices at her local club too.

Having said that, I do hope it is hack or joke, because even though HIV is no longer a death sentence, it is a life changing illness.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My worse fear and thw reason I play safe

Horrible thing to contract.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"theres thousands of folk with hiv and other sti on fab , well done to the person who was happy to share that with us all. x"

[Was a shock to read it I do personally

Think if she has it not to publicise it

Like that but write to all the people on here if still here that she has played with to inform

Them !!]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have seen it to.....

Let's hope it's a very sick joke....

are you sure about that

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Just read a status from a woman saying she has hiv so get tested . Hope she is not taking the piss feel sorry for whoever has played with her but not a thing to joke about !?"

Fair play to her for being open about it. I can't imagine it's been a barrel of laughs for her

Would you rather she kept quiet about it and her partners would be none the wiser while they carried on playing with and potentially infecting more people from the sure

Thoughts go out to the woman involved and anyone whose been put at risk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have seen it to.....

Let's hope it's a very sick joke....

are you sure about that

Sick joke more like very immature

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Thinking logically may have been difficult as she comes to terms with her diagnosis, she chose the route that suited her current mindset.

Not ideal, but until I am in a similar situation I don't know what I would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they have signed up just to tell people I'm suspicious, the profile is only 2 weeks old with no verifications ...

Another way to look at it would be as a good way to start a panic on the site as you don't know who they have played with and who those people have played with ...

If genuine then it's terrible if a prank it's a sick one

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Its wrong that, joke or not, all her friends will be making doctor appointments very quickly

Her lovers have some responsibility in protecting themselves..

I admire anyone who is brave enough to declare their hiv status..

We love to blame others..."she gave me hiv" erm ..hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unless they have signed up just to tell people I'm suspicious, the profile is only 2 weeks old with no verifications ...

Another way to look at it would be as a good way to start a panic on the site as you don't know who they have played with and who those people have played with ...

If genuine then it's terrible if a prank it's a sick one "

She has been on a while

With a different profile as they wrote to us as a couple a while back asking to play

But not our cup of tea .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad news for the lady concerned .. and her partners ... and their partners etc. etc.

Whilst it's not something any of us like to think of we have to be realistic and understand swinging can be a risky business. Never take someone's word for it when they tell you they're 'clean', play safe. Nobody is accountable for your safety and health other than you.

Best wishes to the lady in question, should she read this. X

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Well she contracted it from something or someone. fucking hell. Imagine that for 2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres thousands of folk with hiv and other sti on fab , well done to the person who was happy to share that with us all. x

[Was a shock to read it I do personally

Think if she has it not to publicise it

Like that but write to all the people on here if still here that she has played with to inform

Them !!]"
maybe she can't remember who she played with x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Its wrong that, joke or not, all her friends will be making doctor appointments very quickly

Her lovers have some responsibility in protecting themselves..

I admire anyone who is brave enough to declare their hiv status..

We love to blame others..."she gave me hiv" erm ..hello"

this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad news for the lady concerned .. and her partners ... and their partners etc. etc.

Best wishes to the lady in question, should she read this. X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiv isn't the death sentence it once was, I know of a guy with hiv and lives and works a standard normal life! he's been risked assessed for work as a mechanic, Other than general routine of pills and blood work he has a normal life. But he did catch it by a hedonistic lifestyle, I know it's gonna be said but it is always best to play safe. I do admire the woman if it is true, That is a brave thing to announce but good on her for telling them.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can't believe the stigma of HIV in society even after all these years..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Status shuffle thread?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I can't believe the stigma of HIV in society even after all these years..

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

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Would be a living hell

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Hiv isn't the death sentence it once was, I know of a guy with hiv and lives and works a standard normal life! he's been risked assessed for work as a mechanic, Other than general routine of pills and blood work he has a normal life. But he did catch it by a hedonistic lifestyle, I know it's gonna be said but it is always best to play safe. I do admire the woman if it is true, That is a brave thing to announce but good on her for telling them. "

If you take meds regularly and have an undetected viral load for 6 months there is no risk of passing it on..

People might want to read up on Terence Higgins trust

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Would be a living hell "

So is having cancer but it's ok to have cancer on here isn't it....but god forbid someone was so brace and honest to disclose their HIV status

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's always good to show some kindness. In The Lounge, somebody with tits and a fanny will get an avalanche of support and virtual hugs and smooches when she declares the paper cut she has just given herself.

God forbid HIV

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"Would be a living hell

So is having cancer but it's ok to have cancer on here isn't it....but god forbid someone was so brace and honest to disclose their HIV status "

Doesn't matter I didn't mention cancer , I said hiv would be a living hell

And I stick by that . Never said anything else

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"It's always good to show some kindness. In The Lounge, somebody with tits and a fanny will get an avalanche of support and virtual hugs and smooches when she declares the paper cut she has just given herself.

God forbid HIV"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God forbid HIV"

Good on you _iew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres thousands of folk with hiv and other sti on fab ........ x"

Don't tell me you got this information from Donald Trump's Twitter feed.

How many thousands are you talking about?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I can't believe the stigma of HIV in society even after all these years..

a lot of it is based on ignorance, sadly as with many things..

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

If we are having sex with a number of partners,statistically we will have had sex with someone with hiv, but if we are practising safer sex,it shouldn't matter..

Reading comments from this thread saddens me and we say people should be honest..Come on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest it's fucking shocking the amount of people on here having unprotected sex both normally and Anally! Yeah I know everyone is horny but fucking hell cover it up, blow your load wherever but cover him up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well played to her for making the announcement I say.

I'm sure many wouldn't.

Every time I see a thread on STIs on the forums the lack of understanding, knowledge and common sense is not only astounding but terrifying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe the stigma of HIV in society even after all these years..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well played to her for making the announcement I say.

I'm sure many wouldn't.

Every time I see a thread on STIs on the forums the lack of understanding, knowledge and common sense is not only astounding but terrifying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose we never know the true dangers of the infection!! until we are diagnosed with it. We all have a _iew point without truly knowing or having first hand experience of it.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Saying that, we don't know how she got the virus.

Bit early to judge, let's see how many bareback threads mention this in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just goes to show how HIV doesn't discriminate.... It can happen to anyone regardless of colour, sexual orientation, background etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame for the woman but i'm keeping my penis in my pants until this blows over

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Just goes to show how HIV doesn't discriminate.... It can happen to anyone regardless of colour, sexual orientation, background etc. "

I do hope that most,if not all on this site Have that knowledge tho I guess it's good to re.iterate.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"It's a shame for the woman but i'm keeping my penis in my pants until this blows over"

This isn't just a one off case you know that right ?? HIV is an every day worry .....

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"It's a shame for the woman but i'm keeping my penis in my pants until this blows over

This isn't just a one off case you know that right ?? HIV is an every day worry ..... "

Absolutely agree and plenty punters on here who are HIC positive...deal with it

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it.."

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame for the woman but i'm keeping my penis in my pants until this blows over

This isn't just a one off case you know that right ?? HIV is an every day worry ..... "

I know i wasn't being serious

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Just read a status from a woman saying she has hiv so get tested . Hope she is not taking the piss feel sorry for whoever has played with her but not a thing to joke about !?"

Good on her for making it public and taking a preventative method to stop the spread.

I'm sure it would have been far easier for her to slip away silently never mentioning it, leaving those she may have caught it from or spread it to to carry on unaware.

Even if it stops only one more infection it has been worth while doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has this profile now gone as I cant see it anymore ?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Has this profile now gone as I cant see it anymore ? "

How would you know who it was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because someone came into the chat last night and told everyone her name ! probably went into every room saying the same thing !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"because someone came into the chat last night and told everyone her name ! probably went into every room saying the same thing ! "

What a horrible thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because someone came into the chat last night and told everyone her name ! probably went into every room saying the same thing !

What a horrible thing to do"

Didn't think it was a very nice thing to do either tbh but literally came in told others about her status and her name and left again.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"because someone came into the chat last night and told everyone her name ! probably went into every room saying the same thing !

What a horrible thing to do

Didn't think it was a very nice thing to do either tbh but literally came in told others about her status and her name and left again.

I would have reported them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think he was reported by numerous people but not before pretty much everyone who would listen knew exactly who where and her username was

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"because someone came into the chat last night and told everyone her name ! probably went into every room saying the same thing ! "

What an a$$hole

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms "

Depends on your GUM clinic and if you tell them you're a swinger they give you a years course of shots for prevention against that.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I'd like to think he was reported for being a complete d*ck!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Think he was reported by numerous people but not before pretty much everyone who would listen knew exactly who where and her username was "

That's good

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms

Depends on your GUM clinic and if you tell them you're a swinger they give you a years course of shots for prevention against that."

Didn't know there was a prevention .......never been told about that ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms

Depends on your GUM clinic and if you tell them you're a swinger they give you a years course of shots for prevention against that.

Didn't know there was a prevention .......never been told about that .... "

There isn't. The vaccinations will be for hepatitis B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think he was reported by numerous people but not before pretty much everyone who would listen knew exactly who where and her username was "

What a cock

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms

Depends on your GUM clinic and if you tell them you're a swinger they give you a years course of shots for prevention against that.

Didn't know there was a prevention .......never been told about that ....

There isn't. The vaccinations will be for hepatitis B."
. Was going to say ! Just googled and found ....

Researchers have made the first vaccine that protects against genital herpes. But there is a major catch: It works only in women and only if they have never had cold sores.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms

Depends on your GUM clinic and if you tell them you're a swinger they give you a years course of shots for prevention against that.

Didn't know there was a prevention .......never been told about that ....

There isn't. The vaccinations will be for hepatitis B."

that's it lapse in memory

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Researchers have made the first vaccine that protects against genital herpes. But there is a major catch: It works only in women and only if they have never had cold sores."

Well that's me. Where do I sign up?

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

"Researchers have made the first vaccine that protects against genital herpes. But there is a major catch: It works only in women and only if they have never had cold sores.

Well that's me. Where do I sign up?"

Probably America lol I don't know . It's also me as well

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Genital herpes is out of control and no cure..

It is estimated 7 million people in Britain are carriers and often no symptoms..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And just like herpes many don't even know they have it..

Well actually I get blood tests for hiv so I would be aware if I had it whereas I'm not aware they test for herpes unless have symptoms

That's Hepatitis not Herpes ffs.

Plus herpes is prevelent in over 75% of the population. See that cold sore, yes that's herpes!

Depends on your GUM clinic and if you tell them you're a swinger they give you a years course of shots for prevention against that."

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