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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've heard from other women, it seems to happen fairly often here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it."

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From what I've heard from other women, it seems to happen fairly often here."

Oh ok. My first time.....it made me laugh how little he offered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing."

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?"

How about £50

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By *r.ringMan
over a year ago

totton

It's not allowed as far as I'm aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?"

£40?! Was it his pocket money?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?

How about £50

If you'll cook me a meal too...it's a deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?

How about £50

If you'll cook me a meal too...it's a deal

Result!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?

£40?! Was it his pocket money?

Or earnings from his paper round maybe...or maybe not..he was 36 yr old

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?

How about £50

If you'll cook me a meal too...it's a deal

Result!!

It'll have to be meat.....please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it.

Reported him? Wasn't it enough? I joke but I can see how offended you'd be so you did the right thing.

Haha only £40. I wasn't offended (it takes much more than anything like that to offend me) but I didn't think it would be allowed on here?

How about £50

If you'll cook me a meal too...it's a deal

Result!!

It'll have to be meat.....please

But of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists. "

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

Hand job?

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

Hand job? "

I told him to add a zero on the end for starters, and it still wouldn't be enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

I hope he wasn't expecting a BOGOF offer too !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't men just go to a brothel or get an escort if they are willing to pay may as well get it done professionally or just wanting a quick fix haha

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

I hope he wasn't expecting a BOGOF offer too !!"

Now there's an idea lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

I hope he wasn't expecting a BOGOF offer too !!

Now there's an idea lol"

Don't tell me, you'll get together with him then it's only £20 each to have me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't men just go to a brothel or get an escort if they are willing to pay may as well get it done professionally or just wanting a quick fix haha"

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

I hope he wasn't expecting a BOGOF offer too !!

Now there's an idea lol

Don't tell me, you'll get together with him then it's only £20 each to have me

No I'm a greedy git, I'll give you the )40 for 2 lol

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Can feel a road trip coming on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gets mi passport ready lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

I hope he wasn't expecting a BOGOF offer too !!

Now there's an idea lol

Don't tell me, you'll get together with him then it's only £20 each to have me

No I'm a greedy git, I'll give you the )40 for 2 lol

I'd wear you out after just the once

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Lol happens all too often. The other day after turning a man down several times he offered me £300 to come round that minute dressed in my red outfit. Obviously this charmed me and I jumped in my car....not. how this is meant to charm me after turning him down I will never understand.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I ignore them now. They are fantasists.

They are if they think £40 will get them a f**k

£40 in the sales gets you £80 worth of shoes mind, maybe he was taking advantage of the January sales

I hope he wasn't expecting a BOGOF offer too !!

Now there's an idea lol

Don't tell me, you'll get together with him then it's only £20 each to have me

No I'm a greedy git, I'll give you the )40 for 2 lol

I'd wear you out after just the once

What a challenge lol

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

Sol The Narion system

Totally classless on the part of the person offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a fair bit, but then you also hearing about women asking for gifts so some of them must be encouraged by that.

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Hell no we would not offer you money, but ya would defo arrange a meet at a club, sure this is what it all about on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got offered money for my dirty socks on here once.

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By *iceguy81Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

It makes me sick that people are so disrespectful to ask or offer money for sex it's not only out of order but also illegal. I had a woman try to blackmail me and nothing was done after reporting it so police had to be called and tracked her really quick

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By *iceguy81Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I got offered money for my dirty socks on here once.

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got offered money for my dirty socks on here once.

Pmsl "

And when they turned up they'd got fucking holes in them. Avoid this man, he's a cad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens all the time, sex workers or those offer a buck for a bang are on here. I have been propositioned a few times before, I done as you did report them. Just doesn't quite feel right does it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens ... block and move on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No woman is ever getting my hard earned money

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

A guy on fab wanted desperately to have sex with this really cute, really hot girl on here but she was on here as a couple with someone else. One day the guy got so frustrated that he messaged her and said, "I'll give you £100 if you let me have sex with you"

The girl read the message and replied, "NO."

The guy wouldn't take no for an answer so he sent another message, "I'll be real fast. I'll throw the money on the floor, you bend down, and I'll finish by the time you've picked it up."

She thought for a moment and said that she would consult with her boyfriend. So she called him and explained the situation.

Her boyfriend says, "Ask him for £200, pick up the money really fast. He won't even be able to get his pants down." She agreed and accepts the proposal.

The girl arranges a meet with the guy and tells her boyfriend she'll call him in 2 minutes to say that the trick has worked and that she is £200 richer without having sex.

Over half an hour goes by and the boyfriend is still waiting for his girlfriend's call. Finally, after 45 minutes the boyfriend calls and asks what happened.

Still breathing hard, she managed to reply, "The bastard paid in loose change"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got offered money for my dirty socks on here once.

Pmsl

And when they turned up they'd got fucking holes in them. Avoid this man, he's a cad.

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A guy on fab wanted desperately to have sex with this really cute, really hot girl on here but she was on here as a couple with someone else. One day the guy got so frustrated that he messaged her and said, "I'll give you £100 if you let me have sex with you"

The girl read the message and replied, "NO."

The guy wouldn't take no for an answer so he sent another message, "I'll be real fast. I'll throw the money on the floor, you bend down, and I'll finish by the time you've picked it up."

She thought for a moment and said that she would consult with her boyfriend. So she called him and explained the situation.

Her boyfriend says, "Ask him for £200, pick up the money really fast. He won't even be able to get his pants down." She agreed and accepts the proposal.

The girl arranges a meet with the guy and tells her boyfriend she'll call him in 2 minutes to say that the trick has worked and that she is £200 richer without having sex.

Over half an hour goes by and the boyfriend is still waiting for his girlfriend's call. Finally, after 45 minutes the boyfriend calls and asks what happened.

Still breathing hard, she managed to reply, "The bastard paid in loose change""

I thought that was a real story until the last line

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pleased it's not just me then...laughable thing was, when I said no he said "but I've a 9 inch cock" . He must of thought that would make me change my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My recent offer was 2 days ago ...

he said I could name my price for sitting on his face whilst he licked me and I took a shit

Reported him and blocked him and he's no longer on the site

The week before Christmas I was offered £500 for one bareback fuck. Funnily enough he's no longer on the site too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The girl read the message and replied, "NO."

The guy wouldn't take no for an answer so he sent another message, "I'll be real fast. I'll throw the money on the floor, you bend down, and I'll finish by the time you've picked it up."

She thought for a moment and said that she would consult with her boyfriend. So she called him and explained the situation.

Her boyfriend says, "Ask him for £200, pick up the money really fast. He won't even be able to get his pants down." She agreed and accepts the proposal.

The girl arranges a meet with the guy and tells her boyfriend she'll call him in 2 minutes to say that the trick has worked and that she is £200 richer without having sex.

Over half an hour goes by and the boyfriend is still waiting for his girlfriend's call. Finally, after 45 minutes the boyfriend calls and asks what happened.

Still breathing hard, she managed to reply, "The bastard paid in loose change""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it."

A lady I know on here has been offered it a few times

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"I've just been offered money for sex. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed?

I reported him but not sure anything will be done about it."

It isn't allowed no. Here is what happens to reports of people.

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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