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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex

Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We met through this site so we were both swinging already.

Sally

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

It kind of evolved.

We talked a lot during sex, swapped fantasies (mild at first)... but things got hornier and more hardcore over the years, until talking about involving another person lead to Jayne confessing she was bi-curious, leading to hot sex and hotter fantasies, and eventually we sort of mutually decided to do it for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here so didn't need to have any awkward conversations

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex

Suppose it's easier meeting a partner on this than suggesting it. In my previous relationship we spoke about it but afraid to suggest it.

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex


"It kind of evolved.

We talked a lot during sex, swapped fantasies (mild at first)... but things got hornier and more hardcore over the years, until talking about involving another person lead to Jayne confessing she was bi-curious, leading to hot sex and hotter fantasies, and eventually we sort of mutually decided to do it for real. "

How long did that process take? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mrs led the way after years of enjoying just each other we wanted to see what else was out there. I of course complained about the idea (for all of about 3 seconds).

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

My husband told me on our second date that he enjoyed swinging and that it was important to him. I said I couldn't do that....after discussing fantasies he thought I would enjoy it. Two weeks later I gave it a try at a club and we have been playing ever since

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"It kind of evolved.

We talked a lot during sex, swapped fantasies (mild at first)... but things got hornier and more hardcore over the years, until talking about involving another person lead to Jayne confessing she was bi-curious, leading to hot sex and hotter fantasies, and eventually we sort of mutually decided to do it for real.

How long did that process take? Lol"

We've been swinging 8 years, and together for 30 lol

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex


"My husband told me on our second date that he enjoyed swinging and that it was important to him. I said I couldn't do that....after discussing fantasies he thought I would enjoy it. Two weeks later I gave it a try at a club and we have been playing ever since"

Honesty from the start wow brave move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband told me on our second date that he enjoyed swinging and that it was important to him. I said I couldn't do that....after discussing fantasies he thought I would enjoy it. Two weeks later I gave it a try at a club and we have been playing ever since

Honesty from the start wow brave move."

Once you have opened Pandora's box its hard to go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (the female) was the instigator. A couple of weeks after we met I admitted i'd had a threesome, he didn't run a mile and eventually we had a threesome ourselves. I knew if i was going to suggest this lifestyle to him that an FFM would be the best introduction. Since then we've been to a club (he didn't like it so we haven't been back), and had threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. It's still me who's the instigator, but i've told him if he's unhappy or uncomfortable with it then we can stop no problem. I love him more than I love swinging.

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex


"I (the female) was the instigator. A couple of weeks after we met I admitted i'd had a threesome, he didn't run a mile and eventually we had a threesome ourselves. I knew if i was going to suggest this lifestyle to him that an FFM would be the best introduction. Since then we've been to a club (he didn't like it so we haven't been back), and had threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. It's still me who's the instigator, but i've told him if he's unhappy or uncomfortable with it then we can stop no problem. I love him more than I love swinging. "

FFM nice way of introducing him to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (the female) was the instigator. A couple of weeks after we met I admitted i'd had a threesome, he didn't run a mile and eventually we had a threesome ourselves. I knew if i was going to suggest this lifestyle to him that an FFM would be the best introduction. Since then we've been to a club (he didn't like it so we haven't been back), and had threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. It's still me who's the instigator, but i've told him if he's unhappy or uncomfortable with it then we can stop no problem. I love him more than I love swinging.

FFM nice way of introducing him to it lol

"

Strangely enough he agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all extremely lucky couples

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Just part of the conversation.

Discussion of sex and fantasies has always been part of bedtime fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was messing around one night taking pics and I(Mr) said we should post these online out of fun....the shock when she said yeah why not and once we did and saw the comments we then both decided to look further into maybe trying swinging and well the rest is history as they say

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex


"I (the female) was the instigator. A couple of weeks after we met I admitted i'd had a threesome, he didn't run a mile and eventually we had a threesome ourselves. I knew if i was going to suggest this lifestyle to him that an FFM would be the best introduction. Since then we've been to a club (he didn't like it so we haven't been back), and had threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. It's still me who's the instigator, but i've told him if he's unhappy or uncomfortable with it then we can stop no problem. I love him more than I love swinging.

FFM nice way of introducing him to it lol

Strangely enough he agreed "

Didn't take much convincing lol

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By *eckandcarlCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Carl kept asking me to go club i kept saying no although secretly i liked the idea in the end after a few drinks i said yes come on then his face was a picture lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

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Adam suggested inviting somebody else into the bedroom and we found fab and swinging through Internet research.

It is a long story for us though ha ha.

Eve. X

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Mrs did. After a 22 year vanilla marriage she suggested on my birthday that we go to a local car park for a shag. We did this on and off for about a year at various locations (only ever us) but it was definitely a summer sport! Then 1 day she suggested we try a club. That was about a year ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

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Well I told Dorian I was bi and interested in playing with other Females. He was interested so he suggested we gave and try and I said yes and here we are a few years later and can't stay off the site for long.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was something that evolved put of a mutual interest and curiosity.

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

Well I told Dorian I was bi and interested in playing with other Females. He was interested so he suggested we gave and try and I said yes and here we are a few years later and can't stay off the site for long.

~Mia"

Lol its easier for a female telling the male partner she's bi n want to try 3some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

Well I told Dorian I was bi and interested in playing with other Females. He was interested so he suggested we gave and try and I said yes and here we are a few years later and can't stay off the site for long.

~Mia

Lol its easier for a female telling the male partner she's bi n want to try 3some."

Yeah I'd imagine it's more likely to work out when it's that way round... a lot of women would hear it as "I want to fuck other people" rather than "How horny would this be for us both?"

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By *rownskinmale OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

Well I told Dorian I was bi and interested in playing with other Females. He was interested so he suggested we gave and try and I said yes and here we are a few years later and can't stay off the site for long.

~Mia

Lol its easier for a female telling the male partner she's bi n want to try 3some.

Yeah I'd imagine it's more likely to work out when it's that way round... a lot of women would hear it as "I want to fuck other people" rather than "How horny would this be for us both?""

You're 100% right on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Between the partners who suggested swinging n how did you say it?

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He suggested it. He even thought it was his idea lol

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