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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/01/17 21:40:49]"
Clearly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HELP! I really am awful... this is cali btw as Mr is amazing at it.. but can't help as its just how he is.. and I could never get away with how cheeky he is..

So ladies... how do you flirt.. I am also finding it hard to ever notice if someone is flirting or interested in me because being that I used to work as a psychologist I do my best to NOT read people when we are meeting them... so i kinda blinker myself.

The other point is as half of a couple I feel a bit odd about flirting with other men and women too...Although i find u can do it more easily with women.

One of my new years resolutions is to be more confident in myself again and this means not leaving it up to Mr to approach everyone... so any tips...

I know to be myself but unfortunately unless they start talking cars or motorbikes I can get a little quiet... Im a bit ladish in my interests and being one of the lads is great till your after sex

Sorry should have proof read it first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/01/17 21:40:49]Clearly... "
read it back and had to change something lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/01/17 21:40:49]Clearly... read it back and had to change something lol x"

Lol. Fair comment

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I'm the same, crap at flirting and can't pick up on signals at all. I never get chatted up (in my eyes) and I'm not confident enough to try flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isn't like dating, so what have you got to lose. Just practice practice practice & you'll get the hanger of it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm the same, crap at flirting and can't pick up on signals at all. I never get chatted up (in my eyes) and I'm not confident enough to try flirting"

Say 'Steve, you have lovely biceps'

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Not a fan of flirting, especially online. I see people do it here and looks so weird and awkward.

Prefer to be direct myself. Less ambiguous and prick teasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HELP! I really am awful... this is cali btw as Mr is amazing at it.. but can't help as its just how he is.. and I could never get away with how cheeky he is..

So ladies... how do you flirt.. I am also finding it hard to ever notice if someone is flirting or interested in me because being that I used to work as a psychologist I do my best to NOT read people when we are meeting them... so i kinda blinker myself.

The other point is as half of a couple I feel a bit odd about flirting with other men and women too...Although i find u can do it more easily with women.

One of my new years resolutions is to be more confident in myself again and this means not leaving it up to Mr to approach everyone... so any tips...

I know to be myself but unfortunately unless they start talking cars or motorbikes I can get a little quiet... Im a bit ladish in my interests and being one of the lads is great till your after sex

Sorry should have proof read it first... "

No need to flirt with that smile...... AND your a petrol head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same, crap at flirting and can't pick up on signals at all. I never get chatted up (in my eyes) and I'm not confident enough to try flirting"

Well, at least it's not just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a fan of flirting, especially online. I see people do it here and looks so weird and awkward.

Prefer to be direct myself. Less ambiguous and prick teasing. "
see thats me but im really really blunt and dont take compliments off here well as i kinda think they are insincere mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't flirt so don't try anymore. I just feel awkward and always get it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't flirt so don't try anymore. I just feel awkward and always get it wrong "

Me too..

So another question... is it needed on fab.. or can you manage without it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't flirt so don't try anymore. I just feel awkward and always get it wrong

Me too..

So another question... is it needed on fab.. or can you manage without it?"

I certainly can't.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Online flirting we both assume to be total BS but many here seem to thrive on it. In person I (D) tend to do the talking but also tend not to press and have probably missed oppourtunities because of that. A straight up "Would you like to..." would never offend and be more likely to succeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on the receiving end of a flirt provides a nice ego boost and can be fun, but in the long run -- another poster just noted -- I'd prefer people to be a little bit more direct so that I know where I stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting online is way different to flirting in reality, on here anyone who can string a sentence together can do it, it means jack.

I can only flirt with people I fancy / like which is where the eye contact comes in, ease of conversation that kind of thing, so maybe at times you haven't felt that attracted to them?

I don't see a problem with chatting about the things you're into, confidence is an attractive trait & if you're relaxed with the conversation that will show through.

Hope that helps a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is me flirting online I'm a complete duffer I'm no keyboard warrior

I'm more of a face to face person

I've cocked loads of conversations up on here

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