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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a dilemma isn't it. I wouldn't bother if I were you, unless you want to kiss your marriage goodbye x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ino but it's just one of those things lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

Start by telling her you want to not by looking for it!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Bit of a dilemma isn't it. I wouldn't bother if I were you, unless you want to kiss your marriage goodbye x"

This! X

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Ino but it's just one of those things lol "
What divorce is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

If you can't be honest with the woman who knows you best, I've no idea why you're asking a bunch of strangers for advice?

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

Oh dear - this should be entertaining.

Pulling up a chair and pouring a glass of wine for this one......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp

If you can't be honest with the woman who knows you best, I've no idea why you're asking a bunch of strangers for advice? "

Because people might have been In my position before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp

If you can't be honest with the woman who knows you best, I've no idea why you're asking a bunch of strangers for advice? "

You stole my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

Considering that the dynamics of an FFM and an MMF are quite different, I;m intrigued why you don't mind which it is?

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Is this something she has shown any interest in

MrH & I spoke about threesomes for 2yrs before anything happened, so we knew exactly what we wanted our if things, we discussed emotions jealousies etc

if I ever found out he was on sites like this behind my back it would have been over before it started

So my suggestion would be speak to your partner not a bunch of strangers as each relationship is different and will/will not handle a 3rd person differently

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

Get terribly d*unk and then start the topic. Something along the lines of : -" what do you feel about a 3sum?"

Or ask her if she ever had one or if she is curious about it. ..

If it goes wrong, you can blame it on the alcohol. You'll probably will spend a few weeks on the couch, using your righty (or lefty)for sometime too but, nothing that is worth doing will come easy or without downsides.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe everyone is right and I should maybe bring it up in a conversation jokingly sometime and see what her reaction is...but where's the harm in asking "a bunch of strangers" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just before opening up the box of the diamond necklace you just bought her say "howwouldyouliketohaveathreesome?"

If you can't afford the diamond necklace save up for two hookers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp

Get terribly d*unk and then start the topic. Something along the lines of : -" what do you feel about a 3sum?"

Or ask her if she ever had one or if she is curious about it. ..

If it goes wrong, you can blame it on the alcohol. You'll probably will spend a few weeks on the couch, using your righty (or lefty)for sometime too but, nothing that is worth doing will come easy or without downsides. "

I know she's had one before I came along she's told me when we where d*unk with friends but I didn't really want to carry it on In front of people and I've never really spoke about it since lol

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Lol ..she is prob on another site having them when yr working......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to host a house party and invite a couple of your long lost pals from fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to host a house party and invite a couple of your long lost pals from fab "

Haha that could work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe everyone is right and I should maybe bring it up in a conversation jokingly sometime and see what her reaction is...but where's the harm in asking "a bunch of strangers" ?"

The next time you fuck her, flip her over, have her suck a dildo and tell her how it would be fun if that was another man. See her reaction?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Bloody hell OP .... *you* 'don't mind' what kind of threesome it is!

How about *speaking* to your wife and asking which she'd prefer ? ... assuming she's into the idea at all.

You're not going to get anywhere without actually talking to her .... and bearing in mind that most women planning a threesome with their partner would want to feel they could trust him 100% to have her back in such a situation, it might also be an opportune moment to tell her you've been on here for over a year without her knowledge .... good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

First step.

Show her this and your profile on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she messaged from her fab profile she said she was, and we quote " well up for a filthy three way as long as her knob of a husband didn't find out" seemed harsh at the time until she said the only reason she was on fab in the first place was she found out her husband was and thought fuck it, I might as well be too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When she messaged from her fab profile she said she was, and we quote " well up for a filthy three way as long as her knob of a husband didn't find out" seemed harsh at the time until she said the only reason she was on fab in the first place was she found out her husband was and thought fuck it, I might as well be too""

Love it!!

Can't really say much after that, can you?

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"When she messaged from her fab profile she said she was, and we quote " well up for a filthy three way as long as her knob of a husband didn't find out" seemed harsh at the time until she said the only reason she was on fab in the first place was she found out her husband was and thought fuck it, I might as well be too"

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Bloody hell OP .... *you* 'don't mind' what kind of threesome it is!

How about *speaking* to your wife and asking which she'd prefer ? ... assuming she's into the idea at all.

You're not going to get anywhere without actually talking to her .... and bearing in mind that most women planning a threesome with their partner would want to feel they could trust him 100% to have her back in such a situation, it might also be an opportune moment to tell her you've been on here for over a year without her knowledge .... good luck "

Enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp

Share fantasies, see her reaction when you say yours in a 3sum, gage her reaction and take it from there, my advice would be say its a MMF at first so she don't just think your after another woman, women can me very temperamental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How should I approach wanting a 3sum with my mrs...she doesn't know I'm on here and I don't mind if it's mmf or mff I just don't know how I should go about it....helppp"

Delete this account and then bring up the idea of joining as a couple to see if you can enjoy the scene together.

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