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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably been done before but why when you put you can't acommodate some people assume your married or cheating , myself personally I can't because I have 2 teenagers that live with myself . People have circumstances so why always assume that a single guy that can't acommodate is cheating ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because most of the time, the expectations of men differ for woman/couples.

their security and privacy.

but saying that, no-one is forced to do anything they don't want to...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally understand the security aspect but to just say no you must be cheating is wrong , it would be better if people got to know each other before making a sweeping statement because you can't acommodate. We all have our reasons .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because a lot of married/attached guys are cheating and women don't care to be a part of that.

we presume, rightly or wrongly, that men are liars coz we've probably known a lot in our time...especially on the internet where anyone can say what they want and expect us to take that as true.

i bet at least one attached liar on here has made up one of these topics also, to make people believe him. not saying that is you OP but i can guarantee at least one person, who gets off on being devious, has done this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lodging...... with my parents. Had my own apartment (and did accommodate) but I was sick of renting. I'm saving to buy so that, A) I'm not throwing money away on rent B) I can accommodate again.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Probably been done before but why when you put you can't acommodate some people assume your married or cheating , myself personally I can't because I have 2 teenagers that live with myself . People have circumstances so why always assume that a single guy that can't acommodate is cheating ? "

Got to admit, that's the first thing that I think when I see it on profiles and I'm single myself and don't accommodate! We all have our reasons, whatever they may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably been done before but why when you put you can't acommodate some people assume your married or cheating , myself personally I can't because I have 2 teenagers that live with myself . People have circumstances so why always assume that a single guy that can't acommodate is cheating ? "

It is an assumption and one that you can counter on your profile if you so wish.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not accomodating on its own doesnt point to cheating for me,there are lots of reasons why people don't or won't.Maybe state on your profile why you can't of you wish to ,sadly people assume too much on here.

Miss

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Probably been done before but why when you put you can't acommodate some people assume your married or cheating , myself personally I can't because I have 2 teenagers that live with myself . People have circumstances so why always assume that a single guy that can't acommodate is cheating ? "

Same goes for women....we're cheating if we don't allow a random man off the net into our homes. Whatever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me what people think ....I can't accom because of kids and I don't travel far because I don't have the time

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We say on our profile "can accommodate during school hours". Better than not being able to accommodate at all.

Sally

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

To be perfectly honest we avoid anyone who makes a big deal out of anyone else not accommodating. We certainly don't want swinging to cross over into our family life and we wouldn't expect anyone else to either. Why would anyone want strangers in their house? Don't they have enough friends?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We only accommodate people we know well but won't with random people on here even though as a couple we are often expected to. One guy had the nerve to ask me why I wouldn't accommodate him because I accommodate Carl??!! Would have thought it was obvious that you would accommodate your partner lol! Also felt it better to say we don't so we don't mislead anyone. Have had problems with younger single guys one stalker, two trying to get into my house at two am, hence why we are so careful who comes here as we do not live together.

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