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By *teveanddebs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

We'll start off:

Steve:

I was quite heavily into the bdsm scene and went to a club in Brum, staying in a Travelodge in the city center. A male dom I knew was there with his two subs, one of which had been a bit cheeky to me in the chatroom and he offered to let me 'punish' her. Later on we found they were staying in the same Travelodge and he offered to lend me one of the girls. When we got back to the hotel we went to their room for a final drink and it turned into a fuckfest. They then introduced me to a swinginging site and I took it from there.

Debs:

I was in a previous relationship but shagging a work colleague on the side. We had an mmf with his bi girlfriend and he suggested swinging with my partner so I bought it up with my partner who thought it was a good idea so off we went.

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By *teveanddebs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Ooops that should of course be mff with his girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst on holiday with my ex girlfriend in Gran Canaria... having sex in 'secluded' area of beach and being watched by couple of guys who ended up wanking near us. Two days later, same area one of the guys 'caught' us again! Invited him back to our hotel! Had a few 3sums when we came back home.

Few years later at a party with a different girlfriend, caught her with 2 guys... joined in and been swinging regularly since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the playground. I saw this big metal thingy with 4 seats.....

I decided to sit on one of the seats , held the chains on the side of the seat and kicked my legs back and forth until I felt the wind in my hair and my heart in my stomach .....

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By *4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

N 42.709787, W -84.556222


"I went to the playground. I saw this big metal thingy with 4 seats.....

I decided to sit on one of the seats , held the chains on the side of the seat and kicked my legs back and forth until I felt the wind in my hair and my heart in my stomach ..... "

lol

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By *4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

N 42.709787, W -84.556222

We seen a movie where they ended up swinging with their friends. We talked about it and both wanted to give it a try.

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Accidentally logged into the wrong (very friendly) chat room on the old User run MSN Chat Forums (Before the USA dumped them all)

Heard people talking about a club in the Midlands and asked 'What club is this?' and it was all down hill from there...

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I had heard about people going round and fucking someone else's wife I thought I'll have some of that,I put an add in a magazine and ended going to Blackpool to fuck this mans wife she was a very nice looking lady after that I was hooked,then I started going to the saunas and some of the best times have been out dogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tickled my fancy...Told my fella I wanted to go to Xstasia and he bit my hand off!

Ruby

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

As a young 18yo (before there were dedicated sites like this) - met a couple on a yahoo group and arrangled to meet them one night.

Drove me to theirs and we sat in the kitchen drinking and talking for ages (nerves on my part) until the Lady stood up, said enough talking, got on her knees, unzipped me and a love of swinging was born.

Was a fantastic experience which I repeated occasionally but couldn't find a partner that wanted to become involved.

Ended up marrying a Lass that said when we were married she would consider it but then she didn't want to so stayed monagamous with her until the divorce and now here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decided I could no long live without a satisfying and fulfilling sex live, so here I am, almost 4 years into it now and loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw something about it on sexcetera with my first GF, did a web (pre Google) search and found a couple of websites. Went from there. Played together for about a year before we split. I carried on alone.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Decided I could no long live without a satisfying and fulfilling sex live, so here I am, almost 4 years into it now and loving it "

Glad to hear it but its a pity here is not here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was hubbies fantasy to see me with another guy. He still loves watching

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A friend at the time put me on here, thought ti would do me good.

It has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby asked me to show on cam so I could learn the power I could have over others, loved it from first time

Sandy x

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"It was hubbies fantasy to see me with another guy. He still loves watching "

If only fab had been around when i was in arbroath 14 yrs ago.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was hubbies fantasy to see me with another guy. He still loves watching

If only fab had been around when i was in arbroath 14 yrs ago....."

Why

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"It was hubbies fantasy to see me with another guy. He still loves watching

If only fab had been around when i was in arbroath 14 yrs ago.....

Why "

Hmmmmm might have got to know a sexy couple......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like another on here....through an msn group thing (when it was proper)..... got told about another site....got into it seriously (though to be fair I'd been doing bits and bobs of group stuff since I was at uni like 30 years back!). A couple I met a few times through the other site put me onto fab about 6 years back......had a previous profile but got kicked off for hitting the verification limit (joking). Took a break about 15 months back...didn't last that long. I came back as we all do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was hubbies fantasy to see me with another guy. He still loves watching

If only fab had been around when i was in arbroath 14 yrs ago.....

Why

Hmmmmm might have got to know a sexy couple...... "

You never know

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

almost everything i know previously about swinging before I became a swinger is from my ex she gave me insutes in this world. I was and am single and hated it so I thought if it works for her to get over people and feel more confident in herself it can work for me.

there not the most sexist of comments but probably the most truthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 18, I was staying at a friend house on the sofa. I ended up playing with both him and his housemate. We didn't actually have sex, but it definately made an impression on me. I have generally moved back into the bdsm and swinging circles whenever I've been single Not managed to find anyone to have a relationship with who was interested in the lifestyle.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We'd talked about it before we were married, even got (before the Internet was so popular) swingers magazines. It looked quite tacky so we never went ahead with it.

Then, about 8 years ago, we were having a nice session, I was on all fours giving him a bj and said "wouldn't it be great if there was a man behind you right now fucking you hard". Without hesitation I said yes. Both of us had already done threesomes and moresomes when single so it wasn't like we were both innocent.

He looked up adult clubs on the Internet. Abfabs was obviously first on the list. We booked a night, had an awful time but decided to give it one more go (my decision not his, he would of happily never visited again his experience was so bad). We went again about a month later, got involved in an orgy with 6 other couples and have never looked back. I've managed to fulfil most of my fantasies, he's yet to fulfil his list (any Asian/Oriental ladies step forward please, more the better lol).

Happy new year everyone xxx

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"It was hubbies fantasy to see me with another guy. He still loves watching

If only fab had been around when i was in arbroath 14 yrs ago.....

Why

Hmmmmm might have got to know a sexy couple......

You never know "

Oh you teasing pair

Unfortunately no family or friends left in Angus to 'visit'. Closest I get is Edinburgh for work occasionally or Glasgow for family amd friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been bi and spent 8 years in a relationship where my ex hated the fact I'd even look at women, so after we split I said never again I'm going to be with someone who loves me for me and then I met the Mr, after dating for 3 months I told him everything and asked if he wanted a 3sum after some discussion (he thought was a trap haha) he agreed, so we had our first mff together, then had a few more mff, a lovely couple told us about fab from another site and the rest as they say is history x

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

...... it started with a kiss.... never thought it would cum to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to see other guys without hubby knowing, or at least I thought I did. He finally told me that he knew and it was ok. How lucky was I!!

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Through adds in local papers and posting replies off to po box numbers.

Different world back then.

God I feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to see other guys without hubby knowing, or at least I thought I did. He finally told me that he knew and it was ok. How lucky was I!! "
how lucky are those guys though?

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

We gad discussed a few years ago but me (Mrs) wasn't up for it...

Last September Mr was talking to his buddy at the gym, found out he'd been to a Liberations spa party and had a horny time, we flew out on holiday and I couldn't stop thinking about it, it made me do dam horny. When we got home I googled Liberations, followed the cyberspace trail which led to fab, joined us up and told the Mr when he got home. The rest is history. We are now making up for lost time and absolutely love it.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

After my divorce to a man who was my first and only fuck I ventured out at age 26. First experience was with a lovely couple who introduced me to bisexuality with the woman and my second sexual partner of my life with the man. Since then have done everything possible to make up for lost time. Can never EVER be monogamous again, too promiscuous for that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a young women on a night out, ended up going back to hers and taking her in the kitchen, little did i know her sister was home and came down and saw us.

She didnt say anything till the morning and her sister was in the shower she came down in a dressing gown an kept teasing me. So i said are you teasing or wanting a fuck?

Ended up her bent over the sofa! Once we finished she told me i should get on this site!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Got sick of men lying about their intentions on dating sites so went to a swinging site where I knew it was only about sex.

That was 7 years ago. Slightly hooked now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got sick of men lying about their intentions on dating sites so went to a swinging site where I knew it was only about sex.

That was 7 years ago. Slightly hooked now. "

I find this a lot! Women are hard to read on dating sites, some will say no to start with half hour later an they are flashing it all!

Its rather a minefield!, but even on here you get people wanting actual dates etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to see other guys without hubby knowing, or at least I thought I did. He finally told me that he knew and it was ok. How lucky was I!! "

Extremely lucky, there won't be many women who will be as lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an affair because our sex life was not satisfying. I finished the affair because I felt guilty. I talked to my husband about what had happened, how I felt, my fantasies and his fantasies and we decided to try swinging.....now I am not having an affair - we are both having a great time, no guilt, just lots of sexy fun!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Got sick of men lying about their intentions on dating sites so went to a swinging site where I knew it was only about sex.

That was 7 years ago. Slightly hooked now.

I find this a lot! Women are hard to read on dating sites, some will say no to start with half hour later an they are flashing it all!

Its rather a minefield!, but even on here you get people wanting actual dates etc. "

I'd love a date off here, can't lie! I'd have to be as attracted to them on here as I was a dating site though. I couldn't do it just because of the common interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started with dogging I met a couple out one night and they let's say.... baptised me and then invited me to try more x

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We used to talk about fantasies when playing i suggested playing them out to hubby .....here we are simples lol

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just asked the wife of she fancied getting fucked while giving me Bj she said yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through chatting to a lady , who was part of a couple,in an AOL chat room. Told me she wanted a threesome with hubby and a guy. Went from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam had lots of dreams of me with another bloke. He googled it to see what was 'wrong' with him and came across fab.

Now here we are.

Eve. X

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Adam had lots of dreams of me with another bloke. He googled it to see what was 'wrong' with him and came across fab.

Now here we are.

Eve. X"

That made me lol.

Its not wrong. Its actually so so right x

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By *mokeynbubblyCouple
over a year ago

poole

Many years ago I (Mr) found out,through a yahoo group, about a local car park that was a dogging spot. Had a good talk between us to go and have a look, just inquisitive at the time to see what went on. Finally stopped and chatted to a few people, we did drive off a couple of times first when people approached lol. Got talking to a nice couple who invited us back to their house and the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet, its all the internets fault lol. I found another swinging site a few years back and started networking there. I enjoyed the whole pic thing, that's where all started posting pics and sharing nudes etc... I made friends and started hitting the club scene. I started getting into the whole exhibitionist thing and it's went from there.

The end.... it's a mini adventure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The internet, its all the internets fault lol. I found another swinging site a few years back and started networking there. I enjoyed the whole pic thing, that's where all started posting pics and sharing nudes etc... I made friends and started hitting the club scene. I started getting into the whole exhibitionist thing and it's went from there.

The end.... it's a mini adventure lol "

Life is an adventure, and the wonderful world of Fab enhances it...life is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Adam had lots of dreams of me with another bloke. He googled it to see what was 'wrong' with him and came across fab.

Now here we are.

Eve. X

That made me lol.

Its not wrong. Its actually so so right x"

Of course we know that now but as we have been together since sweet sixteen, we were pretty blinded to the world of sex.

He thought there must be something wrong with him to want to share his wife who he still loved dearly.

I thought there was something wrong with me because my husband wanted to share me.

Now we both loving doing lots of wrong doings in the sex department ha ha.

Eve. X

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Adam had lots of dreams of me with another bloke. He googled it to see what was 'wrong' with him and came across fab.

Now here we are.

Eve. X

That made me lol.

Its not wrong. Its actually so so right x"

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Through adds in local papers and posting replies off to po box numbers.

Different world back then.

God I feel old "

did you still get time waisted back then. Messaging you then not turning up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After my divorce to a man who was my first and only fuck I ventured out at age 26. First experience was with a lovely couple who introduced me to bisexuality with the woman and my second sexual partner of my life with the man. Since then have done everything possible to make up for lost time. Can never EVER be monogamous again, too promiscuous for that now "

Nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The internet, its all the internets fault lol. I found another swinging site a few years back and started networking there. I enjoyed the whole pic thing, that's where all started posting pics and sharing nudes etc... I made friends and started hitting the club scene. I started getting into the whole exhibitionist thing and it's went from there.

The end.... it's a mini adventure lol

Life is an adventure, and the wonderful world of Fab enhances it...life is great "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in my mid 20's a guy on my work crew used to swing with his wife most weekends. Always used to tell me about what he used to get upto, got me interested.

After spliting up with my g/f at the time I joined a adult site (AFF) and made afew friends online. Got invited to meet a lovely local couple and finally plucked up the courage to have my first MFM 3sum. Since then I've been hooked!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

back when I was married, my ex had a friend who organised 'adult' parties at another friends pub on a couple of nights a month, but there was no mention of swinging..

he was always asking us both to come along but my ex said it wasn't his thing so we never did anything about it..

one day whilst I was out, I went in Rymans to use their photocopier but someone had left something on it, when I looked it was a flyer for a swinging event so I rang the number on it and the guy who answered said he would come and get it and it was my exes mate

he again asked us to come along but again my ex said no and we split up not long after...

when I was on my own I looked up swingers sites on google and the rest, as they say, is history

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

When we met we had a few chats about our past and what we both liked when it came to sex. I realised how naughty and how high sluts sex drive really was so found fab and joined. We love it that much slut even has her own account and meets when ever she's in the mood . 24/7 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of Mrs told us about and took us to chams that was that the fun began

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had sex with multiple people. I guess that's swinging.

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