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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So there is a sexy man who wants to take me out dogging for some sexy light fun.

( I did used to go out years ago as a single female and play so not a novice)

Anyways I'm not sure what he is asking me would be a turn on for any surprise attendees! If you went out dogging, and happened to find me in a car exposing my large heavy boobs, let you touch them etc but no sex would that turn you on or interest you? Or would your dogging expectations be disappointed?

I'm not convinced lol so let's see sexy peeps.

Mmmwwwhhhaaaa xx

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"So there is a sexy man who wants to take me out dogging for some sexy light fun.

( I did used to go out years ago as a single female and play so not a novice)

Anyways I'm not sure what he is asking me would be a turn on for any surprise attendees! If you went out dogging, and happened to find me in a car exposing my large heavy boobs, let you touch them etc but no sex would that turn you on or interest you? Or would your dogging expectations be disappointed?

I'm not convinced lol so let's see sexy peeps.

Mmmwwwhhhaaaa xx "

I'd probably want to fuck you tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would i be able to fuck your tits??? it is classed as touching them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be heaven if that was to happen. I'm sure most of the men on here would be amazed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be such a turn on to see your gorgeous naked body. Would you like guys just to watch? Or watch & wank? I'm a north Lincolnshire male, 31 would love to watch you dogging. Feel free to message me & I will send you a face picture. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm

Well if I liked them, watch, touch and wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a shame I'm not in your age range lol but if anyone has a good dogging spot let me know xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's kind of an unwritten law that you DO NOT post dogging locations publicly as we don't want the blue flashing lights peeps disturbing our fun.

Footnote, I would only play out in the dark in a discrete lane X

I'm a good girl I am X

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

I would be slightly disappointed and expected to at least cum all over your tits but wouldn't push you into what your not comfortable with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm

Well if I liked them, watch, touch and wank "

i can multitask so i can do that......i know its rare for a man to multitask

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By *irthngushCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Seeing those large breasts hun would defo turn us both on mmm..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd want u to at least suck me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's kind of an unwritten law that you DO NOT post dogging locations publicly as we don't want the blue flashing lights peeps disturbing our fun.

Footnote, I would only play out in the dark in a discrete lane X

I'm a good girl I am X

I don't mean post on this obviously on private message I'm not that daft lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd want u to at least suck me off"

At least! Lol!!!

Well that's fair enough, one down for disappointed xx

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By *illyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

you have to ask?

wed be happy just seeing them out

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we like to be watched, and slim enjoys guys touching her and coming over her but there's no rarely sucking or fucking, guys generally don't seem disappointed with this

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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago

clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands

There are some men who go dogging and think because a woman wants to put on a show they can do what they want. We have also found that most men are polite and just happy to watch and wank, these are the ones who sometimes get a happy surprise.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"There are some men who go dogging and think because a woman wants to put on a show they can do what they want. We have also found that most men are polite and just happy to watch and wank, these are the ones who sometimes get a happy surprise."
very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to see you large breasts exposee

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I'm shocked and really disappointed by most of the guys comments on this thread

I though with dogging &/or clubs the rule was no touching unless invited, I was under the impression that many people go dogging purely to put on a show others can watch and wank if they want & if they are invited to touch and play it's a bonus

The entitlement displayed in many of the responses and on many messages I receive is unbelievable

I was looking at starting dogging in the new year but I've now been put off

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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago

clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands

Don't be put off just be careful and determined not to be pressured. And only go where you feel safe.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I'm shocked and really disappointed by most of the guys comments on this thread

I though with dogging &/or clubs the rule was no touching unless invited, I was under the impression that many people go dogging purely to put on a show others can watch and wank if they want & if they are invited to touch and play it's a bonus

The entitlement displayed in many of the responses and on many messages I receive is unbelievable

I was looking at starting dogging in the new year but I've now been put off "
With most experiences we've had the guys are great and no sense of entitlement, would urge you to try it for yourself, and anyone expressing disappointment at lack of interaction with you can always leave. Your event, your rules

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Done this just playing with a ladies tits through the window very nice it was to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogging is voyeurism/exhibitionism and most doggers only expect to be watched or to watch. Just like in many other contexts, people like watching other people doing things usually done in private. Most watchers won't be disappointed. Of course, dogging sometimes leads to group sex, gangbangs, bukkake, etc but much less than you see in porn.

Anyway, you call the shots - who gives a fuck what everyone else wants

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By *inful pairCouple
over a year ago

Montrose

Must admit I'd like to try dogging xx

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By *awhide69Man
over a year ago

paisley

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By *uddle4uMan
over a year ago

Purbeck

I'm happy with just watching couples play and respect there wishes and terms and would always chat with them and definitely would not push for contact until invited too, and then only soft play touching and oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had contemplated trying dogging but after seeing some of the replies

.....I think I'm gonna give it a miss

I wouldn't mind guys touching and licking if they wanted to but mainly just me playing with my partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me n the ex Mrs have done it a lot and found most people respectful there's the odd one who can't but easy enough to deal with them we really had fun great to be watched and maybe a bit more !

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By *issnwtyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I'd love 2. Try doggin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's awesome!! I take women dogging on a regular basis. I'm always in control and comand the situation.

I'm lucky though as I know a good dogging crowd. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love 2. Try doggin "

I could take u !

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

I'd love to go dogging as I love the thought of putting on a show but equally don't want a free for all. I liked the happy surprise comment. There may well be that but who knows??!!

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton


"I'd want u to at least suck me off

At least! Lol!!!

Well that's fair enough, one down for disappointed xx "

Haha. We'd be happy seeing them out! Wanking and touching

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"I'm shocked and really disappointed by most of the guys comments on this thread

I though with dogging &/or clubs the rule was no touching unless invited, I was under the impression that many people go dogging purely to put on a show others can watch and wank if they want & if they are invited to touch and play it's a bonus

The entitlement displayed in many of the responses and on many messages I receive is unbelievable

I was looking at starting dogging in the new year but I've now been put off "

Keep your windows up if you dont want touching and just let guys watch from the outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bloke, I would be more than happy with just watching and wanking. If I were to be offered anything more than that, it would be a bonus!

I used to take a woman friend dogging years ago, so from a couples point of view, we loved putting on a show for the guys, seeing them getting turned on and wanking while watching my friend show off, masturbating etc. The guys were always respectful. I would love the chance to take a lady dogging again.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I'm shocked and really disappointed by most of the guys comments on this thread

I though with dogging &/or clubs the rule was no touching unless invited, I was under the impression that many people go dogging purely to put on a show others can watch and wank if they want & if they are invited to touch and play it's a bonus

The entitlement displayed in many of the responses and on many messages I receive is unbelievable

I was looking at starting dogging in the new year but I've now been put off "
my oh my most coments are not from doggers [guys that would like to try it]we are regular doggers among other thrill seeks.couple in car ect are in total control of how much or little they want to do.flash play together can put window down if they want female touched open door if they want more .doggers are very respectful and if some one tries to open door the othes will tell them so go try a night dogging good luck

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Ok children:

Dogging is where grown ups go to carparks to have sex with other usually strangers that they like the look of, what level of sex depends the doggers concerned.

Exhibitionist go to dogging sites to show off, be watch and enjoy the trill of knowing the doggee's are wanking at their antics.

Reading this tread it would seem that the participants arnt either ready or have the bottle for such activities.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Ok children:

Dogging is where grown ups go to carparks to have sex with other usually strangers that they like the look of, what level of sex depends the doggers concerned.

Exhibitionist go to dogging sites to show off, be watch and enjoy the trill of knowing the doggee's are wanking at their antics.

Reading this tread it would seem that the participants arnt either ready or have the bottle for such activities.

"

I'm more than ready to be an exhibitionist &/or have sex with strangers

My issue was with the entitlement sounded in many messages yours included

it's my body I choose who I suck or fuck just because we happen to be in the same carpark on the same night gives you no right for anything more than looking unless invited

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Ok children:

Dogging is where grown ups go to carparks to have sex with other usually strangers that they like the look of, what level of sex depends the doggers concerned.

Exhibitionist go to dogging sites to show off, be watch and enjoy the trill of knowing the doggee's are wanking at their antics.

Reading this tread it would seem that the participants arnt either ready or have the bottle for such activities.

I'm more than ready to be an exhibitionist &/or have sex with strangers

My issue was with the entitlement sounded in many messages yours included

it's my body I choose who I suck or fuck just because we happen to be in the same carpark on the same night gives you no right for anything more than looking unless invited"

Hi. I didn't say it did! there should be no uninvited allowed to do anything.

Did you miss the: "that they like the look of, what level of sex depends the doggers concerned." ? -the doggers being the couple doing the dogging.

Its just some of the comments made you'd think they were discussing going for a picnic.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Ok children:

Dogging is where grown ups go to carparks to have sex with other usually strangers that they like the look of, what level of sex depends the doggers concerned.

Exhibitionist go to dogging sites to show off, be watch and enjoy the trill of knowing the doggee's are wanking at their antics.

Reading this tread it would seem that the participants arnt either ready or have the bottle for such activities.

I'm more than ready to be an exhibitionist &/or have sex with strangers

My issue was with the entitlement sounded in many messages yours included

it's my body I choose who I suck or fuck just because we happen to be in the same carpark on the same night gives you no right for anything more than looking unless invited

Hi. I didn't say it did! there should be no uninvited allowed to do anything.

Did you miss the: "that they like the look of, what level of sex depends the doggers concerned." ? -the doggers being the couple doing the dogging.

Its just some of the comments made you'd think they were discussing going for a picnic.

"

It was the 'OK children, dogging is where adults go' that sounded patronising and had the same air of entitlement of other comments

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

I think your confusing entitlement with hopeful expectations

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

as you can see by lack of comments sadly dogging is about about done and many places in decline [a bit like pubs]didnt see any new couples last year round and about lanes and woods we go .still 3 couples like us that have done it a while.many lay byes now men only gay spots not having a go at gays just a fact

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By *ick-meMan
over a year ago

high peak

I'd love to watch a lady giving a performance whether playing solo or with her partner - if they just want to be watched that heightens their pleasure then respect that and enjoy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some dogging in Bucks still, if you know where to go.

I find that windows shut is a good indicator you are a voyeur only. When the windows are opened it's an indicator that touching is allowed...however, asking if it is ok to touch is always a good thing to do and in my experience is appreciated by those playing/showing....no is no and boundaries are boundaries........stay within them and in the main all is good, stray beyond and expect to be told!

Those people in the car are exactly that - people. Treat them with respect and not like a peice of meat and you might just get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there is a sexy man who wants to take me out dogging for some sexy light fun.

( I did used to go out years ago as a single female and play so not a novice)

Anyways I'm not sure what he is asking me would be a turn on for any surprise attendees! If you went out dogging, and happened to find me in a car exposing my large heavy boobs, let you touch them etc but no sex would that turn you on or interest you? Or would your dogging expectations be disappointed?

I'm not convinced lol so let's see sexy peeps.

Mmmwwwhhhaaaa xx "

Erm... yes! I'd love to turn up and have a feel. I'd find that hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more than happy to watch and wank.

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

the golden rule of dogging is... the lady sets the rules.. you ask.. if she says no.. it's no.. Anyone tries to force the issue would be under no illusions he's not popular !

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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago

Cumbria


"as you can see by lack of comments sadly dogging is about about done and many places in decline [a bit like pubs]didnt see any new couples last year round and about lanes and woods we go .still 3 couples like us that have done it a while.many lay byes now men only gay spots not having a go at gays just a fact "

it's a shame.as I take it most people now use clubs, as with clubs people feel safer. but not everybody lives near a club, and then there's the cost. dogging was more natural. but its the same rules in clubs if the woman says no it's no

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