FabSwingers.com forum: Meets blocking you .....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I met a woman from a couple 1 on 1 I am fairly new to this so was a little nervous but she said she enjoyed it......Then when I went back on FAB a couple of days later I was blocked..... Should I just assume she does that too all guys she meets or read more into it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are women who only meet a guy once and then move on but i haven't had anyone block me right after a meet, not yet anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If she had said then I would have understood but just seems a bit rude...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she verify you as genuine and that she had had a good time - so peeps just want to have notches on their bed ost - some want to meet great people and make good friends 'with benefits' - I still chat to guys I met over 4 years ago and still not blocked xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No verification either......

Maybe I should just put it down too experience xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"No verification either......

Maybe I should just put it down too experience xx"

The truth is that you will never know so how can we? All we can do is speculate which is pretty silly really. I tend to think that if the meet seemed to go well it probably did and bad manners like that is probably more a reflection on her than you. It could be her partner blocking you even. There is nowt so queer as folk. Just accept it and dont let it bother you. I have learnt not to take things personally as people usually have their own reasons for their behaviour that are little or nothing to do with you. Good news. Youre no longer a newbie. Good luck.

Mistress x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They complain when they can't get meets, they complain when they do get meets. Just a bunch of complainign complainers!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Blocking isn't rude,but a choice.You don't know why she did it,so don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes your right thanks that post made me smile xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Blocking isn't rude,but a choice.You don't know why she did it,so don't worry about it."

generally speaking i would agree with you but if i blocked someone i just met without politely but honestly telling them why i would consider that i was being rude.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes some only meet once and do block so not to be contacted again.

youve had your fun with them so best to move on and forget.

good while it lasted.

all the best

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Blocking isn't rude,but a choice.You don't know why she did it,so don't worry about it.

generally speaking i would agree with you but if i blocked someone i just met without politely but honestly telling them why i would consider that i was being rude.

Mistress x"

But thats the point,we cannot know how other people view blocking,so dont worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive blocked guys ive met befor but only when they become pushy or start getting that 'i now own you' attitude lol

There are guys ive met once and wouldnt want to meet again but i wouldnt block them just because i didnt like them, ubless they got funny with me when i told them i didnt want to meet again

Maybe she didnt like you and didnt want to meet you again and just found the thought of telling you that hard so decided to block you to save her having to do it

Maybe she only does one off meets and blocks all guys shes met

Its hard to say really

i can understand why lots of women block men rather than telling them they dont want to meet again, men may find this rude but as a woman i know how nasty and aggressive some men can be when you say no thanks to them and theres only so many times you can get such messages before you've had enough and start stopping them

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Blocking isn't rude,but a choice.You don't know why she did it,so don't worry about it.

generally speaking i would agree with you but if i blocked someone i just met without politely but honestly telling them why i would consider that i was being rude.

Mistress x

But thats the point,we cannot know how other people view blocking,so dont worry about it"

Yes, as I said, speculation is useless.... so ignore my posts lol

Mistress x

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

You met her 1 to 1, you asked her straight after the meet if she enjoyed it I presume while you were still alone with her? And she said then she enjoyed it.

What if, and it is an if (before I get lynched) she didn't actually enjoy it as much as she made out and felt she could not say that when it was just the 2 of you alone. The easiest way would be for her to go home, block you and not leave a verification thus stopping you being able to ask for a second meet or a verification for the meet that just happened.

Again, it is just one possibility and I am not saying this was the case here, it's just a thought.

Good luck.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I had exactly the same thing but she was meeting without her hubby knowing and told me beforehand that she would block me. I don't see it as a problem, when she's ready again she'll unblock and get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see why people feel others have to explain anything to them. It's nsa! I certainly wouldn't be wondering about a married woman!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Personally I don't see why people feel others have to explain anything to them. It's nsa! I certainly wouldn't be wondering about a married woman!"

I have to agree! a married women meeting 1 on 1 then blocking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive blocked guys ive met befor but only when they become pushy or start getting that 'i now own you' attitude lol

There are guys ive met once and wouldnt want to meet again but i wouldnt block them just because i didnt like them, ubless they got funny with me when i told them i didnt want to meet again

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This.

I've never blocked someone I had a meet with unless things turned unpleasant afterwards for some reason.

I block guys I've never met if they message me and clearly haven't read my profile. It saves me having to repeatedly say "thanks but not interested", likewise the cut and pasters.

And some men do get very rude if you turn them down politely. I'm fed up with getting messages like "you fat ugly stuck-up bitch, you think you're really special don't you?" just because I chose not to meet. Still, it just proves I was right not to say yes in the first place - who would want to meet someone so rude mercurial and rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No verification either......

Maybe I should just put it down too experience xx"

you shouldn't look for a verification from every meet.

i try to leave 1 for everyone but don't expect 1 back as people have their own reasons for being here / meeting.

i don't feel i need validation from other people. it's nice when it happens but it should be far from expected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was not after a verification or another meet just with me being new to this was wondering if this had happened to anybody else....

I know everyone has their own reasons for doing things and I respect that so thanks all for your comments I appreciate the insight.....

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