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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Hi we have been swinging for many years and I enjoy enjoy watching my wife playing .. Why do we men enjoy it so much ...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Do we need to know why?

I am unsure I can explain why. I can say what goes through my mind, and that I love to see people in the throes of pleasure....all the more when it is someone I love. But can I explain? Probably not.

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

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By *ary for funMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Haven't got a clue.........but very willing to help all you guys watch your partner hopefully enjoying herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own thoughts are that because I enjoy watching porn, watching Velma with another guy is just the *ultimate* porn. Sexiest thing ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very thought of it has given our marriage such a wonderfully erotic boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's a man thing. I enjoy watching my partners - male and female - play with other people. I get enjoyment from knowing that they are enjoying themselves.

It's a bit like compersion - but for sex instead of emotions.

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I've not had this pleasure yet. Would love to watch my wife play with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that lots of couples love it and I'm pleased for them but I don't think that I personally would enjoy seeing my partner with another man.

Vive la difference!

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By *SandJ both BiCouple
over a year ago

Brandon

We both love watching each other with other people of either sex.

The reruns when are alone again are almost as much fun.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's erotic to watch

It provides an ego boost to know that others want your partner.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Mr Inked informs me it's because he gets to see my pleasure from an outsiders view .... gets to see all of it - major turn on for him

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By *asterandhiswhoreCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Love watching Lisa suck a guys cock. Then opening her legs ready for him to slide his hard cock in her wet waiting pussy. Getting hard thinking about it. Love the look on her face

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By *icetimescoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

There have been quite a few studies which you read up on online.

Two of the main theories are:

1. Husbands subconsciously is insecure and it's a form of feeling relevant/involved/decreasing being abandoned.

Basically this theory says that in a scenario where a husband subconsciencly feels insecure or is afraid his partner may cheat on him, entering in to a cuckold/hotwife or open relationship where the female can have sex with other men is the brains way of regaining some measure of control over the situation as most of those relationships have some form of agreed rule's. The theory goes that an insecure husband may also subconsciencly believe his partner would be less likely to leave and abandoned him if he allows her to have sex with other men. Anecdotal evidence suggests there 'could' be a slight link between a man's perceived sexual attractiveness and willingness to be cuckolded but not enough studies have been done to make any strong conclusions such as a fatter man wit small cock is more willing to be cucked.

2. The competative sperm theory.

If a man knows his wife has had sex with another male, this increases his arousal and desire to immediately also have sex with her so his sperm can compete against the other males inside her to make her pregnant.

This theory goes some way to explaining why a man can find his own partner more attractive and get so aroused by seeing, hearing, knowing or even thinking about his partner breeding with another male - basically, the caveman in men gets all competative. Many couples report better more intensive sex if they talk about other men fucking the woman, that's the competativeNess kicking in

There are lots more theories and not all theories apply to all couples. There are surprisingly few proper studies, but there is increasing interest in this area as the practise appears to be increasing in liberal societies.

Not sure if they are the answers you are looking for, but they are a couple of suggested explanations. x

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By *icetimescoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

There have been quite a few studies which you read up on online.

Two of the main theories are:

1. Husbands subconsciously is insecure and it's a form of feeling relevant/involved/decreasing being abandoned.

Basically this theory says that in a scenario where a husband subconsciencly feels insecure or is afraid his partner may cheat on him, entering in to a cuckold/hotwife or open relationship where the female can have sex with other men is the brains way of regaining some measure of control over the situation as most of those relationships have some form of agreed rule's. The theory goes that an insecure husband may also subconsciencly believe his partner would be less likely to leave and abandoned him if he allows her to have sex with other men. Anecdotal evidence suggests there 'could' be a slight link between a man's perceived sexual attractiveness and willingness to be cuckolded but not enough studies have been done to make any strong conclusions such as a fatter man wit small cock is more willing to be cucked.

2. The competative sperm theory.

If a man knows his wife has had sex with another male, this increases his arousal and desire to immediately also have sex with her so his sperm can compete against the other males inside her to make her pregnant.

This theory goes some way to explaining why a man can find his own partner more attractive and get so aroused by seeing, hearing, knowing or even thinking about his partner breeding with another male - basically, the caveman in men gets all competative. Many couples report better more intensive sex if they talk about other men fucking the woman, that's the competativeNess kicking in

There are lots more theories and not all theories apply to all couples. There are surprisingly few proper studies, but there is increasing interest in this area as the practise appears to be increasing in liberal societies.

Not sure if they are the answers you are looking for, but they are a couple of suggested explanations. x

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By *icetimescoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

There have been quite a few studies which you read up on online.

Two of the main theories are:

1. Husbands subconsciously is insecure and it's a form of feeling relevant/involved/decreasing being abandoned.

Basically this theory says that in a scenario where a husband subconsciencly feels insecure or is afraid his partner may cheat on him, entering in to a cuckold/hotwife or open relationship where the female can have sex with other men is the brains way of regaining some measure of control over the situation as most of those relationships have some form of agreed rule's. The theory goes that an insecure husband may also subconsciencly believe his partner would be less likely to leave and abandoned him if he allows her to have sex with other men. Anecdotal evidence suggests there 'could' be a slight link between a man's perceived sexual attractiveness and willingness to be cuckolded but not enough studies have been done to make any strong conclusions such as a fatter man wit small cock is more willing to be cucked.

2. The competative sperm theory.

If a man knows his wife has had sex with another male, this increases his arousal and desire to immediately also have sex with her so his sperm can compete against the other males inside her to make her pregnant.

This theory goes some way to explaining why a man can find his own partner more attractive and get so aroused by seeing, hearing, knowing or even thinking about his partner breeding with another male - basically, the caveman in men gets all competative. Many couples report better more intensive sex if they talk about other men fucking the woman, that's the competativeNess kicking in

There are lots more theories and not all theories apply to all couples. There are surprisingly few proper studies, but there is increasing interest in this area as the practise appears to be increasing in liberal societies.

Not sure if they are the answers you are looking for, but they are a couple of suggested explanations. x

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Hi we have been swinging for many years and I enjoy enjoy watching my wife playing .. Why do we men enjoy it so much ... "
I respect other men wanting to watch their wives enjoy getting screwed by another man if that's what they like (up to them)

And could be fun to let a FB on here if I had one get screwed but I don't think I could have a GF or wife do that. Another man's wife is better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's erotic to watch

It provides an ego boost to know that others want your partner."

This for us too! So sexy to have men pay me attention whilst my hubby watches, then if a lady is willing we play fmf for him too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a mutual feeling for both of us.

I love seeing Eve take control and get what she wants from others..

I love seeing her all empowered and dominant.

And she loves seeing me do the same.

Think I'm a real lucky guy haha

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I've not had this pleasure yet. Would love to watch my wife play with another guy. "

Have you got a couples profile ?

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Hi we have been swinging for many years and I enjoy enjoy watching my wife playing .. Why do we men enjoy it so much ... "

I'm really not sure why but I do. It very much suprised me how much I enjoyed it the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shared experience and serious fun and that's all I / we need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love seeing each other playing with others and enjoy the thrills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been quite a few studies which you read up on online.

Two of the main theories are:

1. Husbands subconsciously is insecure and it's a form of feeling relevant/involved/decreasing being abandoned.

Basically this theory says that in a scenario where a husband subconsciencly feels insecure or is afraid his partner may cheat on him, entering in to a cuckold/hotwife or open relationship where the female can have sex with other men is the brains way of regaining some measure of control over the situation as most of those relationships have some form of agreed rule's. The theory goes that an insecure husband may also subconsciencly believe his partner would be less likely to leave and abandoned him if he allows her to have sex with other men. Anecdotal evidence suggests there 'could' be a slight link between a man's perceived sexual attractiveness and willingness to be cuckolded but not enough studies have been done to make any strong conclusions such as a fatter man wit small cock is more willing to be cucked.

2. The competative sperm theory.

If a man knows his wife has had sex with another male, this increases his arousal and desire to immediately also have sex with her so his sperm can compete against the other males inside her to make her pregnant.

This theory goes some way to explaining why a man can find his own partner more attractive and get so aroused by seeing, hearing, knowing or even thinking about his partner breeding with another male - basically, the caveman in men gets all competative. Many couples report better more intensive sex if they talk about other men fucking the woman, that's the competativeNess kicking in

There are lots more theories and not all theories apply to all couples. There are surprisingly few proper studies, but there is increasing interest in this area as the practise appears to be increasing in liberal societies.

Not sure if they are the answers you are looking for, but they are a couple of suggested explanations. x"

How do you explain women who like watching their female or male partners with other men?

Those explanations sound a little sexist to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just love watching my partner getting great pleasure from fucking another guy it also gives me pleasure. but she could never watch me with another woman would just be too much for her to stand,

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Do we need to know why?

I am unsure I can explain why. I can say what goes through my mind, and that I love to see people in the throes of pleasure....all the more when it is someone I love. But can I explain? Probably not."

You just have explained... Seeing people in the throes of pleasure is wonderful.

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By *icetimescoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"There have been quite a few studies which you read up on online.

Two of the main theories are:

1. Husbands subconsciously is insecure and it's a form of feeling relevant/involved/decreasing being abandoned.

Basically this theory says that in a scenario where a husband subconsciencly feels insecure or is afraid his partner may cheat on him, entering in to a cuckold/hotwife or open relationship where the female can have sex with other men is the brains way of regaining some measure of control over the situation as most of those relationships have some form of agreed rule's. The theory goes that an insecure husband may also subconsciencly believe his partner would be less likely to leave and abandoned him if he allows her to have sex with other men. Anecdotal evidence suggests there 'could' be a slight link between a man's perceived sexual attractiveness and willingness to be cuckolded but not enough studies have been done to make any strong conclusions such as a fatter man wit small cock is more willing to be cucked.

2. The competative sperm theory.

If a man knows his wife has had sex with another male, this increases his arousal and desire to immediately also have sex with her so his sperm can compete against the other males inside her to make her pregnant.

This theory goes some way to explaining why a man can find his own partner more attractive and get so aroused by seeing, hearing, knowing or even thinking about his partner breeding with another male - basically, the caveman in men gets all competative. Many couples report better more intensive sex if they talk about other men fucking the woman, that's the competativeNess kicking in

There are lots more theories and not all theories apply to all couples. There are surprisingly few proper studies, but there is increasing interest in this area as the practise appears to be increasing in liberal societies.

Not sure if they are the answers you are looking for, but they are a couple of suggested explanations. x

How do you explain women who like watching their female or male partners with other men?

Those explanations sound a little sexist to me."

I think you've misread my post

I didn't say these were my views, just two of the most widely reported of several suggested explanations that have come from studies you can read about online. I did also specifically mention there are lots more theories and the ones I mentioned will not apply to everyone.

Maybe read a little closer before publicly calling somebody a sexist in future x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love watching her being used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Inked informs me it's because he gets to see my pleasure from an outsiders view .... gets to see all of it - major turn on for him "

Same here exactly what turns me on watching another guy pleasuring my wife

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

my hubby says its the most erotic thing ever

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Do we need to know why?

I am unsure I can explain why. I can say what goes through my mind, and that I love to see people in the throes of pleasure....all the more when it is someone I love. But can I explain? Probably not.

You just have explained... Seeing people in the throes of pleasure is wonderful."

I'm not sure if that explains why I especially enjoy watching my wife. It's extra special with her, compared to watching a good friend.

I could certainly say that I am a very compersive person and it fills me with joy to see her having a great time...but I can't go deeper than that and say why that's the way I am.

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone


"Mr Inked informs me it's because he gets to see my pleasure from an outsiders view .... gets to see all of it - major turn on for him "

That's how I feel, love watching Mrs W enjoying herself, especially when she looks deep into my eyes as she's doing it

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I've always loved watching my wife/gf being fucked by another guy.I don't try to analyse these feelings and I hope that I always feel this way! Mike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you like watching porn? Imagine the porn is live, and the star is your partner, what's not to like

But seriously for me, it's a visual thing, i love seeing her in action, seeing the look on the guys face when she is sucking him off, seeing her face as she orgasm's, watching them engage in something that is a very personal thing then there's the noises the moans the groans of enjoyment the slapping noise has he is fucking her, and then there is the way mid way through she will just look at me with this dirty smile on her face, that says this is fun and i love you at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a question I asked myself for years before I finally plucked up the courage to suggest it to my wife then finally convince her I'd be fine with it.

Some people can't Handle the jealousy side I suppose. I just see the other man involved as one big giant sex toy

(Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to read this thread. I have watched previous partners with other guys while now being the third guy.

I agree with the comments, if you are not jealous, as I'm not, then the experience of seeing your partner in a full on sex scene in front of you is mind blowingly erotic. They are not making love to the guy that's for certain and from my previous partners thoughts, they find it more erotic as they are being watched, than when they have just had sex with other men solo.

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Mr Inked informs me it's because he gets to see my pleasure from an outsiders view .... gets to see all of it - major turn on for him

That's how I feel, love watching Mrs W enjoying herself, especially when she looks deep into my eyes as she's doing it "

Took me ages to really understand it but as others said it's like watching porn but with someone you really have a connection with so heightens the pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I've ever had a wobble jealousy wise was when my wife told me she'd been saying morning and General chit chat to particular partner on Kik etc.

I'm happy fucking my with wife another man but had to think twice when he said morning to her and asking her what she's having for breakfast

The mind is a funny old thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my partners with other men but it has to be 2 specific scenarios.

I enjoy a man ravaging my partner. Not making love to her .... I want him to destroy her .

I enjoy watching my partner get gangbanged... but it has to be DP and DV involved.

I'm not big on girl on girl playing , does nothing for me.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Hi we have been swinging for many years and I enjoy enjoy watching my wife playing .. Why do we men enjoy it so much ... "

Perhaps it is a validation 'thang' and not just a male thing

I like it when my boyfriend plays with other women. Makes me think that if others find him attractive too then I have not done too badly

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...

I'm not big on girl on girl playing , does nothing for me."

Bet you'd change your mind in a 'sandwich' though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I'm not big on girl on girl playing , does nothing for me.

Bet you'd change your mind in a 'sandwich' though "

No not at all.... I never liked ffm. It's too sensual for me , I always felt like I was not needed so I would always leave the women to have fun by themselves. Which always lead to my partner asking if I was ok , and some weird talks after.

I much prefer to bring my partner to a club or bar , ask her what guy she likes .... then tell her to go suck his cock and fuck him in the bathroom. While I stand outside as a lookout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my partner getting fucked by other men but I have to be an active participant and usually I am the first and last to fuck her !

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"...

I'm not big on girl on girl playing , does nothing for me.

Bet you'd change your mind in a 'sandwich' though "

Being woken by my wife and my girlfriend both giving me their attentions was very nice....but in the end I actually felt rather selfish.

I prefer MMF where the two men lavish the lady with attention.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...

I'm not big on girl on girl playing , does nothing for me.

Bet you'd change your mind in a 'sandwich' though

No not at all.... I never liked ffm. It's too sensual for me , I always felt like I was not needed so I would always leave the women to have fun by themselves. Which always lead to my partner asking if I was ok , and some weird talks after.

I much prefer to bring my partner to a club or bar , ask her what guy she likes .... then tell her to go suck his cock and fuck him in the bathroom. While I stand outside as a lookout "

... with the motor running?

xxx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Because it's fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to watch my Mrs, can't explain why, just turns me on so much.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Hi we have been swinging for many years and I enjoy enjoy watching my wife playing .. Why do we men enjoy it so much ...

Perhaps it is a validation 'thang' and not just a male thing

I like it when my boyfriend plays with other women. Makes me think that if others find him attractive too then I have not done too badly "

Excellent thought process

Now where do I find a Lass with a similar mindset????

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By *arkaCouple
over a year ago

Chester

My fella loves watching me with other men. It's his favourite past-time he says!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have joined couples for this on numerous occasions and the Mr of the couple always seemed to get so turned on. I would love to experience this as part of a couple watching a future partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love letting Jay play with other women and seeing Pics and hearing what happened when he comes home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fella loves watching me with other men. It's his favourite past-time he says! "

Beats football or collecting stamps

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I love letting Jay play with other women and seeing Pics and hearing what happened when he comes home"

This for us too. Miss is happy for me to meet couples on my own with the only stipulation that she gets to see the pictures and I have done a couple of times but I much prefer us meeting people together. She really gets off on seeing me with another woman and I love watching her with another man. It is hard to explain. Maybe its cos we know we love each other and its just added pleasure and we will always end up going home together. Jack

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"It's a question I asked myself for years before I finally plucked up the courage to suggest it to my wife then finally convince her I'd be fine with it.

Some people can't Handle the jealousy side I suppose. I just see the other man involved as one big giant sex toy

(Mr)"

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"It's a question I asked myself for years before I finally plucked up the courage to suggest it to my wife then finally convince her I'd be fine with it.

Some people can't Handle the jealousy side I suppose. I just see the other man involved as one big giant sex toy

(Mr)

"

Sex toy for use - clean, easy to handle and batteries included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever seen my partner play twice ! Once with a couple and she couldn't stop smiling and got very dominant ?

And a single lady which put the biggest naughty smile on her face !!

I'm sure the single girl was the biggest tease because she started before I got there and just teased me all the way home lol

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By *even inchesMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"It's erotic to watch

It provides an ego boost to know that others want your partner.

This for us too! So sexy to have men pay me attention whilst my hubby watches, then if a lady is willing we play fmf for him too "

Tried to message you but found you have blocked men

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"It's a question I asked myself for years before I finally plucked up the courage to suggest it to my wife then finally convince her I'd be fine with it.

Some people can't Handle the jealousy side I suppose. I just see the other man involved as one big giant sex toy

(Mr)

Sex toy for use - clean, easy to handle and batteries included "

Will those batteries work in my vibrator too?

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"It's a question I asked myself for years before I finally plucked up the courage to suggest it to my wife then finally convince her I'd be fine with it.

Some people can't Handle the jealousy side I suppose. I just see the other man involved as one big giant sex toy

(Mr)

Sex toy for use - clean, easy to handle and batteries included

Will those batteries work in my vibrator too? "

Not that it would be required

But i will bring spares.......

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

no idea OP hehe if we could bottle it we would be rich x

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders."

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders."

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders."

So true it's a lot of mixed emotions but seeing your partner there is better then porn I have read different views regarding the fantasy and people come up with different things but it's a great experience that you've got that trust for each other and being able to actually touch each other after it makes it a lot more passionate and you normal end up more closer because you've experience it together.

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders."

So true it's a lot of mixed emotions but seeing your partner there is better then porn I have read different views regarding the fantasy and people come up with different things but it's a great experience that you've got that trust for each other and being able to actually touch each other after it makes it a lot more passionate and you normal end up more closer because you've experience it together.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Many things are beyond words. Enjoy harmless stuff? Do it.

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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Complete mixed emotions,but watching Zoe sucking a cock or her legs wrapped round another guy is a awesome turn on.

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone


"Its great to see some one you love having pleasure and enjoying themselves. Also knowing other people find your partner attractive is an ego boost.

Another factor is that its great to see the confidence and spirit boost in your loved one that feeling comfortable in sexual/nude situations with other people brings and engenders."

That's so true, I have watched Mrs W grow in confidence which in turn has made me more confident, I love seeing her enjoying herself and letting herself go

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Very horny and the sex between us after amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my wife and I use to swing, it was SUCH a turn on for me to watch her sucking a guy off and taking his cum.

We never had sex with a man, it was purley oral on her part and I loved watching her give pleasure, dont get me wrong she enjoys it too, but as her husband it made me hard as fuck and able to cum almost straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jane Dick

You are so right the sex afterwards was fantastic and erotic

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Love watching Sharon sucking a cock. Then climbing up on top. What a turn on.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Don't know don't care. But i love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it need analysing? It's just so hot when it happens.

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By *ountrygent90Man
over a year ago

Dublin

As mentioned already it's a sperm competition thing. If the man thinks or knows his partner was with another man, his body will react by getting horny, and ejaculating more cum, to improve his chances of reproduction, and lower the chances of the other man. It's all unconscious of course, the conscious emotion is wanting to fuck the woman, as well as possibly anger or jealousy. There's a book on sperm competition called sperm wars, which makes a lot of sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi we have been swinging for many years and I enjoy enjoy watching my wife playing .. Why do we men enjoy it so much ... "

I just like seeing Sue enjoying herself that's it for me really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably blame porno. Watching in from a third party on others induce sexual intercorse.

Alough I'd also probleys go with the fact it's natural and instinctive. We are free sprit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they both just like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often wonder this, too, but there's one thing watching their wife get fucked and then there's another letting her play alone. We don't understand that one. Anyhow it's the reason why we won't meet men as I've no interest in playing with one but we fully respect those who do full swap.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

An ex broke up with me, sucked off another guys cock and then couple of months later we got back together. I was devastated then eventually I wanted her to do it again...

Next relationship tried proper swinging and first time I saw her giving another guy a blow job.... hooked for life!

The mind is weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly enjoyed watching my wife getting pounded and pleasured on Friday night but then again I was doing the same to his partner right next to them. Very horny experience

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

It is like the best porn movie ever with my wife acting the main part.

My heart is usually pounding with the excitement from watching her strip naked for guys and the thrill just skyrockets as she takes their cocks in her mouth for the first time.

Another favourite moment is when our eyes connect when she is being fucked by other guys. The strange little smile that plays on her face as she feels them slide inside.

And at the end my favourite moment of all is when she is exhausted from multiple fucks. Her body covered in sweat and cum. Often when that point arrives she is clearly careless of her dignity and will lie there legs spread with cum dripping out of her or from her face or tits. Her makeup ruined.

I look at her and she us just stunning.

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"My own thoughts are that because I enjoy watching porn, watching Velma with another guy is just the *ultimate* porn. Sexiest thing ever.

"

This.

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By *aughtyHOTWifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Bath

The pleasure in emotional pain can be utterly intense to those of us who can channel it correctly, add a taste for the slightly tabboo and I have the anwser as to why knowing or watching Tina fuck other guys is a pleasurable and sometimes mind blowing experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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