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By *halia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Just curious...

I am wondering if there is much overlap between people who use sites like this and people who are happy to pay for sexual services.

I haven't but I think I might for something very specialised. An experienced Domme with her own dungeon, maybe. Obviously, not through here, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No/no

Rather wank then play fifa

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Paid for it for 29 years ?? Divorced now and have money again.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Paid for it for 29 years ?? Divorced now and have money again....."

I can relate to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it was something specific then yes. Paid for it for ex partners.. would definitely if it meant fulfilling a fantasy that was proving impossible to sort x

Id not pay for myself but thats because i dont like doing anything for myself lol x

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Just curious...

I am wondering if there is much overlap between people who use sites like this and people who are happy to pay for sexual services.

I haven't but I think I might for something very specialised. An experienced Domme with her own dungeon, maybe. Obviously, not through here, though."

Yes & for the reasons you mentioned we wanted something quite specific that we hadn't been able to find anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all pay for sex one way or another, be it financially or emotionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds familiar


"Paid for it for 29 years ?? Divorced now and have money again....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid for it for 29 years ?? Divorced now and have money again....."

Ha ha, I know exactly what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old buddy of mine hired a girl to join us a few years back, was good fun and didn't cost me a penny so yeah I'd do that again.

Wouldn't spend my own cash on it though, I'd rather buy prosecco and pizza and have a night with my wand

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Definitely not ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never have , never will.ever.

An ex paid for a lapdance for me many many mnay years ago..I found it ok, the dancer was hot...but it felt entirely fake.

but I've refused offers from male pals going to amsterdam etc...their main interest was drugs and prostitutes..

at that time the drugs would have been more interest than the paying for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An old buddy of mine hired a girl to join us a few years back, was good fun and didn't cost me a penny so yeah I'd do that again.

Wouldn't spend my own cash on it though, I'd rather buy prosecco and pizza and have a night with my wand "

Game of fifa? I'll hit the bar so the pad vibrates

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

No would never pay or have never paid. Sex is great but to pay takes away the stimulation and the excitement of the build up. Do you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An old buddy of mine hired a girl to join us a few years back, was good fun and didn't cost me a penny so yeah I'd do that again.

Wouldn't spend my own cash on it though, I'd rather buy prosecco and pizza and have a night with my wand

Game of fifa? I'll hit the bar so the pad vibrates "

Deal! I'll get the pizza

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have considered using an escort for a regular, personal service, the full 'girlfriend experience', for a discreet, reliable, intimate friend. I haven't partaken as yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If lunch in a posh Mediterranean restaurant counts ....then yes. I was paid for sex last week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paid emotionally... that's about it. Lol

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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With the hundreds of sites dedicated to call Girls/Escorts etc loads of people do use them, Back in my early 20s I visited one while on a football trip to Amsterdam,

If a was in a relationship and we felt the need to spice it up paying for a extra person in the bedroom would be one of the options, I wouldn't be surprised if a lot more couples use them considering how hard its for some to find another Man/Woman who fits what they are looking for on here.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Male slut loves the idea of sucking a guy off till he spun ks over me. Slips a fiver into my knickers and just leaves to make me feel cheap. Just one of my naughty thought sorry if people don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Male slut loves the idea of sucking a guy off till he spun ks over me. Slips a fiver into my knickers and just leaves to make me feel cheap. Just one of my naughty thought sorry if people don't like "

is 2p better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paid for it for 29 years ?? Divorced now and have money again.....

I can relate to that "
My ex wife is a Piscean, she had a saying. What was mine was hers, and what hers were hers

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Haven't but would. Sometimes it'd be nice to get a shag to spec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a local escort who'd I'd love to play with. She was a swinger but went pro a few years ago. I've always said that I'd never pay for sex but I might make the exception one day for her. Curious? Google DonnaX.

I worked with an older bloke who had an escort visit him every payday. I asked him why he didn't just get a g/f He said that he got to have the girl he wanted, she did what he wanted and fucked off until he wanted her again.

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

I think I would. There's too much stigma to prostitutes and the people who use them. So I can't quite say it's ok unless if be willing to try it

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

yes have used escorts sites and paid for meets, sometimes cant help it, wife away, fabs full of men, and other sites members off-line or unable that evening.

only thing i have noticed European escorts are cheap for a reason they dont offer a great experience, English are more pricey but a much better experience.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Every one in the world pays for sex no matter how you look at it,take someone out for a meal or the pictures,and have a fuck at the end of the night you have paid for it in away.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just another transaction, instead of apples in the shop, you get a shag lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no.

I'd rather someone have sex with me cause they wanted to not because I paid them to and it's their job.

But that's my opinion. Got nothing against people who would

However people who offer me money to have sex or do sexual things to them can get fucked. I'm not a prostitute and will not accept money for a meet.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does making dinner/breakfast count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one in the world pays for sex no matter how you look at it,take someone out for a meal or the pictures,and have a fuck at the end of the night you have paid for it in away.! "

What if you went dutch and each paid half?

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"Every one in the world pays for sex no matter how you look at it,take someone out for a meal or the pictures,and have a fuck at the end of the night you have paid for it in away.!

What if you went dutch and each paid half?"

Then hopefully you both got your money's worth from the fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've considered it. May even do it one day.

*shrugs*

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By *icked_tongueMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I've had quite a few on here asking for money once chat has started....but I'm banned from naming names by admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No haven't considered paying yet but never say never.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady."

You said you wouldn't talk about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady."

I'm open to offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

You said you wouldn't talk about it "

Hey! I didn't mention that you only offered a bus ticket and Subway meal deal!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

I'm open to offers"

Nandos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its a way for people to achieve there fantasys without waiting for years upon years, i had a thing for little asians nlt so long ago, now im seasoned and knkw for sure id do it again!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

You said you wouldn't talk about it

Hey! I didn't mention that you only offered a bus ticket and Subway meal deal! "

I think it was half a sub, 3 inches was a fair exchange

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Never paid for sex

Some of the offers you get though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just messaged a girl and was told she needed to find £35 before we could meet , so still at home horny xx

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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago

yiewsley

We all pay for it in some way .. youd be suprised how much sex a man can get from buying his mrs a new dress or a nice car lol

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By *kdaveMan
over a year ago

heath and reach

Have done and would again for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

You said you wouldn't talk about it

Hey! I didn't mention that you only offered a bus ticket and Subway meal deal!

I think it was half a sub, 3 inches was a fair exchange "

I keep telling you... It was cold! That steam room was easily below 40 degrees! And there was a draft!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Never have and never would.

Miss

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

You said you wouldn't talk about it

Hey! I didn't mention that you only offered a bus ticket and Subway meal deal!

I think it was half a sub, 3 inches was a fair exchange

I keep telling you... It was cold! That steam room was easily below 40 degrees! And there was a draft! "

You just wanted to get your lips around my meatballs. It's ok, people don't judge here.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Been offered expenses twice by two beautiful women. What can I say I was poor and they wanted me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No & never!

The day I ever consider paying for it, will chop my dick off & move to Tibet to become a monk

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

What's the difference between a wife and a prostitute?

One's contract and the other is pay as you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never pay for sex; in fact I don't even like paying to be a Site Supporter, lol (but I do and I am).

I have no problem with picking up a meal/bar bill, or paying the cost for a hotel room, though.

Life is full of contradictions.... sigh!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

When I was a younger chap, in places less safe (from a disease perspective). And where it was just too much hassle to find a short term friend (i.e. I wasn't going to be there long).

Yes frequently, and satisfactorily. Often it's a step up frim a wank, but after a couple of weeks that step up is welcome.

It was quite a matter of fact practice amongst the military.

It's about time the shortsighted politicians realised it's always going to be with us, and to give the girls legal protection. They have a union in the Netherlands!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Never have.

And have absolutely no intention of ever doing so

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Does remorse count as payment or is that just part of lifes journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't. Don't think I would either... even if I were in Amsterdam and it was the "thing todo" as some of my friends have.

For me part of what makes it exciting is knowing that the other party is lusting after me just as I am them!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've not paid for sex, but I've paid to play before now. I don't see the big issue about it - people who sell sex are generally good at what they do and you get your desires fulfilled. I wish they'd get on with it and legalise it. I totally would have gone into that line of work if it had been a legal, viable career choice.

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By *aughtypair555Couple
over a year ago

north west

All our ffms have been with escorts and it's great haste free way to have our naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never pay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! But I have been offered payment for "my time and travel" before now by a lady.

You said you wouldn't talk about it

Hey! I didn't mention that you only offered a bus ticket and Subway meal deal!

I think it was half a sub, 3 inches was a fair exchange

I keep telling you... It was cold! That steam room was easily below 40 degrees! And there was a draft!

You just wanted to get your lips around my meatballs. It's ok, people don't judge here.

"

Oh I wish I had an odds on bet forum award wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I can't use sex workers.... they always refuse me service for being well endowed..... bbc is a curse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

My attitude is I would never pay directly for sex but we all pay indirectly

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

Paid for hotel rooms a couple of times, does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have and would again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No & never!

The day I ever consider paying for it, will chop my dick off & move to Tibet to become a monk "

Have a happy trip

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By *ackardMan
over a year ago

North West & beyond


"I've had quite a few on here asking for money once chat has started....but I'm banned from naming names by admin "

Never been asked for cash, but have been asked for drink or fags. I don't really object to that in some respects as I suppose it's polite to take a gift if you are invited around to someones home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had quite a few on here asking for money once chat has started....but I'm banned from naming names by admin

Never been asked for cash, but have been asked for drink or fags. I don't really object to that in some respects as I suppose it's polite to take a gift if you are invited around to someones home."

That's what a normal person would do.... I've been asked to pay for babysitters, travel experiences, and time off work. All by the same person

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