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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all

im in a dilema, i have 101 guys wanting to meet me but im scared as the last new guy i met turned out to be an arse hole the meet didnt go well at all.

so im thinking do i arrange to meet a new guy while im out with friends having a drink is this a good idea or bad idea??

first meet is just to get to know each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Sorry you had a bad experience. Do your friends know you swing? If not it could all get a bit messy if he also turns out to be an arsehole! If they do know, then it may be a good idea, at least you'd have the back up from your friends.

Other than that, arrange to meet in a busy but not too noisy place.

Hope you get better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try talking more first angel you don't have to meet someone straight away just make sure your comftorble with him first see how you get on .Certainly if your friends know that you swingvcould be good idea to meet under those circumstances too as they'll give there opinion aswell tgc of yourself good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Don't be put off by one guy that's in a minority - meet others and you will soon get your confidence back. As said above, meet somewhere neutral and then you can always make an exit. As for meeting with friends as a back up, I agree with what was said but do tell the guy otherwise he may feel intimidated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everyone for your kind words and helpful hints the friend im going out is a swinger her self i met her through swinging.

i think it will b a good night

thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok be carefull n have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a good idea to meet these men when your out with M, because that is a lot safer hun and she can help vet them too lol, hope you have fun fallen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've now met 2 ladies initially on a 'meet for coffee with no expectations' basis! Pleased to say that on both occasions it didn't finish with the coffee!!

But personally, I think it's a good way to meet. Arrange to meet for a coffee/drink in a public place, on the basis that if one doesn't fancy the other then each goes their separate way.

I suspect that some, probably guys, won't be happy with the idea so you're able to out a few without meeting at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its a good idea to meet these men when your out with M, because that is a lot safer hun and she can help vet them too lol, hope you have fun fallen x"

thanks gorgeous one day it will b your turn

fallen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its a good idea to meet these men when your out with M, because that is a lot safer hun and she can help vet them too lol, hope you have fun fallen x

thanks gorgeous one day it will b your turn

fallen "

i know i cant wait sexy

steve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above is good advice, but I'd also say listen to your own instinct, if something doesn't feel quite right don't meet! Sorry can't be more constructive than that, but instinct works for me ..........!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would totally agree about instinct.

It's far better to not meet someone you're not sure about and be safe than to risk it and end up in trouble.

Also please always let someone (preferably someone from here) know where you're going and who with.

Wild xxx

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

Totally support Wild's advice above and would add to it: have someone you trust available to take or make a call on your mobile some time into the date/meet, so that 1) they know you're OK and the person you've met appears to be genuine and not an axe murderer, but also 2) gives you an opportunity for an instant get-out if things aren't going how you'd hoped/expected..

Better safe than sorry!

Have fun

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By *iss scarlettWoman
over a year ago

in scarlettsville ,west lothian

Agree about instinct. If anything feels not quite right don't meet .Usually if it feels wrong it is wrong.Good luck and have loads of fun.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a arrange a quick 5 minute hello meet in a car park...then you are in control....you can quickly establish if you're comfortable around them....and theres always the opportunity for a nice snog if the hello goes well!!

again make sure you have chatted for a while before agreeing to a meet and never let yourself be pressured into anything you're not happy with...i have learned that sometimes being polite just doesnt work....just be honest

better luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys

all advice taken on board

cheers fallen

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By *ovefun2Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

i no this might seem a little obvious , but why dont you meet the new guy along with your husband , wudnt u feel safer with another male present ? and then if all happy play solo

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