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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now. I would consider myself a long term swinger

Wouldn't say experience but been on the scene a few years

Having recently hooked up and made a couple profile I'm saddened by people who call themselves 'experienced' who actually look down on those less 'experienced' than them

Anyone else found this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging has changed so much in the last few years... it's seems people are finding more reasons not to meet people for a great sex ,

Than actually meeting for great sex

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

I describe myself as experienced but I hope I don't come over as "looking down" on newer arrivals to the scene.

In fact I often offer advice to newcomers - couples and singles - and I've had a number of people thank me for helping them to overcome their nerves about going to clubs, etc.

I know some people look for others to be experienced and verified - which is understandable given the "idiot ratio" on here, but I like to think there's room for plenty of genuine newcomers alongside old-timers like me!

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By *heladyandthelibertineCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We describe ourselves as experienced in our profile header- it's nothing to do with looking down on less experienced people, it's telling those looking at our profile exactly what we are, and what to expect. Some people find experience off putting, others actively seek it out. Therefore, we make it clear from the start. Then people have the correct information with which to decide whether or not to contact us.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Would you meet a young, unverified, soft swing woman or couple OP? I wouldn't

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford

He/she who thinks that knows everything, knows in fact, nothing. For there's many who are experts, but hide amoung the humble.

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By *laytime 100Couple
over a year ago

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"Would you meet a young, unverified, soft swing woman or couple OP? I wouldn't"

Probably not, soft swing and unverified wouldn't put us off. Young might (although having said that we have come across some young couples who do fit our likes).

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By *laytime 100Couple
over a year ago

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WE have been swinging for a few years now so some might consider us experienced there are many things we haven't done yet! So why look down on anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People look down on others for all sorts of different reasons, experience being one of them. I don't let such people bother me.

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By *heladyandthelibertineCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"... Is there a difference between saying you are a seasoned swinger and saying you are an experienced swinger? Just wondering....

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By *heladyandthelibertineCouple
over a year ago

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"People look down on others for all sorts of different reasons, experience being one of them. I don't let such people bother me."

Exactly.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"... "

Seasoned swingers must be taken with a pinch of salt and a good grind of pepper.

Sally

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By *heladyandthelibertineCouple
over a year ago

Reading


"Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"...

Seasoned swingers must be taken with a pinch of salt and a good grind of pepper.

Sally"

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"...

Seasoned swingers must be taken with a pinch of salt and a good grind of pepper.

Sally

Ha! "

My issue is not how experienced they are

It's when this experience gives them the right to frown upon those less experienced

It happens every day

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Just had a quick look at the OPs profile and seen they describe themselves as "seasoned swingers"...

Seasoned swingers must be taken with a pinch of salt and a good grind of pepper.

Sally

Ha!

My issue is not how experienced they are

It's when this experience gives them the right to frown upon those less experienced

It happens every day "

I think that the first lesson I learned on here was to not let other bother us. There are enough nice, sexy and fun people on here to not have to deal with those who aren't compatible with us.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't frown upon 'the less experienced' - we only make a point of our own experience just so that people are certain about what we like and don't like. And that neither of us is pressuring the other into playing, and that we've done enough swinging to know that jealousy and insecurity isn't a problem between us.

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By *heladyandthelibertineCouple
over a year ago

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"We don't frown upon 'the less experienced' - we only make a point of our own experience just so that people are certain about what we like and don't like. And that neither of us is pressuring the other into playing, and that we've done enough swinging to know that jealousy and insecurity isn't a problem between us. "

Spot on x

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