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Profile name - instant rejection

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all, Are we just strange ( again) or are profile names such as :

Iluv2lick, azzreamer, ballsdeepallnite

Pussy destroyer etc. etc.

Cause an instant hit of the delete button ?

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By *iptopcoolMan
over a year ago

mid

I totally understand what you mean, sometimes I look at names and think you've got no chance of a look in with females or couples with chavvy names like the ones you've suggested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as anything with "discreet" in the name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some never learn.....

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Personally we avoid any bloke with the word "sissy" in his profile name.

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes it is off putting to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deadpool2009 - so changed it

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Anything like "bigdick, hugecock, bigun, or anything mentioning inches Etc. All will be deleted.

If that is the limit of their imagination for a user name then they are hardly going to be imaginative anywhere else.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Anything with Mr Grey in it for me .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh unless they are really offensive (hitler...) usernames don't bother me. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read some and they make me smile, wondering where on earth did they dig that name up from lol

I have had this profile name for years both when I was here with first wife and then my dear fem friend - why change it I say .......likewise I have same profile name I use in Fabguys site (I'm bi you know lol) of yorkman50s - again why change

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

They just make me chuckle tbh, but maybe some are supposed to? So we'd probably give them the benefit of the doubt for a message or two..

S

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

So is mine off putting or informative?

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes any that say Bull.

Big turn off

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Tbh unless they are really offensive (hitler...) usernames don't bother me. xxx"

What's wrong with Eddie Hitler

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do put us off.

I must agree with disliking names with Bull in them or any names with genitalia names in them.

Eve. X

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

Is my username ok? been thinking this for the past few days that it may be a bit silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are just so wrong I thing 'WTF'

As well as the usual suspects I block any that parody children's tv programmes and pretentious ones like Greek or Roman gods ..

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Anything with Mr Grey - 50 shades

Daddy

Dom

Huge cock

Luv2fuk kinda names are very unappealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By themselves a username wouldn't be an instant delete,but if a quick scan of the profile backs up the initial impression then yes, that's it. I'm also not a fan of 50 Shades references, don't think a dom worth their salt would tie themselves to that, or anything too explicit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally with you OP on this one. Instant delete.

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By *iboy1968Man
over a year ago

cramlington

I just use my real name huge mon goose malechicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about changing my user name, because of my age to, ! Ballsasaggingnotadragging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

user names are not a decision maker for us - we read the profile, look at photos, age and preferences, send a messsage before making a judgement...m x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Some of these usernames do suggest a lack of respect for the opposite sex.

We also avoid those with sub/slave/dom/slut type names. Not because they're offensive, but because that's not the experience we're looking for.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most women tend to have fairly inoffensive usernames so it normally acts as a decent indicator of a fake profile when a nasty or self-deprecating one messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

things like niceguy tend to put me off, more so than destroyer and that.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

So can anyone advise me if my username needs changing ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So can anyone advise me if my username needs changing ??? "

if you can think of something better you should probably use that.

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By *ornybankerMan
over a year ago

London

I might change mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So can anyone advise me if my username needs changing ???

if you can think of something better you should probably use that."

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Names with clever puns are usually a winner for us. Anything relating to 'nice/genuine guy, real cock , piss/shit loving or destroying' tend to get sent to file 13....

We wanted ours to be as unconnected to us as possible so we put down the first thing we saw when looking out the window

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

yes its instant no no with some x

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

User names interest us we put a forum up once as to how people chose theirs .....we met when both on the scene and alot of our freinds were unaware at first we had got together as a couple hence secret passion. ....some names can be off putting to be honest ....no imagination but each to their own xxx

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Hello all, Are we just strange ( again) or are profile names such as :

Iluv2lick, azzreamer, ballsdeepallnite

Pussy destroyer etc. etc.

Cause an instant hit of the delete button ?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some usernames can be done in the heat of the moment and can't be changed if someone is not a site supporter. I tend to go more on the profile as a whole, than just usernames .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is self explanatory. Don't know if I have been blocked because of it or something else. Profile, message or pics etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might change mine "

Yes the banker bit is akin to being called hornytaxman or hornyspeedcameraoperator !

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I think my username puts people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as they see "Rachael" nestling in their inbox they go unlos.

No messing

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Some names will make me delete/block as I think the name gives me a feel for the person

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"Names with clever puns are usually a winner for us. Anything relating to 'nice/genuine guy, real cock , piss/shit loving or destroying' tend to get sent to file 13....

We wanted ours to be as unconnected to us as possible so we put down the first thing we saw when looking out the window "

Lucky there wasn't a dog having a pony out there..

Crappingdog is probably not a particularly good name..

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I think our name describes us perfectly and I don't care if people don't like it. As for what others call themselves, well does it really matter that much? We tend to look at the pics, read the profile, verifications and make a decision that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A female friend of mine who introduced me to the site set my page up and chose the name, have always thought about changing it but can never think of a new one lol

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

May change my name to ForumWarrior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*quietly closes the door and tiptoes away.....*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This reminds me of a dude on here called lovetolicksquirt. I very almost ignored him.

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By *asterandhiswhoreCouple
over a year ago

southampton

What about our profile name. Is that ok with people. Seems to us it is not. As we don't get many messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha glad it isn't just us who do that, got to admit we also delete messages with text talk as well.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"*quietly closes the door and tiptoes away.....* "

*Opens door and starts chasing* Comr back I've was joking that's probably even worse than the one I have now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*quietly closes the door and tiptoes away.....*

*Opens door and starts chasing* Comr back I've was joking that's probably even worse than the one I have now..."

i wasn't gonna say anything coz i didn't wanna seem like i was picking on you but you are correct.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Usernames do put us off sometimes, usually because they infer a type of play/dynamic we're not in to or just generally disrespectful to people. If they have an amazing profile and pics or send a great opener then it might sway our judgement but it doesn't happen very often.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Some completely put me off even looking.

Then others I look and wish I really hadn't, as the user name is not an accurate description in my eyes..

Eg. Sexypetitlady, I would expect a 'sexy, short and small framed lady', but what I would most likely see is... Well a complete oxymoron of each term..

Nb the user name used in this example was checked or authenticity and did not show up in my search. (hopefully they haven't blocked me before this post )

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall


"*quietly closes the door and tiptoes away.....* "

So funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*quietly closes the door and tiptoes away.....*

So funny "

Thank you, I'm here all week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regularly put off by usernames. Also people who can't spell where they live.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I give the benefit of the doubt, basing decisions on everything I discover about others. It's probably better to not have a username that may alert others, as some men, in particular, need things to work for them and not against them

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