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By *ue care and attention OP   Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

I wondered what people referred to when they said they weren't hardened swingers so I searched and found a previous post from over a year ago.

It seems that people like to use the expression "experienced but not a hardened swinger" to indicate they have enough experience to know what they're doing without having fucked half the site.

I wonder what is hoped for after stating this and how others interpret what they mean?

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury


"I wondered what people referred to when they said they weren't hardened swingers so I searched and found a previous post from over a year ago.

It seems that people like to use the expression "experienced but not a hardened swinger" to indicate they have enough experience to know what they're doing without having fucked half the site.

I wonder what is hoped for after stating this and how others interpret what they mean?"

I don't use either term however having been swinging on and off since the early 80s I like to think of myself as dedicated.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Americans refer to what they call "the lifestyle". I guess that if swinging is what your whole life revolves around then you could be called a "hardened" swinger. If you've been going to a club or to parties and meeting people every couple of weeks or months for some years, then you can be experienced, (but not "hardened") without necessarily the whole thing having taken over your life, and you still have "plain vanilla" hobbies, and interests that don't involve taking your clothes off to do them.

But that's just my interpretation. I suppose that there are as many interpretations as there are people reading this...maybe?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

My interpretation is:

When they live to swing and have nothing else in their lives.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

when they prioritise swinging in front of everything else.. including family, friends & employment.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I agree with mrs mad and _iew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always interpreted it as having been there and done it all and when swinging becomes the norm rather than an exciting treat

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

all of the above

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think of it as ( rightly or wrongly) that sex between just two people will never be enough....so they HAVE to have group sex to get their kicks.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

has anyone ever seen a profile where someone describes themselves as a "hardened swinger"???????

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By *ue care and attention OP   Woman
over a year ago

birmingham


"has anyone ever seen a profile where someone describes themselves as a "hardened swinger"??????? "

Nope, only the opposite...frequently

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.

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By *edannaCouple
over a year ago

n wales coast


"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.

"

brilliantly put

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they paint themselves in glue(leave the joints free to move)

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Do you get Hardened Professional swingers?

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By *edannaCouple
over a year ago

n wales coast


"Do you get Hardened Professional swingers? "

If you overwinter them in an unheated greenhouse maybe

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.

brilliantly put "

i must have had some sense shagged into me this weekend!

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By *edannaCouple
over a year ago

n wales coast


"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.

brilliantly put

i must have had some sense shagged into me this weekend! "

I ll have to give that a go ,see if it works for me

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.

brilliantly put

i must have had some sense shagged into me this weekend!

I ll have to give that a go ,see if it works for me "

i recommend double wands!

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

pmsl x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"when they prioritise swinging in front of everything else.. including family, friends & employment."

the above definition is mine and mine alone.. and no where does it indicate it is the wrong thing to do.. it is their choice.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think of it as ( rightly or wrongly) that sex between just two people will never be enough....so they HAVE to have group sex to get their kicks."

the above definition is mine and mine alone.. and no where does it indicate it is the wrong thing to do.. it is their choice.

( nicked from View because his made sense for me too)

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"has anyone ever seen a profile where someone describes themselves as a "hardened swinger"??????? "

No, normally the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some can look to be harden-swingers if dont care who thay shag .... and doing it all the time as live for swinging and it control there life .... sex is like a drug to some thay dont care what people look like and who thay are its all about there own needs. To me thats the harden -swinger.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

but isnt that a single bloke!! [runs and hides under duvet and blocks ears!!]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but isnt that a single bloke!! [runs and hides under duvet and blocks ears!!] "
lol no some are very picky , xxx

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

ok will come out again!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"but isnt that a single bloke!! [runs and hides under duvet and blocks ears!!] "

Hey! If I didn't care I'd have become a sheep farmer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never saw that advertised in the job description... it might have said endless meat thou...

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I think some can look to be harden-swingers if dont care who thay shag .... and doing it all the time as live for swinging and it control there life .... sex is like a drug to some thay dont care what people look like and who thay are its all about there own needs. To me thats the harden -swinger."

yes it can be like that sometimes and it becomes very much like a drug im glad i took month out from meeting and i feel better for it but turning peeps down was so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always interpreted it as having been there and done it all and when swinging becomes the norm rather than an exciting treat "

feel this sums it up.x

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"but isnt that a single bloke!! [runs and hides under duvet and blocks ears!!] "

some perhaps but not all I like to get to know someone first. Or am I just fussy?

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

no ur doing it right!

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