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What was your first meet like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I remember mine. We spent weeks probably months chatting getting to know each other beforehand. I can still remember seeing her for first time. We had a drink at the bar in a posh hotel went upstairs and it was so natural. Really enjoyed it.

What was yours like??

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

Mine was a few messages then picking her up to go to a local where we chatted all night and aranged to meet again.

Had a nice day out with some flirting. Have been 'seeing' each other regularly ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted online for a couple days and agreed to meet for coffee. We decided meet for play a couple days later and enjoyed an amazing night of fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my days.....mine wasn't the best. We had chatted for a while, met and went to a hotel. Unfortunately for me he climaxed before I barely got near him.

He isn't on this site anymore may I just add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have yet to meet from this site. All meets have been strangers at clubs.

Just can't seem to get the site to work for us other than keeping in touch with friends and events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerve-racking, not quite as I'd expected/envisaged but lots of fun and very, very wet!

I think we learnt lots about what we wouldn't do next time from that first meet, that's no reflection upon the lady we met, more about our expectations and what we're comfortable with. Mrs X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was over quick. everything about it was quick...

anyway i met him a few times a week and things definitely improved, i don't see him now although he's still on here. found out he was attched and that put me off him sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coolio

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I thought it was great at the time, realised later it wasn't up to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit scary. He did not look like his photos and I almost called it off. We had dinner and I warmed to his sweet personality. His body was unusual but his manner was gentle and loving. Next day he sent a huge bunch of flowers to my hotel. I met him again but he eventually found his soulmate elsewhere. A lovely man and a wonderful introduction to the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaged one evening and met the next day. Was basically fuck and go which we were both happy with. Still chat on here.

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We started as nervous newbies and only wanted a bit of soft-swing. We were nervous but horny......afterwards, we decided that it was great fun and we have never looked back. Needless to say, we didn't stay soft swing for long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh the good old days...

My first meet was very simple... I got a message about 11pm we exchange face pics and met at 12

I was hooked

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Great was nervous as hell wasn't from this site then followed parties etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly ... It was a total joke. I left and laughed all the way home about what went on

It did teach me a lesson though , always check if they can repeat

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

My first solo meet was with someone I'd met and chatted to in a club, so had none of that 'do they look like their photo' concern. Exchanged a few messages before meeting properly. I was horribly ridiculously nervous but wasn't pressured at all and ended up having a great night, which we've repeated a number of times since. Was very lucky, consider them a friend who's respectful of me and my relationship.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

We spoke on here for a few days, swapped numbers, spoke more via phone and text.

She invited me over...shock when she opened the door. She was much bigger than the pics she put up...claimed to be a dress size 16 but was in actual fact a 26.

That the had not washed...the stale BO put me big time. I just had a coffee and made an excuse to leave.....

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston


"...Unfortunately for me he climaxed before I barely got near him."

Aww. I don't know who to feel more sorry for.

Had a little nosey at Your profile and could understand why it happened.

You'd think he'd have at least been a gentleman and helped you out while he rekindled himself.

Or maybe that's just me.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Chatted on here for a bit, spoke on phone then agreed to meet.

She stank of cigarettes.

Then refused to do anything physical because apparently she was on her period, so she just sat in my bedroom at my computer desk whilst i was on my bed. After she people-watched from my window, she asked if i Could take her shopping... The nerve!!!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Funny, sweet, surreal and totally disorganised and winging it. I was nervous as hell. But the excitement outweighed the butterflies. It was fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so nervous. Met a couple which I'd something I'd never done before after two days. She was so wonderful, actually they both were. Very polite and respectful. Could see I was nervous and relaxed me. The Mr left me to his wife and we had some fun. It was so exhilarating.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

First meet was really good, great conversation and a good laugh then both caught completely off guard with developments... still friends to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We spoke on here for a few days, swapped numbers, spoke more via phone and text.

She invited me over...shock when she opened the door. She was much bigger than the pics she put up...claimed to be a dress size 16 but was in actual fact a 26.

That the had not washed...the stale BO put me big time. I just had a coffee and made an excuse to leave....."

You're not alone my friend. This happens more than you suspect.

You're just brave enough to admit it

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

My first meet was at her home, we had been chatting for ages before meeting, once in her house we never got past the front room. It was quite an experience for both of us, god knows what the neighbours thought to the noise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We spoke on here for a few days, swapped numbers, spoke more via phone and text.

She invited me over...shock when she opened the door. She was much bigger than the pics she put up...claimed to be a dress size 16 but was in actual fact a 26.

That the had not washed...the stale BO put me big time. I just had a coffee and made an excuse to leave....."

I reckon that's one of the most popular scenarios experienced on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ohh the good old days...

My first meet was very simple... I got a message about 11pm we exchange face pics and met at 12

I was hooked "

I've never been able to meet with someone after with no personal connection (besides at a club) I love to get to know what turns them on and get some sort of insight into the person before doing the nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet - in the social area at swingers club.....we were so nervous we talked about sex, felt horny but daren't play (wish we could meet the kind gentleman who was so patient and explained the rules ten times over in response to our many many questions!)

m x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Our first meet was from another site it was good and Janine got her arse filled with cum which she loved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first from this site was incredible - beautiful girl,and she was happy for me to pick her up and take her to my hotel on the first meet. We had an awesome night of passionate sex. It's funny because she seemed like a no-show right up to the last minute so I was pleasantly surprised when she made it.

My first meet from another site, about 10 years ago was different however. I wasn't very attracted to her, but I was desperate to get laid so I dropped my standards. She picked me up, took me to the cinema, gave me a blowjob in her car, then took me to a dogging spot and tried to mount me unprotected when we were fooling around. When I refused, she said I'd passed the test Anyway, I've never lowered my standards just to get laid ever since!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh the good old days...

My first meet was very simple... I got a message about 11pm we exchange face pics and met at 12

I was hooked

I've never been able to meet with someone after with no personal connection (besides at a club) I love to get to know what turns them on and get some sort of insight into the person before doing the nasty"

I'm the opposite.... the less I know about a person the better the sex...

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

First experience was in a club. Lovely!!! Spit roast in a dark room which excited me for more. Still love dark rooms and glory holes. Visit clubs most weeks.

First and to be honest, most meets on here are terrible. People totally unlike their photos; dirty people (in the wrong way); people with weird scenarios they insist on trying to force you to follow and the couples who really just want to add a second female, but can't find one, so meet a couple and try to sideline my husband.

The chat and club info on here is good though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First experience was in a club. Lovely!!! Spit roast in a dark room which excited me for more. Still love dark rooms and glory holes. Visit clubs most weeks.

First and to be honest, most meets on here are terrible. People totally unlike their photos; dirty people (in the wrong way); people with weird scenarios they insist on trying to force you to follow and the couples who really just want to add a second female, but can't find one, so meet a couple and try to sideline my husband.

The chat and club info on here is good though"

It's refreshing to read different opinions on the forums.....

I was starting to think people were afraid to speak the truth

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