FabSwingers.com forum: To talk dirty or to keep mouth shut?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love talking dirty and name calling while having sex all in a playful way and no disrespect intended. calling the lady a slag, naughty girl, dirty slut and talk dirty to her about how her pussy is wet and warm how sweet she tastes all that is a big turn on for me specially if partner is present and watching, I usually ask if ok to do so and never been turn down so far, but not sure how others think of it and whether they like it or just being polite and agree! Would the ladies/partners shed some light and tell me what do you think of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like name calling even in jest but a little dirty talk is fine lol ... debs xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Hi!

I love it myself when my boyfriend talks dirty - it makes it all seem even naughtier. Have never been talked dirty to when swapping though so will have to ask them to do it in future! It's all part of the alter ego I have when playing I think - the dirty girl coming out!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I think talking dirty is, like most things, better done when it's done well and doing it well takes practice.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

i love being called dirty names when being fucked !!. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it....but...I think you're better to check by asking first, or gauging reaction to 'selected' dirty talk before launching into a tirade of obscenities and name calling

personally, there are some names/words I can't stand...I find them degrading & disrespectful and nothing is going to turn me off quicker

(slut and whore, particularly) ...

however, call me a dirty bitch and tell me exactly how wet I am and growl at me what's coming next etc and I will be putty in your hands!

different strokes different folks and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It depends on who is doing the name calling and dirty talk

don't like the word slag though so would'nt be happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gail loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmmmm the craft of a dirty talker!! when done well is a massive turn on.......makes me feel even naughtier and the play that bit more filthy!! yummy......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

omg my life wouldnt be the same without dirty talk i flaming love it. But it stays in the bedroom

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

not keen on the name calling but love the dirty talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it....but...I think you're better to check by asking first, or gauging reaction to 'selected' dirty talk before launching into a tirade of obscenities and name calling

personally, there are some names/words I can't stand...I find them degrading & disrespectful and nothing is going to turn me off quicker

(slut and whore, particularly) ...

however, call me a dirty bitch and tell me exactly how wet I am and growl at me what's coming next etc and I will be putty in your hands!

different strokes different folks and all that

Same here,bitch and tart are fine but hate the term slag and not keen on slut either.

Both slag and slut convey a different kind of "dirty" to us.So they're a turn off.

However I do like dirty whispering and descriptions but not a constant monologue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

talking dirty comes so damn naturally to me (male) & it just wouldn't be as intense & satisfying without being able to passionately express myself verbally as it's such a major part of who i am sexually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love to hear it but cant engage in it myself

apart from becoming all religious

and the occasional "barsteward"

but yerrrr its a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as anything else, sometimes it feels right and sometimes it doesn't

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

My language slips and I swear like a trooper and I love to talk and tease the guy.... but not so keen on the slut and tart bits...although I can be..

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"My language slips and I swear like a trooper and I love to talk and tease the guy.... but not so keen on the slut and tart bits...although I can be..

thinks I better hold my tongue

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

why is it just the guy that thinks he should be calling the fem a slut etc when shagging her, surely the guy doing the shagging is also a slut as he goes from fem to fem as the fem goes from male to male...

if a guy has loads of females one after the other he is a stud and spoken highly amongst his friends, if however the female has loads of guys she is a slut, whore, the local bike etc...

as im not a sub i find im very pleased with myself calling the guys names..they all seem very shocked when the tables are turned on them..lol, stella..xxxx

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

"My language slips and I swear like a trooper and I love to talk and tease the guy.... but not so keen on the slut and tart bits...although I can be..

thinks I better hold my tongue

Lol , will hold it for you

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

love it here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

such a lovely view from here. don't you think?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I love talking dirty and name calling while having sex all in a playful way and no disrespect intended. calling the lady a slag, naughty girl, dirty slut and talk dirty to her about how her pussy is wet and warm how sweet she tastes all that is a big turn on for me specially if partner is present and watching, I usually ask if ok to do so and never been turn down so far, but not sure how others think of it and whether they like it or just being polite and agree! Would the ladies/partners shed some light and tell me what do you think of it?"

Not really my thing but I will do it if the woman enjoys it. Met a woman a few months back who wanted me to call her a slut etc as we fucked. Felt wierd be she enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes have to say she luvs that

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

yes loves it but only in the bedroom adds 2 the spice

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