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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're really single females trying to look like a couple just to perv your photos....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?"

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I will give you the same answer i gave last week when one these popped up, people will run their profile how they see fit, if that does not fit what you are looking for then ignore and move on,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The woman 'sells' the profile better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text. "

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?"

Actually, if you read the OP's profile he mentions his friend's username and the name of their couples profile

It's a common problem OP. I think some couples post what'll get them more attention, rather than what'll give them the best chance of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends who they're looking for. If it's only straight men, I can kinda understand why they focus only on the woman.

The same profiles usually complain about messages being addressed to just the female half...while their avatar and every single one of their photos is the female half.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's very much a case of their profile, their rules.

We avoid such profiles though, in our experience it means the man either isn't really interested or just wants to watch his partner.

I also find it odd that they imagine I will be happy to have sex with a man I've seen no images of while they've provided plenty for my partner to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??"

Well if you look at their couple profile it's two days old and you can't post on the forums until a profile is seven days old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??"

Put your claws away

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I guess it depends who they're looking for. If it's only straight men, I can kinda understand why they focus only on the woman.

The same profiles usually complain about messages being addressed to just the female half...while their avatar and every single one of their photos is the female half. "

Spot on Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise "

So what would be your ideal ratio of female to male pics on a profile? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm genuinely curious.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise "

Sometimes it isn't a deliberate choice. I have my own profile for meeting alone with loads of pics because I am a photo tart. The regular squeeze has his own profile for meeting alone with no pics at all. We still met each other. Our couples profile is a compromise with a few pics of us together and a few shots of me taken by him. I like taking pics, he doesn't. It's that simple. It has nothing to do with trying to 'sell' the couples profile with just me and we made sure our avatar is one with us both in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason in our case is that I (the Mrs) use this the most, the Mr very rarely comes on here. So for me I didn't feel it was my place to put his photos in the public domain, the pics of him are set to private. We're both tattooed and easily identifiable, so I don't feel it's my place to show his photos to the public. I know there's the argument that if someone recognises me then they'll know he's the other half, that's true, but they don't necessarily need to see him in the buff to know he's on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple guilty of having mostly female photos (there is one of me) our reasons are;

1) we very rarely meet through the site. We mainly meet in clubs as we can't be bothered with the bullshit of messaging and the resulting let downs.

2) when in the mood, we quite like putting photos up and we enjoy the reaction. No body (when we had them up) has ever sent a message saying they like the photos of me!

3) because we can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?"

We have a couples profile....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text. "

Thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??"

Yes you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree op. In the past when looking for couples I've never found one as they never have male pics. I'm certainly more interested in what the male looks like. I don't understand when they have in their profile "no single male" but obviously that's who they are targeting with pics of the female.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??"

We have only just set it up so we have to wait a week before we can post on the forum otherwise we would have done so.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text. "

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Actually, if you read the OP's profile he mentions his friend's username and the name of their couples profile

It's a common problem OP. I think some couples post what'll get them more attention, rather than what'll give them the best chance of meets."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try hard to have a good number of pics of Marc on our profile. It's har, though, because it takes a lot of effort to convince him to take and post a pic. He prefers to see pics of me, so that's what he is usually interested in posting. I try to keep a good balance on there, though.

My favorite are of couples together in the same pic, but getting good pics of two people can be really tricky.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Because they're really single females trying to look like a couple just to perv your photos.... "

Well this is what I'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess it depends who they're looking for. If it's only straight men, I can kinda understand why they focus only on the woman.

The same profiles usually complain about messages being addressed to just the female half...while their avatar and every single one of their photos is the female half. "

Yeah thats true i didnt think of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try hard to have a good number of pics of Marc on our profile. It's har, though, because it takes a lot of effort to convince him to take and post a pic. He prefers to see pics of me, so that's what he is usually interested in posting. I try to keep a good balance on there, though.

My favorite are of couples together in the same pic, but getting good pics of two people can be really tricky."

I think you have a reasonable mix. I've also always liked the fact that you have a few together which are sexy but not explicit or 'genital centred'

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

"

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise

So what would be your ideal ratio of female to male pics on a profile? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm genuinely curious. "

I think there should just be at least some of the male, we wouldnt message a couple if we have know idea what the male half looks like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I totally agree op. In the past when looking for couples I've never found one as they never have male pics. I'm certainly more interested in what the male looks like. I don't understand when they have in their profile "no single male" but obviously that's who they are targeting with pics of the female."

Yes it makes no sense to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?"

He's actively searching for a couple who advertise themselves as a couple. If the man is going to be involved and there are photos of the woman for all to see, why not of the man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try hard to have a good number of pics of Marc on our profile. It's har, though, because it takes a lot of effort to convince him to take and post a pic. He prefers to see pics of me, so that's what he is usually interested in posting. I try to keep a good balance on there, though.

My favorite are of couples together in the same pic, but getting good pics of two people can be really tricky."

I feel his pain i hate having mine taken too

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"The woman 'sells' the profile better."

Sell it for who though as the female half I want see the male half as if I'm not happy with him Liam ain't getting her don't care how hot she is lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

He's actively searching for a couple who advertise themselves as a couple. If the man is going to be involved and there are photos of the woman for all to see, why not of the man?

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Exaxtly...think some people just love to argue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise "

I hear you OP..I also wonder why there are often no pics of both her and him together, especially if its a couple who are both looking for females...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon "

Why is he wrong?

Do you feel silly now? If the man is to be involved there should be photos of him for the woman of the other couple to see. I wouldn't meet a couple without seeing a pic of the man. If I were searching I wouldn't bother with profiles that just had pics of a woman. I want to see both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

He's actively searching for a couple who advertise themselves as a couple. If the man is going to be involved and there are photos of the woman for all to see, why not of the man?

Exaxtly...think some people just love to argue "

As a single man he's not allowed to have a pic of a woman on his profile anyway.

She may not want her photos on the site.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??"

Someone got up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon "

I can't say I do

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

Why is he wrong?

Do you feel silly now? If the man is to be involved there should be photos of him for the woman of the other couple to see. I wouldn't meet a couple without seeing a pic of the man. If I were searching I wouldn't bother with profiles that just had pics of a woman. I want to see both of them. "

Think you got this wrong lol I'm the clubber half to the op I'm the one wanting to see the male halfs, I was on about the guy who agreed with what someone else had said wrongly without bothering to get the facts.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Cant understand why couples would do this

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

I can't say I do "

So your sticking to what was said even though it was wrong

Fair enough

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Cant understand why couples would do this "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

Why is he wrong?

Do you feel silly now? If the man is to be involved there should be photos of him for the woman of the other couple to see. I wouldn't meet a couple without seeing a pic of the man. If I were searching I wouldn't bother with profiles that just had pics of a woman. I want to see both of them. "

We are guilty of not currently having any together but plan to take some on nye when we are all dolled up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

I can't say I do

So your sticking to what was said even though it was wrong

Fair enough "

I'm really not gonna feel silly over a few words on a screen lol

You obviously are but carry on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong im not saying what people should or shouldn't have on their profile and if a profile doesnt have pictures of both we will simply move onto the next...

The whole point of this thread was just to get an idea as to why couples dont put pictures of both parties up as we personally find it a little strange thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean OP. It can sometimes be a bugger. I like to see both .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

I can't say I do

So your sticking to what was said even though it was wrong

Fair enough

I'm really not gonna feel silly over a few words on a screen lol

You obviously are but carry on "

I said fair enough that's me done mate merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know what you mean OP. It can sometimes be a bugger. I like to see both . "

Ideally we would like to see both first before messaging but doesnt seem to be many with both on show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit "

No body pics or nothing? Cock pic would be the last pic id think about putting up

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit "

Don't blame him I don't want to see their cocks at all that's not what I mean just to know the male half exists would be nice lol would just like a general idea of what he looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Sell it for who though as the female half I want see the male half as if I'm not happy with him Liam ain't getting her don't care how hot she is lol "

'Sell' as in attract the initial interest to the profile. A lot look like single women until you see the *couple* wording.

I don't understand why a couple looking to meet and play fully with others wouldn't have photos of them both, as I'm not looking to meet couples it doesn't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong im not saying what people should or shouldn't have on their profile and if a profile doesnt have pictures of both we will simply move onto the next...

The whole point of this thread was just to get an idea as to why couples dont put pictures of both parties up as we personally find it a little strange thats all "

That's fair enough, we certainly see where you're coming from, but as we thought it's turned into a typical forum singles vs couples slanging match. Your opening post was something of a loaded question, and this question has been asked, and answered plenty of times before. you haven't answered my question about an acceptable ratio male:female pics.

You're never going to get a decent answer to this, only a small number of the site use the forums, and the forums are dominated by singles, many of whom don't meet couples and/or have no experience of playing as a couple. So it's ill informed conjecture. I'm most likely guilty of fueling the fire here, but it seems to me the only time the opinions of couples are wanted in the forums is to enforce a negative opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong im not saying what people should or shouldn't have on their profile and if a profile doesnt have pictures of both we will simply move onto the next...

The whole point of this thread was just to get an idea as to why couples dont put pictures of both parties up as we personally find it a little strange thats all

That's fair enough, we certainly see where you're coming from, but as we thought it's turned into a typical forum singles vs couples slanging match. Your opening post was something of a loaded question, and this question has been asked, and answered plenty of times before. you haven't answered my question about an acceptable ratio male:female pics.

You're never going to get a decent answer to this, only a small number of the site use the forums, and the forums are dominated by singles, many of whom don't meet couples and/or have no experience of playing as a couple. So it's ill informed conjecture. I'm most likely guilty of fueling the fire here, but it seems to me the only time the opinions of couples are wanted in the forums is to enforce a negative opinion. "

I havent got an "acceptable" ratio as its each to their own i just wondered why couples wouldnt include images of both parties as opposed to all of the female or all female and just cock pics like there is nothing more to a man than his old boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me ( K male) doesn't like having his photo taken, you'll probably find that with a lot of men don't like having photos taken that's probably why they're of the ladies.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??"

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me ( K male) doesn't like having his photo taken, you'll probably find that with a lot of men don't like having photos taken that's probably why they're of the ladies."

Do you not feel like you would attract more people by putting a body shot up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??

Nope! "

As previously explained our couples profile is new so we cant post off that...we have pictures of both up....i struggle to see any irony myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male appendage in our experience don't really get a lot of interest.

Most of our messages we receive have commented about R and her boobs, bum, pussy and her whole figure in general.

Last cock pic we posted was met with "you have too many cock pics" comments.

It's all about the couples that are checking your profile at the time I imagine.

Strange little world at times. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple my missus is way hotter plus being a cuckolding type relationship my part is minimal. They are on our friends only though once we add suitable people

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Dont get me wrong im not saying what people should or shouldn't have on their profile and if a profile doesnt have pictures of both we will simply move onto the next...

The whole point of this thread was just to get an idea as to why couples dont put pictures of both parties up as we personally find it a little strange thats all

That's fair enough, we certainly see where you're coming from, but as we thought it's turned into a typical forum singles vs couples slanging match. Your opening post was something of a loaded question, and this question has been asked, and answered plenty of times before. you haven't answered my question about an acceptable ratio male:female pics.

You're never going to get a decent answer to this, only a small number of the site use the forums, and the forums are dominated by singles, many of whom don't meet couples and/or have no experience of playing as a couple. So it's ill informed conjecture. I'm most likely guilty of fueling the fire here, but it seems to me the only time the opinions of couples are wanted in the forums is to enforce a negative opinion. "

We are gonna at least try to keep it more or less even with the pics equal amounts I think, that's what I'd like to see in others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Male appendage in our experience don't really get a lot of interest.

Most of our messages we receive have commented about R and her boobs, bum, pussy and her whole figure in general.

Last cock pic we posted was met with "you have too many cock pics" comments.

It's all about the couples that are checking your profile at the time I imagine.

Strange little world at times. x"

See now we wouldnt even approach a couple without seeing both on display first

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

It does explain that they have a couple profile and her single profile name in his profile text.

Complain from the couples profile then, am I the only one who sees the irony in this??

Nope! "

It's been explained up top somewhere

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Male appendage in our experience don't really get a lot of interest.

Most of our messages we receive have commented about R and her boobs, bum, pussy and her whole figure in general.

Last cock pic we posted was met with "you have too many cock pics" comments.

It's all about the couples that are checking your profile at the time I imagine.

Strange little world at times. x"

It really is but I'm not looking for cock pics at all a body shot would be nice.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Simple my missus is way hotter plus being a cuckolding type relationship my part is minimal. They are on our friends only though once we add suitable people "

Well that makes sense.

It's the couples who are looking for other couples for full swap that I don't get, shouldn't everyone see what's on offer not just the men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple my missus is way hotter plus being a cuckolding type relationship my part is minimal. They are on our friends only though once we add suitable people

Well that makes sense.

It's the couples who are looking for other couples for full swap that I don't get, shouldn't everyone see what's on offer not just the men."
yes! Though even single guys profiles on here are mainly cock pictures or head cropped pictures (as like OP) so having to constantly ask for face pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple my missus is way hotter plus being a cuckolding type relationship my part is minimal. They are on our friends only though once we add suitable people

Well that makes sense.

It's the couples who are looking for other couples for full swap that I don't get, shouldn't everyone see what's on offer not just the men. yes! Though even single guys profiles on here are mainly cock pictures or head cropped pictures (as like OP) so having to constantly ask for face pictures "

I dont have any cock pics and face pics are only a message away...i wouldnt expect anybody to display their face pics to the public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

Why is he wrong?

Do you feel silly now? If the man is to be involved there should be photos of him for the woman of the other couple to see. I wouldn't meet a couple without seeing a pic of the man. If I were searching I wouldn't bother with profiles that just had pics of a woman. I want to see both of them.

Think you got this wrong lol I'm the clubber half to the op I'm the one wanting to see the male halfs, I was on about the guy who agreed with what someone else had said wrongly without bothering to get the facts. "

Oh sorry!

I get confused when people copy copied posts. I didn't think you were on here.

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple my missus is way hotter plus being a cuckolding type relationship my part is minimal. They are on our friends only though once we add suitable people

Well that makes sense.

It's the couples who are looking for other couples for full swap that I don't get, shouldn't everyone see what's on offer not just the men. yes! Though even single guys profiles on here are mainly cock pictures or head cropped pictures (as like OP) so having to constantly ask for face pictures

I dont have any cock pics and face pics are only a message away...i wouldnt expect anybody to display their face pics to the public "
I was just using you as a example not a personal attack. My other half doesn't want everyone to see him too unless we add them. So maybe all the couple profileseeking are the same and that the male can been seen when added or just a message away. Little time consuming I know but seems that's the way it is here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

"
those are fabulous pictures!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

"

Couldn't fault yours at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

No body pics or nothing? Cock pic would be the last pic id think about putting up"

He has full body pics in private which include his face...hence friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

No body pics or nothing? Cock pic would be the last pic id think about putting up

Kinda like yours

He has full body pics in private which include his face...hence friends only "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

No body pics or nothing? Cock pic would be the last pic id think about putting up

He has full body pics in private which include his face...hence friends only "

Same as ours

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Thank you!!


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

those are fabulous pictures!"

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Thanks! :o)


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

Couldn't fault yours at all "

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Actually... yours are incredible!

LOVE the latex stuff.

You're gorgeous x


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

those are fabulous pictures!"

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Really you are on complaining about couples pictures, when you are looking to meet with a friend you have no pictures of?

Now don't you feel a bit silly jumping on the ever so wrong bang wagon

Why is he wrong?

Do you feel silly now? If the man is to be involved there should be photos of him for the woman of the other couple to see. I wouldn't meet a couple without seeing a pic of the man. If I were searching I wouldn't bother with profiles that just had pics of a woman. I want to see both of them.

Think you got this wrong lol I'm the clubber half to the op I'm the one wanting to see the male halfs, I was on about the guy who agreed with what someone else had said wrongly without bothering to get the facts.

Oh sorry!

I get confused when people copy copied posts. I didn't think you were on here. "

Lol no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

"

I am in awe. Don't usually comment on couples pictures, but wow!!!

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Blimey!

Thank you!

That's a lovely thing to say.

Your pics are lush too.

You're very VERY cute!

X


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

I am in awe. Don't usually comment on couples pictures, but wow!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong im not saying what people should or shouldn't have on their profile and if a profile doesnt have pictures of both we will simply move onto the next...

The whole point of this thread was just to get an idea as to why couples dont put pictures of both parties up as we personally find it a little strange thats all

That's fair enough, we certainly see where you're coming from, but as we thought it's turned into a typical forum singles vs couples slanging match. Your opening post was something of a loaded question, and this question has been asked, and answered plenty of times before. you haven't answered my question about an acceptable ratio male:female pics.

You're never going to get a decent answer to this, only a small number of the site use the forums, and the forums are dominated by singles, many of whom don't meet couples and/or have no experience of playing as a couple. So it's ill informed conjecture. I'm most likely guilty of fueling the fire here, but it seems to me the only time the opinions of couples are wanted in the forums is to enforce a negative opinion.

We are gonna at least try to keep it more or less even with the pics equal amounts I think, that's what I'd like to see in others.

"

Thanks for the response. Again, my question about acceptable wasn't taking the piss, just my excessively logical brain at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit "

Who says we want to see an abstract pic of a cock? both of you together would be fine, ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a few more of me but I simply detest being photographed, gotta teach Mrs N how to use my studio n kit to grab a half decent shot or two.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Somebody has to be behind the camera. xxxxx Suzi

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have to agree with the OP, there are far too few couples profiles with even one decent photo of the male half.

I'm bi and need to be attracted to both members of the couple.

We have tried to show a reasonable number of us both, but do need to take some more up to date ones of us together.

I appreciate that some will have them in private or friends only but I'm sure there are some couples we have skipped as we just couldn't be bothered to ask for them...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

Who says we want to see an abstract pic of a cock? both of you together would be fine, ty "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

Who says we want to see an abstract pic of a cock? both of you together would be fine, ty

"

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

I am in awe. Don't usually comment on couples pictures, but wow!!! "

Made me look!

I agree,nice balance of both people. Yum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the original question we have more pics of me than him because a) when we joined we were only looking for single guys so none of them were that fussed about seeing him b) he hates having his photo taken, especially showing off his bod where I generally take comfort from the fact my boobs or arse are likely to distract attention from the less good bits of me and c) we've found it really hard meetings couples online and establishing we all click , it's much easier in a club setting so profile pics are pretty redundant. I know our pics of me outweigh him by a margin but hope the ones we have give the ladies an idea.

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Awwww... thank you!

Yours is lush too! Xxx


"Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

I am in awe. Don't usually comment on couples pictures, but wow!!!

Made me look!

I agree,nice balance of both people. Yum."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always assumed the women are the fussy ones.

If they don't like the look of another woman then she will no be interested.

Mind you we are always trying to find a bi female

He is ok with fucking another woman, but isn't fussed either way, he gets laid when he wants

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise "

The reason we have more pics of Katie is because we were only ever looking for single guys. So pics of me weren't really relevant.

Rich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our pics are of roxy as we are looking for bi guys or tv/ts's so they don't really need to see many of me.

L (fem)

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Awwww... thank you!

Yours is lush too! Xxx

Everyone has their own way of running their own profiles, but it is a bit frustrating when you only get pics of one half of a couple.

It's the first thing Alice asks for if I find us a decent profile we like the look of 'what are the pics of him like?'

:oO

We try to mix it up but realise the majority of our pics are Alice! She's just a lot better looking... AND I'm the one BEHIND the camera!

I am in awe. Don't usually comment on couples pictures, but wow!!!

Made me look!

I agree,nice balance of both people. Yum."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have a nice balance but I would.love some taken of us both.

I dabbled in modelling a few years ago and loved being in front of the camera and the artistry that goes into it. I think Adam would look stunning.

I love pics of us together but can rarely get good ones due to arm length etc ha ha.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours it pretty equal but as we are both bi them gotta show the merchandise to everyone he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better."

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

"

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

There's more of her than me for a variety of reasons. First up, she's hotter than me (This is also true for 99% of swinger couples).

Secondly, she is awful at taking pictures. Like really bad.

Thirdly, I find me "posing sexily" in photos to be hilariously unattractive (I actually laugh) and think they would be more off putting than having fewer photos of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men use women as currency so they can get a fuck. olden times swinging. swap the wives fuck em good they are just objects for the use of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the guy is so ugly he can't have pics then who the hell in their right mind would want to fuck them????!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is slightly pointless tho because no one is going to meet without seeing face pics anyway the profile is just to get attention once someone messages you it's done to you to show that person enough where they feel comfortable meeting we send pics of us both in messages but on the profile they are all her's. If we arranged a meet with someone we would expect to have to send pics of us both but i dont see anything wrong with the profile havin only her as long as it's a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post is slightly pointless tho because no one is going to meet without seeing face pics anyway the profile is just to get attention once someone messages you it's done to you to show that person enough where they feel comfortable meeting we send pics of us both in messages but on the profile they are all her's. If we arranged a meet with someone we would expect to have to send pics of us both but i dont see anything wrong with the profile havin only her as long as it's a couples profile"

*down to you*

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"if the guy is so ugly he can't have pics then who the hell in their right mind would want to fuck them????!!!"

Some don't mind and that goes both ways.

But remember what you believe to be ugly some others don't, helps make the world go round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X"

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an average looking guy with a way above average looking Wife her pics are just better for the profile and we have never had any problems with it. But seeing just how many people are saying Pics of both is better or more convenient for others who are interested we may add more of us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if the guy is so ugly he can't have pics then who the hell in their right mind would want to fuck them????!!!

Some don't mind and that goes both ways.

But remember what you believe to be ugly some others don't, helps make the world go round. "

or else I'd never get fucked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an average looking guy with a way above average looking Wife her pics are just better for the profile and we have never had any problems with it. But seeing just how many people are saying Pics of both is better or more convenient for others who are interested we may add more of us both"

Everyone has personal taste. Your wife isn't to everyone's taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a mix of us both on ours. Both on here so show both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here."

We haven't! We love seeing each other with the opposite sex so I wouldn't allow Adam to lower his standards because the guy is good looking. No chance.

Eve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here."

says the straight guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here.

says the straight guy "

Your brain is incapable of objectivity? We can look at someone and see how attractive they are without wanting fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here.

We haven't! We love seeing each other with the opposite sex so I wouldn't allow Adam to lower his standards because the guy is good looking. No chance.

Eve x"

Just curious. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here.

says the straight guy

Your brain is incapable of objectivity? We can look at someone and see how attractive they are without wanting fuck them. "

Of course I can. Way more attractive woman on here then guys. And that's with guys out numbering the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and have pictures of both of us if your a couple there should be pics of both of you we both like to see what we will playing with puts me off (female ) when theres just pics of the female on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The woman 'sells' the profile better.

Exactly thats the reason my pics are private and hers are not plus the fact am like a 5 out of 10 and she's a 10/10.

Your partner is very attractive I must admit!

I will also admit that we have messaged many couples with a gorgeous woman and a man who just doesn't do it for me so needless to say we didn't meet.

We both have to have an attraction to meet or it doesn't happen. Hence we like to see a nice mixture. We will still wink for stunning profiles such as yours ha ha. X

Eve. X

Have you done the opposite? The man was good but she wasn't? I honestly think people lower their standards for women. I see more fit guys than women here.

We haven't! We love seeing each other with the opposite sex so I wouldn't allow Adam to lower his standards because the guy is good looking. No chance.

Eve x

Just curious. x"

Hmm well be careful Kitty.

Eve. X

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise "

Obviously not speaking for all couples. But look at our pics. Look at me and look at my girl x

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Let's no lie males are at the bottom of the food chain on fab so most clps profiles show off the lady more to get others to have a look and a read

Not to be funny but it's all about her the guy is just based on having a cock and body

Me and the ball and chain (who both are on here but singles profiles as we met off fab)are thinking of making a profile and I know most msgs will be for her and most pics looked at will be of her it's just how the game is played

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's no lie males are at the bottom of the food chain on fab so most clps profiles show off the lady more to get others to have a look and a read

Not to be funny but it's all about her the guy is just based on having a cock and body

Me and the ball and chain (who both are on here but singles profiles as we met off fab)are thinking of making a profile and I know most msgs will be for her and most pics looked at will be of her it's just how the game is played "

Yet it is me who has the final say on meets and if I don't think it's going to be an equal meet then it's a no.

Also, I think my husband is God's gift to me. Therefore I want him to show himself off too because he's an important aspect of a meet.

I am in no way vain. I don't want meets based off of just me. I married Adam for a reason and that means that if you don't want us both equally then we aren't for you, in the same way that if you only try and push the female of your profile then we probably aren't for you as we like mutual attraction.

We are a couples profiles and we present ourselves as such.

Eve.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I guess it depends who they're looking for. If it's only straight men, I can kinda understand why they focus only on the woman.

The same profiles usually complain about messages being addressed to just the female half...while their avatar and every single one of their photos is the female half. "

this exactly!

Many couples profiles look just like single fem profiles!

To meet a couple I need to see pics of both and find both attractive!

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Let's no lie males are at the bottom of the food chain on fab so most clps profiles show off the lady more to get others to have a look and a read

Not to be funny but it's all about her the guy is just based on having a cock and body

Me and the ball and chain (who both are on here but singles profiles as we met off fab)are thinking of making a profile and I know most msgs will be for her and most pics looked at will be of her it's just how the game is played

Yet it is me who has the final say on meets and if I don't think it's going to be an equal meet then it's a no.

Also, I think my husband is God's gift to me. Therefore I want him to show himself off too because he's an important aspect of a meet.

I am in no way vain. I don't want meets based off of just me. I married Adam for a reason and that means that if you don't want us both equally then we aren't for you, in the same way that if you only try and push the female of your profile then we probably aren't for you as we like mutual attraction.

We are a couples profiles and we present ourselves as such.

Eve. "

As I say me and th gf have not made a clps profile but I am taking a guess that she would be the reason we would have msgs and winks and such as even when we ley in bed and laugh about things eg I go on fab and have 3 vews and she is in the 20s with x amount of msgs and winks but I feel that's how it will go with fab as swinging I have always felt the ladies run the show

Like you say with your hubby he is gods gift and you want the meet to work for both of you that's great and iam sure it works well and your both happy

I am just saying from having a singles profile up to having a clps profile she will be the reason for others having a look and such

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"We are a couple and have pictures of both of us if your a couple there should be pics of both of you we both like to see what we will playing with puts me off (female ) when theres just pics of the female on "

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

It's all very well showing the female off if what you are after is men or women who just want to play with the female half then yeah it makes sense, but if you are after another couple to full swap then just showing her off doesn't cut it, I'm gonna need to see the male half but I'm not gonna waste my time asking to see him on all profiles where it's just the pictures of the female.

If you are both up for playing then you should both be on show.

Just my opinion.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Why is it when men message a couple they only think the female half has access to the account??

Frank

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Why is it when men message a couple they only think the female half has access to the account??

Frank"

I hear this a lot from friends who are couples

Not as if it is hard to greet both the male and female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when men message a couple they only think the female half has access to the account??

Frank"

because there's usually 90% pics of the woman and they wanna fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when men message a couple they only think the female half has access to the account??

Frank"

It annoys us to no end. I find it really disrespectful.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This post is slightly pointless tho because no one is going to meet without seeing face pics anyway the profile is just to get attention once someone messages you it's done to you to show that person enough where they feel comfortable meeting we send pics of us both in messages but on the profile they are all her's. If we arranged a meet with someone we would expect to have to send pics of us both but i dont see anything wrong with the profile havin only her as long as it's a couples profile"

I read that until the word pointless....it's not pointless because we as a couple would like to meet couples for full swap ....it would help to get an idea of how the male looks...as you say a profile is there to attract attention so if there's no male pics it won't attract us...so yeah far from pointless for us hence the thread

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

There are more pics of Butterfly in our profile; therefore clearly there are fewer of me, but she is far nicer to look at anyway:

We would never meet without face pics and normally only in a club or at a party.

Pics of the fella could always be construed as cock pics and not always everyone's cup of tea.

At the end of the day it's your profile, run it how you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post is slightly pointless tho because no one is going to meet without seeing face pics anyway the profile is just to get attention once someone messages you it's done to you to show that person enough where they feel comfortable meeting we send pics of us both in messages but on the profile they are all her's. If we arranged a meet with someone we would expect to have to send pics of us both but i dont see anything wrong with the profile havin only her as long as it's a couples profile

I read that until the word pointless....it's not pointless because we as a couple would like to meet couples for full swap ....it would help to get an idea of how the male looks...as you say a profile is there to attract attention so if there's no male pics it won't attract us...so yeah far from pointless for us hence the thread "

I said you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of both anyway thats whats pointless the profile might not have any guy pics but you would 100% ask to see a pic before any meet is arranged so makes no difference if the profile has guys pics or not

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By *elle and JamesCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

We started with a single F profile and then created a couples, Belle gets to flaunt herself on the single profile but we decided that all the pics on the couples profile would contain both of us, or at least bits of us.... Do find it a bit restricting in terms of pics, arms just aren't long enough

But back to the original point... We do like to see a decent selection of both parties given that hopefully we'll be playing with both! Obviously seeing as Belle has a penchant for ladies as well as guys we're happy to see more female pics though!

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"It's very much a case of their profile, their rules.

We avoid such profiles though, in our experience it means the man either isn't really interested or just wants to watch his partner.

I also find it odd that they imagine I will be happy to have sex with a man I've seen no images of while they've provided plenty for my partner to look at "

Late to the party, but this sums it up for us as well, unless they are forthcoming quickly with pictures of the male half. No pictures (PLURAL) of the male half, and there is little intrigue for me. I'm a visual girl

Mrs Fusion

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"This post is slightly pointless tho because no one is going to meet without seeing face pics anyway the profile is just to get attention once someone messages you it's done to you to show that person enough where they feel comfortable meeting we send pics of us both in messages but on the profile they are all her's. If we arranged a meet with someone we would expect to have to send pics of us both but i dont see anything wrong with the profile havin only her as long as it's a couples profile

I read that until the word pointless....it's not pointless because we as a couple would like to meet couples for full swap ....it would help to get an idea of how the male looks...as you say a profile is there to attract attention so if there's no male pics it won't attract us...so yeah far from pointless for us hence the thread

I said you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of both anyway thats whats pointless the profile might not have any guy pics but you would 100% ask to see a pic before any meet is arranged so makes no difference if the profile has guys pics or not

"

Yeah it would because we wouldn't haven't bothered to ask to see the male half if your hidding him I'd have seen all the female pics and got bored and move on the next profile. I need to see the man and no I don't mean his cock.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Mainly seem to only have pictures of the female? Dont get me wrong im not saying all but a lot seem to have plenty of pictures of the female half but very little of the male...me and my clubber half are trying to source a couple but finding difficult as there isnt much for her to look at image wise "

We aren't interested in couples where the female is the centre of attention. We get the feeling that any meet will be all about her and she needs the attention to feel any sense of self ...' not our thing to boost an ego that needs boosting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This drives us mad the way we see is if your messaging a couple speak to them both not just one of them

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"This post is slightly pointless tho because no one is going to meet without seeing face pics anyway the profile is just to get attention once someone messages you it's done to you to show that person enough where they feel comfortable meeting we send pics of us both in messages but on the profile they are all her's. If we arranged a meet with someone we would expect to have to send pics of us both but i dont see anything wrong with the profile havin only her as long as it's a couples profile

I read that until the word pointless....it's not pointless because we as a couple would like to meet couples for full swap ....it would help to get an idea of how the male looks...as you say a profile is there to attract attention so if there's no male pics it won't attract us...so yeah far from pointless for us hence the thread

I said you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of both anyway thats whats pointless the profile might not have any guy pics but you would 100% ask to see a pic before any meet is arranged so makes no difference if the profile has guys pics or not

Yeah it would because we wouldn't haven't bothered to ask to see the male half if your hidding him I'd have seen all the female pics and got bored and move on the next profile. I need to see the man and no I don't mean his cock."

I totally get where you are coming from,we discount lots of profiles due to it and now mainly do club meets.

If its just a male the couple are after,fair enough.If its us as a couple we need pics of both and we delete winks etc if theres nothing to interest us both.

Miss

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"

If its just a male the couple are after,fair enough.

Miss"

100% Agree with this statement, hence

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"This drives us mad the way we see is if your messaging a couple speak to them both not just one of them "

Mr has his own profile, single one, so he doesn't come on the couple one .... does that make us less of a couple?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"This drives us mad the way we see is if your messaging a couple speak to them both not just one of them

Mr has his own profile, single one, so he doesn't come on the couple one .... does that make us less of a couple?"

I don't know lol but I take it works for you so, it wouldn't work for us at all mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

Who says we want to see an abstract pic of a cock? both of you together would be fine, ty

"

To be honest when we're having sex the last thing we both think about is getting the camera out! Each to their own with profile pictures ours is doing just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get chatting and exchange a face pic...much better than body parts after all the face has gotta be the most important part hasn't it!?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Most of ours are me (t) that's mainly because my hubby doesn't really like to put his cock on there shown by a million angles lol I think women can mix it up a little bit

Who says we want to see an abstract pic of a cock? both of you together would be fine, ty

To be honest when we're having sex the last thing we both think about is getting the camera out! Each to their own with profile pictures ours is doing just fine "

I don't want to see action shots of anyone they do nothing for me.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Get chatting and exchange a face pic...much better than body parts after all the face has gotta be the most important part hasn't it!? "

Agreed but we aren't gonna bother chatting if all they have are pics of her we need pics of both parties to entice us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get chatting and exchange a face pic...much better than body parts after all the face has gotta be the most important part hasn't it!?

Agreed but we aren't gonna bother chatting if all they have are pics of her we need pics of both parties to entice us both.

"

Agree with you, most ur gonna get from the guy is a pic of the cock or a body shot mind, but then I've seen women with stunning figures and when it came to the face... ...same with the men. Think all you can do on this site is hope for the best

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Get chatting and exchange a face pic...much better than body parts after all the face has gotta be the most important part hasn't it!?

Agreed but we aren't gonna bother chatting if all they have are pics of her we need pics of both parties to entice us both.

Agree with you, most ur gonna get from the guy is a pic of the cock or a body shot mind, but then I've seen women with stunning figures and when it came to the face... ...same with the men. Think all you can do on this site is hope for the best "

Think we re different from most couples as we have same number of picks of both of us on. I have very few on my single fem account, but Mr has loads on his sing male account. Plenty to see what he is like ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get chatting and exchange a face pic...much better than body parts after all the face has gotta be the most important part hasn't it!?

Agreed but we aren't gonna bother chatting if all they have are pics of her we need pics of both parties to entice us both.

Agree with you, most ur gonna get from the guy is a pic of the cock or a body shot mind, but then I've seen women with stunning figures and when it came to the face... ...same with the men. Think all you can do on this site is hope for the best

Think we re different from most couples as we have same number of picks of both of us on. I have very few on my single fem account, but Mr has loads on his sing male account. Plenty to see what he is like ..."

Very good

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Get chatting and exchange a face pic...much better than body parts after all the face has gotta be the most important part hasn't it!?

Agreed but we aren't gonna bother chatting if all they have are pics of her we need pics of both parties to entice us both.

Agree with you, most ur gonna get from the guy is a pic of the cock or a body shot mind, but then I've seen women with stunning figures and when it came to the face... ...same with the men. Think all you can do on this site is hope for the best "

Lol so true

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