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Are women more difficult then men??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any other ladies find it difficult to chat up women?

I suppose it's because I'm new to it but I find women are so difficult compared to men haha!

I feel like such a sleeze when I message women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No brainer women defo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know what you mean guys.

Women are much harder to approach than guys on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

difficult? In what sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes men are easy, "do you like my tits?" Is normally enough

Ginger

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Any other ladies find it difficult to chat up women?

I suppose it's because I'm new to it but I find women are so difficult compared to men haha!

I feel like such a sleeze when I message women. "

No I find it incredibly easy to chat up women on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other ladies find it difficult to chat up women?

I suppose it's because I'm new to it but I find women are so difficult compared to men haha!

I feel like such a sleeze when I message women.

No I find it incredibly easy to chat up women on here "

Maybe I'm doing it all wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"difficult? In what sense?"

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get more complex with age

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Any other ladies find it difficult to chat up women?

I suppose it's because I'm new to it but I find women are so difficult compared to men haha!

I feel like such a sleeze when I message women.

No I find it incredibly easy to chat up women on here

Maybe I'm doing it all wrong "

Come to this quiet corner with me and I'll teach you...

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"difficult? In what sense?

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

"

Welcome to the world of a Fab male!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

considering I'm on here looking for sex, I find I can be quite unapproachable but I believe if you have the gift of banter then everything clicks into place..it just takes a bit of time

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"considering I'm on here looking for sex, I find I can be quite unapproachable but I believe if you have the gift of banter then everything clicks into place..it just takes a bit of time "

Unapproachable on here? I known what it is... going off your user name I bet you get more interest at this time of the year. Maybe you should change your user name with the seasons then that way you will have men more inclined to approach you all year round. They'll see you around August and think well there's no point with this one. She's only interested in Christmas fun. Then they'll go and find summer tits instead then boom. Summer tits is getting what you could be having.

Just a wild guess but I could be wrong. Ha ha

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Alas most couples who approach me have more of a sense of entitlement than single chaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They get more complex with age "

Like a fine wine...

or a mature cheese...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"considering I'm on here looking for sex, I find I can be quite unapproachable but I believe if you have the gift of banter then everything clicks into place..it just takes a bit of time

Unapproachable on here? I known what it is... going off your user name I bet you get more interest at this time of the year. Maybe you should change your user name with the seasons then that way you will have men more inclined to approach you all year round. They'll see you around August and think well there's no point with this one. She's only interested in Christmas fun. Then they'll go and find summer tits instead then boom. Summer tits is getting what you could be having.

Just a wild guess but I could be wrong. Ha ha "

very wrong, I'd say...I changed my name for Christmas...it will be going back to my previous moniker once xmas day is over and done with that's if no one has nicked it in the meantime

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They get more complex with age

Like a fine wine...

or a mature cheese..."

I find it's younger women who are more demanding. I certainly don't mean this is the same for everyone but I've noticed older women don't take themselves quite so seriously; which I like.

and who doesn't like a fine wine and mature cheese?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They get more complex with age

Like a fine wine...

or a mature cheese...

I find it's younger women who are more demanding. I certainly don't mean this is the same for everyone but I've noticed older women don't take themselves quite so seriously; which I like.

and who doesn't like a fine wine and mature cheese?!? "

I'd agree that younger women may be more demanding, but not more complex... but that said Twirl has demanded considerably more sex in the past five years. So much that I've had to recruit help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"difficult? In what sense?

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

"

I tend to have that feeling of bugging them too, it's not nice to feel you are being a nuisance. For that reason I rarely message first anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"difficult? In what sense?

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

I tend to have that feeling of bugging them too, it's not nice to feel you are being a nuisance. For that reason I rarely message first anymore "

That's what puts me off messaging.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The thing with messaging online is even when you read a persons profile and message accordingly, it still feels very impersonal and therefore sometimes awkward.

Generally why I stick to clubs to meet ladies and couples its a more relaxed and personal way of meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"difficult? In what sense?

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

I tend to have that feeling of bugging them too, it's not nice to feel you are being a nuisance. For that reason I rarely message first anymore

That's what puts me off messaging. "

I'm sure most of them don't feel that way really, I think it's because most messages I get no reply to so I can't help but think they are unwelcome and consequently a nuisance. If I got more feedback I might not feel I'm being quite such an annoyance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They get more complex with age

Like a fine wine...

or a mature cheese...

I find it's younger women who are more demanding. I certainly don't mean this is the same for everyone but I've noticed older women don't take themselves quite so seriously; which I like.

and who doesn't like a fine wine and mature cheese?!? "

I think you've found your own solution. Don't bother with younger women, go for the women you connect with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to practice on me OP ha ha.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very approachable and not Rude unless someone is rude to me.

Just be polite and respectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feel free to practice on me OP ha ha.

Eve. X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They get more complex with age

Like a fine wine...

or a mature cheese...

I find it's younger women who are more demanding. I certainly don't mean this is the same for everyone but I've noticed older women don't take themselves quite so seriously; which I like.

and who doesn't like a fine wine and mature cheese?!?

I think you've found your own solution. Don't bother with younger women, go for the women you connect with. "

Absolutely!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm difficult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bisexual woman I would say 100% women are more difficult!

Mrs

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By *ackoman71Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

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By *ackoman71Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

I find older women respond more. I've had a few offers too

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Men are easier to get in and out of bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are easier to get in and out of bed

"

This is true although trying to drag Adam out of bed is a task!

I'm pretty easy to get in bed and never want to get out lol.

I have my preferences the same as everyone but I never take myself seriously, I love to laugh and make others laugh, I'm pretty open minded and sex is sex so no drama.

Fill our inbox ladies, I don't get to play with enough women!

Eve. X

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I don't meet couples because I dislike the bi FFM scenario so I automatically assume that it's the guy messaging and that's what they want.

Think if you want to meet women you need a woman's profile.

I'm not so interested in women 1 on 1 these days (unless in a club) but when I did I was very approachable if the messsge same from a woman profile. Couple profile - I probably wouldn't even read it.

Hope that helps

V xxxx

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"difficult? In what sense?

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

"

Welcome to a single mans world! To Approach chat up or tell a woman you fancy them you have to wear your hart on your sleeve. And take a lot of rejection, pretending it dose'nt hurt.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"Alas most couples who approach me have more of a sense of entitlement than single chaps "

I can really relate to this

I like to think I'm approachable but the reality is that 95% of approaches I get never go any further than messages. This leads to a wariness of most new contacts. People seem to think us single women have it easy but my experience is very much otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"difficult? In what sense?

I find women much harder to approach.. I feel as though I'm bugging them. I suppose it depends on who I message and who is interested in us.

"

I try and look at it a different way, like how would I, as a woman like to be spoken to and approached. Us women probably know more about what women want than men do to be honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes men are easy, "do you like my tits?" Is normally enough

Ginger"

That wouldn't actually work for me.

I may give an answer, but it would be more of a matter-of-fact response than actually respond to as a chat up lol

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