FabSwingers.com forum: disabilities

By *tumar OP Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

i became disabled 4 yrs ago with a rare neurological illness which,initially, left my limbs paralysed. prior to this we had led a full and sexually satisfying sex life which included swinging which we both enjoyed.as you can imagine my confidence took a hammering my point is would you be prejudiced about meeting people like me. i would add that i am now quite able to perform well and that my gorgeous wife is happy to meet with non judgemental people inc single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disabilities should not make a diffrence as long as we are nice to each other

After all we all are here for fun which ever way it cums lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problems meeting a disabled woman for fun and frolics, we all have the same needs - wants n desires don't we!!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

The only thing i judge anyone by is their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A disability certainly wouldn't put me off. None of us are perfect after all.

A personality is my first factor when deciding whether to meet someone.

If anyone doesn't want to meet you because of your disability then that is a bad reflection on them, not yourselves.

Hope you have lots of fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A disability certainly wouldn't put me off. None of us are perfect after all.

A personality is my first factor when deciding whether to meet someone.

If anyone doesn't want to meet you because of your disability then that is a bad reflection on them, not yourselves.

Hope you have lots of fun on here

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"i became disabled 4 yrs ago with a rare neurological illness which,initially, left my limbs paralysed. prior to this we had led a full and sexually satisfying sex life which included swinging which we both enjoyed.as you can imagine my confidence took a hammering my point is would you be prejudiced about meeting people like me. i would add that i am now quite able to perform well and that my gorgeous wife is happy to meet with non judgemental people inc single men "

No, we wouldn't be prejudiced by it, as long as there was a mutual attraction there, have fun!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It wouldnt put us op,

Good luck

Miss xx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I can't see an issue with it.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP i sent you a pm.

I didn't want to discuss this in too much detail on here.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

So op. Your preference is to meet "attractive" people of a certain age. However, should anyone have a preference that excludes you as you fall outside their view of attractive they're judgemental and prejudiced?!!

Or have I got hold of the wrong end of the stick?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only issue we would have is that your profile photos are NINE years old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So op. Your preference is to meet "attractive" people of a certain age. However, should anyone have a preference that excludes you as you fall outside their view of attractive they're judgemental and prejudiced?!!

Or have I got hold of the wrong end of the stick?!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny how must people say it would never put them off

..but when it comes to it.. 80% of them would turn them down...

Remember no one is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put us off , but not because we are prejudiced . I love to see my wife enjoy herself , and if the disability were to make it hard work for her , neither she nor I would enjoy the meet as much as if it was with a non disabled person .

Having said that we have met some disabled people in our time on fab , and enjoyed meeting them . So it would depend on the disability I guess ......

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The PC thing to say is that no, it doesn't matter

To me it matters, depending on the disability. I will meet people with a mild disability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it would depend on how the condition affects your movement. Having a disability wouldn't necessarily make me consider you more or less than anyone else, but your ability to move about as part of the fun would be a contributing factor. I don't know enough about your condition to know the answer to this, so if we were located closer and got chatting, it's something i'd want to know. If, for example, you can move your limbs/hands but just not as quickly as you used to, then that wouldn't bother me at all. Whereas if you'd lost the use of your arms/hands, that would put me off because it'd impact the playing possibilities.

Seeing as we're all looking for different things on here, I would imagine that regardless of your range of mobility there'll be someone here to suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing i judge anyone by is their personality. "

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