FabSwingers.com forum: How do you...?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Write an message to someone on here for the first time?

I must admit to struggling at times to "break the ice" and approach either a couple or a single lady that I find attractive and we share the same likes in our profiles etc.

I'm looking for pointers here really rather then what to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile text before you message, the amount of people who fail at this most simple of tasks is ridiculous.

Make your message personal to the recipient, maybe refer to something from the profile that attracted you to them.

Be humorous, but not cheesy lines.

Tell them something about you rather than just 'I've got a big cock, want some?'

The list could go on but ultimately, we can't write the message for you so you'll have to work it out for yourself. There's no one size fits all answer to what you should or shouldn't write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read the profile text before you message, the amount of people who fail at this most simple of tasks is ridiculous.

Make your message personal to the recipient, maybe refer to something from the profile that attracted you to them.

Be humorous, but not cheesy lines.

Tell them something about you rather than just 'I've got a big cock, want some?'

The list could go on but ultimately, we can't write the message for you so you'll have to work it out for yourself. There's no one size fits all answer to what you should or shouldn't write."

This, and there's nothing wrong with asking people what they're up to, how they are etc etc. Some don't like it (not sure why) but we just consider it conversational.

The main thing to stay away from is opening with "fancy a fuck?" but looking at your profile you seem to have more about you than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your comments. I know there is no simple answer to this, it's more about what to open up with. I'm also aware that he cheesy lines are a no no as are the other basic points like "fancy a fuck" etc.. I'm not one of those guys. I'm interested to talk with people see if we get on and then arrange something.

Some people are very blunt with thier reply which is fine at least they reply others just delete and that's ok too I understand that I'm not everyone cup of tea.. (or coffee for that matter!) it's a balance I'm trying to get between writing an assey which will be long winded and boring to read and writing something that is too short.. I want to peek someone's interested so that we can engage further and see what happpens..

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