FabSwingers.com forum: Is This Form Of Jealousy OK?

By *mmmMaybe OP Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

Afternoon all, We went clubbing over the weekend to one of the smaller venues and after we figured who was with who tbh no one really jumped out and took my fancy.

S quite liked a lady or two but as I didn't we just drank & danced the night away mostly with each other.

Anyway late in the evening he's at the bar waiting to be served next to one of them and she strikes up a conversation and they are soon kissing both having wandering hands.

Thing is I had no pangs of being jealous she was kissing my partner, I was more jealous of the fact he was kissing someone and I wasn't because no one really struck me in that way..

As he walked back he gave me a cheeky smile as I mouthed "Wanker" to him with a smile & we carried on dancing.

Do others get nights like this?

This is a lighthearted post, no getting all deep and meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm. Maybe.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

its only fair if your both getting it I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it feelings of jealousy or were you just put out a tad because he pulled and you didn't?

Either way as long as you both decide on what the *rules* are & you're okay then that's all that matters.

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By *mmmMaybe OP Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Is it feelings of jealousy or were you just put out a tad because he pulled and you didn't?

Either way as long as you both decide on what the *rules* are & you're okay then that's all that matters."

Yes I think it was probably more the put out bit, he didn't break any rules as we see sensual dancing & kissing as a precursor to something or nothing, he did say he told the lady we were together and played as a couple only but she was into guys only and asked was a kiss allowed?

Sometimes I wonder if I could work more like a guy and see it as harmless fun but I still need a connection even if I'd never see that person again. Whereas S had a 45second chat and he's done & dusted..

It was still a great night though & we can't wait till January when we are going to try the VA on one of their couples & single ladies nights. We shall see how we(I) get on there

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Afternoon all, We went clubbing over the weekend to one of the smaller venues and after we figured who was with who tbh no one really jumped out and took my fancy.

S quite liked a lady or two but as I didn't we just drank & danced the night away mostly with each other.

Anyway late in the evening he's at the bar waiting to be served next to one of them and she strikes up a conversation and they are soon kissing both having wandering hands.

Thing is I had no pangs of being jealous she was kissing my partner, I was more jealous of the fact he was kissing someone and I wasn't because no one really struck me in that way..

As he walked back he gave me a cheeky smile as I mouthed "Wanker" to him with a smile & we carried on dancing.

Do others get nights like this?

This is a lighthearted post, no getting all deep and meaningful

Hi OP. Yes we sometimes have nights like this. We like to meet couples, but finding 4 people compatible with each other is difficult and hubby often as not, may find someone to play with and I just do the social thing, which I also like. I am sometimes envious that he has a playmate and I don't, but love to see him enjoying hiself

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Afternoon all, We went clubbing over the weekend to one of the smaller venues and after we figured who was with who tbh no one really jumped out and took my fancy.

S quite liked a lady or two but as I didn't we just drank & danced the night away mostly with each other.

Anyway late in the evening he's at the bar waiting to be served next to one of them and she strikes up a conversation and they are soon kissing both having wandering hands.

Thing is I had no pangs of being jealous she was kissing my partner, I was more jealous of the fact he was kissing someone and I wasn't because no one really struck me in that way..

As he walked back he gave me a cheeky smile as I mouthed "Wanker" to him with a smile & we carried on dancing.

Do others get nights like this?

This is a lighthearted post, no getting all deep and meaningful

If it happens again - come and find me and I'll give you a friendly snog! No wandering hands though missus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more miffed than jealous and doesn't sound like anything to worry about

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By *mmmMaybe OP Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Afternoon all, We went clubbing over the weekend to one of the smaller venues and after we figured who was with who tbh no one really jumped out and took my fancy.

S quite liked a lady or two but as I didn't we just drank & danced the night away mostly with each other.

Anyway late in the evening he's at the bar waiting to be served next to one of them and she strikes up a conversation and they are soon kissing both having wandering hands.

Thing is I had no pangs of being jealous she was kissing my partner, I was more jealous of the fact he was kissing someone and I wasn't because no one really struck me in that way..

As he walked back he gave me a cheeky smile as I mouthed "Wanker" to him with a smile & we carried on dancing.

Do others get nights like this?

This is a lighthearted post, no getting all deep and meaningful

If it happens again - come and find me and I'll give you a friendly snog! No wandering hands though missus!

Will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon all, We went clubbing over the weekend to one of the smaller venues and after we figured who was with who tbh no one really jumped out and took my fancy.

S quite liked a lady or two but as I didn't we just drank & danced the night away mostly with each other.

Anyway late in the evening he's at the bar waiting to be served next to one of them and she strikes up a conversation and they are soon kissing both having wandering hands.

Thing is I had no pangs of being jealous she was kissing my partner, I was more jealous of the fact he was kissing someone and I wasn't because no one really struck me in that way..

As he walked back he gave me a cheeky smile as I mouthed "Wanker" to him with a smile & we carried on dancing.

Do others get nights like this?

This is a lighthearted post, no getting all deep and meaningful

If it happens again - come and find me and I'll give you a friendly snog! No wandering hands though missus!

Come to Kent soon!!!

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By *mmmMaybe OP Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

Thank you ladies for your responses, think its a miffed thing, its the second time its happened in three club visits, think my aura may need adjusting.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Afternoon all, We went clubbing over the weekend to one of the smaller venues and after we figured who was with who tbh no one really jumped out and took my fancy.

S quite liked a lady or two but as I didn't we just drank & danced the night away mostly with each other.

Anyway late in the evening he's at the bar waiting to be served next to one of them and she strikes up a conversation and they are soon kissing both having wandering hands.

Thing is I had no pangs of being jealous she was kissing my partner, I was more jealous of the fact he was kissing someone and I wasn't because no one really struck me in that way..

As he walked back he gave me a cheeky smile as I mouthed "Wanker" to him with a smile & we carried on dancing.

Do others get nights like this?

This is a lighthearted post, no getting all deep and meaningful

If it happens again - come and find me and I'll give you a friendly snog! No wandering hands though missus!

Will do

For what it's worth I think you're both an absolutely lovely couple and clearly very much in love! I really don't think either of you would ever have reason to doubt/be jealous of the other! Xxxxx

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By *mmmMaybe OP Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

For what it's worth I think you're both an absolutely lovely couple and clearly very much in love! I really don't think either of you would ever have reason to doubt/be jealous of the other! Xxxxx"

Thank You xx

Funnily enough though we were recovering on Sunday and we did talk about this as we see a lot of posts where the single female says they have had issues of jealousy in couples, some really scarey ones too where they have either been thrown out or in the middle of full blown rows, But then you get others posting that they wouldn't play with a "real" couple due to them feeling awkward and not an equal part of the triangle..

It does sometimes feel like we can't win

Did turn me on a bit though so it was all good in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never got jealous when my fb played with someone and I didn't.

I was actually glad for him!

However he would have been jealous if I had pulled and he didn't.

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