FabSwingers.com forum: Single ladies v couples!

By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Just wanted to know if single had an opinion on where advances were mire welcomed from. By that I mean do you find women to be more welcoming when single it part if a couple. Having been here for a while and noticing the obvious frustrations of single men, not feeling happy with respinses, or lack of them from contact with people from the site.

Personally I have noticed that coupled, and the ladies from couples seem more welcoming than single fems. I know this is quite a stereotypical thing to say, but wondered if others felt the same??

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

thought this was going to be a kinky wrestling match or something

I think single women are wonderful 24/7. Not biased at all mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had a now deleted single female profile and also a couples one I think the issue might be the sheer volume of messages and abuse that single women get on here compared to couples. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having had a now deleted single female profile and also a couples one I think the issue might be the sheer volume of messages and abuse that single women get on here compared to couples. Ms"

I would agree with that, you cant seem to do the right thing either, if you dont reply your rude, if you do reply you then get bombarded with more messages as to why etc or abuse.. Im a nice person but some guys on here have pushed my patience to the limit then i just end up blocking them and feel mean

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Having had a now deleted single female profile and also a couples one I think the issue might be the sheer volume of messages and abuse that single women get on here compared to couples. Ms"

These are the things that being a single male I have no experience of. Were you to ask all single men, none would be admit to doing this, I do hope these are few and far between.

So, it may be the security of having a partner which allows fems from couples to relax more?

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"Having had a now deleted single female profile and also a couples one I think the issue might be the sheer volume of messages and abuse that single women get on here compared to couples. Ms

Shouldn't feel guilty, black those that annoy, but please don't let them put you off of al single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it doesnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had no problems getting meets,just love this site hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the security of being in a couple thats the issue. As a couple it's very rare that we get abuse and if we do then a sharp word from Mr gets rid of them. We also get fewer messages do have more time to reply to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charley thats exactly why I deleted my single profile. If I want to play alone I use the couples profile. Made it clear on there we play seperately as well as alone. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single girl, having a couples profile could prove a little hard when I had to make a 'partner' appear. I do get lots of single men asking me to make them up to a 'couple' but as a crap liar in person :O (also doesn't photo veri require both holding the paper??)

I get messages from couples, single males and single females, I cant say which I would choose, I make my choice depending on my mood. If I want some 121 then I will look for a single male, if I fancy a lady, I will look for a lady, when I fancy a bit of both I will look for a couple.

The only thing that I have really decided is I dont fancy soft swing, I had a lovely email from a great couple, however on reading the profile, it was girl on girl and no partner full swap so male watching only... If I fancy some lady action I dont need an audience..And If I were to take along a great single male to make up numbers I would want him to have full privilages as I would have. If I can lick her pussy, he should too....

I might just be on my own here though...

I can only offer my two pennies worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quietly kinky- I completely agree with you on the soft swing and I/we turn down those offers too. I'm nobody's performing monkey!

Ps we are genuinely a couple who play seperately as well as together but I just got fed up with having a single profile hence deleting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issues with one half or both halves of a couple playing solo

was just pointing out that option isnt available to all of us :O.

I made the mistake before, with my last profile, I put on I was looking for single men... 200 messages daily!

This time I seem to have found a balance within my profile, I do get ample messages, however, can keep up with them this time :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep I used.to get that volume of messages too! In fact when I first set my single profile up I had about 60 within the first hour whilst I was waiting for my pics to be approved !! You could always set up a fake couples profile- plenty of guys on here do it so no reason why the ladies can't!! (joke) ms

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Just wanted to know if single had an opinion on where advances were mire welcomed from. By that I mean do you find women to be more welcoming when single it part if a couple. Having been here for a while and noticing the obvious frustrations of single men, not feeling happy with respinses, or lack of them from contact with people from the site.

Personally I have noticed that coupled, and the ladies from couples seem more welcoming than single fems. I know this is quite a stereotypical thing to say, but wondered if others felt the same??"

Yes women of couples are much friendlier, more fun and welcoming.... thats my totally unbiaised view... ha ha

Mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a matter of perception.

Single men tend to be more respectful towards couples. After all, they're seeking to play with another man's wife, so the female will reply in kind.

When approaching single women their approach could be different, more vulgar and disrespectful: after all the single women on site are all gagging for it, so little need for finesse!

When the single female doesn't drop em and spread and says "do one, you knob!" it's seen as unfriendly: can't think why!

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As always sassymissuk you are spot on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As always sassymissuk you are spot on!!

Not always right. If I were I'd be looking at property in Monte Carlo after winning the euro millions, instead of wondering why Camelot sent me a "good news about your ticket" email for the grand total of £2.50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's £2.50 more than I got! Sob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having had a now deleted single female profile and also a couples one I think the issue might be the sheer volume of messages and abuse that single women get on here compared to couples. Ms

I agree too, having been on here as a couple and now as a single female i have had messages from men mailing me as both

Men are far more polite and respectful when mailing a couple, maybe incase the guy reads it and they know they have to win him over before they can get to his mrs

Where as i think lots of guys see single females as a easy target as they have noone to 'get past' or 'look after them' so they see no reason to be polite

In which case is it any wonder women are more stroppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think thats true at all, the main problem lies in the fact that most of the single guys dont read someone's profile before sending a message, if they did they wouldn't struggle so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. When I was half of a couple, we got far fewer mails from single guys and the tone of the mails was far more respectful. Now I'm a single girl again, I get bombarded with 'wanna fuck?' mails, and similar.

I know not all single guys are the same, but it's important for the good guys to know why single girls have the barricades up, sometimes. Good luck to the good guys!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Agreed grey....I tend to only mail people that I full completely in to what they are looking for.

If they were looking for a local male 35 and lived in Newcastle I wouldn't mail...

Why..

Well I live in London and I am 29. I think that is half the problem cpls and fems get so many mails from people that genuine people slip through the net.

I tend to use the chat to meet peopleq but thaT is because no luck in replying to adverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think thats true at all, the main problem lies in the fact that most of the single guys dont read someone's profile before sending a message, if they did they wouldn't struggle so much"

Exactly..lol...its very annoying especially when it is a copy and paste message saying "hey i read your profile" and they clearly havent, sorry but i do just delete those and have now started to block the senders too as you then end up with the exact same message from the same person 3 hours later

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i had more luck on this profile then on the single profile,find it very difficult to meet single fems

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