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Are swingers getting younger?

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By *ixenandStag OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rossendale

is it just me and the wife, or do others think that the swinging lifestyle is getting youmger,

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sort of the wrong person to comment. I started at 18 with my first proper GF

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It appears so, although alot on here seem like fake profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

"

I agree. I don't class myself as a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

"

I think this is true. I'm a singleton myself and under 30 and even among the single guys, I dont think men my age are as common.

I too am noticing more people my age and even younger in the scene...from what I hear from the older swingers/couples I have met, it has its drawbacks. One thing I definitely dont like is the hyper specialization going on right now...

ONLY big cocks

ONLY black men

ONLY 6ft+

ONLY blonde hair

It seems so many profiles are just a big list arbitrary desires and requirements and I think it ties into the idiotic nature of most of the sexual expectations of people my age. Myself definitely included. Its like everyone is expecting some kind of porn shoot...except sex isnt porn, at all. Its the same with dating, as a young person you tend to care about the most irrelevant of attributes. Whats sad is that the internet is actually making this issue worse...with more and more turning towards online dating sites to meet other people, these same sites allow people to get way too unrealistic and specific about their expectations of the opposite sex.

It only really lends to huge population of spectators. I know a friend who went to a Killing Kittens event and he told me how disappointed he was in the amount of people not participating in the action. Who merely came to socialize and look pretty.

LOL rant over.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

"

And a proper couple of say 22 years but only one of them physically plays ad the other watches, real swingers?

As we're getting older it does appear this way, we've noticed many more profiles with ages below ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

I think this is true. I'm a singleton myself and under 30 and even among the single guys, I dont think men my age are as common.

I too am noticing more people my age and even younger in the scene...from what I hear from the older swingers/couples I have met, it has its drawbacks. One thing I definitely dont like is the hyper specialization going on right now...

ONLY big cocks

ONLY black men

ONLY 6ft+

ONLY blonde hair

It seems so many profiles are just a big list arbitrary desires and requirements and I think it ties into the idiotic nature of most of the sexual expectations of people my age. Myself definitely included. Its like everyone is expecting some kind of porn shoot...except sex isnt porn, at all. Its the same with dating, as a young person you tend to care about the most irrelevant of attributes. Whats sad is that the internet is actually making this issue worse...with more and more turning towards online dating sites to meet other people, these same sites allow people to get way too unrealistic and specific about their expectations of the opposite sex.

It only really lends to huge population of spectators. I know a friend who went to a Killing Kittens event and he told me how disappointed he was in the amount of people not participating in the action. Who merely came to socialize and look pretty.

LOL rant over. "

Rant was good. I enjoyed it.

Alot of guys on here just for a quick shag and that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here for slow shags that last a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see a few young people on here but not so many younger people at clubs x

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Ex and I started at 21, so don't think it has changed much, just higher profile, no internet then just magazines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of getting stomped on , we think personally , in our experience , that Fab has become full of lazy young single straight men, who can't accommodate , who don't bother to read profiles or write more than 5 word messages who expect to instantly come round to our house and screw both girls whilst our chap , who can't satisfy us as he's ancient feels extreme gratitude than we are about to get banged for hours .

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

As with most hobbies,clubs,sports interests etc there does seem to be a younger generation showing interest but a lot are false profiles imo with no profile pics and 5 word descriptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody is getting younger....or is it me getting older....Can't be....surely....

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"is it just me and the wife, or do others think that the swinging lifestyle is getting youmger,"

not really, think we just getting older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just wanking material for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just me getting older.

Oh,hang on, can anyone get older than me!!

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

We are a genuine younger couple and attend clubs. We frequently get told that we are mature though and have been in the scene now 3 years x

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

I think this is true. I'm a singleton myself and under 30 and even among the single guys, I dont think men my age are as common.

I too am noticing more people my age and even younger in the scene...from what I hear from the older swingers/couples I have met, it has its drawbacks. One thing I definitely dont like is the hyper specialization going on right now...

ONLY big cocks

ONLY black men

ONLY 6ft+

ONLY blonde hair

It seems so many profiles are just a big list arbitrary desires and requirements and I think it ties into the idiotic nature of most of the sexual expectations of people my age. Myself definitely included. Its like everyone is expecting some kind of porn shoot...except sex isnt porn, at all. Its the same with dating, as a young person you tend to care about the most irrelevant of attributes. Whats sad is that the internet is actually making this issue worse...with more and more turning towards online dating sites to meet other people, these same sites allow people to get way too unrealistic and specific about their expectations of the opposite sex.

It only really lends to huge population of spectators. I know a friend who went to a Killing Kittens event and he told me how disappointed he was in the amount of people not participating in the action. Who merely came to socialize and look pretty.

LOL rant over. "

Kinda narrows your target audience if you insist on well hung, tall, blonde black guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

I think this is true. I'm a singleton myself and under 30 and even among the single guys, I dont think men my age are as common.

I too am noticing more people my age and even younger in the scene...from what I hear from the older swingers/couples I have met, it has its drawbacks. One thing I definitely dont like is the hyper specialization going on right now...

ONLY big cocks

ONLY black men

ONLY 6ft+

ONLY blonde hair

It seems so many profiles are just a big list arbitrary desires and requirements and I think it ties into the idiotic nature of most of the sexual expectations of people my age. Myself definitely included. Its like everyone is expecting some kind of porn shoot...except sex isnt porn, at all. Its the same with dating, as a young person you tend to care about the most irrelevant of attributes. Whats sad is that the internet is actually making this issue worse...with more and more turning towards online dating sites to meet other people, these same sites allow people to get way too unrealistic and specific about their expectations of the opposite sex.

It only really lends to huge population of spectators. I know a friend who went to a Killing Kittens event and he told me how disappointed he was in the amount of people not participating in the action. Who merely came to socialize and look pretty.

LOL rant over. "

We got into swinging in our early 20s. Our original profile was quite descriptive and specific - I cringe slightly at some of the stuff in it, looking back, lol

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

I agree. I don't class myself as a swinger"

I'm not a swinger

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"We are a genuine younger couple and attend clubs. We frequently get told that we are mature though and have been in the scene now 3 years x

Mrs"

Fair play to you, it's only sex and I think it's great that you're living your life to the full

So many lounge around moaning all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have always been young "swingers". They just see it as shagging about.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We cant say if they are getting younger, because we've only been doing it a couple of years. But there are a fair number of couples and single fems in clubs who are in their 20s and onwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do seem to see more younger people on the site, and I don't just mean fakes, plenty of well verified profiles.

12 years ago young uns were a rarity, when we first got into this. Used to really freak people out. Lol.

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By *ose CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Can't comment on ' are they getting younger' but at Quest last night I noted how many young-ish couples there seemed to be.

I always had a preconceived idea of swinging as something slightly older people got into. Probably generalising a little bit but I think based on this thread it appears I'm not the only one.

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By *elle and JamesCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

Time passing us by too, bit interestingly since both of us hit 40 we're now blocked from messaging quite a few profiles on age grounds,not quite sure that's indicative of anything though other than perhaps we've been demoted to the gawping at clubs role

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Time passing us by too, bit interestingly since both of us hit 40 we're now blocked from messaging quite a few profiles on age grounds,not quite sure that's indicative of anything though other than perhaps we've been demoted to the gawping at clubs role"

Being blocked by age on fab is a strange one. Last night in Cupids we played with 2 couples and after they gave us their fab names but we can't message because we are actually out of range!

So real-life appeal and online age-range aren't necessarily the same thing

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

"

Lol always makes me laugh when couples claim singles aren't real swingers and then you check their profile and their veris are from singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We class swingers as coupley, regularly playing, full swappers. Regardless of age and demographic. We are only one of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't class myself as a swinger, wannabe swinger definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it just me and the wife, or do others think that the swinging lifestyle is getting youmger,"

Or are we just getting older?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I wouldn't say so. it's just easy to get non committal sex with another mans wife on here so the younger guys come on here a lot for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't class myself as a swinger, wannabe swinger definitely. "

And what's a wannabe swinger?

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By *ecretBadgerMan
over a year ago

Redruth


"To be a proper swinger do you need to be a proper couple dont you?

Singles are just ... Well ... Singles? Not stating preference just want to clear up

"

That's a very fair point lol

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By *4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

N 42.709787, W -84.556222

Probably just getting easier to meet other swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I have been wondering actually. I've noticed many times over the years that the scene has been getting quieter, but never thought to consider the fact that I was getting older...

Are guys in their 30s less attractive than the younger variety ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't class myself as a swinger, wannabe swinger definitely.

And what's a wannabe swinger? "

One day I would like to be in a relationship with someone who I could swing with as monogamous relationships don't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found that we are quite "young" in the swinging world,

Especially on the club scene.

I'd say it's because as a young couple you need to have a very strong bond, something that usually comes from 10/15 years of marriage. Fortunately for myself and Eve, we've been together almost ten years and we're childhood sweet hearts so trust is something that comes naturally for us.

So after a few chats about fantasies etc... it led us here.

But I'd say in the grand scheme of things, we are quite young in the sea of swingers haha

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By *obsterPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I think "sexual liberation" is becoming more widespread, and people are talking about sex with friends more than before, so understandable that people/couples are exploring sex at a younger age. Look at the popularity of apps like Feeld, aimed at people looking for threesomes/moresomes and even things like Tinder (which was initially intended as a hookup app). It's definitely becoming more "normal".

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