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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to believe you could ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to believe you could ...

So what changed your mind ??

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

After 3 hours I get bored.

Next please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to believe you could ...

So what changed your mind ??

Cheaters ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have with my ex. You'd think it was lack of chemistry or spark that makes most relationships fail but logistics, money and simple things seem to get in the way far more. I would have stayed faithful to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can, how they achieve it varies greatly.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J and I have been together for 32yrs and are still like teenagers who just started dating and just started swinging two years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....especially if you spice it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you can !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess most people are going to say yes of course

For me though, it's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 yrs together and fairly new to swinging, so yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.... but we add some extra fun every now and then

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"I used to believe you could ...

So what changed your mind ??

Cheaters ... "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to believe you could ...

So what changed your mind ??

Cheaters ...

This"

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a world of difference between 'can you?' And 'have you?'

In my opinion, if the communication is there and you're both totally honest with each other, there's no reason you'd get bored. Boredom sets in when you start being taken for granted.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Mine neva last.

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By *ephistoCouple
over a year ago

torrance

Yes, absolutely! We've been together 34 years and it's better than when we met!

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes yes m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to believe you could ...

So what changed your mind ??

Cheaters ...

This

Great answer

Together 13 years

Accepted he had a small dick ( you can't have everything)

Sex at the beginning was great

But then he stopped trying and got lazy

I would dress up do everything he asked of me

Till I found out he started cheating on me

My confidence was stripped away every day

I was the problem he always said that

Left his ass ( he's with missus nr 3 now )

Nothing wrong with me horny as fuck

Wasn't attracted to him

Took me a while to get here

And I am fucking loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons idea of great sex may not be the same as another's . But I have no doubt there are lots of happy couples out there who enjoy their sex together as much as swingers enjoy their experiences with multiple partners .

It's certainly true to say that lots of couples get into a routine after a while , and sex may not figure highly after the kids and the monotony of work , paying the bills etc.....

I'm guessing that's why there are so many cheaters out there . And perhaps why sites such as this exist .

So if great sex is a priority in ones life , it may not be easy to get that from a life partner alone . But that doesn't mean it's impossible does it ? If I'm honest , I think it's easier to presume that when sex in a long term relationship gets stale , there are many people who think they have to get it elsewhere to get satisfaction . Familiarity breeds contempt and all that . But there are many more who persevere and find that satisfaction with each other . Is it great , to them I'm sure it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure you can if you find that one person you are connected with at so many levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question to the people saying Yes, are there any out there in fab land whose answer would be different if they didn't swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you have a great, long-lasting sex life with the same partner?

Yes, as long as I can have other partners too.

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I use to think so but after twenty years together, no

Other things become more important like kids house and work, the flirting fades away and so does the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question to the people saying Yes, are there any out there in fab land whose answer would be different if they didn't swing?

Yes! We could leave the scene tomorrow and never look back. Its just a bit if extra fun for us, been together since I was 14 and I'm now 59.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"A question to the people saying Yes, are there any out there in fab land whose answer would be different if they didn't swing?

Yes! We could leave the scene tomorrow and never look back. Its just a bit if extra fun for us, been together since I was 14 and I'm now 59."

Agree

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I really hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a factor...... so take viagra !

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"A question to the people saying Yes, are there any out there in fab land whose answer would be different if they didn't swing?

Not us, it would still be yes

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

Yes, totally.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I am sure you can if you find that one person you are connected with at so many levels. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

My wife's a terrific fuck.

Check her veris

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