FabSwingers.com forum: Am I a swinger or do I just fuck swingers?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

My fab career is admittedly in its infancy, but I've been instigating 3somes for something near 20 years (hasn't always ended in success granted). I've had just one meet from fab with a couple.... but missed a few due to being messed around too,

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had me at "big boobies"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what is a swinger these days, when we first got into this we had pretty set ideas about it, but change happens.

OP, you sound like a swinger to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the guy who said that to you sounds like a real charmer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well the guy who said that to you sounds like a real charmer

Haha don't make me quote the rest of the convo it got pretty dark !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single person, I wouldn't class myself as a swinger either, and nor would I say I was a swingle (hate that word lol)

I'm just a fucker who enjoys sex with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the guy who said that to you sounds like a real charmer

Haha don't make me quote the rest of the convo it got pretty dark !!!

Oh well now I am intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had me at "big boobies""

Me too

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as a single person, I wouldn't class myself as a swinger either, and nor would I say I was a swingle (hate that word lol)

I'm just a fucker who enjoys sex with others

Swingle!!! Omg I'm such a nOOb as I've never heard that term before.

Am I allowed to love it?

I could deal with being a swingle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well the guy who said that to you sounds like a real charmer

Haha don't make me quote the rest of the convo it got pretty dark !!!

Oh well now I am intrigued"

Ah you don't want to know honestly.

We had a bit of an angsty lust thing going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 17:59:30]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a single person, I wouldn't class myself as a swinger either, and nor would I say I was a swingle (hate that word lol)

I'm just a fucker who enjoys sex with others

Swingle!!! Omg I'm such a nOOb as I've never heard that term before.

Am I allowed to love it?

I could deal with being a swingle

lol take it..please!! as far away as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I'd class myself as a swinger I'm just somebody who really likes sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us singles just shag around lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the guy who said that to you sounds like a real charmer

Haha don't make me quote the rest of the convo it got pretty dark !!!

Oh well now I am intrigued

Ah you don't want to know honestly.

We had a bit of an angsty lust thing going on

Oh dear. Well to answer your original question. You sound like a swinger to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 17:59:30]"

Oh that's just annoying! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well the guy who said that to you sounds like a real charmer

Haha don't make me quote the rest of the convo it got pretty dark !!!

Oh well now I am intrigued

Ah you don't want to know honestly.

We had a bit of an angsty lust thing going on

Oh dear. Well to answer your original question. You sound like a swinger to me

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 17:59:30]

Oh that's just annoying! Lol"
I typed it again under it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 17:59:30]

Oh that's just annoying! LolI typed it again under it lol"

Self moderated!?!? Haha

I don't "fuck around" though and I'm really rather particular !

Does that still count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't class myself a swinger as I'm single, I just enjoy nsa sex be that with other singles or swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/12/16 17:59:30]

Oh that's just annoying! LolI typed it again under it lol

Self moderated!?!? Haha

I don't "fuck around" though and I'm really rather particular !

Does that still count? "
Yes, like self moderated lol and yes, that still count, it is good to be particular too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no magical definition to swinging. Each has their own.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP we're finding it impossible to concentrate on the question. We just want your boobies. Can we all just talk about your boobs hehe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a single person, I wouldn't class myself as a swinger either, and nor would I say I was a swingle (hate that word lol)

I'm just a fucker who enjoys sex with others

Sounds like my situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an interesting debate, and thinking about it from a logical and subjective viewpoint.........boobies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to be a couple to be a swinger. Us singles are either just the extras to the couples fantasy or its just fucking random blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to go to swingers clubs. I like to play with cpls, groups, and singles of both genders. I like having my cake and eating it. But I'm not a swinger (or a swingle). I used to be a unicorn the rate mythical single female who plays, I liked that term but the single ladies section is growing in size so I'm not as rare these days which in terms of the scene is great news but I now also have the dilemma of what I am.

Oh who cares not sure they would understand the muffled answer from between their thighs

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"as a single person, I wouldn't class myself as a swinger either, and nor would I say I was a swingle (hate that word lol)

I'm just a fucker who enjoys sex with others

Exactly this

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is any true definition, people seem to get hooked up on the whole "wife-swapper" thing and therefore state that singles can't be swingers... what is a swinger really?

I class myself as a hedonistic libertine; confuses the fuck out of people and I don't think hedonisticlibertine.com has the same ring to it

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"I don't think there is any true definition, people seem to get hooked up on the whole "wife-swapper" thing and therefore state that singles can't be swingers... what is a swinger really?

I class myself as a hedonistic libertine; confuses the fuck out of people and I don't think hedonisticlibertine.com has the same ring to it"

This should definitely be a 'thing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

I'm sorry Op , but you're not a swinger until you decide to sell your panties/videos/cam shows, start charging men for gangbangs , make couples pay for your baby sitter/travel cost/missed time at work for meeting them , and lastly invite men to meet you at clubs weekly with no intention of playing with any of them.

Until you start doing these things unfortunately you're just a decent person that enjoys sex without trying to financially gain from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

Until you start doing these things unfortunately you're just a decent person that enjoys sex without trying to financially gain from it."

American scene sounds rough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there is any true definition, people seem to get hooked up on the whole "wife-swapper" thing and therefore state that singles can't be swingers... what is a swinger really?

I class myself as a hedonistic libertine; confuses the fuck out of people and I don't think hedonisticlibertine.com has the same ring to it"

Even as a couple looking to meet couples we've never liked the term swingers.

But yeah, libertine, I like that. But yes it would confuse a lot of people we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

Until you start doing these things unfortunately you're just a decent person that enjoys sex without trying to financially gain from it.

American scene sounds rough..."

That my friend is why I retired from the scene and came to hang out with you Brits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry OP we're finding it impossible to concentrate on the question. We just want your boobies. Can we all just talk about your boobs hehe xxx"

Thank you but my photography is better than my actual real life boobs lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view of swinging, broadly speaking, is sex that involves more than 2 people. We play with a numbers of singles, who all consider themselves swingers. Although they do date on a casual basis with other singles, they also attend swingers parties and meet couples for threesomes.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

Until you start doing these things unfortunately you're just a decent person that enjoys sex without trying to financially gain from it."

Wow ! Never been so proud to NOT be a swinger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

Until you start doing these things unfortunately you're just a decent person that enjoys sex without trying to financially gain from it.

American scene sounds rough...

That my friend is why I retired from the scene and came to hang out with you Brits

Just hope it isn't drifting that way here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello, first forum post from a nOObie with big bOObies

I am not massively concerned with labels .... and so I don't really "care" about this, just moderately curious on your opinions.

An argument with a very sexy but unfortunately deranged guy I was seeing resulted in a comment from him saying I wasn't a swinger, I just fuck swingers. Apparently there's a big difference

So my question is ..... what qualifies a person as a "swinger".

Is it a way of life, a way of thought, or what some mentally unhinged Nutjob decides..... ?

Obviously not the latter but just wanted to add that bit in there

Until you start doing these things unfortunately you're just a decent person that enjoys sex without trying to financially gain from it.

American scene sounds rough...

That my friend is why I retired from the scene and came to hang out with you Brits

Just hope it isn't drifting that way here

I doubt it.... In the U.K. you guys have class

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