FabSwingers.com forum: Pics of male half of couples

By *ip and Megan OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Why do so many couples profiles only have pics of the female? We'd like to meet a couple but are a bit frustrated when searching that so many profiles don't have pics of both partners. The F may look sexy and gorgeous but if the only info about the M is a basic physical description ('average' as a body type can mean - well, lots of things!) then we're inevitably a bit cautious about initiating contact. We want there to be a mutual attraction all round and don't want to risk initiating contact when one quarter of the equation might not be right! We want to at least get a bit of an idea of what the guy looks like before we considering taking anything further. After all, if a single guy doesn't have any pics, he's unlikely to get many people interested so why is it different for the male half of a couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the same,never hardly see pics of the guys.I don't reply.My pic isn't public but would send it to a couple if they both were shown on their profile or private pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many couples profiles only have pics of the female? We'd like to meet a couple but are a bit frustrated when searching that so many profiles don't have pics of both partners. The F may look sexy and gorgeous but if the only info about the M is a basic physical description ('average' as a body type can mean - well, lots of things!) then we're inevitably a bit cautious about initiating contact. We want there to be a mutual attraction all round and don't want to risk initiating contact when one quarter of the equation might not be right! We want to at least get a bit of an idea of what the guy looks like before we considering taking anything further. After all, if a single guy doesn't have any pics, he's unlikely to get many people interested so why is it different for the male half of a couple?"

No idea! We have the same thought. It can be frustrating.

Am I expected to just take what I'm given with the male? No thank you ha ha. We both have to be attracted to the couple which is why we have lots of pics of us both on here.

It's a little unnerving for me when I see only female pics.

I'm very bi but also interested in the men so seeing both is essential.

Eve. X

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Guys don't care what the guy looks like

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By *ip and Megan OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Exactly - it doesn't have to be a face pic but handy to know if they have a beer belly, a six pack, or something in between! It surprises us too - we have pics of both of us because we don't want people to jump to conclusions based just on our profile details (our age for example).

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Apologies, i'll get my virgin remote and a can of lynx and start snapping forthwith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies, i'll get my virgin remote and a can of lynx and start snapping forthwith."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seem to have a lot more pictures of her rather than me I have a few on there but 90% is her maybe I need to get some more up

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

This drives me crazy too.

I think the men just assume they have a cock and that will be enough, I have made sure that our pictures show both our bodies so people can make a decision in a few seconds as my hubbys age would play against him if we don't show how good his body is. The big 60 is a no no for most but when they see he looks more like 45 I've got more chance of getting a younger couple, which is important as I'm not into old people who look 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. A couples profile should be photos of two people, not one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is for religious reasons.

God endowed her with magnificent boobs and a sexy face. He gave me male pattern baldness and a spotty arse.

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"Ours is for religious reasons.

God endowed her with magnificent boobs and a sexy face. He gave me male pattern baldness and a spotty arse."

I'd like to find that out before we met for play then, I suggest you upload your spotty arse so people can make an informed choice, just saves wasted time and effort on both couples parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ours is for religious reasons.

God endowed her with magnificent boobs and a sexy face. He gave me male pattern baldness and a spotty arse.

I'd like to find that out before we met for play then, I suggest you upload your spotty arse so people can make an informed choice, just saves wasted time and effort on both couples parts

Ah hah!!! I've just noticed my spotty arse is on display!! So we are absolved from using tits and foof as a lure to the unsuspecting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a post similar to this as we also find it a bit of an annoyance. Granted we don't have the most or the best pics, but there are pics of both of us and we have private pics that we can send during messaging with interested couples.

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

I have to admit, I had to look through your photos twice in order to spot the male half of your profile. There is only one pic, and if you look through quickly you'd miss it as it is quite dark and you have to look close to see who it is.

But to your question... we try to put a mix on ours, but I (the male) take most of the photos, so naturally tend to be of my wife.

-Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really that bothered what the female looks like as the chances are she'll be watching anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will run our profile how we see fit

If a profile doesn't meet what you are looking for or what you expect then pass it by, people can do as the wish with their own profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea! We have the same thought. It can be frustrating.

Am I expected to just take what I'm given with the male? No thank you ha ha. We both have to be attracted to the couple which is why we have lots of pics of us both on here.

It's a little unnerving for me when I see only female pics.

I'm very bi but also interested in the men so seeing both is essential.

Eve. X"

It's because I'm a secret agent and can not be seen in public pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly - it doesn't have to be a face pic but handy to know if they have a beer belly, a six pack, or something in between! It surprises us too - we have pics of both of us because we don't want people to jump to conclusions based just on our profile details (our age for example)."

You have 9 pictures and 1 obscure funny angled picture of the man??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys don't care what the guy looks like

we foookin' do. if i wanna get someone's cock in my mouth then fuck going in blind. if i'm playing with a couple, i'd like to see them both ta muchly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of me as We aren't looking for couple only single males . While Mr is present he only plays with me

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"We will run our profile how we see fit

If a profile doesn't meet what you are looking for or what you expect then pass it by, people can do as the wish with their own profile"

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"We have pics of me as We aren't looking for couple only single males . While Mr is present he only plays with me "
Same as us. If people don't like it move on to the next profile. We have private pics if people need to see my other half.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

This is becoming the most frequent thread on fab. Our answer is always the same: People put up the pictures that work best for them not for you. If it doesn't work for you find a profile that does. On our profile there are far more pictures of me than him, and we have no intention of changing - we already have as much attention of the kind we want that we can cope with. why should we change to satisfy you or anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a handful of photos of Mr fully clothed with face slightly obscured. Then clear face pics are in friends gallery. These pics give an idea of his build and what he looks like. That's all I require to see of a man that I might play with, and I certainly don't expect men with Dad's bods to show it all off. There are some nude and semi nude pics of me, but that's more because we like taking them, rather than consider it necessary. We only play with couples at parties anyway, so by the time it gets to that stage we've all met face to face and decided whether or not there is an attraction.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get told theres to many pics of biker and not enough of biker chick haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have pics of me as We aren't looking for couple only single males . While Mr is present he only plays with me "

i'd still like to know what the male half look like given they'd be present.

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We often wonder if we have too many face pics on ours

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By *jcmjcCouple
over a year ago

Newport

The majority of our pics are the female but that's because we're mainly looking for other males to join us where their attention will be on the female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have noticed this,so have tried to provide a happy mix. Truth remains that Hattie is the more attractive, but then looks aren't everything... Are they???

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

Because it adds to our insecurities when they never get fabbed lol but yes, we like to see what both look like.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

It's only the female half that plays so no need for male photos with us.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My view: if I'm looking to meet couples I expect to see both. If not I move onto the next profile as it's not my place to dictate how others run their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have pics of me as We aren't looking for couple only single males . While Mr is present he only plays with me

i'd still like to know what the male half look like given they'd be present. "

That why we have pics of him in private to send when required

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I totally agree,if I'am chatting with a couple with a view to meeting then I want to see equally as much as both of you.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

"I totally agree,if I'am chatting with a couple with a view to meeting then I want to see equally as much as both of you. "

Trust me, not equal not in our case anyway. I like to think we have the ratio right, then pics if me that hopefully show enough but critique always welcome. x

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

I think as couples or in fact anyone they have to be backed up by verifications it shows there real and genuine

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I think as couples or in fact anyone they have to be backed up by verifications it shows there real and genuine

Verifications mean diddly squat! Nothing to stop people opening several profiles, nick pics of the web and verify themselves.

Some bright sparks even post on the forums using profiles, complete with photos they've copied from other forum users!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 9 pictures and 1 obscure funny angled picture of the man??"

We noticed that too ....

Is this a wind up by the op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This describes your profile so surely you can answer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is becoming the most frequent thread on fab. Our answer is always the same: People put up the pictures that work best for them not for you. If it doesn't work for you find a profile that does. On our profile there are far more pictures of me than him, and we have no intention of changing - we already have as much attention of the kind we want that we can cope with. why should we change to satisfy you or anyone else?"

Absolutely! One can ask for more pics too, surely..?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea! We have the same thought. It can be frustrating.

Am I expected to just take what I'm given with the male? No thank you ha ha. We both have to be attracted to the couple which is why we have lots of pics of us both on here.

It's a little unnerving for me when I see only female pics.

I'm very bi but also interested in the men so seeing both is essential.

Eve. X

It's because I'm a secret agent and can not be seen in public pictures"

We know that about you so we let you off ha ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! One can ask for more pics too, surely..? "

No , don't ever ask for more pics or close face pic.....just except the picture they sent you from 20 years and 10 stones ago as true.

If not you will be label a time waster and pic collector

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! One can ask for more pics too, surely..?

No , don't ever ask for more pics or close face pic.....just except the picture they sent you from 20 years and 10 stones ago as true.

If not you will be label a time waster and pic collector

Oh you. Funny guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point. I think if we had anymore photos of the male on our profile people think it's a male behind the profile so it's hard to get the right balance with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point. I think if we had anymore photos of the male on our profile people think it's a male behind the profile so it's hard to get the right balance with us "

Yep, you can't win. Best to choose your own path and roll with it.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

we have photos of us both on ours

could be it's mine that put people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point. I think if we had anymore photos of the male on our profile people think it's a male behind the profile so it's hard to get the right balance with us

Yep, you can't win. Best to choose your own path and roll with it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

Heresy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

we have a mix of both pics we do need to have both of us but the ones we have are in private as full face pics. Most use the gallery as they see fit id say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to see pics of both. We will all be playing so like to see. like body and cock picks. Don't like hairy balls. S

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By *urious and lookingCouple
over a year ago

cork

We try to be 50/50 but I often find myself showing him off more than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a very good point there...though hubby is the one that posts our photos and he never takes them of him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see pics of both. We will all be playing so like to see. like body and cock picks. Don't like hairy balls. S "

Kudos on the monster can pic , I was getting tried of all the sky remotes and lynx cans pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been discussed previously and each couple has their own reasons for doing this. In our case it's to do with my mans job. After chatting for a while though and if people are genuine we then exchange his face pics

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X"

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

Yeah I do too to be honest.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?

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By *limandtrim300Couple
over a year ago

Ely

Hubby takes most oc our pics but our public gallery shows enough of us both to spark an interested we hope

it frustrates me when i cant see the male half but we just tend to move on as it tells us that the whole night will probably be just about her and so not what we are looking for

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Depends what you are after. We are primarily after bi fem meets so girl attraction is a must. The fellas are more optional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This drives me crazy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys don't care what the guy looks like

Couldn't disagree more.

There's no way I want to see the person I love and respect more than anyone in the world with an unattractive bloke.

We too are frustrated with the lack of male pics on profiles.

Yes we know our profile isn't overflowing with pics of Mr Force, but they are there and they're not dick pics either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I agree? But could be said it should be said about single men who only show their cock or them interacting with a female sexually as their main photo.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We'll do what we want with our profile. And why fix it when it's not broken.

The end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the bloke tends to be fucking ugly and the only reason that they're getting any attention is because his partner has her tits out

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"Well I agree? But could be said it should be said about single men who only show their cock or them interacting with a female sexually as their main photo.

(Mrs)

Normally it's a remote or a beer can comparison

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Anita us continually annoyed by profiles with no pictures of the bloke. does it not matter what men look like?

Cal

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Anita us continually annoyed by profiles with no pictures of the bloke. does it not matter what men look like?

Cal"

Possibly. if he doesn't play per se, then no it isn't, imo.

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

We are guilty of having the majority of our pictures of the female half only

The ones with the male half on are a lot less, but still giving a good idea on what he looks like in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point is that if the one wishes to attract couples, you must market yourself accordingly. What is the point of designing your profile to only be attractive to half your potential market?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours don't and often Mr Legend will be the avatar. But I do see your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours don't and often Mr Legend will be the avatar. But I do see your point. "

Love your profile and your pics!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because pussey sells lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because pussey sells lol"

Not to most ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly for us because it's for a female seeking fun plus it maybe off putting if it's all male photos on a couples profile

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Because pussey sells lol

Not to most ladies

Not if you are straight!

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The point is that if the one wishes to attract couples, you must market yourself accordingly. What is the point of designing your profile to only be attractive to half your potential market?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I get messages from couples but there are never enough photos of the guy for me to tell whether or not I'd like to meet them.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Agree absolutely - and it's the main reason that I don't include couples on my profile requirements. When I did I got loads of messages from couples with great fem pics. It took ages to get a torso and face pic of the male - and when I did I usually understood why only the fem pics were on show!

Hence I generally only play with couples when I can see them both at a club/party and there's a connection between all of us - or there's a good mix of them both on their profile and we all fancy the pants off each other!

I'm not fully bi so I expect the guy to be a VERY active part of the meet - ideally fucking me whilst I pleasure his lady etc.

ok I'm digressing - and getting rather warm - have a good afternoon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean. What can add to the frustration is that the pics are all female but it's only ever the male that's on to chat. Couples profiles should have pics of both (not necessary equal but at least 2 or 3 of the male)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because ignoring a profile you aren't happy with isn't an option

Here's a question?

Why do some folk feel the need to question the profile of others?if you don't like it,move on to the next and the next till you find one that does match your requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Gave up looking in the end

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Because ignoring a profile you aren't happy with isn't an option

Here's a question?

Why do some folk feel the need to question the profile of others?if you don't like it,move on to the next and the next till you find one that does match your requirements."

I'd agree in principal - but often it's those same couples who start a thread bemoaning the fact that they can't get a suitable couple/single fem to meet them - and then refuse to listen to the constructive advice on offer!

Having pics of the female only is only really appropriate if you're just looking to meet single males for straight mmf or females for purely girl on girl - though if hubby is wanting to take part in any way, or even just watch - most single gems would want to see what he looks like and get to know him a little too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because ignoring a profile you aren't happy with isn't an option

Here's a question?

Why do some folk feel the need to question the profile of others?if you don't like it,move on to the next and the next till you find one that does match your requirements."

Of course it's an option. I was just adding my opinion. People are free to do things as they see fit as long as it doesn't harm others. Every couples dynamic will be slightly different

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X"

Oh yes - you have enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X"

And very lovely they are 2 x

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over a year ago

Prestonish

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X"

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

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over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?"

because its a couples profile.. and the pics are 2 separate people, you hardly ever see the couple in question together

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over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?

because its a couples profile.. and the pics are 2 separate people, you hardly ever see the couple in question together

"
That is right, it is easy too, just put the timer on 5 seconds.

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over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?

because its a couples profile.. and the pics are 2 separate people, you hardly ever see the couple in question together

That is right, it is easy too, just put the timer on 5 seconds."

We must do that more often! We usually just use Adams arm length which results in selfies taken from the chest upwards.

I always forget about the timer option.

Eve. X

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X"

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

To be honest every time we add pics of me and not wiggles, our view count drops dramatically.

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over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?

because its a couples profile.. and the pics are 2 separate people, you hardly ever see the couple in question together

Have to admit we are guilty of this. So many times we have had the camera and tripod set up and get completely wrapped up in the moment. Generally when not fully wrapped together the odd intimate dual shot has been attained.

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X

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over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?

because its a couples profile.. and the pics are 2 separate people, you hardly ever see the couple in question together

I love your images!

I was gutted that you don't meet couples and I may or may not have a girl crush on you.

You're both on our hotlist.

Eve. X

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X"

That would require a very big bed

. Dips on sleeping by the wall

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over a year ago

"Here's a suggestion..

How about a pic of both her and him together!!

Just a thought

We have lots.

Eve. X

Not many do though.. I just find it a bit odd that it's a couples profile but the pics are usually either one or the other

What's so odd about it?

because its a couples profile.. and the pics are 2 separate people, you hardly ever see the couple in question together

But why 'feel guilty'? We can totally understand people wanting to see pics of both people in the couple, we do as well.

But threads like these always seem to drift into judgement on how well people take pics.

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X

That would require a very big bed

. Dips on sleeping by the wall

No sleeping allowed!

Eve. X

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X

That would require a very big bed

. Dips on sleeping by the wall

No sleeping allowed!

Eve. X"

Alright then, ladies are welcome to give me sleepy blow jobs and slap me with their boobs so I won't fall asleep

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X

That would require a very big bed

. Dips on sleeping by the wall

No sleeping allowed!

Eve. X

Alright then, ladies are welcome to give me sleepy blow jobs and slap me with their boobs so I won't fall asleep

If we aren't worth staying awake for then it's cool ha ha, we shan't force you.

Eve. X

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X

That would require a very big bed

. Dips on sleeping by the wall

No sleeping allowed!

Eve. X

Alright then, ladies are welcome to give me sleepy blow jobs and slap me with their boobs so I won't fall asleep

If we aren't worth staying awake for then it's cool ha ha, we shan't force you.

Eve. X"

You played that card...nobody plays that card

. Fuck it, I'll rather be sleep deprived to prove you wrong then

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over a year ago

"I hope we have enough for singles to get a good idea of both?

We have lots of fave pics in private too with many pics of us together and a few that we have taken of each other/selfies.

Eve. X

Oh yes - you have enough!

Lovely! Glad you think so.

We will only play with people that we are attracted to , so we feel it's only fair that the people we speak to have chance to see us first before deciding whether to message back.

Eve. X

Agree wholeheartedly - which is why I regularly post up-to-date pics showing what I actually look like - not what I'd like to look like - and have plenty of face pics in friends!

When I meet a single or couple I want it to be amazing - not just 'good' - and that starts with fancying the pants of each other!

We agree completely! We have lots of face pics too so you aren't just seeing our best picture that actually doesn't look like us.

You get a good feel of how we look.

We have to fancy the other person or people too. Where is the chemistry if you don't?

Eve. X

I'm really liking the sound of you two!

Let me know if you ever get a fettish for thread veined old farts with a GSOH!

I may be able to bring someone who likes a good workout too!

Aww Peachy! You look lovely, don't put yourself down!

Let's get it sorted.

You, us, someone who works out, someone who likes Tushies,someone who likes to tease and someone who is as sweet as honey.

I think it needs to be done, too much sexual energy going on he he.

Eve. X

That would require a very big bed

. Dips on sleeping by the wall

No sleeping allowed!

Eve. X

Alright then, ladies are welcome to give me sleepy blow jobs and slap me with their boobs so I won't fall asleep

If we aren't worth staying awake for then it's cool ha ha, we shan't force you.

Eve. X

You played that card...nobody plays that card

. Fuck it, I'll rather be sleep deprived to prove you wrong then

That's the spirit!!

Eve. X

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By *its and BeardCouple
over a year ago

west Brom

It only bothers me when it's a couple who are just looking for couples for full swap yet not one photo of the male half

and no we aren't gonna waste our time asking all of them to send a pic of the male half on the off chance I might be interested. Luckily we go to clubs a lot.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If someone winks or messages and Anita fancies the Mrs... then she'll ask for a pic of Him

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By *jcmjcCouple
over a year ago

Newport

As she's the focus of attention in meets most the pics are of her. only one public pic of the male but that pretty much sums him up. Our friend only pics are face pics of us both together.

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over a year ago

"As she's the focus of attention in meets most the pics are of her. only one public pic of the male but that pretty much sums him up. Our friend only pics are face pics of us both together. "

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over a year ago

"As she's the focus of attention in meets most the pics are of her. only one public pic of the male but that pretty much sums him up. Our friend only pics are face pics of us both together. "
Absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always make sure we are both shown in at least 1 public photo

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We too have pics of both of us on our profile xx

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP You only have one pic of the male. Strange you are complaining about other couples not having enough pics of the male.

Sally

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over a year ago

Completely agree with the OP. Our profile has photos (albeit censored to some degree) which give an indication of both of us looks-wise. Ellen is gorgeous and gets lots of attention when we go to clubs, as well as her photos being fabbed reasonably regularly, but we come as a couple, so it's only fair that my (distinctly average) mug be there to be perused as well, giving an honest account of who 'we' are. If there are only photos of the female half of a couple on the site there's instant concern that either there's a degree of hypocrisy from some males, or they have something to hide. 'Cock shots' aside there are a lot of profiles where the male is missing completely, giving potentially interested females no chance to make a decision as to initial interest.

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over a year ago

Totaly agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same only looking for single males so makes no sense having mr on there

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

A lot of folks are saying that they will send photos if asked. We feel cruel though when the pics arrive and average meant "like most fat buggers of my age" rather than "not fat, not slim but in between" . Our response is then a polite no thanks, but it's obvious why. A photo on profile saves that.

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over a year ago

"A lot of folks are saying that they will send photos if asked. We feel cruel though when the pics arrive and average meant "like most fat buggers of my age" rather than "not fat, not slim but in between" . Our response is then a polite no thanks, but it's obvious why. A photo on profile saves that. "

Exactly

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Yes we can all run our profiles how we like

No we shouldn't change then because of other people

The frustration lies though when

(in this situation) a profile says looking for xxx to play with both of us.

Thus the profiler viewer would most probably like to be able to see both parties.

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over a year ago

"Yes we can all run our profiles how we like

No we shouldn't change then because of other people

The frustration lies though when

(in this situation) a profile says looking for xxx to play with both of us.

Thus the profiler viewer would most probably like to be able to see both parties.

Agreed, but I would suggest that people run their profile to maximise interest AND ensure ultimate success.

Having relevant pics is a key to that.

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By *its and BeardCouple
over a year ago

west Brom

"Completely agree with the OP. Our profile has photos (albeit censored to some degree) which give an indication of both of us looks-wise. Ellen is gorgeous and gets lots of attention when we go to clubs, as well as her photos being fabbed reasonably regularly, but we come as a couple, so it's only fair that my (distinctly average) mug be there to be perused as well, giving an honest account of who 'we' are. If there are only photos of the female half of a couple on the site there's instant concern that either there's a degree of hypocrisy from some males, or they have something to hide. 'Cock shots' aside there are a lot of profiles where the male is missing completely, giving potentially interested females no chance to make a decision as to initial interest. "

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Yes we can all run our profiles how we like

No we shouldn't change then because of other people

The frustration lies though when

(in this situation) a profile says looking for xxx to play with both of us.

Thus the profiler viewer would most probably like to be able to see both parties.

Agreed, but I would suggest that people run their profile to maximise interest AND ensure ultimate success.

Having relevant pics is a key to that. "

.....and if couples are getting as much interest as they need from the people that interest them why should they change their gallery because someone else wants them to? There are plenty of profiles with no public pictures of either half of the couple - if it works for them that's fine. If a profile doesn't give you what you want simply move on, there are plenty of others to choose from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we can all run our profiles how we like

No we shouldn't change then because of other people

The frustration lies though when

(in this situation) a profile says looking for xxx to play with both of us.

Thus the profiler viewer would most probably like to be able to see both parties.

Agreed, but I would suggest that people run their profile to maximise interest AND ensure ultimate success.

Having relevant pics is a key to that.

Agreed. We make a point of rotating our pics, but what we have seems to be doing the job for us. TBH, we find that those "demanding" more pics are NOT people we would consider for personal meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man is more camera shy but I have coaxed him onto a couple of private pics, we share them when applying to couples profiles for a mfmf meet. M x

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

Im on ours lol look xx

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