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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individual preference I guess

Either way doesn't concern me people can hide them anyway so who knows the real amount of meets etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Individual preference I guess

Either way doesn't concern me people can hide them anyway so who knows the real amount of meets etc "

Very true

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose "

No, we don't mind, just shows they are popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose

No, we don't mind, just shows they are popular "

On that basis I'm fucked and not in a good way ??????????

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

They might have been on the site for years, they might have hosted some big social events, they may have been reverified many times by by only a handful of people.

So I don't judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly one verification is the perfect amount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Major turn off.

However.. some people prob look at me and think the same in only 9 weeks. Trouble is if you go to a social then it happens.

Never judge a book by its cover I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldent have an issue, it's natural for us to want to have sex, if it wassent for churches and the oppression of are true nature we,d all of been fucking each other ages ago anyways,

Do what you enjoy and have fun that's what i say, if people don't like it they can wallow on there own bitterness.

But...

I do wonder if for some psychological reason if the tables where to be turned and it was to be a single male. Would they then jump up on the high horse saddle up and shout vulgarnisim (think I just made that word up)

Cause men have the stigma of fucking anything on legs. But then if all your varies where sexy would that Chang anything...

He ponders

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Off putting.

I would take it in to consideration how quickly they got them and how many were social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered personally. Most of the time it's just socials and/or Web Cam. But I wouldn't have an issue even if they were all play meets

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

The thing about profiles is that firstly you can hide veris so even if they only show a handful, the person may have met and fucked hundreds of people.

Also, some have said about the time frame and number of meets. Firstly the veris may be from social meets, they may not all be play. Secondly, our profile says we've been here over a year. That's the most it tells you. We've actually been here 3.5 years on this profile but you wouldn't know that unless we told you. If we didn't show all our veris you may think we'd fucked a lot in that year yet it may have been spread over many years.

At the end of the day we're on a site where people meet and sometimes fuck. If you can't deal with potential meets doing that with others then you really should rethink your attitude to swinging

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose "

Do you find it off putting OP?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'd only be put off if those hundreds of verifications were all from the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually attracted to guys with quite a few....it means they are shit hot in bed and I'm yet to be proved wrong

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"The thing about profiles is that firstly you can hide veris so even if they only show a handful, the person may have met and fucked hundreds of people.

Also, some have said about the time frame and number of meets. Firstly the veris may be from social meets, they may not all be play. Secondly, our profile says we've been here over a year. That's the most it tells you. We've actually been here 3.5 years on this profile but you wouldn't know that unless we told you. If we didn't show all our veris you may think we'd fucked a lot in that year yet it may have been spread over many years.

At the end of the day we're on a site where people meet and sometimes fuck. If you can't deal with potential meets doing that with others then you really should rethink your attitude to swinging"

Yes, this. We have been on here 7years and a lot of ours are socials and repeats. At the end of the day, it is a swinging site and majority of people, not all, are here to have sex with others. But it's everyone's choice who they choose to meet, at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on what it is written on them

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I'm actually attracted to guys with quite a few....it means they are shit hot in bed and I'm yet to be proved wrong "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"All depends on what it is written on them"

That's so true, but people only display the verifications, that show them in a good light, I would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly better than having no verifications, dont even get a message back! Can someone tel me where I'm going wrong please??

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Certainly better than having no verifications, dont even get a message back! Can someone tel me where I'm going wrong please??"

Maybe start your own post so as not to deviate from the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really bother us to be honest,

However it does add that bit extra comfort knowing someone is verified, but it's not a deal breaker if there not

We look at them as more of insight into the person we are going to meet,

I.e

Friendly, good laugh, respecting, ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All depends on what it is written on them

That's so true, but people only display the verifications, that show them in a good light, I would think. "

Oh yes but some think that : 'she took it well deep in the ass like a good slut' showing them in a good light.

I certainly don't. Whatever I do during a meet, I love to keep some privacy and if someone allows her verification to protray her like that, she is not someone I would meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want people writing sexual veris about me and vice versa. I get shit off people all the time on here as I'm not clicking up veris (so therefore I must be fake) but couldn't give a fuck. I've met people, I just don't want to write about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*clocking

Typo!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Doesn't bother me.

I've been on the scene long enough to know the number has various factors impacting on it.

All they say to me is all I need to know and that is that, this person meets

Beyond that I take them in their own personal merit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't actually bother reading them!

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose "

Put me off if they had 100's

Puts me off if they had 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All depends on what it is written on them

That's so true, but people only display the verifications, that show them in a good light, I would think.

Oh yes but some think that : 'she took it well deep in the ass like a good slut' showing them in a good light.

I certainly don't. Whatever I do during a meet, I love to keep some privacy and if someone allows her verification to protray her like that, she is not someone I would meet. "

Lol, you have a point, but those sort of verifications are the norm these days, so if we took that approach, we'd never meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri content can sometimes put me off... Overly sexually graphic ones for example. I prefer a little tact. As for the amount though, then that doesn't play a part for me. I'm not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose

Put me off if they had 100's

Puts me off if they had 10"

So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off?

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose

Put me off if they had 100's

Puts me off if they had 10

So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off? "

1

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford


"Certainly better than having no verifications, dont even get a message back! Can someone tel me where I'm going wrong please??"

Your profile is fine, you're cute and in other circumstances, I would meet you. Maybe spruce up your profile a bit?! Is quite bland! Show some arse! We women love a bit of bitable chunks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some leave, come back and loose them

some hide them

so can you ever really judge by them correctly

Obviously there are some off putting ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose

Put me off if they had 100's

Puts me off if they had 10

So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off?

1 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find it off putting when someone/ or a couple has 100's of verifications or is it more of a turn on?

Just wondered

No verifications vs too many verifications I suppose

Put me off if they had 100's

Puts me off if they had 10

So what's the magic number that doesn't put you off?

1 "

Same. Anything more than a couple and I probably wouldn't meet them. Terribly judgemental I know!

Probably why I meet few and far between.

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