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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did it last year with someone regular i didn't trust, luckily he had nothing at the time. he came out with the bullshit of only fuck him bareback but never said he'd do the same.

he was fucking a lot of women and i guess he asked them to do the same...they were also very active. i decided to stop meeting him and think myself lucky i met him on here and could see his bazillion veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't other than with my ex but I haven't met anyone from here either this time or last time I was here.

Have you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't other than with my ex but I haven't met anyone from here either this time or last time I was here.

Have you? "

Yes...once

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

In the heat of the moment, yes..

She was someone I knew well and wasn't worried about..

I have also been neutered so was even less of an issue..

However as a rule, no.. Definitely not.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Never !

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no we haven't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Yes...Not with everybody though and we're regularly tested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nice....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "
nope..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No chance"

Not sure why the "" appeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to someone I trusted, no to heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Nope, not for a very long time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cant remenber doing anything.....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely everyone knows by now that if you dare to bareback you'll die an excruciating death

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"cant remember doing anything.....!! "
ok

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've done it with someone I trust...my husband.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a few have said that.....think I need some new pics

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

yes.

only with regulars I trust and thats usually down the line.

have done in heat of the moment, naughty me! don't really wanna do it again unless, as already stated, regulars.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Why would you?

Bare back for us is something that we only share together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it on heat of moment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't with anyone from Fab. I have with two regular lovers, but only four or five times altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope we haven't, for us there is no "heat of the moment" loss of control and no matter how much we trust someone it isn't worth it. There have been plenty of times we have wished for a world with no disease and no accidental pregnancy but unfortunately we don't seem to have the power of the genie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread. "

only if someone who has barebacked quotes you.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"In the heat of the moment, yes..

She was someone I knew well and wasn't worried about..

I have also been neutered so was even less of an issue..

However as a rule, no.. Definitely not. "

What!! You've had your balls cut off??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread. "

Put a condom on while you read it then.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Trust no one. Suspect everyone.

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Yea with trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...not at all.

Only with my hubby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

But he become a long term partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a few have said that.....think I need some new pics "

Mmmm nice cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done with people I trust and never in heat of moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just with full time / long term girlfriends.

Although i have been put under a bit of pressure from "safe sex" couples to thefuck wife bareback on meets. Quite common. None of the ones on my veri's before you check, when i was last on.

Id never go bareback with a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just with full time / long term girlfriends.

Although i have been put under a bit of pressure from "safe sex" couples to thefuck wife bareback on meets. Quite common. None of the ones on my veri's before you check, when i was last on.

Id never go bareback with a swinger"

with a regular partner yes i have otherwise no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no idea why i just quoted that .....bed time i think

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Not with one off meets or in clubs but with longer term partners yes

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, but not proud abiut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never and never will

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Quite s few

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Not in heat of the moment no. Our bareback play is planned in advance.

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By *_89Man
over a year ago

Here and there

Whattt... Don't your dick rot off and you die if you have sex without a common?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on your nelly

What for a few mins of fun but to be affected for the rest of your life. Never in a million years

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I haven't other than with my ex but I haven't met anyone from here either this time or last time I was here.

Have you?

Yes...once "

Tut, tut

Russian Roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our very first 4 some meet we did slip up. We allowed the excitement of the moment get away from us and did ditch the rubber after a while.

I suppose these things happen in the heat of a very hot moment. It worked out ok for us, all testing has since been clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes only with people that have sores around their lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, with a few couples

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Yes with a regular fwb.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes with a regular fwb....."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in the heat of the moment, always agree a meet before hand and stick to the agreement. Also would not do this with a one off or first time meet. Only after consideration and a test result to confirm all are clean and good.

I have enjoyed bareback with a regular FWB and some cuckold couples who are exclusive. As we were all grown adults we were able to asses the risk and agree.

Eddie

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

only with long term misstresses.

On club nights i confess to a couple of slip ups over the years.

As a rule however no.

As for the "you must bareback brigade" i give them a wide swerve.

I have been tested and clean bill of health, i intend to keep it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it once, briefly, when I was 20.

It was only a few thrusts before I realised he was not bagged up and I had not got my 3mm rubber safety blanket over me.

I ran screaming for the door grabbing my clothes as i went. I later douched myself with bleach and bathed in nearly neat disinfectant for 3 hours.

I spent 5 years in trauma therapy with hundreds of visits to the GUM. I just could not understand why i had no symptoms, apart from 3rd degree burns caused by the bleach, and why I was not dying of some terrible sexually transmitted disease.

Eventually, some 25+ years later, after catching flu, norovirus, dysentery, pneumonia, malaria and chicken pox through my work, travel and touching lift buttons with my bare hands I conquered my fear of chlamydia and started to try sex again.

All the men I consider now take polygraph tests to see if they have ever in their lives put their naked cock near another man or woman. So far, apart from one 52 year old virgin with erectile dysfunction, no one has passed. But i remain hopeful and now have two 6mm safety blankets ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and if we are honest i think most people have

I bet there is very few people who can honestly say the one person they have never use condoms with is their spouse 99% would never admit it though

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My little ladies weren't the result of the immaculate conception that's for sure

Haven't had bareback intercourse in many years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God nooo it's madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Someone I trust yes. Not really people on here more ex's of fwb sort of thing.

In the heat of the moment from here, when I first joined that happened. Nowadays? Not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bareback means ?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What bareback means ? "
without a condom xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without trying to give the Trollers ammunition ......

In all the years I been swinging , loads with my first wife and a very long time with my fem FB / partner in crime lol, I have / we had gone BB both ways and equally I/we covered if requested

Trust is biggest issue with BB sex

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not in a swinging context. Only ever in monogamous relationships.

Although I have been told by lots of different people that it is more common than I'd like to think on here.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Definitely not in a swinging context. Only ever in monogamous relationships.

Although I have been told by lots of different people that it is more common than I'd like to think on here. "

Look at the abortion rates and the teenage pregnancy rates

Outside the forum on here bareback is very common out there in the real world whether we like to believe it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in the heat of the moment. Not with someone from here and then done it with the same guy many a times after. Once I trusted him. We both had busy lifes and I grew to trust him quite a lot. Sadly it didn't work out in the end. I couldn't give him what he wanted

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Once in the heat of the moment. Not with someone from here and then done it with the same guy many a times after. Once I trusted him. We both had busy lifes and I grew to trust him quite a lot. Sadly it didn't work out in the end. I couldn't give him what he wanted "

I'd say he was the loser out of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with Mark

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Only once with a fab cpl I was in a long term play relationship with. We all went for tests, all waited for the all clear and yeah ha

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Only with long term partnersxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only once with a fab cpl I was in a long term play relationship with. We all went for tests, all waited for the all clear and yeah ha"

Talking about that ....see my thread today called STD .......

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once in the heat of the moment. Not with someone from here and then done it with the same guy many a times after. Once I trusted him. We both had busy lifes and I grew to trust him quite a lot. Sadly it didn't work out in the end. I couldn't give him what he wanted

Ah we are still friends. I just couldn't give him what he was looking for so it was better off to finish things.

I'd say he was the loser out of that "

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Only with the hubby!

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Amusef and curious !!

Are you asking this question because yourre looking fot an option lol x

Because its a personal thing and between consenting adults and i doubt many would ever be totally honest about it espevially on a public forum prone to after mass abuse !! .

Also why do people think theyve more chance of catching an std on and swing site than with an ex or vanilla partner ..

Only difference is in swing world you ve an idea they probably meeting others. In a relationship you just hope they arent !!! x

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ?

Nope, not for a very long time."

So strictly speaking , that nope is a yes

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"What bareback means ? "

Riding a horse without a saddle

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"I did it once, briefly, when I was 20.

It was only a few thrusts before I realised he was not bagged up and I had not got my 3mm rubber safety blanket over me.

I ran screaming for the door grabbing my clothes as i went. I later douched myself with bleach and bathed in nearly neat disinfectant for 3 hours.

I spent 5 years in trauma therapy with hundreds of visits to the GUM. I just could not understand why i had no symptoms, apart from 3rd degree burns caused by the bleach, and why I was not dying of some terrible sexually transmitted disease.

Eventually, some 25+ years later, after catching flu, norovirus, dysentery, pneumonia, malaria and chicken pox through my work, travel and touching lift buttons with my bare hands I conquered my fear of chlamydia and started to try sex again.

All the men I consider now take polygraph tests to see if they have ever in their lives put their naked cock near another man or woman. So far, apart from one 52 year old virgin with erectile dysfunction, no one has passed. But i remain hopeful and now have two 6mm safety blankets ready.

"

So which ine of your 31 varis is the 52 year old virgin?

PMSL!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did it once, briefly, when I was 20.

It was only a few thrusts before I realised he was not bagged up and I had not got my 3mm rubber safety blanket over me.

I ran screaming for the door grabbing my clothes as i went. I later douched myself with bleach and bathed in nearly neat disinfectant for 3 hours.

I spent 5 years in trauma therapy with hundreds of visits to the GUM. I just could not understand why i had no symptoms, apart from 3rd degree burns caused by the bleach, and why I was not dying of some terrible sexually transmitted disease.

Eventually, some 25+ years later, after catching flu, norovirus, dysentery, pneumonia, malaria and chicken pox through my work, travel and touching lift buttons with my bare hands I conquered my fear of chlamydia and started to try sex again.

All the men I consider now take polygraph tests to see if they have ever in their lives put their naked cock near another man or woman. So far, apart from one 52 year old virgin with erectile dysfunction, no one has passed. But i remain hopeful and now have two 6mm safety blankets ready.

So which ine of your 31 varis is the 52 year old virgin?

PMSL!!"

Ooops!!!

Bit of Fab truth there .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer Bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it once, got to be honest it felt great but just not worth the risk and the awkward chat with the sex health centre worker :p x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Never have, never will, meets are protected always.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Yes

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

With my fwb

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sex is best done naturally

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

Only bb with each other. Any sex with other people would be with condoms, no exceptions.

That said, we rarely wind up having penetrative sex when in club play situations anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you need to know?

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"I did it once, briefly, when I was 20.

It was only a few thrusts before I realised he was not bagged up and I had not got my 3mm rubber safety blanket over me.

I ran screaming for the door grabbing my clothes as i went. I later douched myself with bleach and bathed in nearly neat disinfectant for 3 hours.

I spent 5 years in trauma therapy with hundreds of visits to the GUM. I just could not understand why i had no symptoms, apart from 3rd degree burns caused by the bleach, and why I was not dying of some terrible sexually transmitted disease.

Eventually, some 25+ years later, after catching flu, norovirus, dysentery, pneumonia, malaria and chicken pox through my work, travel and touching lift buttons with my bare hands I conquered my fear of chlamydia and started to try sex again.

All the men I consider now take polygraph tests to see if they have ever in their lives put their naked cock near another man or woman. So far, apart from one 52 year old virgin with erectile dysfunction, no one has passed. But i remain hopeful and now have two 6mm safety blankets ready.

So which ine of your 31 varis is the 52 year old virgin?

PMSL!!

Ooops!!!

Bit of Fab truth there ..... "

And I must say a rather fab Bottom there to boot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

I have with someone I trust and obviously always do with Adam.

Eve. X

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By *uddyandhouseCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Not really in the heat of the moment. It is just a preference of ours from the outset. We know the risks but we prefer it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes done it in the heat of the moment when it felt 'right', hes the only guy I've been with from fab in a very long time and we meet regularly now. I'm not meeting single fellas since taking it further with my man and will take extra precautions when playing with ladies. I get regularly tested every 12-16 weeks (peace of mind and all that) and so far I've been completely clean. I feel very lucky to be able to trust him and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes done it in the heat of the moment when it felt 'right', hes the only guy I've been with from fab in a very long time and we meet regularly now. I'm not meeting single fellas since taking it further with my man and will take extra precautions when playing with ladies. I get regularly tested every 12-16 weeks (peace of mind and all that) and so far I've been completely clean. I feel very lucky to be able to trust him and vice versa "

Do all you people that get sti/hiv testing every 3 month feel any shame about wasting tax payers money?

I read on these forums daily people on fab saying the are tested every 3 months couples/women/men/tv/tg and they are clean and disease free... So that got me thinking that these people are wasting millions of dollars of tax payers money on unnecessary testing. I'm all for everyone being clean but if people used free condoms and get tested maybe once a year the NHS could save millions of pounds.... that can be used for new facilities and more staff.... So better patient care for everyone.

So if you guys all shag with condoms and get tested once a year, you could save your country money..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What bareback means ? "

To ride a horse without a saddle.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "
My policy is always to insist on condoms but I do have to make exceptions for a few regular meets.

If you are rock hard and preparing to enter the kingdom of heaven and are told not to put a condom or to take one off it is easier said than done to say no.

This has happened to me on repeat meets where I have previously worn condoms as some ladies prefer the feeling of skin to skin.

I would never do without condons in a swingers club. However at one club in Cap d Agde on lady jumped on top of me before I had time to slip on one.

Whilst I always insist on condoms , when fired up and ready to go you are not always acting rationally .

I do however get myself regularly tested and have never had any problems to date.

Those I have fucked without condoms were generally regular meets though quite a few ladies do want or enjoy skin to skin more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes yes lol

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By *erseypairCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes done it in the heat of the moment when it felt 'right', hes the only guy I've been with from fab in a very long time and we meet regularly now. I'm not meeting single fellas since taking it further with my man and will take extra precautions when playing with ladies. I get regularly tested every 12-16 weeks (peace of mind and all that) and so far I've been completely clean. I feel very lucky to be able to trust him and vice versa

Do all you people that get sti/hiv testing every 3 month feel any shame about wasting tax payers money?

I read on these forums daily people on fab saying the are tested every 3 months couples/women/men/tv/tg and they are clean and disease free... So that got me thinking that these people are wasting millions of dollars of tax payers money on unnecessary testing. I'm all for everyone being clean but if people used free condoms and get tested maybe once a year the NHS could save millions of pounds.... that can be used for new facilities and more staff.... So better patient care for everyone.

So if you guys all shag with condoms and get tested once a year, you could save your country money.."

That is a very good point!! .

I don't know what the actual cost of a STI test is but there could well be savings if there was, say, only an annual test. They could also stop GUM clinics giving out free condoms to save money too. Perhaps the money saved could be used to find how to prevent diseases not prevented by condom use?

Thinking about it, the cost of a STI test for what is a wholy natural human act essential to the continued existence of the human race, is probably considerably less than, for example, the cost of resetting broken bones. So more savings could come by refusing treatment to people who play sport, bungie jump, cycle, ski, box, marshal arts, etc. The list is endless!!!

Obviously the cost of cancer care could be slashed dramatically if smokers were turned away at the door.

I think we could be onto something here. Will you draft the white paper or shall I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in the heat of the moment. But have with a couple who we've known 10 years as personal friends before swing play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only very few times have I played I fucked bareback in the heat of the moment. With the Mrs it's both as not using any other form of contraception apart from condoms. But prefer bare with her obviously otherwise safe play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to spur of the moment with couples, and a couple of pre-planned adventures! It does feel amazing!

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Bareback sex only

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Never, I always play safe.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Yeah I have, specially wheb I first joined here but noe I am a lot more careful.

Tested recently after playing safe for a few months and i'm clear so I guess I got lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unbelievable things said in here, yes we have done both with and without, but seeing as we only meet people about twice a year, and hubby has checks every month because of his diabetes, I think we are as safe as most normal people. But one thing we never do is, tell tales about people we have met, and they want it bareback even though 90% of them put only Safe sex on there profile. Also we don't meet bi men or people who are fuck buddy's. I feel sorry who have to put safe sex on there profile because of small minded, and I include some none smokers in that, just because of them people who think there so political correct, we say each to there own, and don't judge in anyway, so if you don't do bareback, or won't meet smokers, that's fine just don't have a go at people who do, your swinging, do you tell your family's or friends? I don't think so.

Rant over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What bareback means ?

Riding a horse without a saddle "

Ohhh, sounds very risky!

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By *angerdaveMan
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Bareback sex only "
and for me dont do small condoms so it bareback for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does any 1 suck or lick pussy with a condom on .....

Same thing bb ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does any 1 suck or lick pussy with a condom on .....

Same thing bb ......"

I "licked a pussy" whilst wearing a condom once, didn't feel any safer to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do alot. I get checked regular. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback sex only and for me dont do small condoms so it bareback for me "

Mysize do small condoms problem solved

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Are you working for Sydney University?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What bareback means ?

Riding a horse without a saddle

Ohhh, sounds very risky! "

About 100 people die each year riding a horse and more than 3,500 riding a bicycle. Now, where is my horse?

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

100% always have used condoms when playing and have never even thought of going bareback. Plus every lady I've played with has never said that she wanted bareback either. So in my experience I'd say a very high majority play safe, well safer at least.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes done it in the heat of the moment when it felt 'right', hes the only guy I've been with from fab in a very long time and we meet regularly now. I'm not meeting single fellas since taking it further with my man and will take extra precautions when playing with ladies. I get regularly tested every 12-16 weeks (peace of mind and all that) and so far I've been completely clean. I feel very lucky to be able to trust him and vice versa

Do all you people that get sti/hiv testing every 3 month feel any shame about wasting tax payers money?

I read on these forums daily people on fab saying the are tested every 3 months couples/women/men/tv/tg and they are clean and disease free... So that got me thinking that these people are wasting millions of dollars of tax payers money on unnecessary testing. I'm all for everyone being clean but if people used free condoms and get tested maybe once a year the NHS could save millions of pounds.... that can be used for new facilities and more staff.... So better patient care for everyone.

So if you guys all shag with condoms and get tested once a year, you could save your country money..

That is a very good point!! .

I don't know what the actual cost of a STI test is but there could well be savings if there was, say, only an annual test. They could also stop GUM clinics giving out free condoms to save money too. Perhaps the money saved could be used to find how to prevent diseases not prevented by condom use?

Thinking about it, the cost of a STI test for what is a wholy natural human act essential to the continued existence of the human race, is probably considerably less than, for example, the cost of resetting broken bones. So more savings could come by refusing treatment to people who play sport, bungie jump, cycle, ski, box, marshal arts, etc. The list is endless!!!

Obviously the cost of cancer care could be slashed dramatically if smokers were turned away at the door.

I think we could be onto something here. Will you draft the white paper or shall I? "

I'm starting to like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unbelievable things said in here, yes we have done both with and without, but seeing as we only meet people about twice a year, and hubby has checks every month because of his diabetes, I think we are as safe as most normal people. But one thing we never do is, tell tales about people we have met, and they want it bareback even though 90% of them put only Safe sex on there profile. Also we don't meet bi men or people who are fuck buddy's. I feel sorry who have to put safe sex on there profile because of small minded, and I include some none smokers in that, just because of them people who think there so political correct, we say each to there own, and don't judge in anyway, so if you don't do bareback, or won't meet smokers, that's fine just don't have a go at people who do, your swinging, do you tell your family's or friends? I don't think so.

Rant over x"

Very good post... but on the forums you will find that it's a totalitarian police state.... you will find the bareback police , cheating police, dick pic police, single men are the worst police and the I'm blocking you police.

Be very careful around these parts because if you write what is really on your mind.. You will be banned and blocked from the forums.

If you want to stay on the forums and Not get arrested by these officers .. post in ever kiss,fuck , pass thread. Call anyone who doesn't do interracial sex a racist.. Never call a woman unattractive , anytime a woman post a moaning thread make sure to send hugs , anytime a single guy post the same moaning thread make sure to attack him and show everyone why you're better , Always give a new user the same advice when asked for profile help , and lastly....this is very important .... when commenting on women's pics and profile on the forums always say they are beautiful and you wish they were closer.....

God speed my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is the big issue. If we are honest most of us prefer it but never on a one off meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do it all the time an

Love it an I know a lot of ppl on here m&f that do it to

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


"Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread. "

????????

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


"Unbelievable things said in here, yes we have done both with and without, but seeing as we only meet people about twice a year, and hubby has checks every month because of his diabetes, I think we are as safe as most normal people. But one thing we never do is, tell tales about people we have met, and they want it bareback even though 90% of them put only Safe sex on there profile. Also we don't meet bi men or people who are fuck buddy's. I feel sorry who have to put safe sex on there profile because of small minded, and I include some none smokers in that, just because of them people who think there so political correct, we say each to there own, and don't judge in anyway, so if you don't do bareback, or won't meet smokers, that's fine just don't have a go at people who do, your swinging, do you tell your family's or friends? I don't think so.

Rant over x

Very good post... but on the forums you will find that it's a totalitarian police state.... you will find the bareback police , cheating police, dick pic police, single men are the worst police and the I'm blocking you police.

Be very careful around these parts because if you write what is really on your mind.. You will be banned and blocked from the forums.

If you want to stay on the forums and Not get arrested by these officers .. post in ever kiss,fuck , pass thread. Call anyone who doesn't do interracial sex a racist.. Never call a woman unattractive , anytime a woman post a moaning thread make sure to send hugs , anytime a single guy post the same moaning thread make sure to attack him and show everyone why you're better , Always give a new user the same advice when asked for profile help , and lastly....this is very important .... when commenting on women's pics and profile on the forums always say they are beautiful and you wish they were closer.....

God speed my friend "

That's Classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had bareback sex plenty of times, I love it, hence why I get myself checked out often.

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


"Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread.

only if someone who has barebacked quotes you. "

PMSL. ??

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

After a disastrous meet who flopped when the condom was rolled on. I always ask now about condom flop.

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread. "

HIV is the least of your worries, it's gonorea and syphilis that's vile, HIV isn't the death sentence it used to be. That said I'd rather not catch anything from anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I'm going to catch AIDS from this thread.

HIV is the least of your worries, it's gonorea and syphilis that's vile, HIV isn't the death sentence it used to be. That said I'd rather not catch anything from anybody. "

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"After a disastrous meet who flopped when the condom was rolled on. I always ask now about condom flop."

Haha, maybe just asking the question will be enough to give them the flop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love bareback and spunky creampies.

I would love to here from any couples or females who are into this aswell

Message me direct

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a random meet ....no. Always have supplies.

With someone I can trust....yes. Knew her history implicitly.

I was the only person she fucked in a period of just over two years.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I love that the forum regular I met and did with has casually not added to this thread lol

I am tested regularly and play safe as a rule. I do have one trusted regular I bb with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not barebacked anyone since my ex girlfriend from January 2015.

I would be up for it but it all depends on the variables.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes, and it was straight down to the clap clinic the following day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have to wait at least 2 weeks before you can get tested as there is a gestation period.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Who has done it on a meet in the heat of the moment.....or with someone you 'trust' ? "

Nope. My meet almost always ended as oral anyway.

I don't like anal.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Don't have to wait at least 2 weeks before you can get tested as there is a gestation period. "

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with Dorian. Wouldn't with anyone else.

~Mia

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Can't believe there are folks that have done it and live to tell the tail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always play safe exept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe there are folks that have done it and live to tell the tail "

So you believe that everyone that has bareback sex will die?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe there are folks that have done it and live to tell the tail

So you believe that everyone that has bareback sex will die? "

He must have seen bareback sex while they played Russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe there are folks that have done it and live to tell the tail "

And lived!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe there are folks that have done it and live to tell the tail "

Every day, we give thanks to the stars that we're still here. And after having had bareback once too .

We must be medical freaks of nature.

Or just maybe, not everyone carries life limiting infections. I suggest you do a little research before making stupid statements like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. A girl I dated for a few months.

We were wrestling naked (as you do) and as I was tickling her she bucked and I slipped in.

It was an immediate, 'Oh, okay then', and then I put a glove on it and had a lovely morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What bareback means ?

Riding a horse without a saddle

Ohhh, sounds very risky! "

Oh it is. Only the most highly trained of us can pull this off

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By *uddyandhouseCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Can't believe there are folks that have done it and live to tell the tail

Every day, we give thanks to the stars that we're still here. And after having had bareback once too .

We must be medical freaks of nature.

Or just maybe, not everyone carries life limiting infections. I suggest you do a little research before making stupid statements like that. "

I thought the original comment was actually told with tongue in cheek. Was this a serious comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do bareback most of the time XXX

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I do bareback most of the time XXX"

Ditto.

Incidentally if anyone reading this is so horrified and revolted by this behaviour we are not really upset if you wish to instantly block us

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"I do bareback most of the time XXX

Ditto.

Incidentally if anyone reading this is so horrified and revolted by this behaviour we are not really upset if you wish to instantly block us"

Same goes for us too.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I do bareback most of the time XXX

Ditto.

Incidentally if anyone reading this is so horrified and revolted by this behaviour we are not really upset if you wish to instantly block us

Same goes for us too. "

It saves us all time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always play safe exept "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met on here in another life.

It got really steamy but stopped at oral as we didn't have protection..tooooo risky I feel

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We play bare together but never with anyone else, apart from oral.

We've also both had sex with previous long term partners without protection... It's necessary to have children

I'm not going to moralise, we're all adults so others can do as they want...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with bareback. Just like all forms of sex, it's risky. You can't mitigate all the risks, but you just have to try your best to lower the risks.

I prefer it but have not barebacked anyone since my ex.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I ALWAYS have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Anyone else, I treat them as if they were carriers of the bubonic plague and HIV and worse. Double condomes, Hazmat suits, the works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ALWAYS have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Anyone else, I treat them as if they were carriers of the bubonic plague and HIV and worse. Double condomes, Hazmat suits, the works "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ALWAYS have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Anyone else, I treat them as if they were carriers of the bubonic plague and HIV and worse. Double condomes, Hazmat suits, the works "

So kissing is definitely out of the question?.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I ALWAYS have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Anyone else, I treat them as if they were carriers of the bubonic plague and HIV and worse. Double condomes, Hazmat suits, the works

So kissing is definitely out of the question?.

"

Ofcourse not

Dental dam, condom on tongue, mouth full of antiseptic and anti-viral meds; job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *FuckWellMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm not willing to risk my health... I can do bareback with people I trust. Definitely I won't do with anyone from here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ALWAYS have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Anyone else, I treat them as if they were carriers of the bubonic plague and HIV and worse. Double condomes, Hazmat suits, the works

So kissing is definitely out of the question?.

Ofcourse not

Dental dam, condom on tongue, mouth full of antiseptic and anti-viral meds; job done "

Great ..... our first meet will be in a clinic.... I'm not paying for all that stuff

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Hubby only our health is far too important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby only our health is far too important "

I heard from a few bare backers that if you jump up and down 3 times and scream Bloody Mary after bare back sex you're immune for sti's and HIV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...i cum too fast and rely on Durex Performa to go into 'stallion mode'

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"I'm not willing to risk my health... I can do bareback with people I trust. Definitely I won't do with anyone from here..."

Have I got this right, you don't trust anyone on here?

So why are you on here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"

This forum is good for knowing who to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only done BB with long term girlfriends. Never on here... would only do it if I met them quite a few times to build up trust and become a regular fuck buddie.

Must admit though it really turns me on thinking about it. Especially if it was a couple and we were friends. wow lol x

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By *at clamburgerMan
over a year ago

northwood

yes in sept this year a good friend and was all over her face ...and she rubbed it in..half indian half french and 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still a bear back virgin closest I've got is pussy lips rubbing over my shaft and dome with teasing round entrance

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

Is it true, are there really people (by people, I mean adults) that have never had sex without a condom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it true, are there really people (by people, I mean adults) that have never had sex without a condom?"

Shhhhhhhh, it's only a rumour whispered about behind closed doors and barricades.

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

When I was a lad we only used condoms if the lady was not on the pill. I can understand the younger generation having bareback virgins, not people my age.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Mommy, mommy, where do babies come from?

Father Christmas brings them through the chminey [ a fat man comes behind your father's back and barebacks ]

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