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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are people so reluctant to attend a socially organised swinging meet within a pub, does it purely come down to the problem of discretion, i am talking about a group meet as regarding this, your comments please...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who has attended a socially organised meet in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't aware people were reluctant, I've been to a few. Maybe the ones who are reluctant aren't single?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have and lots of people do.

New people who are reluctant mught be people who will never do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do socials, we get very few nights out so when we do have a free evening we like to make the most out of it by going to a club. I'm not certain we'd go to socials even if we had more time, but that's not down to potential lack of discretion just we like clubs.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Have you announced to the site that there's a social on a particular date, or have you messaged your favourite locals and invited them individually?

I ask because I can't see the announcement via the green arrow, and can completely see why an invite to a "group" social from OP may go unaccepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would attend a social if the timing was right i have no problems meeting in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've arranged a few and had very good attendance.

I've attended a couple arranged by others and they have been poorly attended.

Some people lack the confidence to walk in to a bar alone and chat to people they don't know; some people are purely here for sexual fulfilment and have no intention of socialising; some are probably not single and therefore reluctant.

There could be many reasons but if organised well you can get some great people to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attended a few in burnham on sea.. and a few in bridgewater.

i know a few take place in exeter too

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Who has attended a socially organised meet in here "

I've attend a few love a good social me, think some are still confused their not sure how a bunch of swingers are capable of such a thing as getting together as a group and just talking they seem to think they are gonna be all naked and fucking going on or at least the people I've spoken to have thought this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has attended a socially organised meet in here "

i arrange them in my local area, thinking of doing more of them as well but in my town.

many people do want to be discrete but a social is discrete, we're not all kissing, stroking and fucking in the pub.

many people just have other commitments so can't make it to socials. timing is everything and i have people interested in coming to mine but the time isn't good for them to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only attended the one so far. It was in a pub and around 20 or so Fabbers turned out for it and I hope to attend more

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Who has attended a socially organised meet in here "

We have and they have been great fun.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I also held a social coffee morning in aid of Macmillian

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By *aris69Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We would like to attend a social but unfortunately the one nearest to us is on a evening that isn't suitable so looking for some others so if anyone is holding any in Northampton Lincolnshire or Cambridgeshire then let us know

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've been to one. Jolly good fun it was too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to one. Unfortunately I didn't stay long as my dad's next door neighbour turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a couple, I know of its advantages as it has helped me get to know the people in my area and thus arranged some play meets from them. But I can see why others may be apprehensive about turning up to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good social

My work takes me to a number of locations on a regular basis so a social drink with someone every now and again suits me perfectly. It's just a case of finding someone who is happy with the same.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

ive organised a few in a club and at a pub for a meal before hand. everyone seemed to enjoy themselves. great way to meet people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people so reluctant to attend a socially organised swinging meet within a pub, does it purely come down to the problem of discretion, i am talking about a group meet as regarding this, your comments please... "

Wasn't your name down for the ones we helped organise in a pub in Exeter or am I thinking of a completely different fresh sheets profile not that long ago ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive organised a few in a club and at a pub for a meal before hand. everyone seemed to enjoy themselves. great way to meet people x"

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