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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just received a first message from a couple who said they'd like to meet and then use me as their fuck toy.

Really???!!!

I'm definitely not easily offended and I know this is a sex site, but some people certainly need to learn to have some integrity and decency.

Anyone else experienced this often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the hubby discussed exactly this earlier as I used to be on here as single female and I said most either treat you like a piece of meat or they put you that high on a pedestal they think you are glass and will break haha, keep having fun and you will find the genuine people out there x. X

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Yep, a few times.

I got a message once off a couple I messaged about a meet they had up who demanded I go to theirs within half an hour as their two other choices hadn't turned up.... yeah, sorry I'm washing my hair

Another couple started a message to me basically accusing me of being married and cheating as I couldn't accommodate... thanks for the message, blocked

No idea why people do this crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's really not good is it. But yes, blocking and moving onto much better people is the way forward.

I'm fortunate in that I've met some extremely great respectable people on here, but some people wouldn't know what respect meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just couples, first message I got from a "woman" two days ago;

"Hey in good how are u? What you doing tonight? Fancy coming round and absolutely ruining my shit box.. it can go from my ass to my mouth however many times you want it too?"

I didn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not just couples, first message I got from a "woman" two days ago;

"Hey in good how are u? What you doing tonight? Fancy coming round and absolutely ruining my shit box.. it can go from my ass to my mouth however many times you want it too?"

I didn't "

You didn't....why ever not, how could you resist such an offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just couples, first message I got from a "woman" two days ago;

"Hey in good how are u? What you doing tonight? Fancy coming round and absolutely ruining my shit box.. it can go from my ass to my mouth however many times you want it too?"

I didn't

You didn't....why ever not, how could you resist such an offer "

I was tempted, but I had already promised to ruin another girls shit box that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens to me all the time too.

Ladies, please behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had a message that just said "want you" my response was "good for you" block.

Then another asking why was i sucking the cock of middle aged chubby men, when i could be sucking his. From a middle aged, slightly chubby, hairy as a gorilla bloke!!

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Saying that you get profiles asking for proper message, you send a decent one... It's read and no response. Good think (and you get some that will) a response saying thanks but not interested... But no. Nothing or delete lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kant said without desire there can be no objectifaction.

dunno if that helps but i don't like being treated like meat either.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"I've just received a first message from a couple who said they'd like to meet and then use me as their fuck toy.

Really???!!!

I'm definitely not easily offended and I know this is a sex site, but some people certainly need to learn to have some integrity and decency.

Anyone else experienced this often?"

Couples on here scare me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just couples, first message I got from a "woman" two days ago;

"Hey in good how are u? What you doing tonight? Fancy coming round and absolutely ruining my shit box.. it can go from my ass to my mouth however many times you want it too?"

I didn't

You didn't....why ever not, how could you resist such an offer

I was tempted, but I had already promised to ruin another girls shit box that night. "

And I waited for so long but u didn't turn up

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Not just couples, first message I got from a "woman" two days ago;

"Hey in good how are u? What you doing tonight? Fancy coming round and absolutely ruining my shit box.. it can go from my ass to my mouth however many times you want it too?"

I didn't

You didn't....why ever not, how could you resist such an offer

I was tempted, but I had already promised to ruin another girls shit box that night. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/12/16 18:08:19]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define a good message lol as I send lots out some respond some just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one today that they wanted to use me to fulfil their fantasies.

What about mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had messages from a couple and also a few guys that simply said 'send us a face pic'... not even a please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just couples, first message I got from a "woman" two days ago;

"Hey in good how are u? What you doing tonight? Fancy coming round and absolutely ruining my shit box.. it can go from my ass to my mouth however many times you want it too?"

I didn't

You didn't....why ever not, how could you resist such an offer

I was tempted, but I had already promised to ruin another girls shit box that night.

And I waited for so long but u didn't turn up "

Thought I had already ruined you?

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Omg!!! Just received this... talk about an opening message

You make my gf look like dog shit. Well done.

How am I supposed to fuck her now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had such a message.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

[Removed by poster at 23/12/16 16:26:59]

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"[Removed by poster at 23/12/16 16:26:59]"

Nor have I quite like that

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Define a good message lol as I send lots out some respond some just delete "
Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on a minute... I was expecting top tips for 100% guaranteed success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I receive a first message from a couple, it is a one liner saying something like "you available tonight" and nothing else. The poor grammar alone bugs me, but worse is the assumption that they can write what they want and single men will jump to their service. These get deleted, regardless of how hot the Mrs looks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I receive a first message from a couple, it is a one liner saying something like "you available tonight" and nothing else. The poor grammar alone bugs me, but worse is the assumption that they can write what they want and single men will jump to their service. These get deleted, regardless of how hot the Mrs looks!"

I had "where u" once that was it. Nothing else to go off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and the hubby discussed exactly this earlier as I used to be on here as single female and I said most either treat you like a piece of meat or they put you that high on a pedestal they think you are glass and will break haha, keep having fun and you will find the genuine people out there x. X"

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99 percent of messages are , quite frankly utter shite lacking in the very basics of social niceties.

Almost no one introduces themselves it's just crass, expected entitlement . Do people really , seriously think a five word sexual message is going to attract you ?

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