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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

I dont mind either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a nsa sex point of _iew sounds like it could be fun

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Role play is good in any form… I'm off this week to and wouldn't mind a road trip

Stunning pics

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By *helionheart69Man
over a year ago

telford

I think its a good idea but wouldn't be better to at least have a social meet first to get to no the person! love abit of acting and with only a couple of lines what could go wrong haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could go straight for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

I don't mind either way but then I am pretty laid back anyway

S.K.C."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very good at learning my lines

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

~My Dom and I scene a lot at clubs. im blindfolded etc. i believe he has a plot in his head and i don't know how he communicates this with others, but he manages it, we don't get any problems with others joining in xx have fun, hope it all works out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well since you are a couple and you have more than enough single men to choose from i think its fine and could be a lot of fun. Maybe even easier because there would be no small talk before getting to the good stuff

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Works for me. I would deal with it in the exact same way.

I go, I play, I leave.

End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

As I see it you ask what you are looking for and you will definitely get some takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roleplay is fine, telling me what to do and expect to comply with everything certainly not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Acting depends on a guys personality. I'm sexually dominant so I would not go along with something that requires me to be submissive.

As for acting along with a script that doesn't bother me, I have done plenty of role playing with couples before and enjoyed it. I prefer a social first with a couple, and have a good conversation about what is about to go down, make sure everyone is happy

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Ok with me too. Part of the fun for me is being a part of someone else's fantasies whatever that is (within reason of course )

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By *teveleeds58Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I think most single men would be OK with this scenario, I definitely would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing that for a chance to fuck the lady in this couple a lot of single guys would be happy to dress up as a banana and hop on one foot

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By *aycambsMan
over a year ago

brierley hill

I think most guys would be like a dog with a bone, so a high percentage. However, Im sure your experience would be enhanced if you knew the chap better....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love this. I'm free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think this would be of any interest to me ..... I suppose it's each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn't bother me. I enjoy meeting couples and following instructions. Feel free to get intouch if you would like to chat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."
I'm on here for more than my own pleasure I get turned on to see others getting fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you shooting a movie ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it doesn't surprise me so many people are jumping at the chance fwithout knowing what is actually expected of them. And OP the desperation of that is probably your biggest stumbling block.

Personally I would only be interested if the scenario matched one of my own fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it would be something I would want to do, very hot lady but the scenario isn't one that really appeals to me.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

I've done this type of thing with a couple before. I found it fun, all three of us did.

I realise some men may be put off but they should try it at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

Wouldn't mind 1 bit meet a few couple who enjoy role play & scenario based meets. Long as everyone has a goodtime its all gravy

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

I am sure there are guys who would be more than willing to do it. But, be up front about with what you want from the outset. I chatted with a couple and arranged to meet, all relaxed and nothing untoward, but then on the day of the meet (which was planned for the evening) I started getting 'instructions' - what to wear, what to say etc, it changed the whole dynamic of it for me, so I politely declined from meeting up in the end. Shame, because until that point, we were getting on really well and if they had been upfront with it, we could have at least agreed it all in advance.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Forget the social. Let's fuck

(Ooooppss, was that too explicit...?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people. Seems like most guys are up for it which is reassuring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks people. Seems like most guys are up for it which is reassuring!"

This from earlier in the thread sums it up nicely "I'm guessing that for a chance to fuck the lady in this couple a lot of single guys would be happy to dress up as a banana and hop on one foot"

As you guys are aware finding a guy on here isn't the hard thing ..... its finding the right guy for what you require from a meet is the hard part xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

I would say on this site you will get 99% participation

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."
that would be fine by me

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Am i missing something here ?

It is the OP setting up a meet.

Their ground rules, agreed beforehand.

Not agreed, no meet..........simples.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't personally.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

In short - NO! Not interested without knowing more in advance.

I was approached for some role play a while ago...along the lines of ..."it'll be dark and she wants to be raped"... which is great til the Police come knocking on the door. Then what's your excuse? Nah, no thanks. I'd want chapter and verse and confirmation from the woman that she's up for it and not an unwilling victim.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'm happy with defining basic scenarios, as long as there's room for improvisation.

A script would be a bit , but a guide of key phrases would be fine.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

Well my preference is generally to get to know a couple a bit first but, as long as I understood the scenario and was informed enough, then no issue for me.

Could be quite exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion but generally such a scenario might be more fun say second meet. We've met same guys, 2, 3 maybe 4 times and have set out role playing and it's been much more fun because one is a bit more friendly and it's not so robotic or nervous,

unless of course that is exactly what you want it to be of course. That could be your ultimate fantasy for all I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

you are kidding? most are so desperate they'd do or say anything to see ladyparts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet up first to make sure the guy is sane and to make sure that he is who he says he is!

Would hate to meet up with someone with a cloned or fake profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like role play, so I George would be happy to go along with this,

I like to give pleasure to others and find it a turn on to make others fantasys cum true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no problem in this. It's all fun and sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it bother a single guy if he was required to act a certain way at a meet?

Basically we are considering a meet with a single guy but with minimal talking and a bit of a script for the sex that goes down. On the one hand we understand this would be treating somebody like an object, but on the other hand it's very much no strings sex with the very attractive half of our couple

Just wondering what percentage of guys insist on a social aspect of a meet?

Thanks

S.K.C."

I think you'd get a lot of interest and would be spoilt for choice, I'd certainly be up for it.

Lots of people like something a little bit different.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the great thing about life is that whatever your thing is, there are enough people out there where they will fulfill it... or act as if they will to get there legover.... as can be seen in this thread!

does that kinda meet work for me personally..... not really.....i like to get a much better sense of the people i am playing with, but i wish ya god speed anyway.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chat just action can be good specially if it's a blind meet

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'd be interested. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'scripted' sex ...wow, that sounds totally relaxed, natural and hot...

Said no one I know..

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"'scripted' sex ...wow, that sounds totally relaxed, natural and hot...

Said no one I know.."

I can understand that response from some, probably most... I'd probably have said the same a couple of years ago. but also it could be a fun and exciting thing to do.

I play a lot of different characters and personas in my hobbies and I'm quite different when I'm Dom with my lady too, so I can relate to this working for some as well.

Each to their own. I hope the OP's find the right person.

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By *eacsMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Absolutely no probs!!! Love being an object!!!!!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"'scripted' sex ...wow, that sounds totally relaxed, natural and hot...

Said no one I know.."

There's a difference between very prescriptive sex which as you point out can be not very exciting

To pre-discussed and agreed roleplay which is what I expect is happening here - as long as the scenarios are something that sexually excite all sides roleplay can be very hot and exciting

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