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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to chat quite a lot on a meet in between the fun, but think I maybe chat too open and too honestly. I think I maybe talk about personal subects too much.

Curious to know if others chat, and to what level i.e. just general lighthearted chit chat or subjects of a more personal level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I do same, reckon it's nerves for me, the last guy I met textedme after thanked me for meeting, that I was gorgeous etc not a word since oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can be the same if the guy doesn't tire me out. some guys love chatting and some like listening so it works out ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i can be the same if the guy doesn't tire me out. some guys love chatting and some like listening so it works out ok. "

The men I meet enjoy the chat side too, but I think I may just talk too personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find myself a listener a very good one to be honest. unless i have a mutual interest i can be chatty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can be the same if the guy doesn't tire me out. some guys love chatting and some like listening so it works out ok.

The men I meet enjoy the chat side too, but I think I may just talk too personally. "

if i meet guys with autism who are very chatty it doesn my head in coz i can't get a word in lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find myself a listener a very good one to be honest. unless i have a mutual interest i can be chatty "

can you still post in that game? i've OD'd on drinking chocolate here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alas no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no"

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here. "

oh dear hope you have everything ready just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here.

oh dear hope you have everything ready just in case "

in case of what?

i have more drinking chocolate if that's what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here.

oh dear hope you have everything ready just in case

in case of what?

i have more drinking chocolate if that's what you mean?"

yes in case of the come down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here.

oh dear hope you have everything ready just in case

in case of what?

i have more drinking chocolate if that's what you mean?

yes in case of the come down"

will i get a hangover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here.

oh dear hope you have everything ready just in case

in case of what?

i have more drinking chocolate if that's what you mean?

yes in case of the come down

will i get a hangover? "

similar or as we know it sugar crash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alas no

i can still post. don't care if i win, am buzzing off chocolate here.

oh dear hope you have everything ready just in case

in case of what?

i have more drinking chocolate if that's what you mean?

yes in case of the come down

will i get a hangover?

similar or as we know it sugar crash"

never had one before, but i've never had this much drinking chocolate before. not looking forward to it but am getting sleepy now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys "

it is cadburys drinking chocolate. my teeth feel all gritty after drinking it and i don't like that but it tasted ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys "

i have roses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to chat quite a lot on a meet in between the fun, but think I maybe chat too open and too honestly. I think I maybe talk about personal subects too much.

Curious to know if others chat, and to what level i.e. just general lighthearted chit chat or subjects of a more personal level."

I gab nonstop but nothing personal or too heavy...lighthearted TV/news/food/holidays etc. Any personal questions I swerve and I'm not interested enough to ask any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

i have roses "

I'll be over in 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

i have roses

I'll be over in 5 "

do hurry before i eat them all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

i have roses

I'll be over in 5

do hurry before i eat them all "

I hope you've left the soft centred ones for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

i have roses

I'll be over in 5

do hurry before i eat them all

I hope you've left the soft centred ones for me"

strawberry and orange of course x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going.."

I become too comfortable though I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

i have roses

I'll be over in 5

do hurry before i eat them all

I hope you've left the soft centred ones for me

strawberry and orange of course x"

How can I resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon."
well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate hot chocolate. If I'm to have chocolate, it has to be a proper bar of Cadburys

i have roses

I'll be over in 5

do hurry before i eat them all

I hope you've left the soft centred ones for me

strawberry and orange of course x

How can I resist "

no need to just go with the flow like conversation let it happen and see where it leads. with the right person it leads to good things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X"

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X"

He was definitely interested, and keen to chat. It's myself that I struggle with lol I think I just should just stick with talking about the weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him. "

and did you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?"

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer."

very good call id say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer.

very good call id say "

don't see the point in having sex you won't enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer.

very good call id say

don't see the point in having sex you won't enjoy."

Exactly. I'd rather go without than have sex that not enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer.

very good call id say

don't see the point in having sex you won't enjoy.

Exactly. I'd rather go without than have sex that not enjoyable."

not had much crap sex of here luckily.

well think i've got my sugar low now so off to sleep. night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say the same to be honest. i do get someone who randomly messages now and then that im not interested in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer.

very good call id say

don't see the point in having sex you won't enjoy.

Exactly. I'd rather go without than have sex that not enjoyable.

not had much crap sex of here luckily.

well think i've got my sugar low now so off to sleep. night."

Sleep well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

i had a guy do that, he sat there on a social for 2 hours bored shitless just for a fuck. i didn't even wanna fuck him.

and did you?

no. i spent some time trying to think of an excuse, but couldn't think of one. so he walked me home and i just said thanks and bye, he asked to come in for a coffee and i said i'd rather not.

felt a bit mean but i did buy his drinks so he didn't feel like he'd wasted money coming to see me. i just didn't fancy him and the fact he'd sit there not enjoying my company for a fuck was even more of a passion killer.

very good call id say

don't see the point in having sex you won't enjoy.

Exactly. I'd rather go without than have sex that not enjoyable.

not had much crap sex of here luckily.

well think i've got my sugar low now so off to sleep. night."

well thats good to see good night sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

He was definitely interested, and keen to chat. It's myself that I struggle with lol I think I just should just stick with talking about the weather "
struggle with what saying to much just keep some in till the 2nd meet lol. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

He was definitely interested, and keen to chat. It's myself that I struggle with lol I think I just should just stick with talking about the weather struggle with what saying to much just keep some in till the 2nd meet lol. X"

I chat too honest and openly,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to get a meet to actually partake in open conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need to get a meet to actually partake in open conversation "

Keep persevering, you've been lucky and had meets in the past.

I'm sending you virtual hugs and kisses too, I could do with lots of those today too. X

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I can hold a meaningful conversation with a brick wall

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can hold a meaningful conversation with a brick wall "

Haha not always good though being meaningful. Sometimes I just want to talk about random, crazy funny things. Can you also do that with a brick wall?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I dont like talking about myself its not a good idea to tell people you meet too much about yourself i dont think. Im not bothered about talking only about having sex, i like the conversation to be lighthearted small talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how long I've known them for, I'm more open with time.

There are probably two men I've met from here that know quite a bit about my personal life & vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hold a meaningful conversation with a brick wall "

I can hold a meaningful conversation with 2 brick walls and a cealing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's what ever you feel comfortable talking about to me anything that keeps the conversation going..

I become too comfortable though I reckon. well look at your meet see if there doing facial expressions example boring faces or ones they just don't seem interested in. X

He was definitely interested, and keen to chat. It's myself that I struggle with lol I think I just should just stick with talking about the weather struggle with what saying to much just keep some in till the 2nd meet lol. X

I chat too honest and openly, "
well if you like doing that then keep it going wouldn't recommend doing it with strangers tho Just for your safety x

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We talk about anything and everything depending on where the conversation goes. P is the most chatty and just comes out with whatever random thoughts enter her brain...Even while riding someone she can just start a bizarre chat but guess that's all part of her charm.

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