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Verifications - turn on or turn off??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I the only one who finds many many verifications a turn off?? Maybe I'm not cut out for this swinging lark?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Some do, some don't.

I display most of mine as they aren't the usual 'great fuck' type and so I think they tell a bit more about me from others point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people have a lot of verifications it usually means they've been swinging for a few years, 4 in our case, also as people leave so does their review, but the number stays up, ie the amount that profile has received up to the time you read the profile. Also some veris are webcams/ social ones, and if you attend a club/ party you will end up with more than one verification from that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

That's what I mean... I get nothing from that. Each to their own though...

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over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

last years hidden, this years showing. veris dont tell the whole picture anyway, i dont verify everyone, including repeat meets, they give an idea of peoples perceptions of you, if you are active socially or otherwise..as long as a person has some, cant say i take that much notice.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Am I the only one who finds many many verifications a turn off?? Maybe I'm not cut out for this swinging lark? "

Maybe you're not?

But swinging is more about having sex with other people than reading or writing verifications, so you can probably decide for yourself if it is or isn't depending on how much you enjoy the sex with others bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo a turn off .... we have a rule shallow as it may sound more than 10 is a no no just our preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

I think it's sad that men still have this sort of mind -set, it's a Swinging site and we are here for sex. It's only coz guys out-number girls that the veris aren't evened-out. Veris don't mean that much either, I have been to parties and played with one guy, but had half a dozen veris saying what a laugh we had and that we must play next time. Then I could hide veris or ask guys not to verify me...i had one guy do that to me, he didn't want a veri, as he was concerned that he looked like a male slut, he had so many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

6? In one whole month? What a hussy

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

A woman who enjoys sex?! Disgraceful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deffo a turn off .... we have a rule shallow as it may sound more than 10 is a no no just our preference"

Are you going to stop swinging once you have 10 verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

Oh no, how terrible!!!!! What a slut, whatever next on a swinging site? I hope you realise that some people hide their verification's, so really you have no idea whose been with who and when and where, someone with 2 veris over the last year, could be shagging bareback everyday with different people, you would have no idea.

Get out your own arse, and stop judging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deffo a turn off .... we have a rule shallow as it may sound more than 10 is a no no just our preference"

So you are going to stop swinging when you reach 10?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

Lovely to see judgemental people on a swinging site. So what she's met 6 different men?! I could have fucked 10 today and not got a single veri and you would be none the wiser. Men with this sort of attitude really should go to virginsrus instead of fab swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sheesh, Victorian standards still seem to apply for some people.

Sod the number of veris, if you click and get on then whats the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

Oh no, how terrible!!!!! What a slut, whatever next on a swinging site? I hope you realise that some people hide their verification's, so really you have no idea whose been with who and when and where, someone with 2 veris over the last year, could be shagging bareback everyday with different people, you would have no idea.

Get out your own arse, and stop judging. "

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

If no thing else they prove your genuine and a nice person or not x

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"sheesh, Victorian standards still seem to apply for some people.

Sod the number of veris, if you click and get on then whats the issue?

"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Some odd responses... At least they seem that way given this is a sex site.

For me verification means they are who they say and some of them give you a flavour of the person. To be honest I rarely read them...

I certainly wouldn't be put off whether someone had 2 or 200.

Nita

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

But surely, by definition this is a swinging site i.e. People meet to have sex! So I'm perplexed with your comments... but hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an absolute joke !

People join a swinging site and come out with comments like some of the above . 6 veris in a month is wrong , more than 10 too many , etc....

Swinging is about sharing fun with others without fear of judgement , yet the most judgemental are fellow supposed swingers ?

Well I guess over the past few months we have wondered why we use fab , as there are so many people on here who clearly haven't got a clue about the ethos of this lifestyle . And posts like this highlight the reality of the average persons perspective .

6 meets in a month with different people is great , and what it's all about . It's perfectly feasible to have six in one night if it's a good party , and if that's not your idea of the kind of person you wish to meet then fine . But to slag them off on a swingers site is ridiculous .

I would say each to their own and all that , but seriously , this place is becoming less and less like a swinging site and more and more like a place for people to join up and judge swingers lifestyle choices . Crazy ....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Deffo a turn off .... we have a rule shallow as it may sound more than 10 is a no no just our preference

Are you going to stop swinging once you have 10 verifications?"

Particularly as they seem to have quite a lot of swinging experience.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

So she went to a social maybe?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I show the one that says I'm a shit shag and one that says I'm slightly better than a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deffo a turn off .... we have a rule shallow as it may sound more than 10 is a no no just our preference"

What do do when you get to 10 ? Leave and start a new profile and become a born again swinger ?

95% of my veris are from socials so people can judge if they wish. At the end of the day it's no one's business who I fuck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I show the one that says I'm a shit shag and one that says I'm slightly better than a wank. "
and another where I wasn't where we'd agreed to meet.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It's the quality of verifications, i.e. what they say and the insight they might give about someone, that interests me rather than the quantity.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Most of mine are from socials

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I don't display them publically, neither ask for veris.

My sexual encounters concern just me and my partners...

Adrian

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have a lot of verifications and a lot of them are from socials. If people don't want to meet me because I'm sociable then I don't want to meet them because I don't like people who make judgements based on erroneous assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear maybe we should just hide most of ours then we may get a chance to play with the wonderful, judgemental elite, quality not quantity people.......

Oh wait, we don't want to, we just play with fun, sexy and non judgemental people xx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"What an absolute joke !

People join a swinging site and come out with comments like some of the above . 6 veris in a month is wrong , more than 10 too many , etc....

Swinging is about sharing fun with others without fear of judgement , yet the most judgemental are fellow supposed swingers ?

Well I guess over the past few months we have wondered why we use fab , as there are so many people on here who clearly haven't got a clue about the ethos of this lifestyle . And posts like this highlight the reality of the average persons perspective .

6 meets in a month with different people is great , and what it's all about . It's perfectly feasible to have six in one night if it's a good party , and if that's not your idea of the kind of person you wish to meet then fine . But to slag them off on a swingers site is ridiculous .

I would say each to their own and all that , but seriously , this place is becoming less and less like a swinging site and more and more like a place for people to join up and judge swingers lifestyle choices . Crazy .... "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

But you weren't one of the men getting sex.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

My wifes profile would send you into a spin ! she has approx 130+ on her verifs mostly guys and couples in about 3 months ..... but then she does help with a big social down here and can have 30 in one night !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deffo a turn off .... we have a rule shallow as it may sound more than 10 is a no no just our preference

Are you going to stop swinging once you have 10 verifications?"

I was thinking that. Can't have one rule for you and other rules for another.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm glad this thread has highlighted how ridiculous some people are.

How do you know if the veris are from a social? Or every person they've met has verified them? Or that they have eleven from their old profile and seven on their current?

Utter bs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear maybe we should just hide most of ours then we may get a chance to play with the wonderful, judgemental elite, quality not quantity people.......

Oh wait, we don't want to, we just play with fun, sexy and non judgemental people xx"

261? How very dare you we've only got 75!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them. I like to see what kind of person im meeting etc. I dont care if they're graphic or if there's loads.

If someone didn't want to meet because of my veris then theyre aren't the type I want to meet anywhere.

Im here to fuck men and women.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

But you weren't one of the men getting sex..... "

I think that might be the problem

Nita

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Great filter thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

Doesnt mean she met them all within that month some men have have left then returned and sent her another veri

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

What if each of those men had met her three times and didn't veri her the second and third time?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Just because you have a lot of veris it doesn't mean you've shagged them all!! Some might be from the social side of things to

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Doesn't bother me. I think mine show my personality which I'm happy with.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

But you weren't one of the men getting sex..... "
well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your responses guys and gals.

It's good to get different perspectives. I'm new to all of this and I'm still getting my head around swinging life.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Depends how many years youve been on here .... if you have a couple a week ... then I wouldnt bother .... im not looking for guys who want notches on bed posts ...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

That's what I mean... I get nothing from that. Each to their own though..."

Oh dear

We could probably get 6 in a night if we wanted... We like clubs and group sex

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why anyone needs to announce that they may have lots of verifications but lots are from socials, surely that's just pandering to the judgemental? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

What if each of those men had met her three times and didn't veri her the second and third time? "

Shock horror!!!!!!!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

You usually find those that are against verifications are the one's that don't have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why anyone needs to announce that they may have lots of verifications but lots are from socials, surely that's just pandering to the judgemental? X"

Probably more social verifications than any other sort on here !

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have a few verifications but we haven't fucked them all. Most are from socials. I don't think it's right being judged from verifications as people may only show 5 but have fucked a lot more for example, they are not a trusting way of judging people.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

What if each of those men had met her three times and didn't veri her the second and third time?

Shock horror!!!!!!! "

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

After 6 odd years on here I can honestly say swingers are the single most judgemental people on others sex lives I have met.

Can't accommodate? Cheating male.

Bi-curious? Must be banging every TV on site.

Lots of veris? Ewwww, how unpleasant...

BBW? Eat less pies...

Into kink? Some kind of deviant...

Bi-sexual? Will grab your cock at first opportunity...

We all make judgements on folk, it's human nature. But why is it necessary to have a go at people because they do things different?

As long as it's informed and consensual I don't care.

I find it a useful filter to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You usually find those that are against verifications are the one's that don't have any."

Yea, I've noticed that too!!! Would love to know what these perfect people would do, after been on here for a while, had a few meets, attended clubs and parties, and suddenly they have too many verification's, it's just laughable.

And it's already been said, veris are not gospel, that everyone signs up to tell the truth, and the whole truth.

Get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean does it really matter?

I would however just like to see one that says couldn't or hasn't;

Breathe through his ears

Sucks like a dyson

Had me cumming in no time

Has a gorgeous cock

Had me hard in not time

Made me gush for England

...............et al!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to know what some people thought about ours.

This is a swinging site, it's a site that was created for people to meet others for sexual satisfaction and encounters.

I would rather see a lot of good verifications proving they are genuine; rather than a members profile that is over year with no verifications that makes me think is the profile real.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Would love to know what some people thought about ours.

This is a swinging site, it's a site that was created for people to meet others for sexual satisfaction and encounters.

I would rather see a lot of good verifications proving they are genuine; rather than a members profile that is over year with no verifications that makes me think is the profile real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

Would your opinion be the same if it was a guy with 6 verifications by 6 different women in a month

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Not sure why anyone needs to announce that they may have lots of verifications but lots are from socials, surely that's just pandering to the judgemental? X"

It's just to point out that quantity does not mean sex, as one poster thought would be horrible i.e. a woman having lots of sex.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Not sure why anyone needs to announce that they may have lots of verifications but lots are from socials, surely that's just pandering to the judgemental? X

Probably more social verifications than any other sort on here !

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Yes, it's a swinging site not a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the thing is they may have been ages apart and just done them in the same month hence why she had 6 in a month ! We forget to do them for a while them send them out in bulk lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Not sure why anyone needs to announce that they may have lots of verifications but lots are from socials, surely that's just pandering to the judgemental? X

Probably more social verifications than any other sort on here !

Yes, it's a swinging site not a sex site "

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

You mean there are women out there who enjoys sex as much as men?

How shocking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd avoid me then op.

I get veris off very few meets (I'm a shit fuck) so even though I have lots I actually have had more pricks than a well used darts board (as another poster so eloquently put it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why anyone needs to announce that they may have lots of verifications but lots are from socials, surely that's just pandering to the judgemental? X

Probably more social verifications than any other sort on here !

Yes, it's a swinging site not a sex site "

Well the two go together for some of us .

We see swinging as an opportunity to engage in all manner of sexual fun with other like minded people .

Every one of our veris is from a sexual meet ... we don't do the social side .

And we aren't at all ashamed of that fact .

Nor should anyone else be , and please stop the veris could be from a social comments . Why should it matter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

What exactly are you doing on here? Because I can tell you now, you're not going to find the Virgin you are obviously looking for, on here.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"
ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?

What exactly are you doing on here? Because I can tell you now, you're not going to find the Virgin you are obviously looking for, on here. "

Virgin on the ridiculous more like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard."
you do realise its a swinging / sex site.. and that even someone with a few may have had sex with loads more...

Op... dont turn me on or off but do have a nosey. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. "

Stop boasting, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we never meet any couple that's never been verified it normally meens there fake if they have no verys so it works 4 us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?

What exactly are you doing on here? Because I can tell you now, you're not going to find the Virgin you are obviously looking for, on here.

Virgin on the ridiculous more like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd avoid me then op.

I get veris off very few meets (I'm a shit fuck) so even though I have lots I actually have had more pricks than a well used darts board (as another poster so eloquently put it) "

Almost 50 meets in a year how very dare enjoy your sex life incase it upsets others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

Of course it's something to be proud of !

She wouldn't display them if she wasn't proud of them and why shouldn't she be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

Maybe she was just being open, honest and true to herself - but like it says about you on your profile? If it bothers you that much perhaps this site isn't for you and your judgemental close minded views.

No one expects to come on here and be shamed about their sexual exploits

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Ive seem a fem profile with 118 veri's i think good on you girl your useing fab for a swinging site,

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

Stop boasting, lol.

"
naughty kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we never meet any couple that's never been verified it normally meens there fake if they have no verys so it works 4 us"

I agree a bit but what if it's a new account?? You don't sign up and get a free verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. "

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day. "
love a bit of tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. "
fun isnt it. Ive had many a session with multiple guys and no idea who.. so no verifications...

Must do it again soon... and Mr is partial to a few ladies in an evening when we get a chance. In fact one gg night we went to he played with nearly every lady there

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. fun isnt it. Ive had many a session with multiple guys and no idea who.. so no verifications...

Must do it again soon... and Mr is partial to a few ladies in an evening when we get a chance. In fact one gg night we went to he played with nearly every lady there "
its a hell of a lot of fun..havent actually been to a gg night yet..its on the list..lets make it a new year resolution to keep having, our sort of fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day. love a bit of tart "

mmmm cherry bakewell....oops wrong sort of tart.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day. love a bit of tart

mmmm cherry bakewell....oops wrong sort of tart.

"
eat one off the other? (i didnt say which way round )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. fun isnt it. Ive had many a session with multiple guys and no idea who.. so no verifications...

Must do it again soon... and Mr is partial to a few ladies in an evening when we get a chance. In fact one gg night we went to he played with nearly every lady there its a hell of a lot of fun..havent actually been to a gg night yet..its on the list..lets make it a new year resolution to keep having, our sort of fun xx "

Excellent idea.. and you should try one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day. love a bit of tart

mmmm cherry bakewell....oops wrong sort of tart.

eat one off the other? (i didnt say which way round )"

is that with whipped cream or ice cream?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naaaa i like to read veris ...shows what a lovely person they are ...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day. love a bit of tart

mmmm cherry bakewell....oops wrong sort of tart.

eat one off the other? (i didnt say which way round )

is that with whipped cream or ice cream?"
hey i dont like being in charge..not my department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

And yet I bet if you had 6 good veris from 6 women in a great night in a club or at a party you would be quite proud of that?

Too many double standards here. It is a swingers site, for swingers ffs. Try match....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. "

We had 12 single guys come round that emptied their sacks over me i was tied, blindfolded and gagged, a few hours after that a couple came round with another single guy. All I can say it was very wet n wild night/morning the only thing I wasng proud of was also not being able to get all their verification lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

You total tart, none of the respectable men on here, will want you ever again!!!!!! But then again? Who wants respectable, give me filth any day. love a bit of tart

mmmm cherry bakewell....oops wrong sort of tart.

eat one off the other? (i didnt say which way round )

is that with whipped cream or ice cream?hey i dont like being in charge..not my department "

Ice cream it is then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had 12 single guys come round that emptied their sacks over me i was tied, blindfolded and gagged, a few hours after that a couple came round with another single guy. All I can say it was very wet n wild night/morning the only thing I wasng proud of was also not being able to get all their verification lol

Sounds like night at ours lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

We had 12 single guys come round that emptied their sacks over me i was tied, blindfolded and gagged, a few hours after that a couple came round with another single guy. All I can say it was very wet n wild night/morning the only thing I wasng proud of was also not being able to get all their verification lol "
sounds awesome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

We had 12 single guys come round that emptied their sacks over me i was tied, blindfolded and gagged, a few hours after that a couple came round with another single guy. All I can say it was very wet n wild night/morning the only thing I wasng proud of was also not being able to get all their verification lol sounds awesome xx"

It was lol took 2 days for carpet to dry lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had 12 single guys come round that emptied their sacks over me i was tied, blindfolded and gagged, a few hours after that a couple came round with another single guy. All I can say it was very wet n wild night/morning the only thing I wasng proud of was also not being able to get all their verification lol

Sounds like night at ours lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

Not anything to be ashamed of certainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?

Not anything to be ashamed of certainly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

Wow what a terrible woman for enjoying lots of sex !!!

You do realise that people can hide their veris and then you wouldnt know if they had met 9 different guys in one week or 1 guy in a year !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they.. "

Just six?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into displaying veris - I find some quite cringey and it puts me off a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into displaying veris - I find some quite cringey and it puts me off a bit.

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But it could turn someone who you want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?ive had 6 in one night, couldnt get the veris dammit, it was blindfolded anonymous sex..filthy filthy..tut, tut..yeah i had a great time thanks, as did they..

Just six? "
yeah im a noob at it, what can i say i promise to get better in 2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came in one day to find my wife on the bed with 5 guys .... so I got undressed and joined in , but your not allowed to verify a partner on here.

Oh Deviants .... Carpet is a bugger to dry out, but not as bad as having to dash to sainsburys to buy a new duvet as it was soaked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came in one day to find my wife on the bed with 5 guys .... so I got undressed and joined in , but your not allowed to verify a partner on here.

Oh Deviants .... Carpet is a bugger to dry out, but not as bad as having to dash to sainsburys to buy a new duvet as it was soaked lol "
Hahaha even worse when the sofa is soaked lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got that sorted ! leather wipe clean sofa !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came in one day to find my wife on the bed with 5 guys .... so I got undressed and joined in , but your not allowed to verify a partner on here.

Oh Deviants .... Carpet is a bugger to dry out, but not as bad as having to dash to sainsburys to buy a new duvet as it was soaked lol "

Do NOT get a memory foam mattress with out a plastic sheet to go with it.

3 fecking days to dry out after one visit from a certain lady i used to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

Are you scared off in case you cannot compare with the other men? If you know how to have good sex you will be fine by it. Women on here that have sex with lots of men are no worse than one who doesn't. This site is here to allow that behaviour. You, as I bloke wouldn't turn it down given half the chance.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

This old chestnut.

Displayed verifications mean diddly squat other than, the person is real.

I think I have about nine on show but a few hundred hidden. Socials, meets, repeat meets, loves and jokes from friends and memory joggers.

The shallow judgement of folk like us is deplorable, especially as before I joined Fab, my verifications would be waaaaaay more, you just wouldn't know about it. I'm 55 FFS, I've been shagging for over thirty years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off at all. If I fancied them, and they seemed like a nice person, their amount of veris wouldn't play a part in my decision to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard.

Agreed "

And....not sure if you know but women give birth that stretches her to the limits and then goes back to normal size.... I'm sure a few cocks are gonna make much difference..

Before you say what about stds and stis? She might always make sure something on the end of it and gets checked regular.

What puts me of profiles is photos of playing bareback with multiple people

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

Would your opinion be the same if it was a guy with 6 verifications by 6 different women in a month

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard.

Agreed "
but you are on here for sexual adventures right? if you want the adventurous type..then you are looking to attract a sexually confident woman, who's got that way, through not being ashamed of her sexuality and her experiences..you really aren't in the right place, if you want to shame women who enjoy sex..

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard.

Agreed but you are on here for sexual adventures right? if you want the adventurous type..then you are looking to attract a sexually confident woman, who's got that way, through not being ashamed of her sexuality and her experiences..you really aren't in the right place, if you want to shame women who enjoy sex.."

Ive never understood the dual standards some people have.

They want a swinger who never meets

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard.

Agreed but you are on here for sexual adventures right? if you want the adventurous type..then you are looking to attract a sexually confident woman, who's got that way, through not being ashamed of her sexuality and her experiences..you really aren't in the right place, if you want to shame women who enjoy sex..

Ive never understood the dual standards some people have.

They want a swinger who never meets "
a fuck and go, for themselves, it seems...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off for me, as rude as it may sound, I see a women with lots of veris by different men on her profile, I instantly think she's had more pricks than a dartboard.

Agreed "

Oh God, not another one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my veris would put someone off, then it's saved us some time there I guess. Judging me like that reveals they wouldn't be for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 verifications? That it? The woman is a legend! I'm here to rock out with me cock out anyway fuckers! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been encouraged to meet someone by one but I've been put off by plenty!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've never been encouraged to meet someone by one but I've been put off by plenty!"

Do you mean you've been put off by plenty of veris? Or you've been put off by what veris say?

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By *emmdaveMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

6? In one whole month? What a hussy "

Haha! I see what you did there!

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

And the point of the thread was the repeat verifies...

Not the dual standards of blokes.

Still missing the guy who may have sheets fresh and his 8 encounters with a female in six weeks all displayed as their dating diary...

Having shags...not a problem

Being narcisstic....yes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like another if anyone's interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since when did fab become a religious dating site? ........ I can't believe people are on fab looking for virgins

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'd like another if anyone's interested "
very xx

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

most of ours are from the nights we host pretty much all social veris we always like to make new friends on the swinging world , if someone doesnt like it thats there preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own ain't back down to the old blokes get a pat on back lady's get called names ...what's it really matter as long as you are careful i.e. keep I wrapped up .And dnt sleep with people that you regret next day or hour in some cases do it really matter ....few lady's I know in day to day are what could get called very promiscuous and they get reg shit off other women and men .Male friends that are as bad if not worse get classed as legends n top blokes think I just scares a lot of men if they think a women is strong minded n knows what n how she likes things and is not scared to go get it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Is it time to sew the scarlet letter on my clothes again? It's been a while since a good slut-shaming on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's lucky then because I only have one. And that's from my friend in Kent were I used to live. Can seem to get an actual meet to get a re verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been encouraged to meet someone by one but I've been put off by plenty!

Do you mean you've been put off by plenty of veris? Or you've been put off by what veris say? "

No, I mean by what they say or who they were from.

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By *lassyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

So she went to a social maybe?"

And maybe she actually fucked all of them so good on her lol, isn't that what this site is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

So she went to a social maybe?

And maybe she actually fucked all of them so good on her lol, isn't that what this site is for "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'd like another if anyone's interested "

Hurry up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

So she went to a social maybe?

And maybe she actually fucked all of them so good on her lol, isn't that what this site is for "

Exactly! Lucky girl!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Can't bloody win on here, vilified if we don't walk around with no knickers on bent double and dripping, vilified if we have more sex than deemed ladylike.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

To many is a turn off for us, as we don't meet hard swingers, we are the swinger who don't swing lol just voyure

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By *lassyDeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Well it did say met in person on all six, all six were graphic in what they did together, so i would asume the single lady had sex with 6 different men in a month lol... At least hide em, something to proud of?"

Well I would be proud lol, I'm sure she joined the site to have sex and to fulfil her fantasies but that is just a guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they wonder why they can't get a meet

By only chasing those of us that don't meet or only occaisionally they make it even harder.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

lots of veris are not real real one today and its says on her profile she is not in this country till after new year yet she met some one from north west the other day bit sad really.

lets wait for the replys like he went to see her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have lots of verifications yet when you read them, a lot can just be social meets, so I don't discount them on number of verifications alone.

I don't let verifications dictate my decision on whether to meet but I do like to read them for guidance. I also look at previous people's profiles that they've met, then I go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet I know who a few who are going are going to be UNLOS soon...or will just hang around calling other people sluts n whores etc, while they sit casting judgement from their armchair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether it turns you off or not, there's one rule - 'you cant please everyone'.

If veris are used as a filter, it just means you'll meet people who are more compatible. Don't take it as a negative.

Must admit, I do find it a bit cringey, when people publish 100's of detailed sex veris, when a few of their best, would tell the same story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri's are just one of Fabs quirks. I for one am happy to display mine. If that turns you off then it's one less message for my admin team to deal with. I don't have to pay them a bonus at xmas if this keeps up.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

I think it's sad that men still have this sort of mind -set, it's a Swinging site and we are here for sex. It's only coz guys out-number girls that the veris aren't evened-out. Veris don't mean that much either, I have been to parties and played with one guy, but had half a dozen veris saying what a laugh we had and that we must play next time. Then I could hide veris or ask guys not to verify me...i had one guy do that to me, he didn't want a veri, as he was concerned that he looked like a male slut, he had so many. "

I have this too arranging events for a club I get many veris mainly how nice they found me as a host.

I only read the most recent veris on profiles and also what the person is into.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"lots of veris are not real real one today and its says on her profile she is not in this country till after new year yet she met some one from north west the other day bit sad really.

lets wait for the replys like he went to see her ."
are you stalking him or her? i think its a bit sad you worry about such things, to be honest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I got a few veris from the not so secret social oop north, I got a couple of barbed "you've been busy lol" messages. Presumptuous much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care how many veri's someone has.

For me its about the fact that they appear to be genuine than how many encounters they've had x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me. Everyone has history and someone else's is none of my business really.

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By *3skycoupleCouple
over a year ago

ferryhill

You don't have to show them on your profile it's up to you in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

........what they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though this is a swingers site, people still have their perception of man slut and woman slut

Too many verifications not good

No verifications not good either

You just have to go with what you feel comfortable with

No judging

One of my best friends was on fab for 4-5 years

I don't know how many verifications she had

She had her regular guys and the odd ones

Around 50 a month

Does that make her a slut ??

She didn't have intercourse with all of them

This is a swingers site

Not a dating or judging site

Leave that before you open the app

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"After I got a few veris from the not so secret social oop north, I got a couple of barbed "you've been busy lol" messages. Presumptuous much? "

Lol. Tartlet

I'm just at some of the comments from the Victorians that still exist on here.. Unfuckingbelievable!!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though this is a swingers site, people still have their perception of man slut and woman slut

Too many verifications not good

No verifications not good either

You just have to go with what you feel comfortable with

No judging

One of my best friends was on fab for 4-5 years

I don't know how many verifications she had

She had her regular guys and the odd ones

Around 50 a month

Does that make her a slut ??

She didn't have intercourse with all of them

This is a swingers site

Not a dating or judging site

Leave that before you open the app "

Agree with this

Person cld have 100s & only show 10, so you wld never know really. Many veris can help indicate the Person genuine, easy going, fun etc!

Having said that will admit I do find to many can be a turn off for me but that doesn't mean won't chat to them & see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After I got a few veris from the not so secret social oop north, I got a couple of barbed "you've been busy lol" messages. Presumptuous much?

Lol. Tartlet

I'm just at some of the comments from the Victorians that still exist on here.. Unfuckingbelievable!!

S"

Tis a pity I'm a man whore, apparently!

Ah, well. Can't please everyone (regardless of what the veris may say)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After 6 odd years on here I can honestly say swingers are the single most judgemental people on others sex lives I have met.

Can't accommodate? Cheating male.

Bi-curious? Must be banging every TV on site.

Lots of veris? Ewwww, how unpleasant...

BBW? Eat less pies...

Into kink? Some kind of deviant...

Bi-sexual? Will grab your cock at first opportunity...

We all make judgements on folk, it's human nature. But why is it necessary to have a go at people because they do things different?

As long as it's informed and consensual I don't care.

I find it a useful filter to be honest.

"

I'm new on here and this has been my experience. I think veri's are my favorite feature on fab. you take a look at a pretty lady's profile and think there is no way she is playing and then you take a look at her veris.

And the most wonderful part is, though she may have screwed dozens of guys it doesn't necessarily mean she'll screw you. Which i think is what is upsetting the op.

I'm here to meet women who genuinely love and enjoy sex, veris help ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..., it's a Swinging site and we are here for sex. "

Thank you Red.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads of veris on show is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me one bit how many people have or what they say.

I personally wouldn't probably display mine unless asked by the person who has verified me.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

So, the definitive answer for your question OP:

Verifications, on or off?

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display any, ever, leaving people to decide for themselves whether I'm a slut or a prude. I like it that way.

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By *ickyandMallory1984Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

Oh no, how terrible!!!!! What a slut, whatever next on a swinging site? I hope you realise that some people hide their verification's, so really you have no idea whose been with who and when and where, someone with 2 veris over the last year, could be shagging bareback everyday with different people, you would have no idea.

Get out your own arse, and stop judging. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holly Willoughby and keeley Donovan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I've said before I don't really bother about verifications as it shows they meet but what I don't like are the lamppost pissing ones, where there are 4 or 5 consecutive ones and all from the same person...

why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only display my most recent ones, if people don't like that then it's thier choice I like to see that a person is verified as real

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just pick people who have the correct amount, then when you are verified by 'too many' people, just stop doing it any more.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

To put a different slant on things - the only time veris don't work for me is when I have an amazing meet with someone and really like someone - only to read a day/week/month later that they've had an equally or more amazing meet with someone else!

I have no problem with the non-monogamy - just the fact that it's so darned public - yet I know the verification system can be very useful - particularly single fems concerned for their safety!

That, and being soft as shite, makes me wonder sometimes if I should be meeting on fab!

Go on - tell me I'm an idiot and no-one else ever feels like this!

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off "

You are turned off by six men in a month! Lots of ladies on Fab enjoy going to clubs and having six men in one night. Isn't that what swinging is all about?

Sally

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

You are turned off by six men in a month! Lots of ladies on Fab enjoy going to clubs and having six men in one night. Isn't that what swinging is all about?

Sally

"

Yes it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol other day I went on a females profile and she had 6 veris in space of a month and they were all done by different men, defo a turn off

Oh no, how terrible!!!!! What a slut, whatever next on a swinging site? I hope you realise that some people hide their verification's, so really you have no idea whose been with who and when and where, someone with 2 veris over the last year, could be shagging bareback everyday with different people, you would have no idea.

Get out your own arse, and stop judging. "

Well said

Its a swinging site guys or had you forgotten? This is what we are on here to do ..eventually. I would suggest a dating site if you cant fathom a women who sleeps with a few different guys each month. I bet you there are women out there you would meet in a pub who sleep around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To put a different slant on things - the only time veris don't work for me is when I have an amazing meet with someone and really like someone - only to read a day/week/month later that they've had an equally or more amazing meet with someone else!

I have no problem with the non-monogamy - just the fact that it's so darned public - yet I know the verification system can be very useful - particularly single fems concerned for their safety!

That, and being soft as shite, makes me wonder sometimes if I should be meeting on fab!

Go on - tell me I'm an idiot and no-one else ever feels like this! "

For this reason I don't get close to anyone.... I want to be D.O.C = dick on call.... that means only call or text me when you want sex.

It really saves a lot of heartache

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