FabSwingers.com forum: school uniforms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was thinking after the recent teacher post..

A lot of men like them.. a lot of women like wearing them... and a lot of the clubs hold themed nights on school uniform..

But what is it for you... And why is it that women don't go mad for men dressed as school boys.. or in general I mean.

Okay this is my thoughts... they may differ from yours but they are mine. (Just so we are clear lol)

Now for me its capturing the youthfulNess... its all about the fun side, and of course the naughty side... I have 3 different uniforms.. and will play up accordingly... but... I know that I am not a girl, that master knows I am not a girl.. but it is now an outfit I keep just for master....

I never worry when someone makes a comment about the school uniform photo's on my couples profile, because its about the fantasy aspect.

So what do you like or dislike about it... and ladies am I wrong in thinking women don't want men dressed up in school uniforms?

Katie x

In a curious mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like it. Its not a peedo thing or owt. Its re living ya school days but with the advantage of knowing wot your doing. Spose i had a crush on certain girls at school and its a way of satisfying that fantasy. 99% of the women i've been with have been older than me, the nurse thing does nowt but the secretary or maid does.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am personally totally against it..

but as we say many times.. each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated having to wear uniform when I was at school. So its a no from me

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I am personally totally against it..

but as we say many times.. each to their own."

Yup i agree,_iew.

i am against it because i hate the limited number of sexual roles that some try to impose on women.Look in ann summers,you can still only be the sexy school girl,naughty nurse or Domme,basically virgin whore or mother.

i am all three,at times,and so much more.i choose not to be confined by any stereotype.

But if someone else gets off on it ,who am i ,the writer of rape fantasies and lover of marmite ,to disagree,

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Life is about contrast. It shows off things by the contrast. A grown woman doesnt look like a real schoolgirl in a uniform but shows off her sexuality and maturity. Put her in a mans suit and again, she looks feminine. Its all just a bit of fun isnt it.

Mistress x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Life is about contrast. It shows off things by the contrast. A grown woman doesnt look like a real schoolgirl in a uniform but shows off her sexuality and maturity. Put her in a mans suit and again, she looks feminine. Its all just a bit of fun isnt it.

Mistress x"

Maybe in her mind.. it is the mind of the other desiring her that MAY concern me.

and note use of MAY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my man loves a school uniform, but hes really not into young girls.For him its about those first early sexual awakenings, a glimpse of cleavage in a white shirt, a grey skirt riding up, the top of long white socks, hes getting what he didnt then!! and yes katie im with you, whilst i quite like wearing uniform now and then i would definatley not want to see him in one, maybe as when i was that age i spent the whole time trying to go out with boys who were too old for uniform!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would do nothing for me, and I think grown women dressed as school girls look ridiculous.

(Says she who dressed her partner up in sexy lingerie and a studded collar, and got the biggest turn on ever)!

...each to their own!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I won't dress up in a school uniform costume as it's just not for me.

Mr doesn't get it either.

But aren't bothered by others that enjoy it or find it sexy....each to their own and all that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It makes me feel sexy, fun, naughty, and It's just very me.... I never worry that anyone is looking at me and thinking I'm a child... as It's always the older girl uniforms that I use...

I do it because we enjoy it... and how popular school uniforms nights are at clubs I know it is quite a popular theme.. but not for all...

But I'm happy to embrace my inner youth.... and love to have fun.... pigtails are a weekly thing for me.. even without the uniform... I just like them.

Katie x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Mistress x

Maybe in her mind.. it is the mind of the other desiring her that MAY concern me.

and note use of MAY"

When I was younger the thought made me a little uncomfortable but lets face it, sex costume school girl out fits look not much like the ones we wore to school. Usually more a St Trinians type of look. With MOST men it is prob just a little harmless fun.

Mistress x

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Isn't it all about the mind that matters?

If a man is asking a woman to dress up as a schoolgirl because he actually desires a schoolgirl, and the adult woman is just a substitute, then he is on dodgy ground.

On the other hand if he's asking her to dress up as a schoolgirl because it ties into shared fantasies or memories of early experiences, without the woman being sublimated into the schoolgirl role, then there's nothing wrong with it.

The stylized school girl outfits Ann Summers sell are not sexy in and of themselves, but they may well serve as signifiers of a willingness to play, and maybe even of a role that the wearer wants to play - would we think it inappropriate if a woman in one of those outfits said to her lover 'Tonight, Matthew, I'm going to be inexperienced and naive and you have to lead me...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't no were the op got the point from that all men are;

i am not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"don't no were the op got the point from that all men are;

i am not one of them."

Where did I say all... I said lots.. lots and all are not the same. I also made it clear that my reasons for liking it were just that.

Katie.. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"would we think it inappropriate if a woman in one of those outfits said to her lover 'Tonight, Matthew, I'm going to be inexperienced and naive and you have to lead me...'"

No I don't think people would... I think it can lead to a great deal of fun. And It's lovely to be lead astray so to speak. Oh and of course blush in all the right places lol

Katie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be weird then... I do not see the point of dressing up for sex......

I am into Role Play,,, but not the dressing up thing....

I don't like school uniforms, nurses, police women etc its demeaning to the people who have to work in that role every day...

I prefer people to act themselves.....If a woman has to dress for me I would prefer her to wear something she would if going out to a night out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men wanting sex with women who are dressed as a school girl brings up the idea for me that he wants to pretend he's having sex with an underage girl.

You generally only get one type of girl waring school uniform, and that's an underage one, I can't see it any other way really.

Just my own personal opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must be weird then... I do not see the point of dressing up for sex......

I am into Role Play,,, but not the dressing up thing....

I don't like school uniforms, nurses, police women etc its demeaning to the people who have to work in that role every day...

I prefer people to act themselves.....If a woman has to dress for me I would prefer her to wear something she would if going out to a night out...."

I've been out in my uniform many a time on A girls night out.. but then, I'm a big kid at heart.. so perhaps that's part of it... lol

It's interesting to get peoples _iews though.. its funny as It's the only real roleplay I enjoy... being the bad school girl and punished.. rest of the time its not play we just do things for real. Lol

I did once actually get up to no good in my real uniform.. I was 18 though... but stayed on, and our school made 6th formers wear uniform too... lol.... it just felt naughty to leave it on.

Katie..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like mine been bent over getting spnaked cos ive been naughty

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Isn't it all about the mind that matters?

If a man is asking a woman to dress up as a schoolgirl because he actually desires a schoolgirl, and the adult woman is just a substitute, then he is on dodgy ground.

i think the problem comes from the fact most people do not consider their own or others motivations or why a certain thing gets them hard or wet.Which is why ppl on the outside can feel uncomfortable with the "role " they have chosen to adopt.

How many who say school girl dress up is fine would draw the line at an adult baby or toddler? And if it isn't ok,then are they not being inconsistent?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Mistress x

Maybe in her mind.. it is the mind of the other desiring her that MAY concern me.

and note use of MAY

Mistress x"

yup... each to their own.

Different strokes for different folks and thats what this world is all about.

Exploring and enjoying.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

It does nothing for me whatsoever, much rather have women dressed as adults, each to their own though.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Isn't it all about the mind that matters?

If a man is asking a woman to dress up as a schoolgirl because he actually desires a schoolgirl, and the adult woman is just a substitute, then he is on dodgy ground.

How many who say school girl dress up is fine would draw the line at an adult baby or toddler? And if it isn't ok,then are they not being inconsistent?"

You're spot on about motivations and insight being rarer than you would hope. there probably are two debates - one is more YKINMK than about motivations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really keen on it, I know lots are but I can't get the thought process out of my head that its a woman trying to look like a pre pubescent girl and sexualising thay image.

I am totally against rape role play and I don't think it should be used in films. I cannot see any sexiness in an obscene degrading crime.

As I said on the other thread I'm against women dressed in frilly dresses and calling men 'Daddy'. But on the whole people are intelligent and don't take it seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not really keen on it, I know lots are but I can't get the thought process out of my head that its a woman trying to look like a pre pubescent girl and sexualising thay image.

I am totally against rape role play and I don't think it should be used in films. I cannot see any sexiness in an obscene degrading crime.

As I said on the other thread I'm against women dressed in frilly dresses and calling men 'Daddy'.

The rapeplay is not for you.. but for some its enjoyable... they never show much in movies and even the porn on those roleplay fantasys are not good... but that's the same with most hard core porn.

I don't think anyone is wanting to be seen as less than a young woman when dressing up.... more late school years.. so definitely 16plus image

As for the daddy bit well... TO be fair within bdsm there is an area that is called daddy Dom.. now yes they get called daddy, but It's not because the look at them as their daddy... its more the general role. It's kinda daddy like, as in looking out for them, helping there mental and physical wellbeing, helping them become the best they can be... actually many in this sort of relationship its not sexual...

I have learnt a lot this last year... and have learned that things are not always as they seem.... I only mention this as it came up the other day about someones user name.. to be fair, I know even within bdsm that some think It's a bit strange... for me once I researched and learned I felt enlightened and was glad I hadn't judged.

But yes they do sit on laps And get to indulge their inner child... and I think from what I've seem its a million miles away from incest play. I can't post the link I found which really does explain it.. but if you don't know much about dominant and submissive relationships it wouldn't make much sense either..

But It's definitely not about incest... and is very lovely to read on those forums, the love and devotion is just beautiful.

Katie x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

xx"

TO you yes... but not to all.. some enjoy it.... I certainly find that you find a lot of victims taking part in that sort of play.. perhaps its a way of taking back control.... as It's consenting people doing it.

Others fantasy's are amazing... I read some and think, oh how can they.. but then some of mine

(And I tend to make mine reality) would get the same back...

And the think that yes I've read quite a bit on the daddy role in that sense.. as when I come across something I like to find out what I can..

Katie x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

Others fantasy's are amazing... I read some and think, oh how can they.. but then some of mine

(And I tend to make mine reality) would get the same back...

And the think that yes I've read quite a bit on the daddy role in that sense.. as when I come across something I like to find out what I can..

Katie x "

Katie.. of course it is to me.. I only post what is my opinion, what turns me on, what doesn't... and some of the things that don't, I am happy to be educated on to become more informed. And some I don't

As for victims of rape taking part in rape role play.. I have no knowledge or experience of that. I would imagine very, very few tho. No stats to support that.. an uninformed guess.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

xx"

i really do not want to have this arguement so would you retract that and return to your we are all different stance from elsewhere.

Daddy Doms have nothing to do with age either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am personally totally against it..

but as we say many times.. each to their own."

Got to agree. For me (disclaimer, my thoughts only) there seems something wrong about dressing as a school girl, and the men that desire a grown woman pretending to be a young girl.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

i really do not want to have this arguement so would you retract that and return to your we are all different stance from elsewhere.

Daddy Doms have nothing to do with age either."

Retract what...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

i really do not want to have this arguement so would you retract that and return to your we are all different stance from elsewhere.

Daddy Doms have nothing to do with age either.

Retract what... "

That rape play is disrespectful to rape victims.You might as well say all BDSM is disrespectful of torture victims and school uniforms of children attacked by peadophiles.

As _wayman said YKINMK is always worth remembering.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

i really do not want to have this arguement so would you retract that and return to your we are all different stance from elsewhere.

Daddy Doms have nothing to do with age either."

I know two that the little is at least 20years older than their daddy...

I think that he was just explaining its not to do with incest...

And its been interesting to read others _iews.. and miss puddle (haha) you know that I understand why your comments... but I always remember on here that our interests are little understood.. like I happily admit I don't get watersports... amongst other things.. and you don't get the school girl play bit.. which is something I love.. even found a school for wayward girls.. thought of seeing if master should go be a guest teacher there lol But It something we enjoy... as consenting adults..

I always try to point out how many would get how if we loved our partners we could do what we do... they would say we are wrong... but we all would disagree.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..............

As _wayman said YKINMK is always worth remembering."

And worth Googling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking of what's worth remembering.

It's worth remembering that, if we're looking for subjects to allow the media another excuse to give us a hard time, discussion of rape roleplay and dressing as schoolgirls is going to be well up the list.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No I will not retract it.. and please don't instruct me. I don't follow orders. (unless the Mods &/or Admin instruct mebeacuse I have broken a rule )

I think it is.. it is my opinion. I will amend it to say not every rape victim but I would imagine the large majority..

I don't know the BDSM scene so I won't comment on that.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and with the Daddy thing... re read what I said, 'I kinda understand.. as it seems to be.'

again, something I am not an expert in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am personally totally against it..

but as we say many times.. each to their own.

Yup i agree,_iew.

i am all three,at times,and so much more.i choose not to be confined by any stereotype.

But if someone else gets off on it ,who am i ,the writer of rape fantasies and lover of marmite ,to disagree,"

Marmite! You're sick!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speaking of what's worth remembering.

I don't think dressing up as school girls would be very big news lol... when I ran a sex shop.. I sold school uniforms more than any other uniform... go out on A Friday night and you will see on most weekends at least one group dressed like that.. its a popular theme and is general It seems accepted more in vanilla would... actually I know of two hen partie's that have a st trinian theme going ahead next month...

The rapeplay is something else... but still others interest and note The word play.

Katie x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

i really do not want to have this arguement so would you retract that and return to your we are all different stance from elsewhere.

Daddy Doms have nothing to do with age either.

I know two that the little is at least 20years older than their daddy...

I think that he was just explaining its not to do with incest...

I always try to point out how many would get how if we loved our partners we could do what we do... they would say we are wrong... but we all would disagree.

Katie."

Oi, call me miss puddle and you will get a spanking young lady...oh hang on...

Ahh i didnt say i did not understand,or even enjoy the idea of such explorations.And in my naughty school i''m matron so watch out!

Simply that as a feminist as well as a sub slut i have problems with the roles considered acceptable for women to be sexual in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oi, call me miss puddle and you will get a spanking young lady...oh hang on...

Ahh i didnt say i did not understand,or even enjoy the idea of such explorations.And in my naughty school i''m matron so watch out!

Simply that as a feminist as well as a sub slut i have problems with the roles considered acceptable for women to be sexual in."

See I'm rather anti feminist... not what they originally stood for but the twisted way they work now I don't agree..

I see much sense in traditional roles.. while yes women needed some of the things, I feel for many now its about proving we don't need men..

So perhaps that is why I love to indulge this one area of role play...

Katie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In relation to the schoolgirl thing, it is mainly the younger schoolchild portrayed, none of the 16 year old schoolgirls I've seen have pigtails and freckles and ankle socks.

I do not know about the BDSM scene but I do know that I find scenes of violence and non consensual sex disturbing and not sexually titillating. Women being held down and violently fucked, whilst shouting no please don't, albeit simulated, does not sit right with me. I don't see fantasy in rape.

What about the simulated murder scenes used in some hard core films. We know it isn't real and all of us have watched slasher type horror movies, I'm scared by them, not sexually aroused.

I'm not saying its wrong, we all see things differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"............

........... Women being held down and violently fucked, whilst shouting no please don't, albeit simulated, does not sit right with me. I don't see fantasy in rape.

................."

Worse, it provides ammunition for the deranged few who insist that 'when a woman says no she doesn't always mean no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This thread is dsgusting, women dressed as school girls is disgusting. If someone wants to full fill a guys sick fantasy then its pu to them im keeping well out of it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well ive read it again. I just think some of these people are totally disturbed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it quite amazing that something that's purely for fun can be seen so badly..

It doesn't enter my head at all that I'm having anything else but a laugh... and a fun time...

I would almost question those that find it sick, because I can not see how it can be.. I don't look like a young girl... I am happy to indulge my own fun in this... and I certainly know I'm not looked at like a child. Just a sexually confident woman, who finds it adds a bit of fun and naughty twist to an already playful time...

I understand that its not for all... but some of the comments are suggesting its men wanting actual school girls... which really in most cases is not the case... yes their are exceptions... but that's the case in anything

Katie x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

which really in most cases is not the case... yes their are exceptions... but that's the case in anything

Well you carry on having your bit off fun. Personally id dont have any deep routed pyscialogical problems

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I shant reply to this thread anymore it sickens me too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"which really in most cases is not the case... yes their are exceptions... but that's the case in anything

Well you carry on having your bit off fun. Personally id dont have any deep routed pyscialogical problems"

I don't either, I'm just capable of having some harmless fun between consenting adults.. and not looking for reasons that aren't there... and actually of 12 profiles I've looked at in last hour over half had ladys in ann summers school outfit.

Katie x

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Rape roleplay is abhorent and disrespectful in the extreme to every victim of rape..

I kinda get the Daddy thing as very accepted in the GAY community and is seem as Older Man and Younger Guy.

i really do not want to have this arguement so would you retract that and return to your we are all different stance from elsewhere.

Daddy Doms have nothing to do with age either.

I know two that the little is at least 20years older than their daddy...

I think that he was just explaining its not to do with incest...

I always try to point out how many would get how if we loved our partners we could do what we do... they would say we are wrong... but we all would disagree.

Katie.

Oi, call me miss puddle and you will get a spanking young lady...oh hang on...

Ahh i didnt say i did not understand,or even enjoy the idea of such explorations.And in my naughty school i''m matron so watch out!

Simply that as a feminist as well as a sub slut i have problems with the roles considered acceptable for women to be sexual in."

I love this thread, because it keeps splitting into levels of comprehension.

Without any other evidence, a man shagging an adult woman in a schoolgirl outfit is only a man shagging an adult woman. Or as Susan Sontag put it more skilfully, sometimes a dream about a bearded man smoking a cigar just means Fidel Castro was on the news before you went to bed. Of course in this post-modern age we can be very knowing about all this, but that's no reason to beat up a paediatrician.

The commodification of sex can be a turn off - Ann Summers is to sex what Clinton Cards are to romance in my world, but I'm sure there are others who would disagree.

Now, about this school where Jem is the matron....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Oi, call me miss puddle and you will get a spanking young lady...oh hang on...

Ahh i didnt say i did not understand,or even enjoy the idea of such explorations.And in my naughty school i''m matron so watch out!

Simply that as a feminist as well as a sub slut i have problems with the roles considered acceptable for women to be sexual in.

See I'm rather anti feminist... not what they originally stood for but the twisted way they work now I don't agree..

I see much sense in traditional roles.. while yes women needed some of the things, I feel for many now its about proving we don't need men..

So perhaps that is why I love to indulge this one area of role play...

Katie x "

Avoiding the comments that will result in a ban...see Sir ,im learning,

i understand why u like many women were turned off by the second wave of feminists.There agenda was to tell women what they should think.However there are quite a few now trying to reclaim the high ground.Feminism if it means anything is about not being forced into roles,about men and women being valued for what they are,not the configuration of their genitals.

Remember i choose to be a full time mum.i see that as a valid feminist choice,and see the battle as being about patriarchal values,whoever expresses them.

This is also how i explain my submission.Yes i kneel to my Master,but i choose to do so.i hope for a world where we are all free to make the life choices we want.Whether a young girl in Bangladesh who is getting an education of the graduate in England who opts for a 1950's household lifestyle.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

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........... Women being held down and violently fucked, whilst shouting no please don't, albeit simulated, does not sit right with me. I don't see fantasy in rape.

.................

Worse, it provides ammunition for the deranged few who insist that 'when a woman says no she doesn't always mean no."

No it doesn't.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Rape play.....is there a connection here with swinging?

Swinging is fun.....Rape is anything but fun

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!"

Obviously not///

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I like to dress up occasionally. It's harmless fun

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Rape play.....is there a connection here with swinging?

Swinging is fun.....Rape is anything but fun"

But play is - you omitted the word that doesn't fit your preconceptions and I just added it back in.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"which really in most cases is not the case... yes their are exceptions... but that's the case in anything

Well you carry on having your bit off fun. Personally id dont have any deep routed pyscialogical problems"

Are you qualified to make that diagnosis about other people as well as yourself?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I should imagine that a pyschologist would have a field day with any guy who indulges in rape fantasies.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin have taken off threads containing Rape and Rape roleplay , so can we drop that side of the thread please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"............

........... Women being held down and violently fucked, whilst shouting no please don't, albeit simulated, does not sit right with me. I don't see fantasy in rape.

.................

Worse, it provides ammunition for the deranged few who insist that 'when a woman says no she doesn't always mean no.

No it doesn't.

I'm not sure of the point you're trying to make.

Are you saying 'no doesn't always mean no' or that it doesn't provide ammunition for ......... etc'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!"

Whose comments are you referring to? Don't sit on the fence, if you're making a statement that you think someone is uneducated and stupid, and that's what you're insinuating here, then let's have the username and the comment and a discussion can commence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!

Moot point as Admin have agreed with me and removed them and Ruggers has in affect issued a gagging order, so you'll just have to wonder.

If you have a Twitter account however...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Katie has made a valid point when she says that the schoolgirl outfit is a popular choice for fantasy roleplay, and we all know that a huge number of people are not paedophiles. The men are turned on by the boobs falling out of a blouse and a short skirt with knickers showing - these same men wouldn't be turned on by a 6yr old child in her uniform.

I love dress up, only for photographic purposes, I dont really indulge in roleplay. But I don't want to dress up to look like a child, I don't want to recreate a sexualised image of a minor, I know its mainly harmless fun but for me personally I don't get turned on by it, just as I wouldn't by wearing a frilly satin dress, clutching a teddy, sitting on my lovers knee saying 'Daddy I've been a good girl today'. But for the majority of those who indulge you are not wrong or perverts, its down to the mindset of the individual.

Other fantasist imagery is fair game to me, the naughty nurse, sexy policeman, even sexing up religion, whilst offensive to some, doesn't bother me. I'm sure the sexualised image of a nun is offensive to some practising catholics and doesn't sit comfortably with them. I find mythical creatures sexy; vampires etc, can be a bit weird for some yeah but its the image of the child that I don't want to sexualise and that's just down to personal preference and not a moral judgement on those that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!

Moot point as Admin have agreed with me and removed them and Ruggers has in affect issued a gagging order, so you'll just have to wonder.

If you have a Twitter account however...

oh sorry Sassy, I did see the post from Rugby stating the removal of certain posts, so in light of that your comment still remaining probably looks totally out of context. I do apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!

Moot point as Admin have agreed with me and removed them and Ruggers has in affect issued a gagging order, so you'll just have to wonder.

If you have a Twitter account however...

oh sorry Sassy, I did see the post from Rugby stating the removal of certain posts, so in light of that your comment still remaining probably looks totally out of context. I do apologise

There's nothing to apologise for.

I didn't quote them so my post remains and does appear out of context now.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"............

........... Women being held down and violently fucked, whilst shouting no please don't, albeit simulated, does not sit right with me. I don't see fantasy in rape.

.................

Worse, it provides ammunition for the deranged few who insist that 'when a woman says no she doesn't always mean no.

No it doesn't.

I'm not sure of the point you're trying to make.

Are you saying 'no doesn't always mean no' or that it doesn't provide ammunition for ......... etc'?"

You asserted that it provides ammunition for those who claim no doesn't always mean no. I asserted that it doesn't. In the absence of any evidence from you I can refute your assertion absolutely, without providing any evidence or argument of my own. It's called the Hitchens gambit.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Some of the comments put forward by supposedly educated sane people have rendered me speechless!

Moot point as Admin have agreed with me and removed them and Ruggers has in affect issued a gagging order, so you'll just have to wonder.

If you have a Twitter account however...

Censorship does so much for the quality of the debate doesn't it?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

If you don't like the rules that Admin have set and you think it infringes your right to speak freely, then you don't have to use the forums.

If you want websites without rules I am sure there are plenty about, but this isn't one of them.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

oh sorry Sassy, I did see the post from Rugby stating the removal of certain posts, so in light of that your comment still remaining probably looks totally out of context. I do apologise

Just to be clear to save any confusion...I didn't remove any posts, just put a reminder out there

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

If you don't like the rules that Admin have set and you think it infringes your right to speak freely, then you don't have to use the forums.

If you want websites without rules I am sure there are plenty about, but this isn't one of them."

Please, spare me. I just made the point that deleting posts makes debates difficult. If I wanted a lecture about rules I'd have asked for one.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It says a lot about a person when they take a comment as a "lecture"

But, as always, let people say what they want, including me, as long as it is within the rules.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"It says a lot about a person when they take a comment as a "lecture"

But, as always, let people say what they want, including me, as long as it is within the rules."

I really don't need to prolong this, but you're personalizing this needlessly. if you think you can tell something about me, put it on the page.

Incidentally, being bored, I just read the rules. They ban discussion of rape, but not rape play. Which seems to be something of a bone of contention.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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"It says a lot about a person when they take a comment as a "lecture"

But, as always, let people say what they want, including me, as long as it is within the rules.

I really don't need to prolong this, but you're personalizing this needlessly. if you think you can tell something about me, put it on the page.

Good idea.

Nope, I know nothing about you, only what you have written.

Now I think maybe you are spoiling for a row, and to be honest, it isn't my day for a row, so maybe try again one day next week

Will ask Admin to comment on the roleplay, just so you know I am not making it up.

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Just to confirm: We ask that any discussion of rape including "roleplay" is kept off Fab. There are other places on the Internet this kind of thing can be discussed but we ask that it's not on here.

Thanks

Admin x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Katie,

No not my cup of tea at all, id laff if my OH wore one, maybe its because i like to think of him as a mans man, gown up n strong etc....maybe the guys who like women to dress up as such like the innocence thing, dunno, but gives me the eebbbie jeebies, but lots enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am personally totally against it..

but as we say many times.. each to their own."

Snap...think its quite weird myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Master posting this as I will let Katie have her own _iew on this.

Personally I like women dressing up whether it be, scholgirl, slutty, policewoman etc etc etc, its all just harmless fun, just because I like a woman to dress as a copper does not mean I want to get arrested, in the same vein much as I like my slave ( wonder if I can find her a slave outfit ? ) to dress on occassion as a schoolgirl does not mean im about to pop down the local high school to look at real ones, its called fantasy for a reason and its amazing that so many people get so uptight about it, each to there own and as long as its legal and safe I dont see the harm.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Not my cup of tea at all. Quality lingerie good, flesh better.

But i do know of a school which requires sixth formers to wear a different uniform from earlier years.

Jolly decent and thoughtful of them i say.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I like it however I'm also uncomfortable with it. To the point where I had never asked the missus to dress up in that fashion.

However, when playing the missus brought up the fantasy of being with a teacher she used to fancy as a student.

Under that circumstance it seamed to ease discomfort with the fantasy. As it was my wife the student flirting with another person who was the teacher.

The school uniform fantasy does come from my days as a school lad myself. I can even remember my favourite fantasy at the time which involved 5 different girls from my school. But at that point we were all the same age.

All very confusing as memories remain but we are all older now.

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