FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest sexual regret

By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

Mine is never having a relationship with a woman

I dabbled when I was younger with friends but I never had an actual relationship with a woman, not really sure why as I've always found them attractive & have missed the touch of a woman for years

I've also never admitted to my friends I was Bi (probably the reason I never had a relationship with a woman) I guess when I was younger and single it was still a bit taboo & in my social circle still, never thought about it until now but the only people I know in same sex relationships are work colleagues, perhaps if I'd been brave enough to be more open about my own preferences, I may have had a relationship with a woman

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

What's yours??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not discovering swinging until we were in our late 40's ! never mind - we just have to play lots and lots to make up for lost time!

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"not discovering swinging until we were in our late 40's ! never mind - we just have to play lots and lots to make up for lost time! "

I actually regret that too, we are early 40s and only started very recently despite talking about it for several years

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Don't really have any.

We are what we are from our experiences.

Wish sti's didn't exist and there was an on/off switch for conceiving.

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By *rewelad88Man
over a year ago

crewe

My biggest regret is being shy and not being confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where I lost my virginity. Won't go into details but it wasn't the most classy of places. But ah well.

Don't regret who I lost it to though as that was Dorian

~Mia

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Regrets eat you up

So I genuine don't have any.

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"Don't really have any.

We are what we are from our experiences.

Wish sti's didn't exist and there was an on/off switch for conceiving. "

Yes no risk of STIs or pregnancy would certainly be a blessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none here

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"My biggest regret is being shy and not being confident."

Have you found your confidence has grown since you started swinging, mind has I'm a lot more sexually open &

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"Where I lost my virginity. Won't go into details but it wasn't the most classy of places. But ah well.

Don't regret who I lost it to though as that was Dorian

~Mia"

Like you say it's who you were with & that you enjoyed if that matters

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"Regrets eat you up

So I genuine don't have any."

I agree I don't regret anything else in my life as I see everything as a learning curve, so maybe mine is more if a missed opportunity than a regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being shy and not saying anything related to sex to anyone.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I guess mine was putting my willy inside my to be wife

She just asked me was it in ?

I said yes why ?

She told me she could feel nothing

From then on it was just my tongue

And she found herself a fuck buddy

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By *rewelad88Man
over a year ago

crewe

"My biggest regret is being shy and not being confident.

Have you found your confidence has grown since you started swinging, mind has I'm a lot more sexually open & "

I really want to experience a club but I have zero confidence, would love to be more sexually open though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where I lost my virginity. Won't go into details but it wasn't the most classy of places. But ah well.

Don't regret who I lost it to though as that was Dorian

~Mia

Like you say it's who you were with & that you enjoyed if that matters "

Indeed. I don't dwell on it too much as it can't be changed

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet, ghastly and I haven't done one since XXX

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"My last meet, ghastly and I haven't done one since XXX"

Ahh that's a shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact I only had experienced 1 woman up until 2 years ago when I met a very sexy naughty lady who has and is showing me all the fun that I have missed ? But one good way to catch up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having feeling is a big regret especially when they are played with for someone else's gratification! Iv had this a few times so bring me kept them to myself with my last partner who said she did and the horrible 3 words after a few months later I expressed that I felt the same and well hahaha we split and she used me caring for her to benefit herself but good on her really ! Note to self keep Tha shit to itself hahah could go on but all be dribble

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I guess just like you op never acting on my urges years ago, now I'm looking but no success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting involved with someone off this site that set about destroying my confidence and belittling me at every opportunity. But thankfully she has now gone and I'm starting to get my mojo back thanks to the good ppl on fab

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"not discovering swinging until we were in our late 40's ! never mind - we just have to play lots and lots to make up for lost time! "

Totally agree we are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another couple here that regret not trying out the scene a bit earlier in life. Hopefully we have a few years left in us yet.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Being such a slow starter.

Luckily I've caught up an awful lot

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I can't say I have any sexual regrets. That particular road still stretches out far ahead. Regardless of what's happened in the past, I know I've got many great sexual adventures to look forward to. There's no point regretting something that never was.

Like you OP, I've never been in a relationship either. I don't see that as a sexual regret though. I look forward to it when it finally happens. And I do want it more than anything else in my life. I'm simply just waiting for the right woman to walk in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sidney Poitier, Denzel Washington and Idris Elba

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Another couple here that regret not trying out the scene a bit earlier in life. Hopefully we have a few years left in us yet. "

Regret yes but then we wonder if we would have had the same confidence we have now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That fab wasn't around when I was in my 20s and in London.

However, I think coming into this world later on has resulted in my having made smarter decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shagging around enough in my 20s.

Making up for it now though

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

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By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"I can't say I have any sexual regrets. That particular road still stretches out far ahead. Regardless of what's happened in the past, I know I've got many great sexual adventures to look forward to. There's no point regretting something that never was.

I was going to say unfortunately but I don't mean that as I love my Mr to bits but I am

Married now so again a proper relationship with a women isn't a possibility

But I am on the look out for a regular female FB & am happy to share the Mr so hopefully we will find someone soon

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Marrying the first man I fucked when I was just 23 after a 4 year monogamous relationship. Regret both the monogamy and the marriage. Late bloomer but have tried to make up for lost time after my divorce. In case you're wondering I divorced him after he cheated on me repeatedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not "seeing" the signs when various people were basically asking for and offering sex.

I was a bit dumb with hints, and always assumed girls were just not that interested.

And some years later now when they are all in relationships or married they decide to reveal how much they were waiting for or wanting to have sex.

To be fair I'm still no better at it now unless its explicitly said. And even my fuck buds have to actually say "lets go to bed" before ill do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not realising as a young person that women don't owe men sex just because they decided to pay a woman attention. Basically doing sexual things I didn't really want in order to be 'polite' and not cause a scene. I'm not sure it's a regret as such, but it's something I'm angry about. I was taught to be polite at all costs and that asserting oneself was 'creating a fuss' rather than setting one's boundaries.

Nell

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