FabSwingers.com forum: Older women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm fairly certain this topic has been covered before but how would a young guy like myself approach an older woman? I am really interested in meeting someone older and experienced than myself as all my sexual partners have been my age or younger.

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fairly certain this topic has been covered before but how would a young guy like myself approach an older woman? I am really interested in meeting someone older and experienced than myself as all my sexual partners have been my age or younger.

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D"

Ask them to knit you a willy warmer for Xmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a woman, who got older, not a strange and alien creature. Speak to her like you would any other woman. You don't even have to mention that she's older.

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries

i don't enjoy being made aware I'm old !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's a woman, who got older, not a strange and alien creature. Speak to her like you would any other woman. You don't even have to mention that she's older. "

Oh I know shes not an alien, I wasnt trying to say she was. I would never dream of mentioning age either. I'm just aware that women older than myself are a different generation. I was wondering if men needed a different appeal is all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D"

if you have cookies all your problems are over

Seriously women are women, assuming that you're respectful of them all you don't need to change your approach according to their year of birth.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"She's a woman, who got older, not a strange and alien creature. Speak to her like you would any other woman. You don't even have to mention that she's older. "

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Age is but a number just speak nice to them that goes a hell of of a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Hun. I have no problem connecting with younger men. We live in the same world and have the same concerns. Family, work, funny stories, these things don't involve age. You must be aware though that some ladies just don't want to meet younger men and that's no reflection on you or your approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D

if you have cookies all your problems are over

Seriously women are women, assuming that you're respectful of them all you don't need to change your approach according to their year of birth. "

Wonderful! I'll stack up on all the cookies. Thanks for the advice too. I've never been a guy who looks for just sex. I like to chat and get to know a little about someone first.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"women older than myself are a different generation."

Those days are gone, I have Google, an iPhone, Spotify and the best of the internet etc. I'm not in a blue rinse and cardigans either.

And I have the sex drive of, well, a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"women older than myself are a different generation.

Those days are gone, I have Google, an iPhone, Spotify and the best of the internet etc. I'm not in a blue rinse and cardigans either.

And I have the sex drive of, well, a woman."

Just shows my inexperience with women I'm general then I guess. Well time to get out there and start my adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an older woman who only meets younger guys I have no problem connecting with respectful guys but I do have a cut off point and thats 46 so not so young. I'm definitely not into blue rinses and do sometimes wear a cardigan if its cold lol

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By *arthMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From behind ! xxxxx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D

Ask them to knit you a willy warmer for Xmas.

Haha I've knitted one for a guy for Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D

Ask them to knit you a willy warmer for Xmas.

Haha I've knitted one for a guy for Xmas

How many bundles of wool did it take.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

It has been mentioned before advice wise OP, but they love bingo!

And as you cannot accommodate, offer them a National Express coach holiday....and do not have a go at me when your in-box is overflowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D"

Hair salons and bingo halls are your best bet. Easiest way to get their attention is with the lure of a nice cuppa tea. They cant resist that. After that you get the sex!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D

Hair salons and bingo halls are your best bet. Easiest way to get their attention is with the lure of a nice cuppa tea. They cant resist that. After that you get the sex!

Tea, you say? Got any of those pink wafer biccies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't have mentioned a nastier biscuits. Ewww

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You couldn't have mentioned a nastier biscuits. Ewww"

You want to lure an older woman, you better learn how to like pink wafer biscuits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna assume they're a fashionable accessory for when you have a pink rinse? Hot!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm gonna assume they're a fashionable accessory for when you have a pink rinse? Hot! "

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ask them to knit you a willy warmer for Xmas.

Haha I've knitted one for a guy for Xmas

How many bundles of wool did it take.

One large one and a small one for the stripes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep. I'm the kind of woman often found in a bingo hall, sipping a nice cuppa, gumming a pink wafer to death with a nice white lacey cardi round my shoulders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x"

This

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

This

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hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

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hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days "

Thank you and I'd have to agree!

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

This

hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days

Thank you and I'd have to agree!

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thanks at least someone agrees with me young girls these days are just to much to handle they are a nightmare to be with haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be drawn to older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

This

hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days

Thank you and I'd have to agree!

thanks at least someone agrees with me young girls these days are just to much to handle they are a nightmare to be with haha "

Haha I've noticed a lot of them seem to be preoccupied with taking lots of selfies. Zzz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just not entirely sure how I would grab their attention? Any tips or advice you could kindly part with? I have cookies :D"

This topic has been covered before - but it's no problem raising it again.

I feel people like the OP have it all back to front. OP, you need to do a bit of roleplay (not of the sexual type!) Imagine you're an older lady on here and some young guy comes up and says I'm really into older ladies, will you give me a chance? You would feel a little alienated and that the younger man is asking you to give him a chance, not because of you, but because of your age.

OP - the answer to your question is to attract an older woman you need to connect with older women. Don't force the issue or make the poor lady feel she's some kind of fantasy fulilment for you, and nothing else.

I find the key to being happy is not to have a set specific view on what you want. If you're turned on by older ladies and desire them you will find it easy to develop chemisty with the older lady.

Myself I have a fuckit list as long as my arm, but I know the best way to fulfill the fantasies on it is not to go looking for them, but to attempt to connect to people (any people!) on here and in clubs/socials and if you really want an older lady, and not just want to tick a box off a list, you'll get an older lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect, hold a decent conversation, and be neither arrogant or pushy.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Don't call us older women! I'm still living in denial that I'm 39

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't call us older women! I'm still living in denial that I'm 39

After browsing you profile and pictures I wouldn't of put you above 29

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

This

hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days

Thank you and I'd have to agree!

thanks at least someone agrees with me young girls these days are just to much to handle they are a nightmare to be with haha "

Insulting one group of women to try and win favour with another isn't cool. Most of us know you're likely to tell the next younger woman you'd like to get with th st they're much better than older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

This

hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days

Thank you and I'd have to agree!

thanks at least someone agrees with me young girls these days are just to much to handle they are a nightmare to be with haha "

points gun at lower extremity and pulls trigger

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm older than you, so I qualify.

My advice is be respectful, act your age and not like some immature wee teenage boy.

I've had a few messages from guys (although the profile states our preferences) and some of them have been a bit disturbing.

I don't know if its because they think I'll be impressed with what they want to do to me, or simply because they think I'm desperate for sex, but I find nothing at all appealing in the messages sent.

We still want to be woo'd and treated like younger ladies are treated, we just have more life skills x

This

hey how are you ?hot pics I must say plus I love older women there so much better than young girls these days

Thank you and I'd have to agree!

thanks at least someone agrees with me young girls these days are just to much to handle they are a nightmare to be with haha "

Young women turn into older women eventually, and we don't forget the men who denigrated us along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord you're beautiful!

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