FabSwingers.com forum: Worst excuse for cancelling a meet?

By *aughtySx OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

I've got chicken pox best I've had so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His cat had a cold and he just had to take it to the vet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can

Be true

Unfortunately I have had

.......

A back spasm, viral conjunctivitis and the best friends relative die in last 2 1/2 months and I was being honest ......I do wonder if they believed me ......

I lost

My mobile phone (sat nav) and I don't remember how to get to your place (landmarks a plenty) for the fifth visit and I've lived in Manchester all my life .....

That was pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in hospitol, ive been run over by a van.

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By *aughtySx OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

"His cat had a cold and he just had to take it to the vet

Lmao

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Was stabbed on way to meet.

honest to god.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Had a car crash and been arrested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurty back in the gym, but the next day on snapchat happily on the dance floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her bed broke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suddenly feel unwell. 2 days later has a new veri up describing a meet within 48 hours.

Oh, the best one. "Wait I thought it was clear, I expect you to book a room, if you can't do that in the next hour no meet." Checks messages. At no point was a hotel room discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her bed broke

My bed actually DID break!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her bed broke

My bed actually DID break!!

We could of used the sofa, kitchen table, work tops or I could of just had her against the wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a guy say he ran over his dogs foot when going out the front door and had to take him to the vets at 9.30pm .... 2 months later he mailed me on my single profile didn't realise it was the same female ! got chatting and when I said I had a dog here he said he couldn't meet as he was allergic to the hair lol.

Our funniest was actually during a meet with another couple and hubbys phone kept getting txts .. eventually he read them and remembered he was meant to be at a funeral the same day ! so there were the 3 of us in bed naked watching my husband putting on a white shirt and black suit to go to the funeral, we did wait for him to leave before getting on with the fun between us three ...... just didn't seem right to start shagging while he was there lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her bed broke

My bed actually DID break!!

We could of used the sofa, kitchen table, work tops or I could of just had her against the wall

True... didn't stop me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her bed broke

My bed actually DID break!!

We could of used the sofa, kitchen table, work tops or I could of just had her against the wall

True... didn't stop me either

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

Apart from crappy excuses, there are some people who make profiles, and after a few messages your thinking to yourself "this person sounds up for it", you go as far as suggesting a meeting point etc also, but they end up getting cold feet, or end up deleting there account.

Ok, I've had to cancel meeting, but they were genuine.

I always try to confirm the day before and even on the day of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to cancel once and I got a lot of crap because of it. But I think a broken leg and an overnight stay in hospital was a good reason.

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By *azza99Man
over a year ago

Hull

LOL

Better than " I've just fallen in love with someone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few. But I can only accept that they were true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet told me they were five minutes away from my house, and to get nice and hard. Never showed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My other half has taken the car!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up gay

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

"A meet told me they were five minutes away from my house, and to get nice and hard. Never showed up

AKA - cock tease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend hours mailing a Mistress. Then I got the killer mail I am a Man. Then he tried to tell everyone on here it was a mistake that he did not know he was down as a woman.

Then he went away.

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By *homasP80Man
over a year ago

Linwood

What about RATE your worst excuse out of 10

Obviously stuff like:

"stuck in traffic" would score 1/10

"I've suddenly lost my eyesight" - 10/10

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

A guy cancelled a social meet last minute blaming it on forgetting he'd promised to help a friend move house. He then puts a message up on the forum asking if anyone else was going to a festival that night and wanted to meet up. Bell end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My cat isn't very well"!

I didn't hear off her again when I asked "does that translate into it's that time of the month"!

My biggest fan regret!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five minutes before "the meet is off, her mother died". The next day a new verification on their profile.

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By *randnew23sumsCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We've had three single women that we've arranged meets with all cancel last minute saying they've met someone and don't want to ruin it for some fun. One of them is actually married now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've cancelled plenty of meets

Car broke down on the way there - it was a Peugeot i suppose

We had to take our puppy to the vet - he decided to open Mrsdpts handbag and find a bag of chocolate after we'd been to the cinema

Time of month - self explanatory

Hay fever - I wasn't meeting anyone when I looked like a pufferfish.

Believe it or not, genuine things do happen

crazy I know!

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By *VK_RugbyCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Mrs started her period

Literally 10 mins later status changed to anyone looking to meet so either it was a very quick period or they were lying... either way they were blocked lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"had a guy say he ran over his dogs foot when going out the front door and had to take him to the vets at 9.30pm .... 2 months later he mailed me on my single profile didn't realise it was the same female ! got chatting and when I said I had a dog here he said he couldn't meet as he was allergic to the hair lol.

Shows what happens to mens brain when there's the prospect of sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was her dad had a heart attack that's fine but an hour later another text saying could we make it the next night lol another one who plays the numbers game and we were not top of the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cramp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its real. I had to cancel a Meet cos I got a terrible cold. No one wants to see a tgirl with a running nose who is hacking all the time. I was gutted and hated to let the guys down but just didnt feel attractive. I always arrange to meet a few guys at a time and its a lovely surprise when they all turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet once because my sister was actually being taken to hospital. I had to take a picture of the ambulance to prove I wasn't lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Five minutes before "the meet is off, her mother died". The next day a new verification on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat just had babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two mothers of potential meets die (I do believe they did), and several with terminally ill relatives (a lot less believing of these). I have some kind of death by association superpower.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

We had a social planned with a lady and about 10 minutes before, we were getting texts and phone calls saying she going to be late, her car had then broken down and the roadside assistance was taking a while to fix the car. All quite possible, except partner swears he thought he saw her walk through the bar. She had veris, so was genuine, but I didn't think we were that scary!

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

His granny died..... Again :-/

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By *SandJ both BiCouple
over a year ago

Brandon

"A meet told me they were five minutes away from my house, and to get nice and hard. Never showed up

Maybe they turned up at the wrong house!!!! And someone got a surprise.

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By *ayingthepipeMan
over a year ago

N wales

Just realised I haven't waxed down there and it's over grown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He locked himself inside a fridge !

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The dog ate my invite?

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Five minutes before "the meet is off, her mother died". The next day a new verification on their profile.

Did it verify the mothers death?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one's ever bothered giving me an excuse

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

It's when there is no excuse or even response after not turning up that's the worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On another site, we were going to meet a woman but 2 days before the meet, her mum died.

We were messaging one of our friends who was also a friend of the lady who's mum died. Guess what? They were going to meet some weeks before but she cancelled because her mum died.

There's us thinking that there was only one resurrection but it's more common than you think !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an ex break up with me because her sister was having problems

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

After the third week of a potential meets period I took the hint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few hours before a meet, "sorry my job has just sent me to Asia for the week"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had, "our pics not upto date so we not the people your looking for after arranging a meet sorry we can not meet now ?

Oh and the other half does not like the look of you after talking for 3/4 days and arranging a meet so who was we taking to then.

On the day "meet" car broke and parked outside our house so sorry we can not meet today/night will arrange another day pardon we was driving to yours at night my car is fine ?

They all could be genuine who knows, we all just want a good fuck and fun then go and enjoy life and have that naughty tingle afterwards

and share the fun we had if your a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry found a better offer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour before we were supposed to meet:

Sorry, I'm too tired now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes its real. I had to cancel a Meet cos I got a terrible cold. No one wants to see a tgirl with a running nose who is hacking all the time. I was gutted and hated to let the guys down but just didnt feel attractive. I always arrange to meet a few guys at a time and its a lovely surprise when they all turn up!"

I've cancelled because of colds. I get guys saying they don't mind and still want to meet which makes me go

and

cus snot really isn't sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly told me that he wasn't feeling well then later on said that he had panicked because it was really because a childhood friend of his had died in a farming accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childminders/sitter suddenly unwell, can't come out.. See said couple few hours later in a bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Sorry, I can't meet today as I have to go back to mine to take a chicken out to defrost.' Genuine message I got a couple of years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a single guy a couple of weeks in advance. On the day of the meet, "Could I cancel and rearrange tomorrow because the football is on".

Another one, on the day, "Sorry, I've got no legs below the knee cap".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cancelled a meet just yesterday .

Stunning looking girl as I did knock on the door .I'd also shopped and got her some drinks .....

I'd showered shaved trimmed ironed a shirt. Polished my Chelsea boots .sprayed loads of my expensive aftershave on (creed). In fact spent 2 hours getting ready as usual .

As I say a srunning looking very attractive girl and certainly not her fault .....

It was a neighbour ...they commented as I knocked on her door " another customer"

The comment was made just before she opened the door .I handed her the shopping bag of drink and said awfully sorry I have to go and left.

Mainly through embarrassment and wondering if the neighbour would call the police or damage my car or something ridiculous.

She's has a few meets consecutively (some just socials). Clearly her neighbours thought she was offering sex services from her house..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha this thread just cheered my night up thanks guys x

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By *octorfox69Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We had a guy not turn up, and when we rang to see where he was his phone wasn't answered. Message later that he had driven 45 miles to meet (which he clearly had because he described our car!!) but had come out without any money so could pay for the car park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cancelled as such, but had the following,

Him; can we meet this week?

Us; sorry bit short notice because of our jobs

Him; I'll come to you this week

Us; we don't accom

Him; i give up, timewasters

Clearly states on our profile we don't accom. Seems whenever we turn someone down we are branded fakes or timewasters

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've had some beauts.

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By *imply DifferentCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Our first meet...

Turning up, getting his cock out and says "Oops, I've left my condoms in the car"

Still hasn't come back to this day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I was on the way....'My Girlfriend just turned up as a surprise!' He had said he was single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I was on the way....'My Girlfriend just turned up as a surprise!' He had said he was single!

He would have been if she turned up a little later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 minutes before due. Been called into work. Yet got a weeks holiday. That happens regular when arranging a gangbang. Yet ask to neet when they all gone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got chicken pox best I've had so far "
the guy I was meeting once said his wheel fell of his car pmsl

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

My mum's just arrived from Greece for the week ( never heard back!)

Your meet on Tuesday looked like it was really good, I didn't think you'd want to meet me on Thursday

My friend has arrived out of the blue I don't know how long he's staying for ( both of these from the same guy, he asked to meet again recently, I politely declined!)

My grandmother died (twice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arranged a single guy a couple of weeks in advance. On the day of the meet, "Could I cancel and rearrange tomorrow because the football is on".

Another one, on the day, "Sorry, I've got no legs below the knee cap".

Yep he's lying. A true footy fan knows the tv fixtures way before the game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least some of you guys got a reason.

We've had a few cancellations where after days of back and forth we've been blocked on the day, or worse the other people just went dark altogether.

Sooooo frustrating when you have kids and all meets have to be planned

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By *ackardMan
over a year ago

North West & beyond

I know folks cancelling on you can be frustrating, and I appreciate some coming up with lame excuses probably had no intentions of turning up anyway at least they had the decency to let you know they weren't coming. Surely the bad ones are the ones who don't let you know they're not coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car crash and even sent me fake images thinking I'm that stupid haha think I definitely had the lucky escape from that one x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My record was a lady arranging four meets with me in the same week and cancelling the lot.

The one I get now and again is

"I'm just too nervous. Haven't been on here long and not long out of a long relationship"

Funny how they are still on FAB and wasting the time of other people too.

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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Agreed.

There was a couple from York last week who set off to Birmingham, drove for 2 hours and when they were within 10 minutes of their destination...yup..they got blocked by the guy.

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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Agreed.

There was a couple from York last week who set off to Birmingham, drove for 2 hours and when they were within 10 minutes of their destination...yup..they got blocked by the guy."

Thats in reply to Purpleshadow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancelling a meet isn't a problem shit happens in people life's or they get cold feet. The problem we have is we've spent a week chatting to a couple on here they asked us to go on WhatsApp so we could all talk together. So we did we set a meet up for this saturday we were all flirting and they said thy had booked a hotel ( witch we offered half towards even though they were staying in the room so they could drink. We messaged them last night on what's app just a general message is was read and ignored. We thought ok they might be busy so left it a few hrs. They saw they were on line on fab went to message them The message would send as somewhere between seeing them in line and typing a message they had blocked us. So we send a message to the on what's app asking if they had changed there mind it gets read and they leave the group chat. Now there isn't any reason to be so rude a quick message saying they were no longer wanting to meet is all it took. They were verified and had face pics everything seemed genuine. But you just can't tell these days and we thought with all the filters checks and experience we've got on her we could flush out the time wasters lol

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By *randnew23sumsCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We also met up for a social with one girl, all got on so decided a play meet was in order. We texted loads swapped some naughty pics etc. She genuinely seemed up for a meet. Couple of hours before she was due at ours she stops replying, haven't heard from her since. Noticed she's back on here now only looking for single men. Must have been all talk about wanting to meet a couple!

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I had women cancel on me because her husband had found out what she was up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I farted???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in a car accident and am with the police. Found out later he was married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf ive found the couples are worst for this,, never had an issue with single women

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